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writes:I don't understand my boyfriend's language towards me sometimes. While we'll be having sex, he'll be like "let me hit it from the back" or he'll be like, "i wanna f***" it makes me wonder am i just someone he wants to f***. He does treat me well at all times. Sometimes I don't understand the guy mentality. Reply to this Question
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reader, SugarCookie +, writes (14 June 2008):
It is very normal. Sometimes people like to make sex dirtier. If you are uncomfortable with it tell him that you like sex a little less kinky and a little more passionate. To keep the dirty talk going but tone it down a bit have him tell you what he is going to do as he does it and you tell him what you are going to do. Tell him instead of saying he wants to f!!! you he wants to rock you world or make you see stars ect ect ect. It is him just getting excited to dominate you in the bed room. My advice is let it go and join in. I bet if you said oh yeah f!!! me he would lose his mind! A simple way of blowing his mind.
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reader, LaydeeOfSorrows  +, writes (14 June 2008):
 Some people enjoy dirty talk, others dont.
Your boyfriend uses this language in bed, because he is excited. It's pretty harmless, but if you dont like it, ask him to stop.
xx
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (14 June 2008):
 If he is treating you well in all other parts of your relationship, it just sounds like your man likes to talk dirty. I'm sure if you told him it bothered you, he'd stop... but I really think that he's just trying to keep the sex nice and spicy. Sometimes, guys (and ladies) just get caught up in the moment!
Talk to him about it if it bothers you, but I'm sure he doesn't mean to hurt your feelings, sweetness!
xx India
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reader, Minelisse  +, writes (14 June 2008):
 I think he just gets excited in the spare of the moment. If you feel offended by it you need to talk to him about it and give him options as to what you'd like him to say. If your not annoyed, then just let him be, he is obviously happy with you and shows it in his actions!
Good luck and good times!
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