I bought a new motorcycle and my best friend was really hurtful about it!
Q. My best friend's comment has me baffled. I emailed my best friend and told her I bought a new motorcycle. Her response to me was: "OMG!!! I am shocked that you bought a bike. DO YOU WANT TO BE KILLED???? ARE YOU NUTS????? YES!!!!! HELMETS...
A. 16 July 2011: As others have said, she is concerned for your safety, as a best friend should be. I LOVE motorbikes, but haven't ridden one for years - but I plan to again. Before I do, I'm going to get professional training to renew my riding skills, and I strong... (read in full...)
How can I encourage him to give me oral again?
Q. I have been going out with my bf for 3 years now and we have a healthy sex life. He is very good at giving me oral and used to do it loads because I do not orgasm during sex and that's the only way (apart from with vibrators) that I can orgasm. But ...
A. 15 July 2011: Sex should NEVER be used as a bargaining counter by either party, "Boonridge"; sorry, but I disagree with you. It will only sour relationships.
OP, do his fingers do it for you? Or will he use your vibrator on you without feeling threatened - it c... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's ill mannered children are too much to deal with! Should I just leave him and them to their chaotic existence?
Q. My boyfriend has 2 sons from a previous relationship. He has brought them over to visit for weekends a couple of times now. They make a huge mess and don’t clean up, won’t help with dishes although they are quite old enough, and have broken a...
A. 15 July 2011: Do you think this situation will get any better?
You are putting yourself up for a life of misery - WALK!... (read in full...)
I'm worried I'll become addicted to the mindblowing sex!
Q. I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time the other day. It wasn't my first time altogether but it was my first in a few months. I'd only ever had sex with one other guy before but it wasn't all as great as I thought sex had been glammed up ...
A. 13 July 2011: Just like Pringles, once you pop you just can't stop!... (read in full...)
Would you date him?
Q. would you date a guy that over all is a very nice guy just a few issues, he has a nice body but he isn't the most attractive person in the face, he can not get an erection because he has diabetes, seems to adore me and has a great personality. i am ...
A. 6 July 2011: OP, it IS embarrassing to talk about ED, etc., with a doctor, but you just have to grasp the nettle.
After all, doctors have seen it all before and will not judge nor ridicule - they are there to help.... (read in full...)
Would you date him?
Q. would you date a guy that over all is a very nice guy just a few issues, he has a nice body but he isn't the most attractive person in the face, he can not get an erection because he has diabetes, seems to adore me and has a great personality. i am ...
A. 6 July 2011: I have had diabetes for a number of years, and am what would be considered "mature", but although occasionally due to that condition and the medication I take to control it SOMETIMES makes it difficult to achieve and/or maintain an erection, it is ... (read in full...)
Why does he let girls touch him and constantly go on about him?
Q. Okay, well I really don't know where to start with all of this. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years and 3 months, we've had our ups and downs with in our relationship but then who doesn't? He has a lot of girl mates, and I know all of them and...
A. 6 July 2011: He is insecure. Well, we all are to some extent, but this is the way he is expressing it, and he needs to grow up.
Or maybe you need to find someone who has already grown up?... (read in full...)
Why do people think I'm a gold digger just because I have an older husband? And how do I deal with his mother and sisters?
Q. why when people see a younger women with a older man they thing shes a gold digger? im 24 years old and my husband is 45, i met him when i was 17 years old. we started dating soon after never had sex or anything will until after we got married he ...
A. 2 July 2011: I'm assuming that you weren't scalded by the coffee? Nevertheless, it still counts as an assault, injury or not, because of the potential to do you harm, as that was her intention. Go ahead and involve the police; she deserves it.
Maybe your husb... (read in full...)
We hardly spend anytime together and when we do we jump straight to sex..what can I do?
Q. I started messing around with a guy in April, we started dating in May. It's been almost 2 months goin out with him. But when it all started everything was PERFECT and it was amazing. 3 weeks after we started goin out things started changing...
A. 1 July 2011: He needs to grow up and learn a little about women, but that won't be for some time yet........ (read in full...)
Why do people think I'm a gold digger just because I have an older husband? And how do I deal with his mother and sisters?
Q. why when people see a younger women with a older man they thing shes a gold digger? im 24 years old and my husband is 45, i met him when i was 17 years old. we started dating soon after never had sex or anything will until after we got married he ...
A. 1 July 2011: The only thing that you can do is to show his family and anyone else who is antipathetic towards your relationship just how much you love each other - actions speak more loudly than words......... (read in full...)
I'm 14, he's 21. Can we take this relationship any further?
Q. so i met this guy on the spot (a dating site on the ipod touch) and we've been talking,video chatting, and texting for 2 months now. well, 2 weeks after we started talking, he told me that he was 21 and in the airforce. the problem is, im 14. he ...
A. 29 June 2011: The soul is ageless, but just be careful. Do not do or say anything sexual until you are of full age.
Friendship is ok.... (read in full...)
Why are women less likely to give a blowjob or hand job when your in a relationship with them?
Q. why do women let me finger them and have sex with them but they wont give me a blowjob. I have gotten blowjobs from women without even asking, these females where either friends or strippers or random drunk chicks and the strippers didnt even make ...
A. 27 June 2011: We've seen this old joke on here many times, but I think it fits:-
Why is the bride smiling as she walks down the aisle?
Because she knows that she has given her last blow job!... (read in full...)
I need to know how important is it to guys that your Gf/wife is a virgin? And why?
Q. I was just curious... Does it really matter to guys that the girl they want to marry or want to spent the rest of their lives with is a virgin or not??? I mean I don't see the reason why this has to be a big issue with couples.... For me all I ever ...
A. 25 June 2011: Tee hee, Cindy - of course you were included in the "wise"!
OP, you have received good and wise advice, but you need to consider the future if you are uncertain about whether you will be together long-term. In your culture, being a virgin is impor... (read in full...)
Help needed with my sex phobia!
Q. hi please can you all help me, as much as avice as poss. im a lesbian but a virgin and im scared of having anything inside me but my girlfriend wants us to use sex toys. she does know how scared i am but this is something shes happy to wait until im ...
A. 24 June 2011: As you are from the UK, most health care matters are free. Firstly, see your GP and have a frank discussion about this - he/she has seen and heard it all before so there is no need to be reticent about discussing it.
Then, if necessary, you will... (read in full...)
BF's fatigue affecting his erections. He took Cialis and now there is a different issue. How can I bring this up without hurting him?
Q. My boyfriend is a lathe operator at a mill and works extremely long hours. His job is demanding and drains a lot of his energy. Sometimes this affects his ability to get an erection. I don't really worry about this; it's not frequent and if it ...
A. 21 June 2011: By the way, I wish Cialis worked that well for me!... (read in full...)
BF's fatigue affecting his erections. He took Cialis and now there is a different issue. How can I bring this up without hurting him?
Q. My boyfriend is a lathe operator at a mill and works extremely long hours. His job is demanding and drains a lot of his energy. Sometimes this affects his ability to get an erection. I don't really worry about this; it's not frequent and if it ...
A. 21 June 2011: How should you know, Gabrielle, I'm intrigued?
Cut the pill in half - it will still work and you will get some respite from all-night sex!... (read in full...)
Almost ended up having sex with an 18 year old guy. Some of my friends tell me that I shouldn't go near him or talk to him again while others say I need to talk to him. What do I do?
Q. Last night I went to a party and there were quite a few people I knew there, and yes this was your typical teenage party with drink but I and the person in question weren't drinking. My friends brother was at the party (he just turned 18 a week ago ...
A. 21 June 2011: You are 15 and he is 18 (adult), which makes it illegal for both of you and both of you could be placed on the Sex Offenders' Register if things had proceeded uninterrupted: and he more likely than you would receive a custodial sentence - does that ... (read in full...)
Do you believe in spanking your child?
Q. Do you believe in spanking your child? I've heard people say they believe in it and others believe that its wrong. Personally, i believe in it if they are out of control and have been warned repeatedly. Don't judge, it was how i was raised and my ...
A. 20 June 2011: Actually, "dmartin89", we are not as far apart in opinions as it seems, but I have indeed watched several "Nanny" programmes all the way through and fully agree that the fault lies with the parents, largely - the kids know they can get away with ... (read in full...)
Do you believe in spanking your child?
Q. Do you believe in spanking your child? I've heard people say they believe in it and others believe that its wrong. Personally, i believe in it if they are out of control and have been warned repeatedly. Don't judge, it was how i was raised and my ...
A. 20 June 2011: I'm sorry that "dmartin89" is so strongly against my comments. I am not a serial chastiser and DO explain what was wrong, etc., but if you have ever seen any of those Jo Frost "Nanny" programmes, especially those based in America, and seen children ... (read in full...)
Do you believe in spanking your child?
Q. Do you believe in spanking your child? I've heard people say they believe in it and others believe that its wrong. Personally, i believe in it if they are out of control and have been warned repeatedly. Don't judge, it was how i was raised and my ...
A. 19 June 2011: Whilst I feel that "natasia" and others do have valid points, I tend to fall in with "Odds", especially regarding the traffic situation - better to deliver instant punishment than have a dead child.
In early years, a child cannot make reasoned valu... (read in full...)
I'm tired of having no bust. Can implants save this situation?
Q. I really hate my small breasts! I don't know if I should get implants, because men hate implants (supposedly) and because they're risky. But I really can't stand my small breasts anymore. I've been with few guys, but all of them, including my ...
A. 19 June 2011: Oh, how lucky you are! You will never have gravity turn them into "belly-warmers" in later life but always be pert and firm.
The ONLY thing that matters is that YOU get pleasure from their being fondled, etc, and it certainly sounds like you do as y... (read in full...)
Told my best friend I couldn't take just being friends with her, and now our friendship is in danger. What should I do??
Q. Here goes, I've been best friends with this girl for over 5 years now. Nothing has made me happier than she has and she has completed changed me as a person for the better. When I'm with her and also when I'm around other people as well. She first ...
A. 4 June 2011: Good analysis, as usual, "chigirl".
OP, take what she says, in conjunction with what you wrote on here (SHOW her everything) and have a good ols sit-down discussion.
Let us know if it works, please........ (read in full...)
Told my best friend I couldn't take just being friends with her, and now our friendship is in danger. What should I do??
Q. Here goes, I've been best friends with this girl for over 5 years now. Nothing has made me happier than she has and she has completed changed me as a person for the better. When I'm with her and also when I'm around other people as well. She first ...
A. 4 June 2011: The only advice I can offer you is to show her what you have posted here; it outlines your feelings so eloquently and explains your remorse for how you behaved and what you would like to happen now.
Show it all, don't leave anything out.... (read in full...)
Am I the only straight woman with a High Sex Drive?
Q. Hey. I'm just wondering i'm the only straight woman with a high sex drive. I want to have sex with men and only men. I find most woman who want sex like crazy tend to be bisexual, i'm wondering if i'm a unicorn?...
A. 3 June 2011: Explain, please - what has a unicorn got to do with it?... (read in full...)
Had sex with fiance AND a one-night stand with another guy, and am now pregnant. Who is the daddy??
Q. In January, I had sex with my fiance and he ejaculated inside of me every single time we had sex. My period was the 2 of Jan and I have a 31 day cycle and I had a one night stand with a guy on the 13 and we didn't use a condom but we had sex for ...
A. 3 June 2011: You need to discuss this fully and openly with your boyfriend, especially the possibility that he may not be the father.
If you don't tell him and he discovers later on in life (and these things DO have a way of coming out...) that he is not the ... (read in full...)
I'm only 18 and look like a middle aged woman!
Q. Please, i have this problem that is bothering me so much. It may only be aesthetics but its really getting my down. I have always had big breasts, although they have always been in proportion to my frame. They have never been pert, nor have i ever ...
A. 31 May 2011: Breasts are simply fatty tissues (not a doctor so I'm not sure if that's the exact terminology) and have no muscles or ligaments of their own.
You unsupported exercise, with the poor things bouncing up and down, probably did the damage and you can'... (read in full...)
I'm only 18 and look like a middle aged woman!
Q. Please, i have this problem that is bothering me so much. It may only be aesthetics but its really getting my down. I have always had big breasts, although they have always been in proportion to my frame. They have never been pert, nor have i ever ...
A. 31 May 2011: Good advice, kc.
A first approach, before the gym, etc. would be to climb a lot of stairs - or steep hills, if you live in a suitable area.
... (read in full...)
My beauty therapist is upset I don't buy all my products from her so now she doesn't treat me well!
Q. I suffer from spotty skin so for the past 2 years I've been seeing this beauty therapist who gives me specialised facials. I have noticed a great improvement with them. Now she also reccomends certain products which she sells. For the past 2 years ...
A. 29 May 2011: Write to her if you don't feel you can do it face to face - or show her this post. Wait until you have a few more replies and print them out along with your question and put it through her door, noting that you were too shy and nervous to bring it ... (read in full...)
Sex with him leaves me unsatisfied.
Q. I came to my current partner as a virgin although, I had experienced oral sex before with my ex of four years. I didn't want to have sex with my partner but it happened anyway and after a while, I learned to like it. But now, I don't feel the same. ...
A. 27 May 2011: You say that he is experienced, but there are two ways of looking at that: one way, you learn from it, another way you don't.
For example,
1) 10 years' experience
2) 1 years' experience ten times......
Unless he is totally unteachable, unprepa... (read in full...)
In love with my cousin, but I have a boyfriend too
Q. i had a crush on my cousin since i was a child..until he told me he loved me..we had sex two days after he told me how he felt.i really ,really love him.but i also have a boyfrend..nd besides both our families will not approve if we decide to ...
A. 24 May 2011: I know that this is not an English exam, but surely some attempt at spelling, grammar and punctuation would be helpful?
To be that illiterate at age 22-25, as stated, speaks volumes about your education.
To answer your question; it's unfair o... (read in full...)
Any suggestions on getting wet naturally?
Q. Hi everyone1. Please i need help. Am so worried about getting dry whenever i am having sex with my boyfriend. On many occasions we have to stop d sex and use gel or saliva just to get wet before we continue. Please is there anything i can do to get ...
A. 23 May 2011: Don't laugh - try GRAPE seed oil!
Not to be confused with rape seed oil, which is rather different.... (read in full...)
I love my first cousin. is this wrong?
Q. what am i going to do, im madly in love with my first cousin..we first felt this special connection when he went home on the Philippines when we were just 14, one night when we were both sleeping on the same bed, he just kissed me and i got so ...
A. 22 May 2011: I'm sorry to disagree with you, "Gemini", but modern research finds no greater incidences of birth defects in children born to cousins than any other pairing. It's a different matter with siblings, of course, but even then not that much. Where ... (read in full...)
How do I make him feel very bad??
Q. So Recently i Found Out My Ex Only Came Back To Me Beacause he Only wanted Sex. If Your Ex Is Just Using You For Sex How Would You Make Him Regret Using You? I Mean I Don't Just Want To Dump Him I Want To Make Him Feel Like Crap. So If Anyone Has ...
A. 22 May 2011: Why is it always the woman that has to feel used? They BOTH had sex, it wasn't a unilateral thing, and presumably both enjoyed it? Just walk away and put it behind you, if you don't want it any more - revenge shouldn't come into it. That is jus... (read in full...)
Would I get more attention from boys if I let my grades slip down to C and Ds?
Q. Do some boys feel intimidated if a girl gets very high marks at school? It seems to me that the girls who get so much more attention from boys do not get as good grades? Or am I wrong here? Should I try to slacken off a bit at school? One of the ...
A. 21 May 2011: Do NOT underplay your intelligence or ability, but be true to yourself. If others have a problem with that, it's not your fault. Your future will depend upon your academic success, not your under-achievement.
Your interests will be best served by c... (read in full...)
Should a wife feel obligated to satisfy her husband?
Q. uhm so a question: i'm at a pretty young age. maybe i shouldn't be thinking of this yet but is it normal for a wife not to give her husband "his needs" whenever he wants it if she's not under any condition where she can't but just everyday life? ...
A. 20 May 2011: The world has changed! Once upon a few years ago, rape was considered impossible in marriage in the UK because the wife was considered to be the man's property to do with what he would and he had a perfect right to sex as and when he wanted it.
I... (read in full...)
Theres a pic of my breasts on everybodys phone
Q. ok, so i was with this one guy, lets call him bob, and i dumped him...the night that i dumped bob, i was texting an older guy, (fred)..and i sent him a picture of my tits...two days later i started dating a different guy,(george) and i'm still with ...
A. 20 May 2011: As you are underage in the States, whoever is distributing that picture of your naked boobs is guilty of circulating child pornography and you need to inform the police, who will find him and prosecute him - that will stop it!
It carries a cust... (read in full...)
How can I learn to sleep alone and not be scared?
Q. Hi, I'm a 22 year old woman, and I cannot sleep alone. At night I get horrible images in my head and get scared, and so cannot sleep. Sometimes I am awake until 3am because I am so scared. Or I need to go to talk to a family member or even sleep in...
A. 19 May 2011: Not a complete solution, but have you tried sleeping with a low light in the bedroom? If not, do as CG suggests.... (read in full...)
My ex's daughter wants to live with me
Q. My partner and I have split up amicably. I have just heard from her daughter that she wants me to live with her. I do know now that she wants me as a sexually active partner. It transpires that we have the same needs and desires. The age difference ...
A. 19 May 2011: You didn't mention love in this?... (read in full...)
Is there an alternative to viagra?
Q. my friend has a problem we haven't had sex in 8 years we have two kids,he won't take viargra. is there something else that i can give him like a liquid? he doesn't like taking pills, or using cream. I need help in a hurry. And oh by the the way ...
A. 17 May 2011: There is a pill that can be ingested sublingually - Uprima - which works by activating certain chemicals in the brain. Uprima tablets, taken orally, dissolve under the tongue and trigger the release of dopamine, one of the chemicals in the brain ... (read in full...)
Have I been masterbated to the point where my output is now being affected?
Q. Have I been trying to masterbate too many times every day? Now I am wondering how much masturbation is too much masturbation? Usually I masturbate four times a day. But now I have reached the point where i can barely ejaculate anything anymore and ...
A. 12 May 2011: No, not unusual and not a problem. You do not have an infinite supply of semen and if you exhaust what you have produced without letting your balls recuperate, you will be puffing air!... (read in full...)
Should I give my virginity to this married friend who wants to help?
Q. My story you may feel different. I'm 26, healthy, handsome and still a virgin man. I had tight foreskin and consulted doctor recently. He advised try to do handjob always with the help of porn in net or books which doesn't worked actually. And later ...
A. 11 May 2011: I'm surprised that your doctor didn't advise applying steroidal cream on your foreskin, to soften it.
Discuss this with him, and if he thinks it is suitable in your case your problem could be over.... (read in full...)
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