She smiles at me, she texts me, she asks me to walk her home...do you think she likes me?
Q. Dear Cupid, I'm just wondering: There is this girl who goes to my school (im 16 in yr 11 by the way) and whenever she sees me she says hi and smiles a real big smile. N she always texts me asking to me to walk home with her - she offered me a ride ...
A. 6 December 2005: I would say this girl is giving you all the signs that she likes you a lot.Be nice back to her if you enjoy the attention she is giving you.... (read in full...)
I'm 12 and I hardly get to see my gf anymore. What do I do?
Q. im 12 and i hardly ever get to see her anymore and when i do rarly see her i can hardly talk even though shes my gf what do i do...
A. 6 December 2005: Sweeti pie, you have your whole life ahead of you , you are very young to be worrying about girlfriends... there will be plenty of time for that when you are emotionally more mature to handle girls.Go be with your friends and have fun.Take Care.... (read in full...)
Can I get pregnant through irregular use of the pill?
Q. I have been sleeping with my boyfriend for 4 months now and i love every second of it, i have been on the pill and also been taking other mecicines. For the last week i came off the other medication and back on the pill... i been back on the pill ...
A. 6 December 2005: The answer is yes, of course there is a chance you can get pregnant taking the pill the way you have been.It only takes once, never mind more than once.. you would be wise to take extra precautions now, or just abstain from having sex until you are ... (read in full...)
I'm male and I'm 15...curious on how to masturbate?
Q. I'm a 15 year old male, and have never mastubrated before. I was curious on how....
A. 6 December 2005: Go to your local library and take out a book on Puberty and the male anatomy.... (read in full...)
I am crazy about her...but she has a male friend. Do I end this?
Q. Hello I divorced some seven years ago and have had a hard time coming to terms with this as I suffered a breakdown quite soon after, in fact it has taken up until recently to really get over my ex wife. In terms of new relationships I ...
A. 6 December 2005: This lovely lady needs to put her relationship she has with you and this other guy into perspective.He seems to be spending more time with her than you are.There comes a time when one has to place friends where they need to be, and that is certainly ... (read in full...)
I got drunk and did a sex video-my ex is blackmailing me with it! Help.
Q. I got really drunk at a friends house and ended up having a 4 some w/ 2 guys and a girl. We all took turns video taping it and now Im in trouble. My ex bf, who is also my son's dad, was in the video and it was his camera we were using. My problem ...
A. 6 December 2005: Ooohh, what a sticky situation... Yes, you did a very idiotic thing, and now you have to own up and come clean with your boyfriend if you hope to nip this thing in the bud, so to speak, with the blackmail thing.You have a son to think of first, y... (read in full...)
I did something to hurt her...we separated but I want her back
Q. I have been separated from my wife for 5 months. We two small children. I did something that has hurt her pretty bad. It's not infidelity, but a serious financial disaster as a result of a recently diagnosed mental illness and I stand to lose alot. ...
A. 6 December 2005: Your wife says she wants time and space, so that is what you give her. Time will tell, as the saying goes, once she has had her time and space, however long that may take, the two of you can look at your marriage and decide if it is reconcil... (read in full...)
I'm so shy that I'm afraid I'm coming across as "cold"!
Q. I’ve met a guy who I think is wonderful. In fact, I would go as far as to say he is ‘the one’ - trouble is, I am extremely shy. I find it really difficult initiating and continuing conversations with people generally, but in particular to people I ...
A. 6 December 2005: The key to this is to just be yourself and all those wonderful endearing qualities you posess, will naturally come to the fore, revealing the lovely person that you are. Just stay calm and relaxed, build a friendship with him first, perhaps it will ... (read in full...)
It's been a couple years and I still can't move on from her. Help
Q. Ok, my question deals with my ex-girlfriend. We started out as best friends then had a harsh breakup where she went to some jerk. I know the best thing was to just move on. Its been a couple years since we last went out and we became real good ...
A. 6 December 2005: Your ex-girlfriend is obviously over you at this point in her life, i mean, she left the original guy that she left you for, and is involved with another guy again, so had she still have been hung- up on you, she surely would have let you know by ... (read in full...)
When things are good with my bf, they're great... so why don't I feel secure about him?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 8 months. Before we got together he was engaged to this girl he'd been dating for 3 years. We got together 3 weeks after they had broken up (I didn't know they had only been broken up that long) For th...
A. 5 December 2005: No, you are not stupid for staying with him, you are just not thinking straight... consider all these facts that you already know... 1. He is a serial cheater... not good 2. You got together while he was on the rebound..never good 3. ... (read in full...)
He's an alcoholic and can be abusive...but I love him
Q. How much can I take? My relationship began over 3 years ago with a man that I fell in love in with. He is charming, intelligent and handsome. He is also an alcoholic. At first he hid this from me, and when we moved in together two years ago I began ...
A. 5 December 2005: Isnt the investment in YOURSELF much more important? Screw the investment you have made to this relationship, heavens above, you said it all... he is abusive... this is the best reason you could ever have, to kick him to the curb, booze bottles ... (read in full...)
He lied to me about having a fiancee-do you think he lied because he's confused and wants me?
Q. hey! i'm hoping someone can shed some light on a confusing situation! basically there's this lad that i really really like and i've liked him for ages and we've kissed on loads of occasions when we've seen each other out, the only trouble is that ...
A. 5 December 2005: If this is indeed true, and he really IS engaged,I would verify that first, he has no business sitting snogging with you at all. The mere fact that you actually brought up the subject and questioned him on this, and him lying to you about it, shows ... (read in full...)
Everyone else has dates for the school dance..it's getting me down
Q. This may sound a bit stupid but to a young girl at school, trust me it ain't, well hear i go, am having trouble at school, its the school dance soon and i think i'm the only one without a date, all my friends have a guy or a girl to go with and the ...
A. 5 December 2005: I know this must really be terrible for you, but have you considered asking a cousin or another relative of a similar age to accompany you to the dance? This is not an uncommon thing to do, others have gone this route before, so why not give it a ... (read in full...)
My feelings for him aren't as strong any more. I don't want to be selfish, but I want to explore the world before I settle down!
Q. I have been with my boyfirend for 2 years. After about a year we got so close and we even talked about marriage. I thought that this is what I wanted. About a year ago he moved away and I supported it because I knew it would be a great ...
A. 4 December 2005: Well, sunshine, you said it yourself... you are not ready for this... now I am a great believer in following your gut instinct... it never fails. You go and do what you have to do, take that awesome opportunity, and have a totally awesome time, ... (read in full...)
We have a daughter...but will we ever be together?
Q. I was good friends with this guy for 5 years. We did not talk for a while becasue he went to prison I went and picked him up from prison in december of 2004 he came and lived with me at my house He had nothing I helped him get everything he needed ...
A. 4 December 2005: Listen cutiepie, this guy is bad news, girl, dont you see how terribly unstable he is? now what kind of example will he be to your daughter, as a daddy? She will grow up one day, and realise what a loser this guy is. You wont be able to hide this ... (read in full...)
Do I stay with him or do I date others?
Q. im sooo confused.. i love my boyfriend, dearly.. but hes 22 and im not even 21.. and hes like one of my only friends..He is sooo serious about us, and i dont even know how i feel about him. and i dotn want to lose him... but i still have an erge to ...
A. 4 December 2005: You are still young, and you have this inner voice, your gut feel, that says you need to date other people and not tie yourself down yet. You should always go with your gut, It never lets you down.This is your survival mechanism kicking in, your ... (read in full...)
I'm confused..does he or doesn't he like me?
Q. Hey everyone, sorry if this seems all whiney and pathetic and I know that loads of people have much bigger problems, but here goes. So theres this boy who i used to think was really good looking but he was going out with this really pretty gi...
A. 4 December 2005: Well, he has'nt given you any signs that he is interested in you as a girlfriend, so I would check on the source from where it came... see how credible this friend of his is, that carried the message to you, and take it from there. Could be, his ... (read in full...)
How can I fix my relationship?
Q. i am 16 years of age and im trying the best i can to fix my relationship. my partner is 28 years older then me and i love him too bits my friends and family have funally approved of him and we have been going out for 5 months. but we just cant seem ...
A. 4 December 2005: Sweet Honey Child, what are you thinking???? At 16yrs old, you should not even be having a SEX LIFE let alone with a man 28yrs older than you, also, you say you have had lots of relationships before where you got hurt.. What is going on with you... (read in full...)
He's got no time for me any more! Should I just put up with it?
Q. I need help. I've been dating this guy for almost 4 years and he is 11 years older than I am. Now before this year everything was good between us; we did things together and we always showed we loved each other. Now he has no time for me at al...
A. 4 December 2005: Yor boyfriend is living a double life. Classic behaviour of someone who is having an affair, sorry to say. His words are telling you one thing, but his actions are telling you another. Trust your gut feeling on this one, you live with him, but live... (read in full...)
My best friend moved in on the guy I used to like!
Q. Hey I'm 15 and am feeling as low as possible. Me and my best friend have been so close for like 7 years. She's like a sister to me. We were really excited about a house party she was organising. I got all dressed up and started to have a really go...
A. 4 December 2005: Well, you told her that you didnt really like this guy anymore, so what is the problem? Your friend hasnt stolen your boyfriend away, so you have no cause to be so upset. Dont let this cause the two of you to be bad friends now, no guy is worth th... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is so completely changed... I don't even know who she is any more!
Q. This is a long and winded question. My girlfriend and I of four years recently split up terribly. Over the past four years her and I were best friends, companions and talked about everything to eac hother. For four years I truly felt like I knew ...
A. 4 December 2005: It honestly sounds as if your ex- girlfriend is under the influence of something more than alcohol, if you ask me. She is displaying the behaviour of someone on drugs, and she is just bad news for you, i'm sorry to say. Cut your losses now, while yo... (read in full...)
I feel guilty but will he ever change?
Q. Please help me cos i dont know what to do.Iv been seeing this man for nearly 3 yrs but i felt i needed to end it because of the lack of affection he gives to me.He wasnt very good in bed(he lacked foreplay) even though i told him what i wanted! And ...
A. 4 December 2005: It seems you have already decided that he cant give you what you need, despite giving him many chances and telling him what you need in the relationship, he has not delivered.He is not about to suddenly be able to express his feelings and give you ... (read in full...)
I met this great guy when I was drunk...did that turn him off?
Q. I am scared What should I do? There is this guy who is so fit. I haven't seen him for awhile and we haven't spoke for awhile. I am scared that someone has told him that I fancy him. When I first met him I was a bit drunk and we got talking to each ...
A. 4 December 2005: Well, whats the problem? You fancy him, so tell him... and see if he fancys you too. See? simple.... (read in full...)
Should I go out with her though she's seeing someone else?
Q. There's this girl at my school who I've liked for a while now. We're in different classes, so we don't get to see each other much even at school. But, I noticed whenever I led a TA session, she'd come to my session, and we would exchange looks in ...
A. 4 December 2005: No, you were not misinterpreting her signs, she did say she would still like to meet up with you, even after she said she is kinda seeing someone else. But be very careful of her, she is not a girl you can trust. She is willing to play you on the ... (read in full...)
I suffer from depression and I feel no one cares...
Q. Im 17 and suffer badly from depression so much to the stage that i have been hospitalized twice in the past 18 months from suicide attempts and i cut my thigh with a razor blade often.I have problems with a genetic illness which is destroying my ...
A. 4 December 2005: Firstly, I know for sure, you need to seek counselling from another reputable psychologist. Forget the incompetent one you have been seeing.Then you need to get to the bottom of why you are suicidal.
Is it the problems with your girlfriend caus... (read in full...)
Should my best friend and I really be together??
Q. i have had a male bestfreind for 15 years that i have had sexual realsions with for alot of that time even while in other realasionships which 1 of those i was engaged and had two children.does this mean my best freind is the one.i do love him very ...
A. 4 December 2005: This my dear, means that you are a very confused person.
You are also deceiptful behaving in this way, putting other peoples happinesss at stake, playing around like that on your partners with this guy.
You must come clean and make up your own... (read in full...)
Should my friend's ex and I be together?
Q. Hi. My friend split up with his girlfriend. The other dy, i went with my other friend to see his girlfriend, and my other friends ex was there. We got talking, and we got on really well. It ended in nus kissing, and now i feel bad because i think ...
A. 4 December 2005: Hey, she is single now, the two of you seem to hit it off, so, if you can offer each other happiness, your buddy should just learn to accept it and get over it, and be happy for you. If he cant handle the situation, then maybe the two of you should ... (read in full...)
I want to be with my sister
Q. When I was 14, being on holiday in spain, my 15 year old sister got drunk. And while she was asleep, being curious I performed oral sex on her. She doesnt know what happened but I want to tell her so that we can be together. What shall I do?...
A. 4 December 2005: You have violated the trust that is between siblings...
You have a serious mental problem and need to seek help.
You had better hope she never finds out about what you did.
You little pervert.... (read in full...)
Her ex is causing so many problems...what can I do?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for 2 years now and she tells me she wants to have my baby, wants to marry me, loves me more than anyone. The problem is her ex came back two months ago to see his daughter, he was unemployed and made no ...
A. 4 December 2005: You need to kick this guy out on his ear... and then, just as a safety back- up, get a restraining order against him. That little girl will be better off without him in her life, he does not have her best interests at heart.... (read in full...)
My 16 year old bf is sleeping with my grandmother! What do I do?
Q. I am 16 and my boyfriend is 16 too. Recently I found out that he has been sleeping with my grandmother and has been having an affair with her for 3 months - and I didn't know until now! I feel sick, disgusted, jaded.... what do I do? Katrina...
A. 4 December 2005: Disown the both of them... move on and dont look back...... (read in full...)
How do I start dating again after so long?
Q. I was married for 5yers then got divorced because i sufferd from depression .Now ten years on i am still on medication for depression but i am very happy. the only thing is that i have only had one relationship with one girl and it faild. I work ...
A. 4 December 2005: Yiu have to "put yourself out there" and trust in yourself, have confidence in yourself and dont be blleeding your heart all over the place in front of women. You say you have had offers from women that you have not been attracted to. well, why dont ... (read in full...)
I am so worried...he says he is going to take pills and never wake up
Q. Hi I have a very serious problem, my bf has been away in the uk for 1yr and i'll be joing him early next year. I received a call from him that he can not take the pain of bein away from me, and that he wants to die, he said that he is goin to take ...
A. 4 December 2005: Sweetness, your boyfriend is a DRAMA QUEEN. Seems like he is just looking for attention... But I do sense a note of apprehension on his part.. sounds like he's looking for excuses,telling you that you are young and straight... what is with that?? h... (read in full...)
Should I be upset about him using drugs?
Q. I just found out that my bf is a pot smoker. I'm not just talking about doing it at parties, but that he has a hidden stash in his bedroom! I'm upset because my bf knows I am VERY against any drug use. He has always told me he can't stand drugs. ...
A. 4 December 2005: Yes my sweet, you have every right to be upset. He HAS been lying to you all there years, because he knows your high moral standards would not stand for it. He should go for rehabilitative help if he wants to save the relationship you have, other ... (read in full...)
Should a 40 year old man want to date a 19 year old woman and then get her pregnant?
Q. Is it normal for a forty year old man to want a relationship with a nineteen year old girl and then get her pregnant?...
A. 3 December 2005: NO... NO... NO... IT IS NOT NORMAL....... (read in full...)
Do I tell her what her boyfriend says about her?
Q. I was recently at a works night out with the girls from work and their is this girl who i realey like she is so nice very careing and wuldnt hurt a fly and she sees good in everyone but when i was standing at the bar her boyfriend was slaging her ...
A. 3 December 2005: Yes, she has a right to know what her boyfriend is saying about her behind her back, YES... she probably doesnt realise what a nasty person she is involved with, and will thank you later.... (read in full...)
He is a terrific bf-I don't want ruin this by becoming lazy and not contributing more.
Q. I don't want to be selfish when it comes to my relationship with my bf, but he just ends up doing so many nice things with me and planning little days out and all these ideas...I don't want to get lazy and expect him to do everything...how can I ...
A. 3 December 2005: You are truly blessed to have such an attentive guy in your life.Show that yo appreciate the things he does for you by also doing little things for him, however small.Personalise the things you do for him, by paying a bit of attention to detail... ... (read in full...)
Why would my guy stop contacting me?
Q. I have been seeing this guy for about 2 months. We talk everyday, on the phone or through the internet. I am at college so I can't physically be with him. Anyway, the past couple days he hasn't called or instant messaged me. It's driving me nuts, ...
A. 3 December 2005: This guy is not worth sitting around waiting for, he has now run out of excuses, hence the silence. Even if he did go on holiday, he could still have sent you messages, dont you think? Dont waste another moment of your precious life and move on to ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend of 4 years doesn't show he cares. Now I'm getting interested in someone else!
Q. I have had a boyfriend for the last 4 years. I love him and he says he loves me. But he never shows me any commitment. He works on the oilrigs so we do not see each other that much. He never rings me when he is away and when he is home he goes str...
A. 3 December 2005: No way, my girl... you have to dump this guy right now, before you ruin your chances with Mr. Wonderful at work, who must care for you a lot.Dont even waste time on the holiday thing with this creep, your time is precious, use it wisely.... (read in full...)
My future girlfriend knows all about my upcoming divorce and I don't understand why she's avoiding me!
Q. This is a really tricky one and I would appreciate it if you would read the whole thing first. I am 28 and have been with the same woman for about 10 years. We have been married for 3 years and are now expecting our first child. The last 6 years...
A. 3 December 2005: Hey There, Firstly, adhere to her wishes of needing space and respect that she has things in her head to sort out, in peace.Let her know that you are willing to do this, and then stick to your promise. Let her know that when and if she is ready, y... (read in full...)
My husband has threatened...either the pet dog goes or he moves out!
Q. I am a newlywed, married in August. When my husband and I were dating, I had a dog. My husband had never owned pets in his life, but seemed okay with it. Some months before the wedding, my dog was killed. I was grief stricken, but I always knew ...
A. 3 December 2005: Hi there, Oh please, whatever you do... dont give into your husband just because he hasnt bonded with your puppy, he agreed to have her and it isnt fair for him to want you to bend all your beliefs and needs just to suit him.He also needs to meet ... (read in full...)
My bf has kept his sex videos and nudie pics of previous gf's-should I be concerned?
Q. My new boyfriend who is 29 (I am a 30 yr old female), is friend's with almost every ex-girlfriend he has. Some he hangs out with and others he just talks to. We have been dating for 7 months now and we are exclusive. He also has old personal porn ...
A. 2 December 2005: Girl, this guy is playing you for a fool ... how can the 2 of you possibly build anything together on this kind of foundation? I would say this is more than a "red flag" situation...more like a huge banner waving in the wind.. he has not got rid of ... (read in full...)
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