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writes:Hey.I'm just wondering i'm the only straight woman with a high sex drive.I want to have sex with men and only men.I find most woman who want sex like crazy tend to be bisexual, i'm wondering if i'm a unicorn?
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reader, AngelofLove  +, writes (16 June 2011):
 Sex drive is individual to you, it is normal and rather than worry about it, be proud and enjoy it.
You are lucky and you can make Mr Right very happy! If he shares the same sex drive that is.
I agree with some previous comments that there are guys with high sex drives as well as women.
Sex drive does not have anything to do with gender, sexual preference or longevity of a relationship.
I have a high sex drive and I am in a 9 year relationship. The challenge is to get your partner to match your sex drive.
When it does, brilliant. Otherwise one of you may get frustated.
Meanwhile, enjoy the gift of pleasure given to you.
Take care
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reader, Tbonex  +, writes (11 June 2011):
 I doubt you're the only one. If you're bisexual you'll know, unless you're one of the... confused people. However, if high sex drive means you're horny alot,then I wish my wife were that way. That'll be awesome! I'm young and I can handle lots of sex however, I rarely get it. So, I'm left horny all the time, lol.
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reader, heather016  +, writes (3 June 2011):
Same boat. I often feel terrible about myself because my boyfriend complains how highly-sexed I am. The way he put it, makes me feel like I am very unworthy and not proper, nicely put. Worse, I don't enjoy it with him at all. It has never felt good. =(
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2011):
Unicorn: something that isn't supposed to exist and is very rare
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reader, crummyscreenname +, writes (3 June 2011):
you're not alone. I have phases of having a really high sex drive and know lots of other women who do. Actually, I believe that women are more sexual than men generally- just men's sex drive may be more powerful when they have it.
Also though, check and make sure all of your horniness is actually horniness, and not something else (I tend to want to masturbate or have sex when I'm sad or lonely or insecure or need to feel connected or my body is tired and trying to trick me into bed, sort of like emotional eating, even when I'm not especially horny). Also, your clit is set up that you can be in a very mild state of arousal pretty much constantly, not like a guy who is hard or isn't.
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reader, crummyscreenname +, writes (3 June 2011):
you're not alone. I have phases of having a really high sex drive and know lots of other women who do. Actually, I believe that women are more sexual than men generally- just men's sex drive may be more powerful when they have it.
Also though, check and make sure all of your horniness is actually horniness, and not something else (I tend to want to masturbate or have sex when I'm sad or lonely or insecure or need to feel connected or my body is tired and trying to trick me into bed, sort of like emotional eating, even when I'm not especially horny). Also, your clit is set up that you can be in a very mild state of arousal pretty much constantly, not like a guy who is hard or isn't.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (3 June 2011):
 no you are not alone but what does a high sex drive in a straight woman have to do with being a Unicorn?
unicorns are a third partner to a couple....
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reader, Hugh.J +, writes (3 June 2011):
 Explain, please - what has a unicorn got to do with it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2011): No, nothing unusual at all. To bad it doesn't last after women get a commitment from a guy.
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (3 June 2011):
 Umm.. no, pretty guilty of the same here. I'm very very mildly bi, to the extent that it barely counts. In any case, my sex drive is very male-focussed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2011): Im 22 and b4 i had my kids my bf and i would quite literally have sex/be sexual all day. he has an average male sex drive. I wore him out. Wed have sex then when we were "finished" wed have oral sex then have sex again- vicious cycle. Now that i have kids a toddler and newborn we have sex at least twice a day and when i couldnt have sex due to havin a baby i preformed lots of oral sex. And i do know other women that are very into sex so you arent really a unicorn to me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2011):
I am a guy here and I am wondering if you high sex drive women have a sex drive in the context of long-term relationships. Lots of women have high sex drives up until they commit.
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reader, BettyBoup +, writes (3 June 2011):
 Hell no! I'm straight and I have an annoyingly high sex drive. I could happily have it a few times a day but I'd be happy with once a day. This is annonoying because I keep falling for guys who have low sex drives. My current bloke has gone 2 weeks without. I always thought men were meant to want sex frequently. You see, don't listen to gender stereotypes. Everyone is different when it comes to sex. What is normal for you is normal. If you were bi, you'd have some idea of this. A high sex drive doesn't have anything to do with sexuality. Just embrace it and have fun. I'm sure a lot of guys would love to have a girlfriend who loves sex :)
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (3 June 2011):
 The obvious male answer is YEP! I don't know I guess there are a few women out there that actually enjoy sex with men we men just don't see many of them in our lifetime.
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reader, kylieekristina +, writes (3 June 2011):
 NOPE!! not at all girl, I'm right there with you, I love having sex with my man and don't crave anything but him. We have a very healthy sex life and I want him all the time. You are not alone. I think some women are not comfortable enough to admit they want it as much as we do or have not had really good sex with a man to make them like us. I consider ourselves very lucky!!
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reader, Anastasia  +, writes (3 June 2011):
 Ermmmm I don't think you're a unicorn..I know alot of straight women with high sex drives...you are quite normal.Just if you do have alot of sex....just be sure to have alot of condoms...Be safe and wrap it up.Best Wishes
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