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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:my ex and i broke up a month ago he is on my phone plan so we sill talk now and then, recently he asked me to help him pay his phone bill. i asked him why he did not say (the bill is 150) so i asked him again he said that he wants to go to the mall and buy some new clothes and shoes and stuff, i was like so u want me to help u pay your bill while u waste your money buying clothes he said that he does not have any and that he needs some, i told him no!!!i told him that he is using me and he said no that he will pay me back, i never did it!! i think i made the right decision now is is very upset with me, like omg am i his mom!! my ex is 24!do u think i made the right decision?
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (6 May 2010):
 Of course you did. Asking you to pay his phone bill so that he can go shopping would be outrageous even if you were his girlfriend or a member of his family. But you are not. You are his ex. He should not ask you any help at all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2010): You need to drop him from your plan or disconnect his line.
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reader, laetitia  +, writes (6 May 2010):
 He is certainly very immature for asking YOU to help with his cell phone bill. He is "using" you without even realizing it. You have no obligations to help him pay his bill. After all he is the one who did all the calling and talking. Don't allow yourself to get used - tell him "NO" or to go get a job!
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