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... Send *aylagal a private message | | | *aylagal's profile:I've had a lot of good and bad experiences in life. I also have a lot of friends, and I've learnt a lot from their lesson. My psychology degree also equips me to help people.
I'm a simple girl, doesn't take a lot to put a smile on my face. Material things, don't do it for me.
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How do I move on properly but without trying to find someone new too quickly?
Q. Me and my boyfriend of 18 months have just split up, about a week ago. It was a really messy end to a fantastic relationship and obviously I'm so upset over it. I keep trying to tell myself that I can move on and get over the break up but then when ...
A. 7 March 2009: Just spend some quality time with you. Find out what you like and enjoy doing. But before that spend a little time reflecting on the relationship you just ended, and learn something from it.
Don't rush into another relationship until you're o... (read in full...)
Her past doesn't add up!
Q. hey guys, I have been seeing this girl a lot and we recently became boyfriend and girlfriend. We are realy comfortable around each other and can talk about anything. She is a great girl and has been through a lot especially with her dad dying on ...
A. 7 March 2009: Okay, I don't agree with the first two answers. Yes, her past doesn't add. 4 partners and she's only 18, NO. You have every reason not to trust her. I'm not judging her but she's a little to fast for 18. You're a guy, the same age as her but you're ... (read in full...)
My friends are becoming very friendly with my ex!
Q. My so called friends have started hanging out with my ex boyfriend! I can't exactly tell them who to hang with but I know I'm a much better friend to them.. you can't really trust him. I don't know what to do.. I feel awkward around him as he...
A. 7 March 2009: To me, he is not the problem. And he didn't leave you for your bestfriend - your bestfriend snatched him from right under your nose. Looks like all your friends are shady. If they are true friends, they should know what he put you thru and they ... (read in full...)
Ladies: How do you know when to consider sex in a relationship
Q. Ladies help …. Are there aspects that need to be present in a relationship to consider sex? How do you know when to consider sex in a new relationship? How can a man let you know he is ready for sex in a new relationship? What things do you co...
A. 6 March 2009: I believe all women should enforce the 90day rule. A man who only wants sex probably won't stick around that long. But if she sticks around, spending quality time, and getting to know you and vice versa, then he is for real.... (read in full...)
Mixed messages from a woman at work. How to decode...?
Q. Hello. There's this woman at work who I've always liked. Problem is, she is going out with another guy - also from work. She has often flirted with me - though not when he is around. One day last week I caught her at the bottom of a stair-case. She ...
A. 6 March 2009: 1. Respect another man's woman.
2. If she flirts with you when she has a man, when she is with you, she will flirt with other men. You're probably not the only guy in the office she flirts with. You are not getting mixed messages, you are gett... (read in full...)
He wants to sleep with other girls but said he couldn't stand it if I sleep with another guy!
Q. I have been seeing a guy on and off for around four years now. But he has never considered me as his girlfriend. He tells me that he loves me but then won't call me, message me or answer my calls for weeks. When I do finally see him I try to ignore ...
A. 6 March 2009: He is wasting your time, wants you there but DOESN'T want YOU. Sorry to be so blunt but been there, done that and just trying to save you some of what I went thru. Let him go, move on with you life, you'll be happy you did. He is a little player, ... (read in full...)
Weird to think sex is yuk?
Q. This will sound really stupid, so if you ant to answer more important questions first like teen pregnancy ones go ahead. I am 13. I had my first kiss at 12. I have not done anything with a boy past a short make out session. I have friends that have ...
A. 6 March 2009: It's so refreshing to hear that you think sex is yuk, at your age, you should think it's yuk. At least, I did. Nothing wrong dear. I thought it was yuk until about 16 but I'm shocked to ready girls your age who are so ready to have it. Enjoy being ... (read in full...)
My ex boyfriend is stalking me!
Q. About 4 months ago I broke up with an ex boyfriend and then a got together with another boy... me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 months and I think my Ex is stalking me because he always calls me follows me, emails me and when he calls me ...
A. 5 March 2009: Stalking is a serious thing, women get killed by stalkers. Warn him once, if he continues take further action - report him, file a restraining order against him. Don't feel sorry for him.
A co-worker harrassed me a few years ago, even tried to... (read in full...)
I'm kind of insecure as my boyfriend is very attractive and a lot of girls like him!
Q. Hi, I'm 21 and I live in the US and my 2 year boyfriend lives in Mexico. He comes and goes because he is in school over there. I have a big issue with him not doing a lot of things, I am a wonderful girl, I'm smart, strong, outgoing, easy going, ...
A. 4 March 2009: Confidence is everything. Some of the most attractive women and not bombshells, they are just confident. Work on that.... (read in full...)
Do guys find genital piercings on women sexy and a turn on?
Q. I want to get my clitoris hood and inner labia pierced. I would like to know from the guys if they find genital piercings sexy and a turn on. Of course, I'm doing it for me but would like to know what guys think of them. P.S. I'm single so I have...
A. 4 March 2009: Thank you so much for the answers. I've decided to get it done this weekend. Hopefully when I start dating, my guy won't have a problem with it.
I appreciate all the answers, thanks.... (read in full...)
How do I tell him I just want to be friends but nothing more than that?
Q. There is this guy that I am almost sure likes me, I have no interest in him besides friendship. Right now I'm sensing that he will tell me that he likes me or to be his girlfriend, I don't know how to tell someone you still wanna be friends and ...
A. 4 March 2009: If a guy wants more and you just want to be friends you have to be brutally honest. If you try to be nice, he'll stick around with false hope and that always end up horrible. Just be straight up and tell him you like him just as a friend, nothing ... (read in full...)
How can I leave someone I love so much
Q. Dear friend, I decided write to you because I need your help, and I cannot talk to anybody else about my problem. My problem is I met somebody a three years ago after I broke up with me ex that I've been with for about eight years. So when I broke ...
A. 3 March 2009: Sorry for what you're going through. I don't mind a guy going out with his boys every now and again, but several times a week, no. Sounds like you're at different places in your relationship. Him cheating/SLEEPING with another gal on Vday is the the ... (read in full...)
My fiance is wonderful, but we don't have the same connection that my ex and I had. What should I do?
Q. i am 19 and i am enagaged i love my fiance but i find myself always making up excuses to not get physical. is like i am not sexually attracted to him as i was with my ex. i feel like i stil love my ex i think about him and i miss him. my fiance is a ...
A. 3 March 2009: Clearly you're still in love with your ex and wasting this poor guy's time. Just imagine yourself in his position, would you want to be with someone who is still in love with their ex. Please do the right and let this guy go. Get back with your ex ... (read in full...)
Feeling sick with diarrhea, after anal sex! Help!
Q. My boyfriend and I had anal sex unprotected, and i then gave him a blow job. That was yesterday and today i am feeling sick with slight diarrhea, could this be because I sucked him after anal? :(...
A. 3 March 2009: Please never put your bf's dick in your mouth after anal, pliz, never do that. Don't even let him put his dick in your vagina after anal. There is so much bacteria back there, off course it's your bacteria but it's supposed to come out and not back ... (read in full...)
Why does my weight fluctuate in this way?
Q. Hi, okay so I'm so confused! All weekend I eat whatever I want, then I weigh less or the same (110). but all 5 school days I workout hard and eat really healthy, then I weigh myself and I'm like 112! What's up with that! I really want to get back ...
A. 3 March 2009: Well, sometimes you have to eat to lose weight. Maybe during weekdays you're not eating enough and possibly over excersing. Sorry to say this, but at your age, you shouldn't worry about weight. 5'2 weighing 110-2lbs is not bad.
I'm 5'3 and now ... (read in full...)
Is porn addictive?
Q. Ok well me and my boyfriend have been together for 8 months but have known each other for 7 years. Just recently we moved into our own place. I was unpacking one day wen his phone vibrated so I took a look to see who it was. Just a message. I had ...
A. 3 March 2009: I'm a girl and I watch porn. Unless he ignores you and spends all his time watching porn then it shouldn't be a big deal. He's a guy and probably young, a porn is just a part of that. Don't over-react, talk to him about it. Good luck.... (read in full...)
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