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writes: I don't want to be selfish when it comes to my relationship with my bf, but he just ends up doing so many nice things with me and planning little days out and all these ideas...I don't want to get lazy and expect him to do everything...how can I make it more equal between us and contribute more to our mutual happiness? Reply to this Question
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reader, Lovexpert  +, writes (9 September 2008):
It's time for you to find out what he wants. Discuss this with him. There people out there who enjoy giving for their partner's reaction. He may be doing just fine. Maybe it's the way he's used to showing love. You need to find out how he's feeling about the whole situation in order to know what's going to work best for both of you in the long run.
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reader, fairyangel  +, writes (3 December 2005):
 You are truly blessed to have such an attentive guy in your life.Show that yo appreciate the things he does for you by also doing little things for him, however small.Personalise the things you do for him, by paying a bit of attention to detail... it will show that you put thought and effort into the gesture.And that is what counts.Stay Blessed, take care.
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