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... Send *ena Bullock a private message | | | *ena Bullock's profile:I hope most people see that because age stands for experience; it helps to have 'been there, done that' in order to relate to others and hopefully give meaningful advice.
I feel that in this site some of you may find me crast, old-fashioned and unfeeling, but I do feel for those who really try to help themselves. Some of your writings don't give enough details, so questions have to be asked in order for me to connect with what you are dealing with. I hope you understand.
I think the younger generation doesn't appreciate what the older ones share with them; however, it IS the best advice. I know God is there for me and will be for you IF you ask HIS help.
I'm attached and very happy-the second half of my life will be more meaningful and cautious. After 26 years of marriage/divorced, it's time for me to live and enjoy what is left of my life. ME time!
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My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 16 July 2008: He certainly will reap what he's sown--no doubt. My ex is already feeling the sting of wrath through so many things since our divorce--car got flooded, house plans fell through, our 12 year old dog died while in his care since he wouldn't let me ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 28 May 2008: You can withdraw from your attorney/solicitor; however, you shouldn't write HIS attorney asking how things would go if you ask for a settlement. That puts you in HIS court and at their mercy. YOU DON'T WANT THAT
Do your homework and find out wher... (read in full...)
My husband is in love with his affair but determined to work on our marriage! How do I convince him thsi woman is not as perfect as appears to him?
Q. When I found out about my husband's affair 2 months ago we decided to go to relate and try to work out a better marriage for us both. And although it's been hard we have made progress and have learnt a lot about each other. we have been married 21 ...
A. 11 March 2008: Listen, this time next year you won't be in the mess you're in now. Give him the space he must have in order to realize that YOU are the one he really wants. You have to do this or you'll regret you didn't. The children will do fine, just be there... (read in full...)
What do women 'really' think about blowjobs and swallowing semen?
Q. I'm wandering what women think of performing oral sex on men? Do women actually spend time thinking about or desiring to do it or is it merely something they do for the pleasure of their man? I know it varies from person to person but I kno...
A. 11 March 2008: This is a real stickler of a question... no pun intended. To each his own or, er, her own--I say. Most women probably do it because it pleases their partner; some do it because they really do like it and the small few could care less if they ever ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 11 March 2008: IT has everything to do with her. She destroyed your marriage and if he was any kind of a man, he would have been more of a doting husband with all you two have been through. The big issue is probably the 'sex.' How were things at home when he was ... (read in full...)
My husband is in love with his affair but determined to work on our marriage! How do I convince him thsi woman is not as perfect as appears to him?
Q. When I found out about my husband's affair 2 months ago we decided to go to relate and try to work out a better marriage for us both. And although it's been hard we have made progress and have learnt a lot about each other. we have been married 21 ...
A. 11 March 2008: Lordy, woman. I could write a book. Been there, done that. 1) stop this nonsense and end it. He obviously has issues that he cannot deal with two relationships at once. Nor can you! 2)You cannot make someone change unless they want to change themse... (read in full...)
Should I tell him my true age before the situation turns more complicated? I'm not 16 just yet.
Q. So i have a pretty minior problem. First off i am 15, (turning 16 in may) and the guy i am talking too is 18 (turning 19 in may also) we have kissed once or twice, and we talk constantly. he wants to take me out on a date, and seems pretty honest ...
A. 11 March 2008: Well, first of all, you admitted it is illegal in Florida. If he cares at all about you, he'll wait six months-he's older and hopefully more mature. Do the right thing and be honest.... (read in full...)
My best friend (16) is pregnant with my Maths teacher's baby... What should I do?
Q. omg! iv just found out that my best friend is pregnant with my maths teachers baby. this has come as a complete shock to me because i had no idea theyd even slept together! shes really worried cos her parents will just freak out n shes also really ...
A. 11 March 2008: I'm not sure about 16 year olds being legal when it comes to having sex with an adult. I think you're wrong on that issue. There is no hiding the situation, however, your friend needs to seek a counselor and report this matter AND talk to her ... (read in full...)
He has to work at getting an erection with me yet he gets one no problem when he looks at other women. Should I be worried?
Q. Most of the time my boyfriend has to work at getting an erection so we can have sex. He tells me that I turn him on but he has also told me that if he checks out another woman and is turned on by what he sees, he gets an erection quickly. Is this ...
A. 11 March 2008: I don't know how long you two have been together, but it sounds like he has other interests. Yes, be concerned-not worried. If he won't discuss it, then it's time for you to move on to bigger and better things. A true boyfriend should only be ... (read in full...)
We've been together 2 months and he's cheated on me. How do I know for sure he won't do this again?
Q. Recently my boyfriend admited that he cheated on me. I forgave him after a period of time. Up to now I am not having any trust issues but I am worried that it may happen again we have only been together for 2 months but I really like him and I think ...
A. 11 March 2008: Honey, you're so young. There will be boys after boys after you until you are in college even. Hormones are raging. I know I sound like your 'mother,' however; listen nonetheless. If he cheated at this stage of the game, he will continue to do so. ... (read in full...)
She's always studying and never seems to have time for me.
Q. Hey everyone, My girlfriend and I have been dating for only a few weeks now, but we have been friends for 3 years. Well anyways, I like her a lot but often feel she doesn't have the time for me. She is in all honors courses and is always doing ...
A. 11 March 2008: She has her priorities in order and you're not at the top of this list, but only for a short time. Bear with her and be understanding and don't suggest she drop classes. She's on a roll, be proud and offer help. Who knows, she may appreciate the ... (read in full...)
Why does he smell his fingers???
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for over a year, and we have had sex. I have given oral but not received it, which was more of my choice because of me being worried about smelling bad (even though I don't think I do). Lately, I've noticed that after ...
A. 11 March 2008: It's a 'male' thing. Some things during sex turn men on and some don't. if this bothers you in the least and you can't talk to him about it...go find another boyfriend who wants to be open and discuss these kinds of things. Believe me, there are ... (read in full...)
How can I tell him to keep his comments to himself without being nasty?
Q. I get along with my new boyfriend ok but he is not religious. He says there is no point and that I have no freedom. This upsets me that he has no faith but I try to ignore the comments. He believes we came from monkeys I do not. He believes in stem ...
A. 11 March 2008: If you two are that much different, it's time you found another boyfriend. If you don't want to hear his comments about how he feels about the subjects you discuss, then you need to get out of that relationship. You can't make anyone change unless ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend likes to choke me during sex.
Q. My boyfriend likes to choke me during sex. I told my female friend this and she said "thats hot" Is this normal? Why do people like this?...
A. 11 March 2008: Get another boyfriend. Any man who wants to use force is a control freak and you don't need that in your life. This is physical violence in the makes. Be careful.... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant if we used a condom?
Q. okay about two weeks ago me and my BF had sex with a condom but about 2 1/2 weeks later i started getting these real bad pains in my tummy, after we had sex i was supposed to get my period but i missed it that worried me but is that normal? my BF ...
A. 11 March 2008: If you used the condom properly, then you have a 99% chance you're not pregnant. If you used lambskin condoms your chances are more that you could be pregnant, lambskin 'breathes.' If it broke, you could be pregnant or if it slipped off when he ... (read in full...)
I've lied to a man I really love, and now I feel bad. What can I do?
Q. I've just divorced my husband. We have been married for 20 years. My husband is selfish and unkind. I stay for the security. He made me feel unattractive so I started to cheat on him. It didnt make me feel better but just feel guilty and cheap. ...
A. 11 March 2008: I just divorced my husband of 26 years 2 years ago. He cheated on me from 2 years after we were married until six years before I finally realized I didn't love him anymore.I stayed for security reasons and our daughter-who finally married and moved ... (read in full...)
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