Does my ex want me back?
Q. Dear Cupid, I broke up with my girlfriend just over 3 weeks ago. Basically we haven't been on speaking terms till last Friday night. We spoke on the phone and we really did click. It felt like the old days again. However I invited her to a party ...
A. 5 February 2006: Hi again,
Well, in answer to your next question...
She is obviously wanting an open relationship & is not willing to commit to you exclusively, so you are unfortunately wanting different things...
As you are not happy to have this arran... (read in full...)
I want to know if my guy has really broken up with his girlfriend. They're together a lot!
Q. How can I know for sure that this guy I really like dumped his girlfriend? He has a really bad history of lying, and I've asked him millions of times and he tells me they are not dating anymore, But he still hangs out with her and sleeps there ...
A. 5 February 2006: Well, if he has a reputation for lying & you can't ever believe a word he says, ask yourself if he is the kind of guy you want to get mixed up with...
That is what concerns me.
The other point of concern, is that he is still hanging around with ... (read in full...)
What if I go out with this guy and all he wants is sex?
Q. Hi, I am 20 and I have never had a boyfriend as such and I am a virgin. I really like this guy in college and I know for a fact he likes me! But I am scared to get with him in case all he wants is sex and I don't know what to do!? How can ...
A. 5 February 2006: Well if all he wants from you is sex, then dump him, because then he is not worth the effort!
On the other hand, maybe he wants you for you...
You will only find out in time, so go & find out..
It's no use sitting around avoiding relatio... (read in full...)
Am I misreading signs that my ex-girlfriend wants to get back together?
Q. hey, Me and my girlfriend broke up probably about a month ago. We go to the same church, so we see each other a lot! And so we go to a youth group together. We went sliding with the kids, and then we filled a sled up as much as we could, and she ...
A. 5 February 2006: Why don't you just ask her?... (read in full...)
Is this a good present for my boyfriend..?
Q. Hey guys, this is Sweetie Pie and as you all know I am 12 and in the sixth grade, and I was wondering if u guys could give me ur opinion on something. You see my boyfriend's birthday was the Sunday that just past and I got...
A. 5 February 2006: Hey Sweetie Pie,
Your present sounds just lovely, and the card is adorable & sounds very appropriate for the occasion.
I am sure he will love it!
... (read in full...)
He was on a break from his GF when we met. Now I'm in love with him too, and they're back together...
Q. Well I've fallen for a guy who already has a gf, but they were on a break when we started to hang out. Almost every day we have spent together and we kissed after a long while. He tells me he loves me and it's just that his gf's family and his fami...
A. 5 February 2006: I think this guy just doesn't have the balls to stand up to his parents on this one...
He must stop letting other people tell him what to do when it comes to his love life.
After all, it is him that is in the relationship, not them.
Thi... (read in full...)
She's my best friend but she can be so unreasonable and unreliable
Q. My best friend is really unreliable. She's told me loads of lies, made up a boyfriend, and said she'd snogged him, but she's never snogged anyone. When we had a new girl, my best friend totally ditched me for her. Then the new girl left and my best ...
A. 5 February 2006: Sweetie, this girl is not your friend...
She lies to you & ditches you when it suits her!
Then when she's alone again comes running back to be your
"friend" again when that suits her too!
True friends don't do these things.
She is using yo... (read in full...)
I'm interested in my 38-year-old teacher. Is there a chance we can be more than friends?
Q. Hi erm I don't know how I can start cos it's really complicated. So the thing is that I fancy a teacher and he is about 38 and I am 15. Sometimes I think that he fancies me too but I prefer to take it as my imagination. I know he isn't handsome or ...
A. 5 February 2006: There was another post with this question the other day...
I posted my answer to that one & I will repeat my answer to you...
This is against the law & your teacher will lose his job if you had to get involved with him!
So don't even go there!
... (read in full...)
Does my ex want me back?
Q. Dear Cupid, I broke up with my girlfriend just over 3 weeks ago. Basically we haven't been on speaking terms till last Friday night. We spoke on the phone and we really did click. It felt like the old days again. However I invited her to a party ...
A. 5 February 2006: well, you both still have feelings for each other... this you have established..
She got asked out by another guy & she turned him down..
She chose to tell you about this, when she didn't really have to.
I think it would be safe to say tha... (read in full...)
My little girl's father picks his ex over me, every time! Is it time to end things?
Q. I'm 22 and I have a baby. I've been the the father for about a year and a half, but only knew him for a couple months before I got pregnant. He's still obsessed with his ex (who sends him naked pics of herself). She does everything she can to ruin ...
A. 5 February 2006: The longer you accept this treatment from him, the more you will get trampled on!
Think about it... You will not be giving up your happiness for the sake of a better future for your child...
What happiness are you now enjoying?
This ... (read in full...)
Are our problems rooted in her depression? In menopause? How can we solve this?
Q. Hi I'm 35 and my girlfriend is 47 and apparently going through the menopause. I am at my wits' end because although our relationship has been unconventional and difficult to nail down from day one, it's now unbearable for me. Shes been married ...
A. 5 February 2006: I really do think all the problems you are experiencing with your girlfriend is menopause related.
This is a time of great turmoil for a lot of women, as the hormonal balance is out of sync, which can play absolute havoc with the emotions... (read in full...)
Four weeks into our dating and I've already dreamt that she's cheating on me!
Q. Hey, I'm 19 and I've been going out with this girl of the same age for exactly 4 weeks now. I'm still enthusiastic as I ever was about our relationship, but my girlfriend seems to be less enthusiatic about us. Before we started going out, we we...
A. 5 February 2006: It is a great pleasure to have been of some assistance to you, it is always very rewarding to receive feedback,
I wish you both well & Good Luck for tonight, great idea!
Looking foward to hearing how things pan out....
Take Care Always!... (read in full...)
My fiance has a drinking problem, and he keeps changing his mind about getting married!
Q. I live with a man who has a drink problem and we are set to get married. I love him dearly but every few weeks he tell me that he does not want to get married and that he is moving out. This is normally after he has had a few drinks. I really d...
A. 5 February 2006: Oh Janet, my dear... You are on the threshold of marriage and you are already finding it difficult to live with him,
you dont trust him, he has a drinking problem & you are miserable!
You have said it all... Does this look like the right circum... (read in full...)
If we fight, we have to split up, but then my GF says she wants to be together forever. I'm confused!
Q. Short and simple. Me and my girlfriend have been fighting a lot lately. We talked it over. She says she loves me but if we get into another big fight like this, then we are going to have to split up until we are ready to get back together. Then she ...
A. 5 February 2006: Your girlfriend is sending you a lot of mixed messages... it is no wonder you are so confused!
The two of you need to take a break, step back & re- evaluate your relationship.It seems there is a personality clash between you, hence all the figh... (read in full...)
My family and friends are totally against our love! I don't want to have to choose...
Q. In October, I started cheating on my husband with this Mexican guy, Charlie. My husband and I had been having a lot of problems, and at first Charlie was just a little fling to keep my mind off things. But I ended up falling crazily in love with ...
A. 5 February 2006: Well, things are really looking a bit shoddy for Charlie, I must admit... what with the police after him for being illegally in the country,your future does not look secure at all...
Your family & friends are just concerned for your wellbein... (read in full...)
I think my husband is seeing her behind my back, even though he says he's not!
Q. Hi, I have been married for 12 long years and been with this man that I love with all of my heart for a total of 15 years all together. He began talking to a 22 year old girl that happens to be married and has a kid, that lives right across from ...
A. 5 February 2006: If you are sure that your source of information is reliable, then I say...
Tell her husband... I am sure he would be interested to know what his wife is getting up to!In fact, he has a right to know!Let him deal with her, then you deal with your... (read in full...)
Four weeks into our dating and I've already dreamt that she's cheating on me!
Q. Hey, I'm 19 and I've been going out with this girl of the same age for exactly 4 weeks now. I'm still enthusiastic as I ever was about our relationship, but my girlfriend seems to be less enthusiatic about us. Before we started going out, we we...
A. 4 February 2006: I am sorry, but 4 weeks & you are obsessing about her being unfaithful?
Yes, you do have some serious insecurity issues with regards to this ...
You say you are not even sure whether she is a virgin or not...
So you have not even had a discu... (read in full...)
Crushing on two different guys. What if neither one's interested? What do I do?
Q. Torn between two guys but don't know if I stand a chance with either... I recently met this guy at university and we get on well, he's a great looking guy and I have a crush on him. I decided I wanted to ask him out, but now I realise that I also f...
A. 4 February 2006: I think you are being too indicisive about the whole thing...
You are unsure about everything concerning these two guys, the only thing you do know for sure, is that you are all friends...
Why not keep it that way, rather than run the risk of ... (read in full...)
What can I do to keep my mistress's interest in sex alive?
Q. I am in my 40s and have been married for 26 years. During this time i have had a number of affairs but now i have found a woman i have been in a relationship with for over 3 years. My wife has poor health and I have work related ties. I have ...
A. 4 February 2006: Your mistress has no life with you... you are not offering her anything for her future and I think , quite honestly, she has grown tired of being your sex slave, being available for you when it suits you.
She has in all likelyhood, caught a wake- ... (read in full...)
He's a bastard and a druggie... and I can't forget him!
Q. It's such a cliche, but I simply cant get over this guy. We've never even gone out, but over the last 2 years there have been lots of occassions where we've ended up together. Every time something happens he tells everyone that he really likes me ...
A. 4 February 2006: If you don't want to spend the rest of your days with a bastard druggie, Try getting his family involved and somehow get him into a rehabillitation centre.
If he is not willing to do this, you are going to have to cut him loose right now...
He ... (read in full...)
My ex has been in touch, but ignores me whenever I suggest we meet up!
Q. I had a short but intense relationship with a guy I felt was the one for me, we had a great connection together and some very happy times, he also expressed his fear of losing me many times. Yet he ended it abruptly without any reason and ignor...
A. 4 February 2006: This guy is just plain unreliable and doesn't know what he wants...
Do you really want to have someone like that in your life?... (read in full...)
How do I rid myself of my nervous laugh?
Q. I'm fifteen and I used to be really shy. When people talked to me I had this nervous laugh and I couldn't talk much. I am finally getting better at talking to people but I still have the laugh. I don't know if it's just a habit or what, but how ...
A. 4 February 2006: My guess is that you are quite a highly strung person.
A nervous giggle can be quite a problem...
I have known people in their 40's that have this problem, and it can be really distracting sometimes.
I can suggest trying some deep breathing e... (read in full...)
Grounded, and I can't see my boyfriend. I'm going crazy!
Q. I always see my bf every weekend because he goes to college but my mom grounded me this weekend and is preventing me from seeing him this weekend. We have been togather for a year and never missed a week without seeing him. What can I do without ...
A. 4 February 2006: Well, I am presuming yu have done something rather serious to deserve being grounded in the first place, so...
With this in mind, all you really can do, is take your punishment in a mature manner and realise that in future, you need to adhere t... (read in full...)
There's a spark between me and my pastor. But I'm married!
Q. I am a 30 year old married woman, and in the past few months, I've been having growing feelings towards the pastor of my church, who is a 40 year old married man. The thing is, I don't think that I'm the only one that feels this way. I've noticed ...
A. 3 February 2006: So what kind of church do you belong to, anyway?...
The Church of Fornication? Probaly not.
He is your pastor... he is married and so are you...
Next question?....... (read in full...)
Stuck in the middle with a girlfriend I care about, her sugar daddy and trying to use men for green cards!
Q. PLEASE READ AND HELP ME: I met this mid 20s girl thru a friend about 5 1/2 months ago and we started dating a few weeks into it. I had sex with her fairly quickly, 2nd or 3rd date. She is what people considering quite cute, fairly short (5'...
A. 3 February 2006: I want to state something very clearly....
This girl is BAD NEWS for you & all that she will ever offer you, is pain & humilliation!
She only cares about money and what she can get out of people .... she only cares about herself!
You need to... (read in full...)
Love my boyfriend, but still hanging onto a love for my ex... even after he abandoned me, 2 years ago!
Q. I am still in love with my first true love and real/serious relationship! We were together for 5 years and during our battle of money, his drug abuse, and love he left me outside of work and never picked me up. When I got home, all of his things ...
A. 1 February 2006: Your ex did a terrible thing to you by just leaving you in the lurch like that! How do you know that he wont do something like that again? He probably would too, if he
had another chance...
This kind of behaviour is inexcusable... and his excu... (read in full...)
Don't feel emotionally stable enough to have one-night stands... Anything wrong?
Q. hi , i havent had a boyriend for two years it doesnt bother me because im enjoying going out with friends the only problem is i haven't had a sexual partner since then either i just cant have a one night stand my friends all do but i dont feel ...
A. 29 January 2006: I find the advice your friends are giving you, to be the dumbest advice I ever did hear!!
You are right to not listen to them, the only things you are missing out on, are things you do not want to be having in your life, trust me!... (read in full...)
Why do some people treat a divorced woman differently? I get bad vibes around other married woman. Any thoughts?
Q. hi, i'm going through a divorce and have met a man whom i got very strong body laguage signs that he was interested in me. i just moved into the same neighborhood as him, he's single with a kid he's raising. i guess i'm not sure if i feel like i s...
A. 29 January 2006: The married women around you clearly see you as a threat!
This means that they are insecure within themselves and their marriages!
This could unfortunately mean that life could get very lonely for you, as these women cut you off and avoid being fr... (read in full...)
We dated for a couple of months, but he asked someone ELSE to the prom!
Q. Dear Cupid, I like this boy and we were dating for a month or two. He had said that he had feelings for me. He then, instead of asking me, asked another girl to the prom. I felt like it didn't even matter to him that he hurt me. I was mad, but...
A. 29 January 2006: You must be willing to put him behind you and move on ...
If he could be such a scoundrel, you are better off without him!... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant with my divorced, older-man's baby. Now I've seen him in town with his ex-wife...
Q. I have been secretly seeing someone that is 10 years older than me. We have been together for almost 9 months now. He has been married and has a child. He told me that I was his only one. He said that him and his wife were divorced and I should feel ...
A. 29 January 2006: First things first...
Make sure of your assumptions...
Is the woman you saw him with really his ex-wife?
Do your homework girl, he might still be married and is lying to you?
And another point of concern, is ...
Why have you been " secretly... (read in full...)
I made a past mistake and kissed a another man..now my bf doesn't trust me. What can I do?
Q. Is there anything I can do about trust issues? My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. He has always been jealous, fights ensuing everytime I want to have "me" time with my friends. Usually I end up staying home, or driving...
A. 29 January 2006: If your boyfriend is going to insist on throwing this mistake of yours up in your face all the time, you both are in for a very miserable existence together!
If he is not going to be willing to put this behind him,
then you are better off w... (read in full...)
Should I try to flirt with my teacher to get him interested in me?
Q. Well I'm having a problem right now. I like my teacher. He's 23 yrs old and I'm only 15. The thing is that I wanna have something with him but I understand it's gonna be hard because he has a girlfriend and he's engaged. Every time I see him I just ...
A. 29 January 2006: What you should do, is... GET REAL LITTLE GIRL!!
This is a danger zone you are entering, not only for yourself, but for your teacher too!
He will lose his job if you two had to have "SOMETHING TOGETHER", not to mention that this is against the law!... (read in full...)
Should I tell himI've had a sexual encounter before?
Q. Should I tell my man that I'm not a virgin? I've been in a long distance relationship for a few months now and me and my b/f havent had sex but we talk about it alot and look forward to sharing the experience though we feel there is no rush. Anyw...
A. 29 January 2006: Sweetie, he does not need to know about your dirty laundry from your past...
If you feel in your heart, that your previous sexual encounter was not the real thing, then that is what it was....
... (read in full...)
It's too late to go out with my sister's best friend. Is there anything I can do?
Q. Hi. I really like my sister's best friend and she would have gone out with me had she know I liked her, and now she has a boy friend. What do I do? Thanks...
A. 29 January 2006: Well, this is a classic case of...
You snooze, you lose!
You will just have to see how things progress with her and the new boyfriend, it might not work out...
If it doesnt, you can be the first to run to the rescue.
Be Happy in the meantim... (read in full...)
Am I cheating? Can I stop this without anyone getting hurt?
Q. This is a twister... My girlfriend and I broke up sort of, and we never spoke for approx three weeks. In those three weeks a friend of my cousin's stayed at my house. This friend is my age. In this time we got to know each other etc and she was ...
A. 29 January 2006: There is no such thing as you " SORT OF" broke up...
You either did, or you didnt!
If you were just having time away from each other to clear your heads and you did not actually mention breaking up, then YES...
You did cheat.
You have now sinc... (read in full...)
My husband had an "email affair" (maybe more?) and not sure I'll ever get over it...
Q. This happened a few years ago but there are times it comes back to haunt me. My husband had an 'emotional' affair. This all started happening when our kids were 6 and 2. He always talked about "Kim" at work...she's so nice, blah, blah. I always ...
A. 27 January 2006: This is to "must b nuts"....
You have no business posting your drivel here, this woman was needing advice... and you started going on about your sad, sorry state... your self- inflicted problems of your own!!
You are in no state of mind to give... (read in full...)
My husband had an "email affair" (maybe more?) and not sure I'll ever get over it...
Q. This happened a few years ago but there are times it comes back to haunt me. My husband had an 'emotional' affair. This all started happening when our kids were 6 and 2. He always talked about "Kim" at work...she's so nice, blah, blah. I always ...
A. 27 January 2006: This is to "must b nuts"....
You have no business posting your drivel here, this woman was needing advice... and you started going on about your sad, sorry state... your self- inflicted problems of your own!!
You are in no state of mind to give... (read in full...)
I'm afraid that our last fight extinguished that spark forever!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been in a lot of fights but mostly 3 bad ones in about 4 months. We broke up for almost a week while he was deciding if we should stay together and a couple days after we got back together. He says he's pretty sure he won't...
A. 26 January 2006: This is just his way of looking for an excuse to get out of the relationship...
He has already made up his mind he wants out and is too much of a coward to say so.
I dont see him making an effort to salvage anything, so you would be better o... (read in full...)
She has someone new but I still like her...
Q. me and my girlfriend broke up a month ago now she has a new boyfriend and i still like her. how do i tell her when i'm not sure if she even likes me?...
A. 22 January 2006: Oh honeyyy,
You sound to be very young and unsure of yourself as well as what your ex girlfriend feels for you...
She sure didnt waste any time in getting a new boyfriend, did she?
Something tells me you should be more concerned with your studie... (read in full...)
She has someone new but I still like her...
Q. me and my girlfriend broke up a month ago now she has a new boyfriend and i still like her. how do i tell her when i'm not sure if she even likes me?...
A. 22 January 2006: Oh honeyyy,
You sound to be very young and unsure of yourself as well as what your ex girlfriend feels for you...
She sure didnt waste any time in getting a new boyfriend, did she?
Something tells me you should be more concerned with your studie... (read in full...)
I've given her everything but she doesn't make the effort...
Q. Hi, I really need some good advice because I'm really hurting at the moment. And I’m sorry if this question is a long one! I and my girlfriend did have a really good relationship, that was until I raised the question that we don’t spend ...
A. 22 January 2006: Hey, me again...
Just wanted to add...
Dont pussy- foot with the issue, just tell her YOU are now pissed off big time with her and her lack of interest in your relationship... be a little harsh with her, I get the feeling this girl needs a firmer h... (read in full...)
I've given her everything but she doesn't make the effort...
Q. Hi, I really need some good advice because I'm really hurting at the moment. And I’m sorry if this question is a long one! I and my girlfriend did have a really good relationship, that was until I raised the question that we don’t spend ...
A. 22 January 2006: Your girlfriend is a spoiled brat.
You seem to have invested more into this relationship than she has, she seems to be rather ungrateful of the way she is treated by you.
If I were you, I would make sure of how serious she is about you, have a ... (read in full...)
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