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female
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36-40,
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writes:I fell head over heels for a guy who recently got married.A few months before he did the deed, he told me how he felt about me.He said that hed fallen for me and never met anyone like me before.We had kissed on a few occasions, but one night we met for a drink with a friend of mine, and he told my friend he was falling for me and asked him for advice.My friend then confronted me, so i confronted this guy and told him that i couldnt be with him, as he was getting married.He got really upset and said that he was confused and wanted me to go back with him that night.I refused and told him he was just infatuated, this hurt me alot saying this to him but i thought i was doing the right thing at the time.Now im not so sure i did do the right thing.He kept txting me saying he still liked me.I just changed the subject ignoring this.Now iv been in contact with him, and were due to go out one night soon with a few mates, and i dont know whether or not to tell him i felt the same and admit i was scared to tell the truth back then, or just accept the fact that iv missed my chance.I cant help thinking that if id told him i felt the same back then, then wed be together now.I do belive we wouldve been, but have i missed my chance now hes married? Reply to this Question
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (21 September 2007):
You are lucky that you didn't become one of his conquests. Imagine what he tells his wife. Who is he lying to today?
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female
reader, Gemini1506 +, writes (20 September 2007):
I'm sorry but i dont think you should tell him, You'll just mess with his mind and think of his wife as well she doesn't deserve to get hurt by it.
To be honest he shouldnt of married his wife until he was clear of his feelings.
Its hard but you'll be doing the right thing, you never know he could decided to leave and then you two can really sort yourselves out
Best of Luck
xxxx
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