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writes:I'm really curious. Do guys Prefer Skinny, slim, curvy or overweight girls? If you had to pick a clothing size for a girl what would it be?
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reader, issy-marsh +, writes (4 July 2008):
im slim but curvery ... but toned.... iv'e had no complaints so far :-)
xo
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reader, lexilou +, writes (3 July 2008):
 All men are different. Some like thin, some like average and some like bigger girls. We had a guy on here yesterday asking how to stop his very very curvy girl from going all slim on him as he loved her just the way she was.
Stop worrying and be yourself. Lose weight for health reasons if you have to, or gain it if you are too skinny but enjoy what you have and dont change for any man or because you want one. A lot of men see way past the body and find other things attractive as well x
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (2 July 2008):
 I asked my boyfriend and he said, "not some skinny chihuahua, I want my girl to have curves because then I just think about holding on to them."
I can vouch for him. He can't help himself when he sees a juicy derriere, he just has to take a look. It's okay though, because I know he only has eyes for mine.
Don't change your size for anybody - you don't want guys liking you for your bod, you want them liking you for what's inside. If you want to be healthy, be healthy for you, but don't go crazy trying to look like Posh Spice ("grossly skinny, eat a steak!" says the boyfriend).
You're gorgeous, sweetness!
xx India
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reader, cutiemax09 +, writes (2 July 2008):
 men like women who have curves. They like big breasts and a big butt.
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reader, SadieB +, writes (2 July 2008):
Men are a strange bunch really - as long as it breathes and moves (not necessarily at the same time) they are more than happy. Some men like larger ladies - I know two men who love big women, some men love skinny girls (that whole sporty/small chested look gets them going) and some men prefer girls who are slim but curvy. Most men say they love what you look like, just as you are, but that's just because they're gratful they are getting some action. Men tend to like more curvy girls (toned, but curvy) which is strange considering most women do their best to hide their curves and become as slim as possible. Personally, I think sexiness comes from confidence - be proud of your body and show it off regardless. There's nothing worse for a man than a women who tries to cover herself up during intimate moments. x
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reader, xcharlottex +, writes (2 July 2008):
xcharlottex is verified as being by the original poster of the questionActually most of my friends are guys and they know quit a bit about clothing sizes for women, not alot about how bra sizing works but there you go.
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reader, Dr Vendetta +, writes (2 July 2008):
 personally i prefer 2 arms and 2 legs. anymore than that and its just getting silly.
thought 2 heads..
sorry was having a scrubs flash back there.
to quote someone famous " Peoples..is Peoples "
some like chocolate. some like vanilla.
and some like cookies and creme.
then of course you have those health nuts.
there is no "preffered" size or shape.
unless of course if you're shapped like a toaster.. with Lobster rockets on the side and could hoover.
that'd be sweet.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (2 July 2008):
 Clothing size?
Right...
Ain't they cute when they are still so naive?
No man knows or cares about clothing sizes especially as they relate to women. Some men care about cup sizes but most get it wrong.
As for what people prefer. There is anything from Anorexic porn to BBW so it varies.
Stop worrying there is someone for every shape and size.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2008): All the uncles would have to answer that.But don't try to
change your body to impress men.There's more to a relationship than physical appearance.I'm sure someone will find you attractive just the way you are.
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reader, LaydeeOfSorrows  +, writes (2 July 2008):
 Every guy has their own taste.
Like im slim, with long legs, and my best friend is curvy with large breats, if we go out, we both turn heads for different men.
But in my experience, men tend to like curvy better, unfortunate for me...oh well!
Hope i helped!
xx
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reader, Uncle Sneaker +, writes (2 July 2008):
 OK, so I do really, really find women of all shapes and sizes beautiful and desirable - which doesn't mean I'm going to go chasing after all of them...
The women who make me look twice when I first see them are generally fairly curvy, but that's as superficial as whatever they happen to be wearing. The "head-turning" clothes have more of an impact than the shape/size of the girl wearing them. Neither clothes nor shape is really an issue when it comes to forming a relationship.
Similarly, size and shape isn't an issue when it comes to a physical relationship either. It's a very long time since I had any experience of anyone other than the one woman I'm with now, but I can assure you that the memories are quite vivid and the joys of a heavier ("more cuddly") girl are just as great as those of one who is skinny, slim, athletic, curvy or any other shape - different, but equally enjoyable in their different ways.
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reader, pashanoodle +, writes (2 July 2008):
 Well, Ok. If you work hard and are happy with your body then great...it can do wonders for ones self esteem to feel fit, desirable and physically strong, and that would make all your effort "worth it" if you ask me.
But if the only reason you work hard is to try and make some guy happy or to meet one...then maybe that's not so good. When your self worth and esteem is too tightly wrapped up with your body image it can lead to issues. I'm not saying you have issues, but I do wonder if you think guys might like you for more than your body??
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reader, xcharlottex +, writes (2 July 2008):
xcharlottex is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBecausssse you can change your shape, I currently work VERY hard at my body and Im wondering if it's worthit, I know every guy likes something different, as do girls when it comes to guys, but I'm wondering the majority.
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reader, pashanoodle +, writes (2 July 2008):
What a wonderful answer Uncle Sneaker!Hehehehe
No offence meant xcharlottex, but how constructive is any answer to this going be? Each woman is different and you are what you are - if somone tells you curvy is best and you are rake thin...what are you gonna do?? Gals need to love themselves - no matter what shape, height, colour!!
Secondly - every guy is different...one will think that skinny girl is totally hot while his mate might see the overweight girl as a goddess....that's what makes things so interesting!
I truly believe there is someone for everyone!!
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reader, Wulfgrimm +, writes (2 July 2008):
Ever hear the phrase "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder"? It isn't as simple as "Guys like this one type" every guy is different. Just like when you break it down, what body part do guys notice first/perfer. I am an eye/smile guy.
I really don't have a huge preferance as for body type, I like them skinny, slim, or curvy as long as she has gorgeous eyes im there!
:-)
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reader, Uncle Sneaker +, writes (2 July 2008):
Oh yes. Absolutely.
Skinny, slim, curvy OR overweight is good.
The criteria for a girl worth loving is that she is human, has at least a few of her bodyparts in reasonable working order, and is aged somewhere between 16 and around 70.
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