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Had sex with fiance AND a one-night stand with another guy, and am now pregnant. Who is the daddy??

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Question - (3 June 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 3 June 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, *abymama.! writes:

In January, I had sex with my fiance and he ejaculated inside of me every single time we had sex. My period was the 2 of Jan and I have a 31 day cycle and I had a one night stand with a guy on the 13 and we didn't use a condom but we had sex for maybe about 2 minutes then I felt bad and told him to stop and he did, but EVERY day of January me and my fiance had sex and he ejaculated in me and I'm pregnant and I can't stop stressing :'// who do y'all think is the dad??

I don't need criticism, just wanna everyone's opinion; Thanks (:

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2011):

Get a DNA test? ;) Oh, but that MIGHT imply letting the husband-to-be in on it... Some countries don't allow parental testing unless the "father" agrees to it. I don't know, but DNA seems to be the most accurate way of knowing.

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A male reader, Yos Netherlands +, writes (3 June 2011):

Yos agony auntIt's very possible that the one night stand is the father. It's a subconscious thing, but women are more likely to be unfaithful during ovulation. Google it if you don't believe me.

More to the point: what the he'll are you doing having one night stands when you are engaged? Your future husband does not deserve that. Call of the wedding.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2011):

13th would be around your ovulation period

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A male reader, Hugh.J United Kingdom +, writes (3 June 2011):

Hugh.J agony auntYou need to discuss this fully and openly with your boyfriend, especially the possibility that he may not be the father.

If you don't tell him and he discovers later on in life (and these things DO have a way of coming out...) that he is not the father, it is open to him to sue you through the courts for fraud, having committed him to paying for the upkeep of someone else's bastard over all the preceding years.

And of course you will lose him as a partner.

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