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I thought we were going great but hes giving me the cold shoulder

Q.   I recently told a close friend I have feelings for him and have done for a while, he told me he had his suspisions and he likes me aswell. He started hanging around with me more and more and I was really happy. But lately he's started acting really ...

A.   14 February 2011: He's not interested in moving further this friendship you have. I know it hurts, but you'll get over it eventually, it's the law of nature :) ... (read in full...)

She broke up with me because she said I didn't make her 1st priority

Q.   So, me and my bf broke up and now we are trying to get back together. she started to date her Bestfriend knowing she still loved me. The thing is the reason she broke up with me was because she says that she is not my first priority in life. That im ...

A.   13 February 2011: Well, girls require a lot of attention. Hanging out with your friends every night and excluding her from this circle is quite painful to her. I know, you have a social life outside the relationship, which is excellent, but make sure you keep a bala... (read in full...)

She won't go down on me!

Q.   Ok so i have a bit of a sexual problem. My girlfriend does not like giving me oral. We have been sexually active for about 2 years now out of a 3 year relationship but at the begining she liked giving me oral. At the begining she gave me head ...

A.   11 February 2011: Do you have a proper hygiene? What does your precum taste like? Do you smell good down there? I don't like giving my boyfriend blowjobs because both his pre-cum and cum smell and taste horrible. He's clean, he showers every day, but the sweat ov... (read in full...)

A dildo for valentines day?

Q.   my boyfriend wants to get me a dildo for valentines should i be mad at that or hurt over it idk what to think of it as?please help...

A.   11 February 2011: I'd be honored.... (read in full...)

Why take so long to reply to an email? Is he playing games?

Q.   This guy, who I got on really well with and had a fairly good idea liked me, as in he was flirty, made an effort to talk to me etc, invited me to go out with him and a couple of other people this Fri. Don't know the other people well. At the ti...

A.   10 February 2011: Have you ever thought that he's probably too busy to reply? Seriously, there are people who really have a life and better things to do, you know - first things first. When he finishes work, he'll eventually reply. That's the good view on this ... (read in full...)

She feels bad because I'm doing all the work

Q.   My girlfriend says she feels bad about us having sex because she feels like I'm doing all the work. Theres no pleasure issues, I've done my anatomy, psychology and physiological homework and have developed some kind of bizarre self control from ...

A.   5 February 2011: Active role means she can go on top and dominate the penetration and the moves. You just lie down and enjoy the show. ... (read in full...)

How do you lose fat from your inner thigh?

Q.   I am needing to lose fat off my inner thigh. Dose anyone have a suggestion over it. Cause it could really help me out. I mean I have try everything. ...

A.   31 January 2011: Well, diet / sport helps you lose fat from all areas of your body. So the only way you could lose fat ONLY from your inner thigh would be surgery. ... (read in full...)

Why does he make excuses to avoid sex with me?

Q.   my husband of 8 years doesnt last longer than 5 minites when we have sex,i tried talking to him but nothing works.It's like before he starts 4play hes already thinking about him cuming.his 4play will only take 2-3 minutes. I told him this is not ...

A.   31 January 2011: Well, most guys who can't last too long in bed try to avoid it. You two should find a therapist, because it's very important how you approach this subject with him and you need to be careful, the way you say it might hurt his feelings. Men are ... (read in full...)

How important is the ring?

Q.   She said "If I got an engagement ring I didn't like,or was to small I would return it and buy something I really liked." Part of me laughs at this the other part is scared out of my mind. Who would say something like that, I thought engagment was ...

A.   29 January 2011: My guess is that she's been educated to cherish the material part of the life more than the spiritual one. Her family is probably judging people according to the way they dress (for example) and they educated her to do the same, so you could say you ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is not romantic and I feel neglected. What should I do?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now. He is an extremely unromantic person... I feel neglected by him because of this. What should I do?...

A.   26 January 2011: It's obvious you two have different views on romanticism. What do you want him to do? Just tell him "You'd make me so happy if you..." ... (read in full...)

Should I be worried about the condom breaking?

Q.   My girlfriend is on the pill. She was prescribed it for acne reasons around 6 months ago but kept at it now that we're active. I use a condom every time as well, but I feel like kind of whimp for doing so. A spermicide lubricated condom broke the ...

A.   24 January 2011: "Is wearing a condom even necessary for me?" 1. BC pill is not always effective. 2. YES, if you want to protect yourself against STDs. ... (read in full...)

I don't feel his erection through his pants, does this mean he is really small?

Q.   I have recently met this guy online whom I like quite a lot. I wouldn't say I am in love with him since we have only been on four dates but we have reasonable chemistry and get along otherwise. We have made out twice already, pants on but I don't ...

A.   21 January 2011: He's probably taking care of the "business" before you two make out. Nothing to worry about though, he probably doesn't want to scare you with his boner :)... (read in full...)

Unwanted hair on my stomach!

Q.   For about 5 years or possibly more i startec to develop dark hair on my belly! Im extremley embarressed about this as i feel its not normal for a girl to get this?! I have tried to shave it and even wax strips but it just comes back! I cant show my ...

A.   20 January 2011: Go see an endocrinologist. They'll know what to do. It's most likely a hormonal unbalance issues. ... (read in full...)

I don't feel much during sex!

Q.   Hi everyone! I'm 19 years old and a sophomore in college. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 10 months now and were friends for a few years before entering into the relationship we have. We started having sex a few months ago. ...

A.   19 January 2011: You have masturbated too much perhaps, and now you can't find satisfaction unless it's "yourself". I know I had this problem, I was never able to have an orgasm whenever my boyfriend was trying to please me. When we started to have sex, I use to ... (read in full...)

Is she being spoiled in rejecting the single rose?

Q.   I am thinking of a conversation I had with a very pretty female friend. We got into an argument and I was your opinion on it. This guy was interested in her and they sort of began dating. He came to her home with a single rose and a card saying, "...

A.   17 January 2011: Well, she doesn't like flowers, so that explains it. When I was 18, my ex-bf gave me 3 red roses. They were beautiful, amazing but after the date, I threw them away. It wasn't because I didn't love him back them, it's just that I didn't like flowers ... (read in full...)

I haven't gotten my period yet! Is something wrong?

Q.   Ok.I am now 13 turning 14 in march. i got boobs when i was about eleven and hair way before that, but i havnt got my period. im really worried about this because i know that EVERY girl in my class has got theirs. and when i say that, im not ...

A.   15 January 2011: The discharge is ok, but I'd suggest you go see an endocrinologist. However, I wouldn't worry that much, you're still young. If you're over 16+ and you haven't got your period yet - YES, then you should be worried. ... (read in full...)

He asked me out but didn't pay for the date?

Q.   A guy that I know is interested in me (we've kissed) asked me to hang out (alone for the first time, also this is the beginning of our "friendship"), but he never paid for me even though he treated it as a date (kissed me again)...is that normal? I ...

A.   15 January 2011: Didn't pay for the DATE or didn't pay for your portion? Because it's a difference between them, you know? If he paid for his food or drink and let you pay for yours, it's fair enough. You're not married yet, so you can benefit by his money or put ... (read in full...)

He's the one and I can't let him go!

Q.   please help me..ive dated my boyfriend for over two years, we are young, but had plans to marry and have children, to the point where there names were picked out. however..we fight constatly endlessly and its gotten to the point where ive ended the ...

A.   15 January 2011: If he's making you feel like cr*p, he is not the one.... (read in full...)

I need to relax but I'm not sure how to!

Q.   Hey guys. Im a virgin, my boyfriend isnt though. I've been with my boyfriend now for 5 months and we have tried to have sex a few times now. But I always get him to stop because... It hurts ^^; He tells me it's because im too tense. I don't f...

A.   14 January 2011: You're not ready. Period.... (read in full...)

My marriage proposal sucked! Should I let him do it again?

Q.   SO I’m engaged but my proposal Sucked!!! he didn’t even decorate there was no romantic music and he knows that I love flowers and he didn’t even give me one!!! He used a beat up candle that was already used and I didn’t even get to dress up nor ...

A.   14 January 2011: Why do you have to get stuck in such details? Some people just don't have a sense for romanticism and you have to deal with it. You told him what you expect from him, but has he ever promised he'd do what you told him? You told him, he listened... (read in full...)

I'm too shy to say "I love you"

Q.   i'm in love with a guy but im just 2 shy to say i luv u.we already went to a drive in movie. plz give advice...

A.   14 January 2011: Give him something of yours, an object, wrap it up in paper, and send it to him or give it personally. Tell him that it means a lot to you and you want him to have it. ... (read in full...)

How do you know that the person you love is your soul mate?

Q.   I know this is gonna sound stupid but it something that has been Worrying me for sometime now,I,ve been dating different gys in my Life but seem not to have an answer.I want 2 knw that how Do u tell that the person u in love with is your soul m...

A.   14 January 2011: This "soul mate" notion is very relative these days. There is no soul mate. It's just chemistry, compatibility, you get along well, you share some of the interests, you complete each other, you help them and they help you, they make your day ... (read in full...)

I don't know how to tongue kiss

Q.   I really want to tongue kiss my bf friend but ive never done it before I know that he has but im not sure if he wants to with me What do I do?...

A.   14 January 2011: Well, just see what he does when he kisses you and follow his moves. Do what he does. Kissing should come naturally. If you don't master tongue kissing "art", this tongue kiss will most likely be an uncomfortable fluid exchange. Just kiss him ... (read in full...)

Do all girls squirt?

Q.   what happens when a girl masturbates ..i mean she rubs her clit? do all girls squirt? if not...how can a girl please herself enough to squirt??...

A.   14 January 2011: I don't squirt. Squirting means -oh wow- VERY intense pleasure (or so I've heard).... (read in full...)

I'm too shy to say "I love you"

Q.   i'm in love with a guy but im just 2 shy to say i luv u.we already went to a drive in movie. plz give advice...

A.   14 January 2011: I presume you're a "fresh" couple, so... why do you want to say you love him? I mean, DO you love him? You can't love someone just by going to a drive in movie with them. OK, if you feel attracted to him, just give him a kiss on the lips or do so... (read in full...)

When I said I love you he laughed!

Q.   I guess I would just like some opinions. Today I was with my boyfriend and we were hugging and I said I love you. This is not the first time I've said it, we've been together for 5 months btw. But anyway when I said it he laughed, when I asked what ...

A.   14 January 2011: Well, now you know why people shouldn't abuse the "I love you" line. Your boyfriend knows that 5 months isn't such a long time for someone to say it and actually mean it. They are big words, and the more often you use them, the more routine the... (read in full...)

What 'unknown' condition could it be that stops a girl from having sex?

Q.   I was recently speaking to my girlfriend about sex, and she kind of let slip that she 'until recently' couldn't actually have sex because of a medical condition. She said only that is was apparently not that rare, and now it is fine (presumably ...

A.   13 January 2011: Is she a virgin? Because if so, she's most likely not ready to have sex and she's probably ashamed to tell you. Not that virginity is something bad, but most guys don't give a damn about it so she's probably scared to lose you. ... (read in full...)

I tested my boyfriend and he failed!

Q.   so i had my friend send my bf a message on myspace to see if he would cheat on me she sent him a message asking him if he had a girlfriend and he said no. I found a different reason to break up with him and after i broke up with him i asked him why ...

A.   11 January 2011: The fact that he didn't text back should answer your question - he's thankful for getting rid of you so he didn't complicate himself with replying. His silence is his reply. ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend won't propose, he comes up with lame excuses!

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years now and we've lived together for 4 of those years. He won't propose and comes up with lame excuses. The thought of starting all over with someone else stinks but I'm tired of his excuses. Should I stay or ...

A.   11 January 2011: I don't think you should force him into proposing you. If he's genuinely eager to marry you and have you next to him for the rest of his life, he'll do it eventually. If you pressure him and he's not ready yet, you might have a miserable life next ... (read in full...)

Having doubts about a partner? Is it normal at the start of a relationship?

Q.   Is it true we all have doubts about each other at the beginning of the relationship? Could that break or build further the relationship? I've had this awkward conversation (can't call it a fight, because it wasn't) with my boyfriend - (we'...

A.   9 January 2011: I don't want to break up with him because of something I FEEL. I don't want to break up with him. At all... I don't want to feed my insecurities, I just want to make things clear in my head about certain behaviors in a relationship, since I haven't ... (read in full...)

Having doubts about a partner? Is it normal at the start of a relationship?

Q.   Is it true we all have doubts about each other at the beginning of the relationship? Could that break or build further the relationship? I've had this awkward conversation (can't call it a fight, because it wasn't) with my boyfriend - (we'...

A.   9 January 2011: Oh, it's not like I'm wasting my time or anything. I love him and he loves me, we talk about marriage and kids. Now I'm more convinced than ever that he's the one for me. He confessed that I'm the one and only for him. All that makes me a bit s... (read in full...)

Hickey on my boyfriend's hip?

Q.   Ok, i found a hickey looking mark on my boyfriend's hip. He said he hit it back i just dont know. what do i do?...

A.   3 January 2011: Unless he's given you previous signs of cheating, I don't understand why you doubt him. My skin in certain areas reacts really bad when hit, it gets dark purple-ish and it looks like a hickey. If you still have doubts, you can ask him to give ... (read in full...)

Why won't my boyfriend let me see him naked?

Q.   Hey, My boyfriend and me have been dating over a year, neither of us are sexually active yet but we both really want to. Me and him do foreplay etc but hes started to ask me for Bjs etc. But he wont take off his top or bottoms so I can help satisfy ...

A.   2 January 2011: At this age he must be insecure about his appearance. He might be too hairy, his muscles might look like pancakes, maybe he thinks he's too thin, that you can see his bones through the skin (or too fat, I don;t know what he looks like) and so on. ... (read in full...)

We just want to sleep together and our parents won't allow it!

Q.   I'm 15 years old and my boyfriend is 16 and we want nothing more then to fall asleep in eachothers arms and wake up in eachothers arms.... But we can't do that. We've been dating for 6 months now and we love eachother. We don't even want to do ...

A.   2 January 2011: Ok so sleeping together, but no sex. Just do this: sleep with him [without your parents' consent] and NOTHING MORE. Just fall asleep in each others arms. As for your parents, they don't allow you to sleep with him because they know how great th... (read in full...)

Why look at me, when you could look at someone prettier?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for over two years. He and I are honest about everything and are open about many things. I have asked him over and over if he looks and other women. But he says he doesn't look at other girls. I don't think I ...

A.   31 December 2010: If he's with you means he's happy. It could be easy for him to change girls like socks, but he rather stays with you, he likes your company, you make him happy by being who you are. Of course he notices other girls, he's not blind, for Christ's... (read in full...)

I really feel neglected and don't know what to do!

Q.   My boyfriend and I are together for about one year now. Many a times I felt neglected by him because he is someone who prefers to have his personal time. I am not a very sticky person I think... I hope to meet up more times in a week rather than ...

A.   30 December 2010: If there's ANYTHING that's bothering you, just talk to him, be calm and understanding, but firm. Men are extremely bad with hints, so if you just keep it inside and act hurt, he still won't get it. I'm telling you this because my experien... (read in full...)

How long before you should have sex?

Q.   I have been with my boy friend for a few years and we havent had sex yet? How long would be a good time to be with someone before you have sex with them? ...

A.   16 December 2010: As long as it takes for you to feel ready. Trust me, you WILL know when you're ready. I assure you that it's an overwhelming emotion mixed with excitement and butterflies in your stomach. And I'm not kidding nor inventing stuff, I've been there ... (read in full...)

How do I stop my best friend from thinking of me as his future girlfriend?

Q.   How in the world, am I spouse to make my best friend stop thinking about me as his future girl friend??? he is my oldest and best friend, I just dunno how to make him understand that I don't love him the way he loves me. Every now and then he have ...

A.   15 December 2010: Just be honest with him and tell him you don't want to hurt him. Tell him that if you were his girlfriend, your relationship would be a bad one, because he would be the only one to bring love/feelings in it. Tell him he deserves someone who can ... (read in full...)

How is a girl supposed to act when recieving oral sex?

Q.   my boyfriend wants to lick me out and i know this'll sound a bit stupid but where would i look while he's going down on me? And i'm the type of person who'd be embarrassed if it felt good enough to make me moan or something, how could i get over...

A.   11 December 2010: Just close your eyes and enjoy the moment, let him take charge of it :)... (read in full...)

Should I ask him why he takes so long to reply me?

Q.   My bf used to send me more than 1 or 2 messages a day, and usually he is the one who says "hi" first when I'm online and reply me very quick. But these days, he only sent me 1 message a day and I became the one who says "hi" first ( I know this ...

A.   28 November 2010: Maybe he's busy doing something else, because let me tell you something: this guy has a life, with or without you. So he's got stuff to do, this doesn't mean he doesn't love you or if he doesn't reply right away, doesn't mean he loves you less... (read in full...)

He's just too into me! How can I tell him to bug off?

Q.   Hello everyone, I need some help here. There's this guy at my workplace who really likes me. I mean even after I told him I have a boyfriend, he still tells me I'm his type of girl and that he'd love to marry me. At first I thought he was k...

A.   22 November 2010: I know it's wrong that I flirted with him, but I didn't think he'll insist even after telling him that I have a boyfriend. As for the phone number, we all have mutual access to the phone numbers and e-mail adresses, in order to contact each oth... (read in full...)

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