My widower partner on chat rooms to women - this is ultimate betrayal and cheating
Q. hi, I am a female and i have been with my male partner for 6 yesrs. he was widowed in may 2006 and I met him on match.com in September 06. he has been hard work due to his three steps forward two steps back routine and he just has periods when he ...
A. 16 October 2013: You are well justified to leave him. Yes, that is cheating absolutely. If he's not telling you about them and not telling them about you and your relationship/living together AT ALL, then that's absolutely cheating. Especially if he's meeting ... (read in full...)
I want to be free and do as I please, Except he gets really jealous.
Q. I have no one to discuss this with and I'm hoping someone out there could help me out. Greatly appreciate it.. So this situation is mixing my emotions up a whole lot! So I've been with my boyfriend about 3months and things are going well! Except he ...
A. 16 October 2013: If you want to "be free and do as you please" than that is a sign that maybe you're not ready for a relationship right now. And, there's nothing wrong with that as long as you admit it--to your boyfriend as well as to yourself.
I know that can... (read in full...)
He says his sub character came out and started chatting to his son's girlfriend! Does he have mental issues?
Q. ive come accross something that i dont understand, maybe someone who is good and understands phsycology might be able to put some undertsanding to this type of beahviour. Will try and be as brief as i can, im left completley confused so here it ...
A. 16 October 2013: I have majored in both psychology and criminal justice. Very few people who claim to have D.I.D (dissociative identity disorder) or split personalities actually DO have that problem. You see it mostly from people who are trying to plead insanity in ... (read in full...)
Should I have an affair with my married colleague?
Q. I recently ended up kissing a women I work with after a night out. It shouldn't be a problem, only she is married. We have always had great chemistry and she has made no secret of her liking me--I guess you could say she is a cougar or whatever. She ...
A. 16 October 2013: You are smart for re-thinking this and even smarter if you start avoiding this man eater. to say What she's doing is no different than what many older men have done to young women in the workplace. She's the male equivalent of a womanizer, and she ... (read in full...)
Him keeping his ex as a friend bothers me!
Q. How can I stop worrying and stop being upset about my boyfriend's friendship with his ex girlfriend? Even though they had a bad break up and things got pretty ugly with them (she cheated on him a lot and they fought a lot) they both decided to ...
A. 14 October 2013: I think a good healthy chat is in order. You need to tell him how you feel, and why you feel the way you do. Be specific and honest about your feelings. Say WHY specifically his "friendship" with her bothers you, and what exactly is it that you ... (read in full...)
Why does he suddenly seem distant?
Q. Why does he suddenly seem distant? I've been chatting with an old high school friend for about 4 months. We've been talking everyday (facebook, skype, phone, etc) and it was pretty intense-talking about the future, him telling me he misses me, al...
A. 14 October 2013: Give it time, it may get better...Or the reasons behind his being distant might reveal themselves.
Guys can be distant for any number of reasons...
It could be nothing, or it could be an indicator of a major issue. Hard to say at this point..... (read in full...)
How to give a married man the brush off without causing offence?
Q. To keep it brief, a married man who works in the same field as me has been flirting and inappropriate since an event a few months ago. I have no intention of doing anything untoward and keep steering things back to a professorial level in our ...
A. 14 October 2013: It's one thing to be nice, and friendly to a co-worker...it's another thing entirely to invite inappropriate attention. If you've tried your best to show you're not interested, and are just being polite and he's still persisting you might have t... (read in full...)
Should I tell her that he's a cheater, or just leave their relationship alone?
Q. what would you do if you had a friend who married someone twice her age, got pregnant, had the baby, got married to the guy, got pregnant two months after the baby was born, and see that the guy has liked a page on his facebook called add me adult ...
A. 14 October 2013: I think it's awesome that you are willing to go out of your way be a good friend to her, and warn her about the (potential) cheating with this guy.
That being said you already had done your job (rightfully so) by pointing out that if he chea... (read in full...)
Does my husband take revenge by flirting?
Q. My husband flirts with other girls...Acc to him nothing wrong in it.am the one who think inappropriate...I love him a lot.for this behavior am feeling very angry..till now. He did not do any mistake...but. If. He really loves me,why would he ...
A. 14 October 2013: I wonder why he does this as revenge. It could be a sign he wants to control you.
I think you should talk to him about it, and you are right. If he really loves you why would he behave this way?
It's disrespectful to you. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's dad fancies me and it makes me extremely uncomfortable!
Q. I first met my boyfriend's dad when i was 14, i didn't give much attention to him, but he stared at me even then but not as much when i turned 15.. he tries to touch my shoulder a lot and even my breast, he constantly stares at my ass and flirts w...
A. 8 October 2013: 1) Tell your boyfriend you are uncomfortable around his father, and want no further contact. Maybe there have been other girls that have felt the same way..and I'm sure he'll understand and respect your feelings. Avoid any contact with him.
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I snooped on my partner. Is this woman my rival or am I paranoid?
Q. First off, I did something really stupid, I decided to snoop on my partner of 8 years when he accidentally left his iphone @ home. I had a premonition and i just did it. I found some suspicious looking replies to CL ads and then I started reading ...
A. 8 October 2013: A very wise person who I truly respect once told me that you shouldn't have close personal friends of the opposite sex when you're in a marriage/committed relationship. It sounds like this "friendship" of his has crossed the line and I have been ... (read in full...)
Are trust issues the problem? He says if I want to talk about it I have his number
Q. The other day when I was talking to my boyfriend, he was texting someone else at the same time. He made a mistake and sent it to me and was telling me that he was texting his nephews son who by the way only in the 4th grade that has his own cell...
A. 7 October 2013: I recommend talking to him about it. This doesn't sound like anything earth-shattering, or any sort of "deal breaker" situation. Just a subject for a healthy chat. You might need to swallow your pride and apologize (and he should apologize too ... (read in full...)
Deletes all his texts from girls. Is he hiding something or am I crossing the line?
Q. My boyfriend deletes all the texts from other girls. Well he knows that I am jealous and I have confronted him for flirting with his colleague and knows that I sometimes go through his phone. (Please don't judge). Now he deletes all the texts with ...
A. 7 October 2013: If he wants you to trust him, he should earn that trust. Deleting texts shows that he has something to hide and/or you have reason to be suspicious. Period. If he really wants you to trust him, he'd show you the text messages and that there i... (read in full...)
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