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anonymous
writes:I Have Just Went To The Doctors to Get The Pill.. But Now Im Scared My Mum Finds Out.. I Cant Tell Her Why I Have Them Because She Will Go Crazy, What Should I Say?
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reader, maddierose  +, writes (1 September 2007):
 at least your being safe! mothers just need to get over the fact that people are having sex younger these days, if she finds out, look ive had sex and theres nothing to take that back because its been done wouldnt you rather i had sex protected and safe than unportected, i think she'll be abit more comforted that you are being safe...
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reader, maddierose +, writes (1 September 2007):
at least your being safe! mothers just need to get over the fact that people are having sex younger these days, if she finds out, look ive had sex and theres nothing to take that back because its been done wouldnt you rather i had sex protected and safe than unportected, i think she'll be abit more comforted that you are being safe...
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reader, Escalaya  +, writes (31 August 2007):
 I think the problem isn't going on the pills, but rather the reason for it. I think basically it comes down to"I'm having sex, and I've gone on the pill to prevent pregnancy. My mother would be mad if she finds out im on the pill, and even more so if she finds out im having sex, and that's WHY im on the pill"Best option is to tell your mom.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2007): Hey there :) now, i've never been very good at advice i just came across this and knew how you felt, hope i can help...I'm a teen myself, and i'm on the pill.I advise telling your mom cos i guess it'd be worse if she found out accidentally.If you are taking the pill to regulate your periods, and im guessing you are not considering the tone of your question, then there should be no worries there obviously. Now i'm taking it that you're on the pill because you are having sex, or are thinking about having sex in the near future.In which case, you have done the right thing. Going on the pill is the sensible and mature thing to do, and hopfully your mom will take this into account if you decide to tell her. If she is worried try and explain this to her.Also remember that the pill doesnt protect against any sexually transmitted diseases, so take precautions there. (sorry if i sound patronising ., just trying to help you out, we're all in this together after all hehe)Anyway, good luckJust try and explain calmly and maturely and i'm sure she'll understand as you're obviously thinking about the consequences of your actions which is good.x
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reader, hlskitten + ♥, writes (30 August 2007):
 Hi
She wont find out from your Gp. Here in the Uk there are rules about that. Do you mean you will feel you should tell her?
C xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2007): Well if she finds out just say 'I'm sorry I didn't tell you but I thought you would be mad at me'. Then tell her it's better you go on the pill then end up a young teenage mum - She should be proud of you for using contraception.
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reader, spanna +, writes (30 August 2007):
 If you are old enough to be having sex you should be old enough to be able to deal with these sorts of things. so given that you dont want her to find out you are too young and thats what she will think too
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