I did everything he wanted and he still broke up with me
Q. Okay I started dating this guys five years ago, in the beggining he didnt want a relationship but after we became intimate,and i threatened to walk away if i dint get a title, he said lets be official. In the beggining my weight bothered him. I was ...
A. 30 May 2010: You really need to try to focus on your self and not think about him. I know how hard that is because I am going through it myself right now. You need to be around close supportive people such as your family. Take some time off for yourself and get ... (read in full...)
I did everything he wanted and he still broke up with me
Q. Okay I started dating this guys five years ago, in the beggining he didnt want a relationship but after we became intimate,and i threatened to walk away if i dint get a title, he said lets be official. In the beggining my weight bothered him. I was ...
A. 22 May 2010: You need to be strong and give him an ultimatum. Tell him that if calls you again, you'd file a restraining order. lol! Honestly, TELL him to leave you alone or TO CHANGE. And when he asks how he should change, you must lay the rules out and clea... (read in full...)
If I'm pregnant do I have to tell my abusive ex boyfriend?
Q. Ok, so I had the issue of sleeping with my ex although I'd already broken up with him. Mainly I just wanted to see him but he wouldn't keep his hands too himself so I'd give into him. Well now, I've officially called it off. I'm done with him I do...
A. 19 May 2010: He may be abusive or controlling, but you probably aren't perfect either. It takes two people to make a baby after all. I know that you are angry and frustrated with this guy, but the reality is that he is just another human being who has his ... (read in full...)
I did everything he wanted and he still broke up with me
Q. Okay I started dating this guys five years ago, in the beggining he didnt want a relationship but after we became intimate,and i threatened to walk away if i dint get a title, he said lets be official. In the beggining my weight bothered him. I was ...
A. 18 May 2010: Hi, why don't you try the online dating? Create a profile and start talking to other guys. It will definitely distract you from thinking about ur ex and who knows - maybe you will meet someone interesting! I am currently doing that and it helps a ... (read in full...)
If I'm pregnant do I have to tell my abusive ex boyfriend?
Q. Ok, so I had the issue of sleeping with my ex although I'd already broken up with him. Mainly I just wanted to see him but he wouldn't keep his hands too himself so I'd give into him. Well now, I've officially called it off. I'm done with him I do...
A. 17 May 2010: You will have to look up the laws of your state. In my opinion he has the right to know. ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to still wonder about the break up?
Q. Is it normal to still wonder about the break up? Sometimes I feel like I am very dense when it comes to relationships and breakups. Often, it takes me a while to really accept that my partner and I, are, indeed, broken up. I think this is in large...
A. 16 May 2010: Anyone can say to you that you are kind and caring in order to make you feel better. I had a bf who would say similar things including that I am special to him and all that, but when I asked him: "If I am so special to you and so kind and sweet, why ... (read in full...)
Should I do what he wants so I can get him back?
Q. Okay so I lost my virginity about a month ago to a guy who I liked very very much, but he didn't feel the same way. Basically he used me, So then I thought I was pregnant and some how my school found and was talking about it non stop. Well the guy ...
A. 15 May 2010: Hey, using sex is not how you get a guy! If anything, he would think that you are easy and will not respect you. I don't know what you should do, but doing him sexual favors is not the way to get him back. If he is leaving for the summer, then it ... (read in full...)
The sex in our marriage is sooo boring!
Q. My wife and I have know each other since we were 16. We always had a good relationship and after her first marriage failed we started dating. After 18 months we were married. We've been married for 5 years, but for the past 2-3 years my unhappyness ...
A. 15 May 2010: Hi there! I can feel your frustration. She probably is one of those people who has a very low sex drive and you have a very high one.
Have you tried to introduce toys in the bedroom or to take her out on a romantic weekend just the two of you? Or ... (read in full...)
How can I get rid of the spots and bumps caused by shaving my private area?
Q. I urgently need solutions to this pressing problem, i have this very dark spots and bumps on my private part as a result of shaving. I'm fair in complexion and the area is so dark, i feel very uncomfortable naked. What can i use to get rid of those ...
A. 15 May 2010: I think you have to go to the GP. There is medication for that.... (read in full...)
I love my ex, but our relationship just cant continue.
Q. I love my ex, but our relationship, sadly, can't continue. He has a hard time accepting this, and he's really heartbroken. I'm really worried about him, since he's suffering so much. I'm sad about the break up, of course, but I already accepted this ...
A. 14 May 2010: Ok, sorry. Then he is the jealous type and you need to get rid of him. There are some guys who simply care about their gfs and can come of as jealous when they are actually not.... (read in full...)
I'm so hurt... why did they not invite me too?
Q. I don't wanna seem like a selfish witch, but my best friend B and I are pretty much known as best friends of the school. We have another friend M, and we started going places together the 3 of us lately. But I found out that they went by themselves ...
A. 14 May 2010: Next time you see them ask either of them "how was yesterday? Did you end up doing something after school? I was so bored."
See what the other friend B or M say. If they lie about not going anywhere, then you will know that they uninvited you inte... (read in full...)
How can you tell that hes not after your money or expect you to pay for things?
Q. i am new to the dating world, here goes. i have been dating a guy for the last 2 months. at first 3 dates he paid for everything a gentleman and now we share which im happy with. my question is i dont know if expecting too much from him, but how i...
A. 14 May 2010: Well, taking turns in paying for things does not mean equal sharing because dinner is probably more expensive than pictures or drinks.
But yes, I feel your frustrating because I've also been through the same thing.
If you're both students, t... (read in full...)
I did everything he wanted and he still broke up with me
Q. Okay I started dating this guys five years ago, in the beggining he didnt want a relationship but after we became intimate,and i threatened to walk away if i dint get a title, he said lets be official. In the beggining my weight bothered him. I was ...
A. 14 May 2010: When a girl does everything for a guy, the guy unfortunately doesn't have any obligations to return it to her. That is because he is not perfect, nor is anyone else.
Next time don't do "everything for a guy". You have to protect yourself... (read in full...)
I love my ex, but our relationship just cant continue.
Q. I love my ex, but our relationship, sadly, can't continue. He has a hard time accepting this, and he's really heartbroken. I'm really worried about him, since he's suffering so much. I'm sad about the break up, of course, but I already accepted this ...
A. 13 May 2010: sounds like you didn't love him as much as you say you do. If you did, then you would have understood him and tried to not cause him to be jealous, giving that he was not "the jealous" type but just a regular guy who cares about his gf. Why was ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to still wonder about the break up?
Q. Is it normal to still wonder about the break up? Sometimes I feel like I am very dense when it comes to relationships and breakups. Often, it takes me a while to really accept that my partner and I, are, indeed, broken up. I think this is in large...
A. 13 May 2010: I think that you should apply to "no contact" rule with him for a while and give him the impression that you're moving on. Sounds like you were too nice to him and he didn't appreciate you. Quit being the "nice girl". Maybe he needs time to miss you ... (read in full...)
How do I get her to leave me alone without hurting her?
Q. I need a bit of advice on how to let someone down gently. i started seeing this girl basically just as a rebound and we had sex a few times. I never told her she was a rebound for me and i know, morally this is wrong. But now she behaves like ...
A. 13 May 2010: First of all, you're one big a-hole for doing what you did.
Second, if she behaives as if you two are in a relationship, then she probably thinks that you two are in a relationship. Therefor, you need to break-up with her formally.
Do it in ... (read in full...)
I am pregnant and he wont marry me so I left him. Do you think he will come back to me?
Q. Hello. Me and my boyfriend have been together 5 years and are very much in love. We are now expecting a child together and happy. I want to get married before the child come but he doesnt. It means alot to me and its all i think about. We are both ...
A. 13 May 2010: You're both really young to have a baby. Are you sure it is the right decision?
On the other hand, he may come back depending on his moral values.
If he doesn't make sure you get after him for child support! He needs to pay for the baby at least...... (read in full...)
I did everything he wanted and he still broke up with me
Q. Okay I started dating this guys five years ago, in the beggining he didnt want a relationship but after we became intimate,and i threatened to walk away if i dint get a title, he said lets be official. In the beggining my weight bothered him. I was ...
A. 13 May 2010: Dear Alexia846,
I am going thought something similar right now - my bf broke up with me and only wants me as friends. He wants to be able to talk to me once and a while as friends. I am trying to gain courage and stop talking to him. I feel so lone... (read in full...)
Ex boyfriend broke up with me but wants to remain friends?
Q. My ex bf of 3 months broke up with me saying that he felt that the relationship was getting too serious for him and that he wasn't ready. I deleted him from Facebook. Now he comes on my skype and wants to talk "as friends" on regular basis - he ...
A. 13 May 2010: Thanks. I will cut off contact with him and move on.... (read in full...)
I did everything he wanted and he still broke up with me
Q. Okay I started dating this guys five years ago, in the beggining he didnt want a relationship but after we became intimate,and i threatened to walk away if i dint get a title, he said lets be official. In the beggining my weight bothered him. I was ...
A. 11 May 2010: I am really sorry for you. I can imagine how much pain this man has caused you. This man manipulated you and used you. He was not happy with you - he was not happy about your physical appearance and he acted as if he was embarrassed of you, but yet ... (read in full...)
Struggling to get close to guys
Q. I am in my early 20s, and I am a working professional. I went from one of the most social situations (college) to one of the least social ones. When I go out, I see interesting guys that I want to meet but I don't know how to make the icebrea...
A. 8 May 2010: Try going out with your girlfriends to social events. You don't want to look desperate, but as if you are having fun, which is what you should be doing anyway!... (read in full...)
The first girl I've ever been jealous of...
Q. Okay, my boyfriend and I have been going out for a while and we decided after a month of dating to make it exclusive. In the beginning, my boyfriend had a friend that is a girl, that lives ten hours away and she texted him on New Year's Eve with ...
A. 8 May 2010: I am sad to say this to you, but he is not going to stop talking to these girls. He is not going to change. I've had a bf who was very flirty with all his girl-friends at his work and at his school and their behavior seemed so suspicious to me. He ... (read in full...)
He has issues with my past
Q. I've read a good number of posts on the subject, but I want to see if anyone can give me a little insight on what I can do. A few days ago my boyfriend questioned my past. We had a long talk about it, not going into any specifics, and things seeme...
A. 8 May 2010: I hope he accepts your past. If he doesn't then he is extremely insecure about himself and you're better off without him. Just give him some time.... (read in full...)
My father makes creepy jokes and I would like them to stop!
Q. Sometimes my dad talks about having anal intercourse with the family dog. This creeps me out and my mother never says anything about it. I'm pretty sure he's joking, but still... How can I make him stop? Thanks, Marty Z....
A. 7 May 2010: Maybe it's better to tell your mom in private and ask her to correct him in private. Make sure to tell ur mom not to tell your dad that you have asked her to correct ur father.... (read in full...)
Should I rekindle this relationship?
Q. I broke up with this person who was married and I still care about this person. It has been 2 years now and want to know if I should pursue to rekindle a relationship with this person or leave them alone. This person said they still care and love ...
A. 7 May 2010: Do you still have contact with this person? Perhaps you can start by find out what this person is up to these days...... (read in full...)
Married but in love with someone else who I can't ever be with!
Q. Hi guys, need sum help plz. I'm married andvhav been for 6 years. I've been cheating on my husband with this guy from work over 5 years. And I really love this guy. I got pregant, my son is 2 1-2 years old. And it's the guys baby. My husband still ...
A. 7 May 2010: Your boyfriend claims to be "religious" but he is having an affair with a married woman. He is just looking for excuses not to be with you. You've made yourself his sexual object.
If I were you, I'd eventually tell my husband about the child, b... (read in full...)
He told me that he does not want me with anyone else!?!
Q. so my ex and i broke up like a month ago we still talk now and then (well he initiates it)he comes over and talk (no sex)and i told him that i think that we should move on that i cannot keep doing that, he told me that he does not want me with ...
A. 6 May 2010: If he is the one who broke up with you, then it is very selfish of him to not want you to be with other people. If you don't want him back, just stop seeing him for a while and move on.
If you want him back, then you have to wait and go through the ... (read in full...)
Did I make the right decision about my ex?
Q. my ex and i broke up a month ago he is on my phone plan so we sill talk now and then, recently he asked me to help him pay his phone bill. i asked him why he did not say (the bill is 150) so i asked him again he said that he wants to go to the mall ...
A. 6 May 2010: He is certainly very immature for asking YOU to help with his cell phone bill. He is "using" you without even realizing it. You have no obligations to help him pay his bill. After all he is the one who did all the calling and talking. Don't allow ... (read in full...)
Is he expecting me to make a move?
Q. Okay I think I am in love with a guy thats 10 years older then me. I am 18 and he is 28. (Oh and before you jump to any conclusions, you should know that I am very mature for my age. I already got my BS in biology and currently I am applying to ...
A. 5 May 2010: I wouldn't call him. I would wait till he calls me then try to direct the conversation towards the "getting together talk". Don't ask him out directly, but do try to suggest that you'd like to go out with him again...something like that, then ... (read in full...)
This discharge problem has been going on for a week. What is it?
Q. hey i have a bit of a problem i have this kinda clear bogey like discharge coming from my vagina its not itchy or smelly but there is quite alot of it its been going on for about a week now its kinda getting to me so what should i do?...
A. 5 May 2010: It could be a lot of things. Best thing to do is to go see a doctor. ... (read in full...)
Is it too much to expect a phone call from him?
Q. my guy friend is on vacation, he left on sunday. i told him to have a great time, have fun, he said, we will be in touch. well before he left, he and i were discussing the possibility of taking the next step into our relationship. before he left, he ...
A. 5 May 2010: Do not call or text him. He is on vacation. If he feels like it, he'd call you. From my experience men don't like it when women call them too often.
My advice is to not call him until he contacts you first when he returns. Until then, get busy with... (read in full...)
Is the love still there?
Q. Okay, So I've been going out with this guy for just over 2 months now, The 1st month was really new and exciting, we acted like we were best friends and still had so much to share and talk about, It was really fun and amazing and we both put 100% ...
A. 5 May 2010: If you act too insecure about yourself, it may turn him off. Just try to be yourself and to have fun regardless if he is around or not. Always smile when you are with him. Try to engage him in activities with you and your friends and maybe family ... (read in full...)
I'm worried that he doesn't want me as much as the porn stars!
Q. hi there, ok so im 17 and my boyfriends 21, we have been together for about 8 months now and since pretty much day 1 we have sex everytime we see each other. we have a great relationship so dont worry about askin me anythin about that and we are v...
A. 5 May 2010: I wouldn't worry about it too much. Almost every guy/bf watches porn even if they have a great gf in bed. It doesn't mean that he's going to leave you and go look for a porn star. It doesn't mean that he's going to leave you for a porn star. It ... (read in full...)
How can I get this boy back? I'm sure he is the one for me!
Q. I was with this guy for 10 months and he finished me about 5 months ago because we were arguing. I still love him so much and i've tried to move on, by meeting other guys and stuff-but nothing is working. if anything it's making it 10x harder for ...
A. 3 May 2010: No, don't give him anything for his birthday. Quit being so nice to him all the time and instead use the time and energy for yourself. If you already told him, you were giving him something and not he is expecting it, buy him a cheap card and sign ... (read in full...)
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