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... Send *arris a private message | | | *arris's profile:I'm 20 year old female, living in the UK, who probably isn't the most experienced sexually or in the world, but have a WIDE range of friends, which has given me the supporting role to all these people.
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He boasted about having anal sex and I was hurt. Am I too innocent for him?
Q. well were do i start....i really love my bf, ive been with him for over 2 years. but he recently told me about him past. Were both 16 and he said he had anal, about a year ago. i felt really hurt. but he said he was sorry and he feels dirty when ...
A. 6 January 2007: Personally, I think the guy is lying, anal at fifteen is a little young. I think he was just trying to make himself seem more like a lad's lad to you; to make you think more of him. It's backfired now which is why he's apologising.
To be honest, ... (read in full...)
Is there any such thing as being too young for an long distance relationship?
Q. Is there any such thing as being too young for an LDR? I'm 18 years old, fresh college student, and I've recently become involved in a very very long distance relationship. I've waited a long time to be with this guy and now that I have something I ...
A. 6 January 2007: It amazes me how many people look down on LDRs. All I will say is just to go for it and give it all you've got. If the emotions are there, why let distance get in the way?
One thing I will say though, is that you should plan carefully your mod... (read in full...)
Is she going to end it with me or should I just ask her whats wrong?
Q. I have been going out with my girlfriend now for a litle over a month, we met at work but since then I no longer work there. I love being with her so much and I have very strong feelings for her. I have met her parents and a few of her friends (and ...
A. 6 January 2007: You should definitely talk to her.
There are realistically two obvious scenarios to this. The first is that you're smothering her and she just wants a little bit of space. The second one is that she's just not as interested in you as you are in h... (read in full...)
I don't want her back, but is there is a way of putting it so she will still sleep with me?
Q. Ok Got a Problem. my Ex girfiend txt's me yeserday and ask's me if i'm really over and she think's i don't love her anymore. i told her i still care and love her. but i'm well over her. she tell's me she's horny like mad now. so i offer n...
A. 6 January 2007: I think she's saying that she doesn't want to have a kid yet. Also, I don't think that she should have sex with anyone she's not in love with, but that's just my personal ideals...
Sex is tricky business when it comes to ex-partners or friends.... (read in full...)
Does he really mean that he is sorry?
Q. last night me and my bf had our first argument (not bad after 2 months of dating) he meant to meet me after work and after standing outside for 20 mins i rang him and he said he was at work and he forgot to tell me. this upset me so we had a little ...
A. 5 January 2007: You ask whether he's just saying sorry because he upset you or because he means it... IT'S BOTH! Why would he say sorry for upsetting you if he didn't care about you? And because he cares about you, he's sorry for hurting you!
Tbh, I think th... (read in full...)
Does he want to break up with me?
Q. I want to know if my boyfriend wants to break up with me? We went away for xmas - we had a huge fight - the first big one. We have been together for a year. The fight was that i received a text on my mobile phone from a male friend and told my ...
A. 5 January 2007: You really shouldn't have lied in the first place, but I guess the more interesting point was why you felt you had to lie in the first place?
Is it often that he gets upset when he finds out you've been in contact with other men? The message ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend dumps me for the second time. Why does he carry on doing this?
Q. dear agony aunt, my boyfriend dumped me again for the second time but told me 2 days later that he made a mistake and that he wants me back, he says he really loves me and doesnt know why he did it. he said that we would talk when he got back from ...
A. 5 January 2007: Did he even give you any reasons for breaking up with you in the first place?
It sounds to me like he doesn't even have enough respect for you to actually be honest with you.
Also, is it possible that he broke up with you just so he can do thi... (read in full...)
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