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writes:I go around saying that the only thing worse than failure is regret. Now I regret messing up. I did't realize how much I liked this girl, now she is on her 3rd boyfriend and its killing me. I have to do something to get this under control. I have to get her back. Anything, any costs. Yeah I messed up and wiggled my way out of it, but I can't get her out of my head. It haunts me, in a good way. Last night I dreamed about her for hours, all night! Some buddies and I were at the house and her and her boyfriend came over. Next thing I know he is running to the bathroom to puke, her and I are alone, and we made love for the first time ever. I'm not sure about this. It's surely not lust, for that was the first dream ever. I am on the losing side here, and I only want her. Her back to me. I hate this, please help. It's not over, so don't post like it is over. Please help and thanks for reading. Reply to this Question
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reader, daisy duke  +, writes (15 August 2010):
omg!!!! TELL HER!!! you don't want to be asking what if in 5 years time!!!! what have you got to lose by telling her!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMy ex girlfriend at the time went and told alot of lies to stab at be for breaking up with her. Its been nearly a year and I still wanna be with this girl. We were together for 4 months, which isn't long but still yet, why would I be missing her after one year. I need help.
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reader, Chippy2 +, writes (14 August 2010):
What did you do to 'mess' up? How long were you together? How long have you been apart? Does she have any contact with you now? Need more info to give an opinion. Thanks
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (14 August 2010):
 In a dream you are acting out the desire to steal a guy's girlfriend. You are feeling the hang overs of a dream. Some intense dreams can be overwhelming, lasting a few hours. So the dream caused you to post this question. What about before the dream did you feel as strongly towards her?
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reader, FluffyPie +, writes (14 August 2010):
 So, you had a dream about you and her having a quickie while her boyfriend was puking. I wouldn't read much into a dream, it can have a lot of meanings (or none).
Why do you want her back? Did you do something bad and she walked away from you ?
You know.. take a deeeeep breath before posting your problem, because you kind of left out the most important part: the reason for which you're no longer with her (maybe it was your fault, and now you're sorry). You see, people can't give you a solution or an advice for your issue, unless you detail things.
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