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Still living with my ex and want to move on, but my new boyfriend hasnt suggested we live together
Q. Hello beautiful people, please help me to see the truth, here is my problem…… I am divorced for one year but still living with my husband. We have been unhappily married for 3 years. It’s a camaraderie relationship with no other feelings involve...
A. 6 September 2007: great to hear things are working out fine! Best of luck with the time before your wedding, and the wedding.
Take care, hun.... (read in full...)
The condom kept splitting, I'm not worried, I've got no symptoms. But what do you think?
Q. Ok well me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while and frequently have sex. The condom always seems to split and we're going to go to the Doctors soon so I can get put on the pill. Because the condoms have been breaking we got worried s...
A. 31 August 2007: TRy using a larger size condom, or maybe a thicker condom. Also, follow the forementioned advice.... (read in full...)
I've gone on the pill but now I'm worried my mum will find out? I'm a teen..
Q. I Have Just Went To The Doctors to Get The Pill.. But Now Im Scared My Mum Finds Out.. I Cant Tell Her Why I Have Them Because She Will Go Crazy, What Should I Say?...
A. 31 August 2007: I think the problem isn't going on the pills, but rather the reason for it. I think basically it comes down to "I'm having sex, and I've gone on the pill to prevent pregnancy. My mother would be mad if she finds out im on the pill, and even m... (read in full...)
My wife has been emotional since coming back from a school trip. She's a teacher. How can I deal with this?
Q. Hi i've been happily married to my wife for 7 yrs now, she works in a school(teacher) and has recently come back off this adventure holiday type thing that is arranged for 1 week in the summer holidays, there was her and about 6 more teachers ...
A. 31 August 2007: In a worst case scenario (do NOT quote me on this, man.) there is the POSSIBILITY. Do not put too much faith into this. She could be cheating, or DID cheat once on the trip, and could be regretting it deeply. Maybe things got out of hand and she ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is a Sikh and his family cant find out abous us. I cant bear to lose him!
Q. I have a BIG problem and its driving me and my boyfriend up the wall. The thing is he's a Sikh and he can't do certain things like have a girlfriend so his family don't exactly know about us... we plan to tell them in two years, But if they find...
A. 31 August 2007: I agree with everyone, but also. Even if they do seperate you, and he's FORCED to marry off. He can always leave her. no one can be FORCED to marry someone they do not love.... (read in full...)
I'm not keen on giving oral. But I want to please him. I feel a bit guilty?
Q. ok well me (20) and my new boyfriend (26) have started having sex and hes given me oral but i havent given him yet because it makes me feel sick doing it so ive only done it twice before. i want to please him but im worried as i will be rubbish as ...
A. 31 August 2007: Quite honestly, my girlfriend's NEVER done it, and i trust her to tell me the truth. She's not the best in the world, but it pleases me alot, because I love her. Not only that, but it's the fact that she's willing to do it for me that pleases me ... (read in full...)
I dont seem to have goals in life. I'm in a long distance relationship and she's starting to annoy me a bit. Whats happening???
Q. i need some help! first of all i wanted to know how to not feel so insecure about myself and hav a vision in my life to achieve a goal? i dnt hava vision i cnt seem myself going any where, even tho i study and wnt a degree i jus have no vision to i ...
A. 31 August 2007: I was in a long distance relationship with a girl for about 6 months, and bro, we did the exact same thing. Fought over the stupidest shit in the world. I swear, sometimes our fights were along the lines of, "WHAT!? YOUR SHOES ARE GREEN!!? FUCK ... (read in full...)
I don't want to have to choose because I need them both in my life, but I really can't take any more of this.
Q. My mum hates my boyfriend so much that she even used an old mobile to text him so it looked like he was cheating, I know because I knew the number was my brother's old number from his first phone. She's always talking bad about him and calls him all ...
A. 31 August 2007: Exactly as previously stated. In your mothers eyes, every guy is rotten, worthless, and will use, and leave you. You'll have to press on, and tell your mom to deal with, and support you. Tell her it's your life to live, and your mistakes to make... (read in full...)
I think my guy likes his ex still. I want to break up with him but I dont think he's taking me seriously??
Q. hi stright to the point am i his rebound??? well ive been with my man for a year and a few months and well, he went thru a bad break up with his gf of like 9 months and she treated him real bad, i knew her. me and him where friends but i kn...
A. 31 August 2007: The fact is most people don't just stop loving someone. Love never dies, it just is hidden deep in your heart. Make sure ending it is the best option. If he doesn't take you seriously about breaking up, than be harsh. Not at him, but take harsh ... (read in full...)
If he loves me how do I get him back, since he's too stubborn to take me back?
Q. Okay If he loves me then how do I get him back since he's too stubborn to take me back...?...
A. 31 August 2007: Been there, done that. My current girlfriend, it took me a while to realize what I was losing, when I let my pride and stubbornness get in the way of our relationship, not a day went by that i didn't regret leaving her for those reasons. If he ... (read in full...)
This girl who I fancy says that I'm her favourite boy in the class - also that I'm nicer than the others - does she fancy me or just like me?
Q. This girl who I fancy says that I'm her favourite boy in the class - also that I'm nicer than the others - does she fancy me or just like me?...
A. 31 August 2007: There's no way of being 100% sure. Best option is to tell her, ask her how she likes you. The way she tells you that shows that she IS interested in you, but maybe not the way that you want.... (read in full...)
I'm scared to death because my boyfriend is stalking me..
Q. okay heres the thing! I'm scared to death because my boyfriend is stalking me.. he loves me so much. He cries every time we part. Okay it may seem sweet but it gets annoying. He wants to marry me, and we have only been togetehr for 2 weeks.. he ...
A. 31 August 2007: Just break up with him. And the moment he starts pressuring you into a position where you're uncomfortable than tell an authoritive figure right away. This would mean a Cop, Teacher, school councilor, or parent. Do NOT let this slip by thinking it ... (read in full...)
I want to be with this guy and I don't want to lose a good friend... what do I do?
Q. Liz in trouble I am 21... and my very old friend told me that he likes me... he's a great friend and I sort of like him too but he's going out with this other friend of mine called T... All three of us are together since junior high... I am in a ...
A. 31 August 2007: If T was being docile about it, and supportive; I'd say just wait. Don't interfere with their relationship; however she right away took to the offensive, disregarding your friendship. Whether you pursue him or not, it's a friendship that's already ... (read in full...)
It feels very much as if I am being kept in limbo or maybe he is playing mindgames with me? How can a person go from being very attentive to nothing?
Q. Can anybody shed some light please...? I split with my boyfriend just over a week ago, I ended the relationship 'stupidly' due to my insecurities and trust issues, I love him and believe he loves me, he ignored all my attempts at making up with h...
A. 31 August 2007: I was in a similar situation with my girlfriend. I would some days want to spend every moment with her, and some days I wouldn't. don't get me wrong, I love her with all of my heart, but sometimes I just want to be around other people. Whi... (read in full...)
Does anyone know what's her problem?
Q. I am friends with my ex. Now this is the important ex. We have been just friends for a long time now. But I've been told by people in the past to just leave her and not see her again. The thing is I am in a way the best friend she has, she has a ...
A. 31 August 2007: Whoops ~_~ i mixed your question up with someone elses, I'm very sorry about the oral sex part x_X My apologies.... (read in full...)
Does anyone know what's her problem?
Q. I am friends with my ex. Now this is the important ex. We have been just friends for a long time now. But I've been told by people in the past to just leave her and not see her again. The thing is I am in a way the best friend she has, she has a ...
A. 31 August 2007: Well, it could be that she feels you might abandon her like others. Best thing to do is to calmly talk to her, tell her the way she treats you really bothers you, and that things need to change. As for oral sex, that's something you honestly exp... (read in full...)
I think I am too tight
Q. hi. im 16 and recently lost my virginity, the thing is, i did not bleed and stopped him before it hurt me too much.i don't think that i let him penetrat all the way in me and it also tore my skin at the bootem of my vagina. did he break me through? ...
A. 31 August 2007: A possibility is this: Female children are born with a thin film/skin covering inside of their vagina. This is to protect them (From what, im not sure) this film eventually erodes away with age, however now-a-days most people don't give it en... (read in full...)
Still living with my ex and want to move on, but my new boyfriend hasnt suggested we live together
Q. Hello beautiful people, please help me to see the truth, here is my problem…… I am divorced for one year but still living with my husband. We have been unhappily married for 3 years. It’s a camaraderie relationship with no other feelings involve...
A. 31 August 2007: I think the best idea is to first, be completely honest with him. Tell him you've lied, and you're currently still living with your ex; of course be sure to reassure him that it is COMPLETELY on a non-sexual/intimate basis, and you're living ... (read in full...)
Are ultra thin condoms more likely to break?
Q. how effective are ultra thin condoms with spermicide. Because they are ultra thin are they more likely to break??...
A. 31 August 2007: While they DO indeed still work 99% of the time. That 99% of the time can only be counted if they're in good condition. Look, if your girl is into rough sex, a ultra-thin condom is not the best option. Otherwise, go for it. But remember, condom... (read in full...)
I want to join the marines, but my girlfriend doesnt want me to
Q. Hi I'm having a big problem...I'm going to an auto motive school and after ig graduate I want to join the marines, but my girl friend dosent want me 2. She said that she will stay with me and supposrt me but I don't kno wat 2 do???...
A. 31 August 2007: there's no clear answer as to what you "should" do. However keep in mind when you join the marines you potentially: -Will be deployed -Will go to Iraq -Will leave your girlfriend, family, and friends behind for a while -Could possibly neve... (read in full...)
If he brings me a present I'll feel bad as I told him I'm a material girl, if he doesn't I'll feel worse...
Q. Difficult situation, I'm damn escort, material girl, think I fell in love with a guy that does not treat me like that... I like him in some ways, but hate myself or at least don't feel well if don't get any profit from him... What the hell i ...
A. 31 August 2007: Honestly, if you really love him; or believe you do. It's better to give it a chance. The problem with you, anyone can change, as soon as they want all they need is the desire to change. I've been in such situations; i know it's hard, dear lord was ... (read in full...)
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