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writes: Hi I have a very serious problem, my bf has been away in the uk for 1yr and i'll be joing him early next year. I received a call from him that he can not take the pain of bein away from me, and that he wants to die, he said that he is goin to take pills and never wake up. I kept telling him that "we're almost together" its next month, he said that he can't take the pain, and that he wrote a letter to his mom, and me, and that he will have a very long sleep and will be at peace, I could not talk because i was in a state, and my cell battery went off, i'm so scared, i tried calling one of his friends that are there and they didnt ans, I'm 2hrs ahead of them so it was early. I started to cry, and he kept on repeating how much he loved me, and that i must be strong. Then he said that i am straight, but im not, i love him and ive made that clear to him, keeps on saying that im young, im 23, he's 25.Then he left a voice message, sayinthat he wont do anything or take anything, and to call him later that morning coz he should be up, and if not i must tell the person that answeres the phone to wake him up and say its an emergency for him to get up, I can't call him on his cell he lost it, only the land line, im terrified was he being serious, i love him so much. please help any advice this is very urgent. Reply to this Question
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reader, fairyangel  +, writes (4 December 2005):
 Sweetness, your boyfriend is a DRAMA QUEEN.Seems like he is just looking for attention...But I do sense a note of apprehension on his part.. sounds like he's looking for excuses,telling you that you are young and straight... what is with that?? he is playing on your feelings in the process.He seems to be a bit unstable.I think this is heading for disaster... he is not healthy for you, sorry to say, but that is how I see it. You need to get to the bottom of this, make sure he hasn't met someone else over there... maybe he has and just doesnt have the balls to tell you? He is actually mentally abusing you, dont stand for it. Take care of yourself and good luck.
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reader, Taija +, writes (4 December 2005):
 i think that you should talk to him and ask him is he serious that this is a very serious thing that he is saying he will do maybe it is for attention or maybe its true but the thing you have to let him drum into his brain is how you would feel if you lost him and how if he did something like that then he will never see you or hold you again and neither of you could deal with such a thing tell him that you are devoted to him and that he needs to try to keep busy jsut for 1 month hang on till then tell him that you love him so much and want to be with him for always good luck mate hope it all goes well kiss xo :-D
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