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My boyfriend's mum hates me and she hasn't even met me yet!

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Question - (28 July 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 1 August 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

my boyfriends mum hates me! i'm 16 and my boyfriend is 18. his mum just hates me and i havent even met her yet! i have been going out with him for 2 months and he lives 2 hours away from me. i havent met his mum or dad yet and when he is talkin or textin me his mum tells him get off ya phone texting that user.we get on really well but his mum just ruins it. what can i do to make her like me?

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A male reader, Boombadaboom Belgium +, writes (1 August 2010):

Boombadaboom agony auntIt seems that her mum just doesn't understand

Simply ignore what she says about you 'because' she doesn't know you.

She's not very smart if she doesn't like you this way so just rise above it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2010):

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ye i know him and some of his mates are my mates . the reason i havent seen his mum is because she is either at work or shopping when i am there with him. i have met his dad and hs dad is fine with me and him its just his mum that causes the problems.

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A female reader, FluffyPie United States +, writes (28 July 2010):

FluffyPie agony auntDo you even know this guy? I mean, maybe his parents don't even know about your relationship. Also, you could try to find somebody nearer to you, so you can have physical contact, not just "stealing" him through the phone.

I bet his mom is over protective and doesn't know that her son have a relationship, or maybe he's having a shady background and she's afraid of letting him talk to just anyone.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (28 July 2010):

Nothing. Just put on your best smile and rise above it. She sees that you're 'stealing' her little boy and hasn't come to terms with him being grown up yet. Put on a smile and rise above it.

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