My Girlfriend hides me from her parents
Q. My Girlfriend and i have been going out for 1 year and 7 months, were both on our second year of college but the problem is that she still hides me from her parents, we live together and everything but as soon as her parents call, i have to even ...
A. 19 August 2010: I'm sorry to hear that. I've lived with my aunt for 4 months and I know it's a living hell, so I totally understand the situation. It's scary how I find my own experiences in this story. But anyway, being in the top of the class has nothing to d... (read in full...)
My Girlfriend hides me from her parents
Q. My Girlfriend and i have been going out for 1 year and 7 months, were both on our second year of college but the problem is that she still hides me from her parents, we live together and everything but as soon as her parents call, i have to even ...
A. 18 August 2010: I've been through something similar, my mother didn't like my ex-boyfriend because he had no college (she has weird standards), but he was a very good guy. When we were talking on the phone, I had to hide from my mom, because she kept telling me "I ... (read in full...)
My Girlfriend hides me from her parents
Q. My Girlfriend and i have been going out for 1 year and 7 months, were both on our second year of college but the problem is that she still hides me from her parents, we live together and everything but as soon as her parents call, i have to even ...
A. 15 August 2010: After 1 year and 7 months she should be able to introduce you into her world. But maybe her parents are extremely severe with her, maybe they think she's too young to be involved in a relationship.
BTW how old is she?
If you say you're livin... (read in full...)
She can't be pregnant, right?
Q. alright ppl, here is a story: had unprotected sex, but i am sure that i didnt cum inside, and went to the shower after. Long time ago the chick was pregnant but without her own will. what are the per cent to get her pregnant? if the girl g...
A. 15 August 2010: Dude, you're having sex with girls without using a condom?
Aside pregnancy, which is a minor problem, you can get STDs, but since you started your sex life, I presume you should be aware of these things, right?
Regarding this girl, the best for... (read in full...)
If he cums in my mouth I feel sick the next day.
Q. me and boyfriend sometimes have oral sex. when he cums in my mouth the next day my body always hurts or my stomache hurts. why is that? ...
A. 15 August 2010: Well, don't swallow anymore, it's obvious it doesn't make you comfortable. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend joked with his mate about my trust issues
Q. My boyfriend once broke my trust and met his ex behind my back. It's made me insecure which he says he realises is his fault. But I heard he made a joke about my insecurity to a mate. Now what am I supposed to think?...
A. 15 August 2010: He has no respect towards you. He seems to have a big mouth, because making jokes about issues of any kind in your relationship is plain dumb. If he said to his mate that you have trust issues and you need help, then it wouldn't have been a problem, ... (read in full...)
I love him but I'm on the verge of dumping him!
Q. So my boyfriend and I just got back from vacation, and we usually see each other on Saturdays, but like 2 days before he tells me he's helping his parents move furniture. The problem with this is, that I don't believe what he said and he hasn...
A. 14 August 2010: "I have a feeling he's at a friends cottage" - Indeed, nothing wrong with being at a friend's house. But the problem is that he lied to you. Or maybe you're just thinking too much about it, you HAVE A FEELING (I've never doubted feminine intuition ... (read in full...)
She's on her 3rd boyfriend but I want her!
Q. I go around saying that the only thing worse than failure is regret. Now I regret messing up. I did't realize how much I liked this girl, now she is on her 3rd boyfriend and its killing me. I have to do something to get this under control. I ...
A. 14 August 2010: So, you had a dream about you and her having a quickie while her boyfriend was puking. I wouldn't read much into a dream, it can have a lot of meanings (or none).
Why do you want her back? Did you do something bad and she walked away from you... (read in full...)
How do I tell him I am falling in love with him!
Q. I have been seeing a guy for a couple of months now and the physical chemistry between us is now very strong. I did not notice his attraction towards me for some time. He has been doing loads of things to help me. My question is that we seem to ...
A. 13 August 2010: I think you're at the age when you can have a mature, serious conversation with that guy, so there's nothing wrong with just telling him, especially now, that you'll be moving away from him. Just be honest, without being afraid of rejection. People ... (read in full...)
Help! I don't want to repeat the 8th grade!
Q. I went this summer school thing were if we didn't pass we go back to 8th grade but I went and missed 5 days and were only allowed 4 but when I returned they said it was ok and I spent 2 hours with the principle making up for the extra day I missed.. ...
A. 13 August 2010: I'm sorry to hear that.
You need to discuss again the issue with the principal. It's pretty hard for a person to believe you felt really bad and such. I think you should get them a medical exemption for the day when you had that health problem,... (read in full...)
My son listens to us have sex! Now I'm labeled a bad person.
Q. My son who is 13 is always hanging around my bedroom door when my friend and I are intimate. We close and lock the door for privacy but he stands there and listens. He then went and told my mom what he heard and now I am labeled as a bad person. He ...
A. 11 August 2010: When I was 12, one morning I barged into my parents' bedroom and I saw them having sex, and I felt EXTREMELY awkward all day long, I could barely say a word to them. My mom pretended nothing happened, she didn't anything. I felt weird and confused, ... (read in full...)
I have a crush on my neighbor. Can I add him as a friend on Facebook?
Q. Hey, i need to know whether this is the right thing to do or not.. i really like my neighbour, alot! i have for a long time, the problem is, he's married. I understand this and know that nothing can come from but just a silly little crush. I ...
A. 11 August 2010: Uhhm, there's nothing wrong with adding your neighbors on Facebook, especially if you get along well. You could have added his wife and him at the same time, so he didn't suspect anything. But I'm pretty sure he won't misunderstand your friend ... (read in full...)
How can I get past the pain so I can make love to my boyfriend?
Q. hello! Am 25 and still virgin and every time my boyfriend try to finger me i almost shout because am afraid of the pain, i really want to make love with him...but am mentally block when thought of the pain it might caused me...i felt sorry for him ...
A. 9 August 2010: Make sure you get very wet down there. You can use lube as well, if foreplay doesn't help. Also, relax, try to think that your vagina is made to handle ANY thickness of penis.
If still have trouble, you might as well see a doctor. ... (read in full...)
I'm paranoid about everything!
Q. ... im like paranoid about everything!!! i cant go out in public with out thinking that everybody is stairing at me!!! i wont eat in public also cuz i think everybody is stairing at me!, im scared of the dark, zombies, the shower drain, mirrors "at ...
A. 8 August 2010: Find yourself a way to fill in your time, an occupation (read, go out and have fun, see a movie with your friends etc), so you can't get bored and start chasing the wild goose.... (read in full...)
Gf not talking to me on an emotional level anymore
Q. my gf says she has trouble talking to me because i'm doom and gloom, she wont say it to my face and i think its a bs excuse not to talk to me over msn. she pours her heart out and makes more of an effort to talk to him, he relays goings on to me....
A. 7 August 2010: Try to ask questions that require a developed answer. Start your sentences with "How was ...", "What do you think of...". Don't ask just "hi, how are you?". The answer will always be one word.
Plus, try to call her attention with interest... (read in full...)
Uncircumsized, is it really that gross?
Q. Are there any girls out there that prefer an uncircumcised man? I just had a girl in a club push me into a bathroom stall in the mens room. After some kissing she got on her knees, and unzipped my pants. When she saw my stuff, she visibly reco...
A. 7 August 2010: It's not gross unless you keep a proper hygiene. Same goes for a woman's crotch. ... (read in full...)
How can I prove to her that I can be friendly and extroverted?
Q. Ok, in a nut shell, my girlfriend broke up with me and went to study abroad. On her return i went to her and told her how much i loved her and how i really felt. She had it in her mind that she was going to say no but now she is unsure. She still ...
A. 5 August 2010: Ask her out more often, go to a movie, be interested in her activities, ask if you can join her when she wants to go somewhere, tell her about yourself and your daily activities.
There are so many things you can do together, there's no room for... (read in full...)
My boyfriend works a lot and doesn't have time for me
Q. I'm 18 and my boyfriend is twenty. I'm still in school and he's working. I don't have a problem with him working it's just I never get to see him because he works all day and then comes home late. I know he needs the money to survive and stuff bu...
A. 5 August 2010: For how long have you been together? You have to tell him straight, without being afraid you'll get him upset or mad, men aren't intuitive, so if you throw him hints, he might not take note of it. If you think he might get mad because you're a... (read in full...)
Should I have sex with him even though he wont wear condoms and I'm not on birth control?
Q. i've been with my bf for 1year. hes my first love and im his he's two years older than me.. we are both vigins.. and homecoming night b4 his big game.. i well lets just say i wanna have sex with him.. he gave me i ring and we are getting married ...
A. 5 August 2010: I see you're very young. Are you ready to take this kid of responsibility ? Is he ready ? How old is he ? Are you secure about him, that he will marry you and take responsibility ?
If you want a baby, you can have sex with him, but at this age... (read in full...)
Does sex for the first time hurt for a male?
Q. dear cupid as i am a male virgin does sex hurt for the first time. and what is like as i would like to know...
A. 5 August 2010: Fortunately for guys, no.... (read in full...)
Lies about her past........
Q. me and my girlfriend were talking about her past early in our relationship and she said she had anly slept with 2 other people only 7 times and only had oral once... i read her diary and it said she had slept with 3 guys and one guy was 7 times and ...
A. 5 August 2010: The past is past, you want it or not. You can't do anything to change it. If she loves you, you should get over it.... (read in full...)
If I lose weight will I have a chance with the girl I like?
Q. Hello, I'm a 14 year old boy and I always had some problems with my weight. I'm not obese but I got some fat on my chest and my belly and around the belly too.I don't know what techniques I should use so I can Loose Weight. I want to loose fat ...
A. 4 August 2010: I've had a fat male friend, he lost weight in about one year with sustained effort - fitness, jogging and a bit of diet. The idea is to lose weight in time, not fast, because in the future you get it back just the way you lost it. I'm sure you'r... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is extremely passive and it gets me frustrated
Q. Hello, I need a suggestion... So I have my ordinary/daily/every-day problem with my quiet boyfriend. Lately, though, he is trying hard to "contribute", so I interpret it as a sign of "I really want to make this relationship work, but I don't know...
A. 4 August 2010: Odds, he is the one who wanted badly to live together, so he convinced me, even if my family didn't agree at the beginning. Also, I'm not pushing him, I've just told him once that would be nice for him to find a well-paid job. He won't even accept ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says I have to plan every minute of our time together otherwise he has the right to play World Of Warcraft all day!
Q. I need some outside perspective here.. My boyfriend plays world of warcraft and he is obsessed. he plays every day for hours. The only time we see each other is the weekend and when i get there he will constantly play. He told me last time i was ...
A. 2 August 2010: "What do i do?" - dump his WOWnerd ass.
My ex-boyfriend used to play Wow and there was no possible way to get him out of the house, especially trying to have a word with him. He was usually very expeditive whenever I was asking him stuff. M... (read in full...)
Dry-humped. Now am I pregnant?
Q. Okay, I'm a teenager and me and my boyfriend are not sexually active, but we have dry humped before a few times. We were both wearing shorts at the time. I didn't think anything of it, or wasn't worried any about getting pregnant or anything like ...
A. 2 August 2010: Sperm can travel through cotton, but cannot travel through jeans. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is a terrible kisser!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for a month now, but have been interested in each other way before then. He's everything I expected and more, his family are amazing, he's amazing, everything is amazing! ... other than his kissing. Yes,...
A. 1 August 2010: OH God.. I know exactly the feeling... My ex-boyfriend used to put his tongue down my throat, trying to experiment a french kiss, but I felt like I had a wet snake inside my mouth, so I backed off.
Later on, whenever he brought himself closer t... (read in full...)
Did something happen to his phone or is he just ignoring me?
Q. I met this dude about a week ago. Normally I don't just rush into things. I normally stay calm and collect. But I really like this guy, and he could tell. It was him that asked me for my number. And him that started texting me. Then all of a sudden ...
A. 1 August 2010: 1. He's avoiding you, therefore, you should move further, "I really like this guy, and he could tell" - maybe you weren't hard enough to get, so he might have lost interest pretty fast in you and he has no balls to tell you "OK, it was nice knowing ... (read in full...)
Why won't a nice guy fall for me? I feel ugly and depressed.
Q. I am 24 and have never been in love (not one that was reciprocated anyway). I believe this could be because I am not nice to look at (bordering on downright repulsive), slightly overweight and very very shy and also sarcastic. I do have a very ...
A. 1 August 2010: I'm a little fluffy myself (that's why my nickname sounds FluffyPie :P), I tend to be a little insecure about it, as in looking to any other thin woman. I'm kind of short as well - 1.60 m, so that's why I look poofy.
BUT I have a boyfrien... (read in full...)
I am shy with a speech impediment, need suggestions on asking a girl out??
Q. I was wandering what are the best ways to ask girls out? I am 25 years old with a speech impediment. I have always been to shy to ask girls out due to my speech impediment. I decided it about time that I get over me being shy. So I was wanderi...
A. 31 July 2010: My boyfriend is shy around women, not very talkative/communicative, but he's a real stud when it comes to private "conversations".
And I believe you're the same as him, you just didn't get the chance to explore yourself.
Give it a shot, I know... (read in full...)
Should I fake an affair to teach my cheating husband a lesson?
Q. should i fake an affair to teach my cheating husband a lesson? my husband for last years has been constantly cheating on me. i have caught me several times and everytime he begs for my forgiveness telling me that he has really changed this time. i ...
A. 31 July 2010: Well, I think you're both at the age when playing this sort of games doesn't fit anymore. That is, you making him believe you're having an affair, so he can open his eyes and realize what he has next to him, a caring wife.
A man, once cheating... (read in full...)
Why hasn't he called? Am I worrying over nothing?
Q. I'm super anxious. My bf hasnt called me in 3 days (he normally calls daily)Sometimes he forgets to call back after we've talked already -which is fine (rarely).. and he doesnt really need to call everyday but the last time we talked (Sunday)...
A. 29 July 2010: Well, even if sick or busy, he could talk to you, he's not mute or something, so there's no excuse. You have the right to know if he's still alive, right? :)
So, my advice (I've been there, so it's probably the same), carry on with your daily ac... (read in full...)
How do I open up to her?
Q. Hi, iv been with my girlfriend for nearly 4 months now. For the first 2 months it was great, we were both happy and got along really well. But as time went on, it seems that the relationship has just dwindled... its really frustrating for both me ...
A. 29 July 2010: By "opening up" to somebody means being able to communicate your life experiences, no matter how meaningless they are, your fears, your joys, your desires, wishes etc. My boyfriend is exactly the same as you, and I know it's difficult for me... (read in full...)
What does she really want to talk about?
Q. ok ive been talking to this girl for about to weeks and i really really like her and i made sure to get to know her and find out her likes and dislikes and i made sure to remember little things and make sure she knows i remember.we have gone out a ...
A. 29 July 2010: Lack of communication is probably one of the biggest frustrations in a couple.
First off, try to figure out if you REALLY are a couple, and then, step by step, talk about ANY random thing.
Communication isn't just "talking", it's about reciproc... (read in full...)
I cant wait until I am 25 to have sex! So how do I convince my girlfriend we will be together forever so having sex now is ok?
Q. My name is Alex. I'm in this situation Where I want sex and she wants to wait until Marriage. It's hard for me to wait. I'm thinking I'm probably going to marry this girl one day, I Love her more than imaginable. We've never gotten into a serious f...
A. 29 July 2010: "I'm thinking the issue is with trust because her friend lost her virginity and now has the biggest regrets she'll ever have"
Well, let me tell you something: every first-time sexual experience is different from the other, so your girlfriend's fear... (read in full...)
How do I know that he means it when he says "I love you"?
Q. Okay, so i'm freshly sixteen and my sixteen, almost seventeen, boyfriend and i have been dating for a little over three months(:- about a month ago, now, he told me he loves me...i'm not complaining, i don't think it's too early, because i mean if ...
A. 29 July 2010: Just let things flow. Tell him "I love you" back and enjoy your time together, that's all you can do.
If you tend to be insecure about it, just tell him "I don't want you to say things you don't mean". So, if he's a smart guy, he'll get the poin... (read in full...)
Why hasn't he called? Am I worrying over nothing?
Q. I'm super anxious. My bf hasnt called me in 3 days (he normally calls daily)Sometimes he forgets to call back after we've talked already -which is fine (rarely).. and he doesnt really need to call everyday but the last time we talked (Sunday)...
A. 29 July 2010: OK, my ex-boyfriend refrained from calling or contacting me after he realized I wasn't cooperating at all for the relationship (I was cold towards his love gestures), so he invented something like a flu, feeling awful, frostbites (yeah, I know it ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's mum hates me and she hasn't even met me yet!
Q. my boyfriends mum hates me! i'm 16 and my boyfriend is 18. his mum just hates me and i havent even met her yet! i have been going out with him for 2 months and he lives 2 hours away from me. i havent met his mum or dad yet and when he is talkin or ...
A. 28 July 2010: Do you even know this guy? I mean, maybe his parents don't even know about your relationship. Also, you could try to find somebody nearer to you, so you can have physical contact, not just "stealing" him through the phone.
I bet his mom is over ... (read in full...)
Is it a coincidence I fall for girls whose names start with A?
Q. Ok, so I`m just curisous, for the longest time I have fallen for girls that names begin with A. The fisrt girl I liked name was Ashly. This was when I was really young she was alot older than me. Then when I got to the 6th grade I fell for this girl ...
A. 23 July 2010: Well, I've had 4 boyfriends who wore glasses. Three of them have the same names. How creepy is this? :)... (read in full...)
Am I doing my new husband wrong?
Q. I recently got married a week ago and we never had sex. I married my college sweet heart u could say and i do love him dearly. whenever were together were always having fun, but when it comes to sex we just pull apart. note that im a virgin a...
A. 23 July 2010: You say you're tight... Well, let me tell you that the vagina is made to "suffer" ANY penis size, so no worries. I lost my virginity a few weeks ago and I was tight and scared like hell, but he got inside after all. All you need is to get very wet ... (read in full...)
How do I help her with trust issues?
Q. hi. I have been going out with my girlfriend for 6 months and everything is unreal and perfect. we love eachother very much, except she has trust issues. For some reason i lied to her about having a cold sore because i was scared of her reaction ...
A. 23 July 2010: Uh, why did you tell her you have a cold? You know, girls tend to be extremely insecure, especially if your romantic background is unbalanced, so I know it doesn't sound fair, but wouldn't have been OK *not* to tell her that you lied? I mean, I know ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is making great efforts to communicate!
Q. Hello. I have a 10 months relationship with my boyfriend. Recently, I kinda started to push him into being more communicative (sorry, didn't want to make it sound this brutal). He's 25 years old, never had a relationship before, but that's ...
A. 23 July 2010: Ask oldersister, OK, maybe I deny the fact that I want to change him. Either way, he's not making any efforts to "compromise", because, after all, it's all about "compromise, give vs. take" and so on. I think you hit the nail on the head with "I ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is making great efforts to communicate!
Q. Hello. I have a 10 months relationship with my boyfriend. Recently, I kinda started to push him into being more communicative (sorry, didn't want to make it sound this brutal). He's 25 years old, never had a relationship before, but that's ...
A. 22 July 2010: @ Ask oldersister: I'm not trying to change him, to make him something I want. But it takes two in order to make a relationship work. I feel extremely disappointed in myself for telling him all those things and for making him feel humiliated. The ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend uninterested or unexperienced?
Q. I've been going out with my boyfriend for over 9 months now. We live in the same city, but we both have busy schedules (we're both working), so we don't see each other too often, so our main way to communicate remains the internet (instant messages) ...
A. 2 July 2010: Thanks, 33girl, you sound like you know a lot of stuff. And you sound like you know him as well... Your answer helped me a lot, I mean it's something I've never expected to hear, not in my perspective, even though I had a lot of scenarios and I kept ... (read in full...)
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