My wife just wants oral!
Q. My wife does not want intercourse or me to touch her, she only wants to do oral to me? she used to never want to do that at all? It has went on for months. I dont know what to think?...
A. 13 September 2010: I'd personally be very suspicious. In fact, I would say she may be having an affair and to keep both of you sweet, she's not allowing you to have her vagina, thereby attempting to alleviate some guilt, but keeping you satisfied with oral, which she ... (read in full...)
She gives no respect! Should I bail out of this?
Q. I'm growing weary and more upset. My girlfriend has been fighting with me (well actually it's been one-sided). She used to say she loved me and still tries her best from time to time to show that. But lately all she does is put me down. So after 10 ...
A. 5 September 2010: You're a giver - she's a taker. Unless you want to spend what little time there may be left of this relationship as her doormat, I strongly suggest you end it very soon.
You may well have hit the nail on the head by your thinking she may be just... (read in full...)
Do Asians have smaller penises?
Q. I am an asian thats why i am wondering: Do asian have the smaller penises than the european? What their average size? Cause i dunno mine one is good enough or not. And also i have watched some pornHow come asian leave 'it' as hairy as it is, but ...
A. 25 August 2010: No Gabrielle, Turkey is not part of the EU, although it wants to be. Actually, I didn't think Turks were Asian - Middle-eastern, yes - Turkey is not in Asia.... (read in full...)
Do Asians have smaller penises?
Q. I am an asian thats why i am wondering: Do asian have the smaller penises than the european? What their average size? Cause i dunno mine one is good enough or not. And also i have watched some pornHow come asian leave 'it' as hairy as it is, but ...
A. 25 August 2010: It is true fact that generally, Westerners have larger penises compared to Asians. Obviously, there are many exceptions to this but it generally holds true. Just as most Westerners are taller than Asians - again there are many exceptions. You worry ... (read in full...)
Dating a man who can't have sex?
Q. Do you think that there are very many women who would be willing to date a man that is not physically capable of having sex?...
A. 15 August 2010: Possibly not too many in your age group. If you're ok with a woman of retirement years (and why not?)then a guy like that could be exactly what they're looking for.
Good luck.... (read in full...)
Is it normal to masturbate so much?
Q. ok so i am 15 now and gonna be a sophmore in highschool and i masturbate quite often usualy 1-2 times a day if i can and during the school year not so much so that causes me to get really horny and a lot of the times (usualy once every other day) i ...
A. 10 August 2010: Quite normal, no worry!... (read in full...)
I am against pre-marital sex but I am super horny! How can I control my urges?
Q. im fourteen and a virgin and i dont belive in pre marital sex. i have a boyfriend who i have actually been with since were were 11 and now im a freshman. . the issue with my no pre martial sex thing is that im like super super horny and im worried ...
A. 10 August 2010: Well, it's growing-up time, honey. You made that decision. If you're serious, then it's up to you to be strong-minded enough to see it through. I assume masturbation isn't enough. Try mutual masturbation with your boyfriend - doing it for ... (read in full...)
I don't like the smell of my vagina!
Q. I don't like the smell of my vagina when my lover fingers me.He doesn't complain though: it doesn't seem to bother him at all,and he even goes down on me without hesitation.Anyhow,it has a strong smell of dry fish!Yes,i do clean up before we do ...
A. 9 August 2010: There's no reason for it to smell THAT strong so, my guess is, you're not being as clean as you think. Or maybe your imagination is deceiving you - maybe it's not as bad as you imagine.... (read in full...)
Girlfriend saw my better-endowed roommate naked, now I'm insecure. Should I be?
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been together for 10 months. I was until recently the only guy she had seen naked. Recently my roommate came out of the bathroom nude when we were walking into the room. I'm nervous she has been thinking about him/wanting ...
A. 9 August 2010: Yea, I'd be very worried if I were you. She's young, possibly not very experienced and, having seen your mate, will probably now, more than ever, be wishing to experiment and explore. Enjoy her while you can but be assured, her inquisitiveness will ... (read in full...)
Why do single mums seek boyfriends or husbands?
Q. Why do single mums/moms seek boyfriends/husbands when they know they can't ever devote enough attention to them? 95% of the people here that response to questions re:step kids say that the children always come first, then why do they even try to...
A. 8 August 2010: Because the vast majority of them aren't looking for a partner in the accepted sense - they're looking for a father for their kids and - in a lot of cases, a free mealticket. If that sounds cynical, it's because it's based on the personal ... (read in full...)
Are nipples always this way?
Q. Soo I have a odd question, is it the case, dark haired girls will have darker nipples (and a darker areola - bit around the nipple) and lighter hair, lighter nipples, I'm curious is that the way?... is it strange that this is the only thing that ...
A. 8 August 2010: It's usually the way for dark-complexioned girls, as opposed to dark-haired.... (read in full...)
Is it normal to flirt on the net while in a relationship?
Q. Hi My question is should I beleive him?? My partner of 18 months who has moved in with me 7 months ago tells me he is being set up. I found his profile up live on Red Hot Pie dating site today. He denies that he put it up. He was on there when I ...
A. 8 August 2010: No, in my world it is not normal nor acceptable behaviour at all. However, there are some unscrupulous sites that will reactivate a profile, just to keep the hits on their sites coming (more money for them.) The (in)famous 'Facebook' site being a ... (read in full...)
I want to masturbate but need help getting started!
Q. Please give me sm tips on female masturbation whch I can perform during bath or at the nite time only as ours is a joint family n always crowded with people, I am nt married...
A. 2 August 2010: I just don't believe some of these questions - how old did you say you were . . . ?... (read in full...)
How does it feels having sex for the first time in your life as a teenager?
Q. How does it feels having sex for the first time in your life as a teenager?...
A. 2 August 2010: My first time was at age 15 and was the greatest feeling in the world. You may, however, experience an inexplicable feeling of wishing you were her first too. Just my experience, you understand.... (read in full...)
He says he can't love before sex!
Q. My boyfriend has this thing, where he feels like he can not love me until we have had sex. He says, that it's not like he doesn't want to he just can't, and he thinks it's the only thing holding him back. I want to know if any one else feels this ...
A. 30 July 2010: Hahaha! That's the crappiest line I've EVER heard!!! THINK about it, honey . . .... (read in full...)
Is it possible for a woman to sexually assualt a man?
Q. i have a question and its something that happened to me a while ago that i have never told anyone as i just dont know who to approach about this.... I had been to a gig one night and by chance met an aquaiantance there...whom i get along...
A. 21 July 2010: You really are a very naive chap. This has been a lesson for you in getting to know (not understand) women. You take her home, meet your parents (admittedly, not in the best circumstances), you SHARE (not give up) your bed with her - then - reject ... (read in full...)
Is my vagina sore because it was rough or another reason?
Q. it had been a month at th longest since ive had sex, and i just recently had sex on saturday night just gone, it is now wednesday. i have a really sore vagina, like it hurts when i pee, th sex was rough though. is that normal? should i go see the ...
A. 21 July 2010: If you can completely trust your latest partner and had protected sex, then yes, what you have can be normal after a hammer-and-tongs session! Just have to wait it out. However, if you have any doubt about your partner - see your doc/ GUM clinic ... (read in full...)
What is Cybersex?
Q. everyone talks about cybersex...what does it do...whats the point...how do you do it...can anyone please help me i really need it please. thanks...
A. 19 July 2010: It's for people too scared to form a REAL relationship. Basically - it's for wankers.... (read in full...)
My older lover is very sick, should I marry him?
Q. I'm a successful, almost 22-year-old woman. The love of my life is 61. Please, no gasping. I met him when I was a child, in passing, when he was only 46, and I a mere seven or so. He quietly watched me grow and change through my childhood. He was ...
A. 15 July 2010: Marry him. It matters not what anyone else thinks. The people who actually matter in your lives understand anyway.... (read in full...)
Can I put sperm inside me and get pregnant that way after we have sex?
Q. if my husband cums on my stomch can i use my fingure to but the sperm inside me will i be able to get preagan if i do it that way?...
A. 15 July 2010: Yes, there is a good chance of becoming pregnant but -
why on earth would you WANT to do it that way? ... (read in full...)
He refuses to come inside of me!
Q. BF of 3 yrs cannot/will not come inside of me even though pregnancy is not possible. I have also suggested he use a condom if that would make him more comfortable with the idea. He doesn't seem interested in increasing our intimacy this way. We are ...
A. 13 July 2010: Perfectly said, chigirl!... (read in full...)
He refuses to come inside of me!
Q. BF of 3 yrs cannot/will not come inside of me even though pregnancy is not possible. I have also suggested he use a condom if that would make him more comfortable with the idea. He doesn't seem interested in increasing our intimacy this way. We are ...
A. 13 July 2010: Well then it's high time he stopped acting so selfishly. He knows what it means to you - you know what it means for him. You are conceeding. He is taking. Ask him whatever happened to compromise? There are TWO people who need satisfaction here. ... (read in full...)
He refuses to come inside of me!
Q. BF of 3 yrs cannot/will not come inside of me even though pregnancy is not possible. I have also suggested he use a condom if that would make him more comfortable with the idea. He doesn't seem interested in increasing our intimacy this way. We are ...
A. 13 July 2010: That's strange. No, I certainly won't tell you to let him come elsewhere - to ejaculate inside a woman's pussy as a climax to lovemaking is, I would have thought, every man's ultimate - certainly is mine. Maybe he can't finish of that way for some ... (read in full...)
Why the double standard?
Q. Why do guys become 'the man', and girls become 'the slut' after sex too soon? i slept with a guy that chased me like crazy and yeah I know...I shouldnt have. if he stopped contact because he thought I was easy, then how is this not a double ...
A. 12 July 2010: If you don't like the answer honey - don't ask the question.
Don't forget, at the end of the day it was you who said "Yes". Force was not used. Be angry with yourself for not having the maturity to see through that guy.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend keeps making excuses not to have sex with me
Q. I don't understand why but for a while now my boyfriend doesn't really want to have sex. When I met him we were like friends with benefits and he always wanted sex. But now he's always giving me excuses saying that he's too tired. I feel so bad cuz ...
A. 9 July 2010: Could be he's got a STD he'd rather not discuss...... (read in full...)
Does anyone know of any orgasm enhancing lubricants in the UK?
Q. hi there, its mine and my boyfriends 2 year soon, and ive decided i want to try an orgasm intensifying lube for myself. ive heard of durex play o, but am quiet sceptical because reviews have said its just a cold feeling that helps orgasm a little ...
A. 9 July 2010: Simple - find a MAN who satifies you. Two years on and he can't press the right buttons???... (read in full...)
I'm 19 and he's 38... Is he too old for me?
Q. I'm 19 and turn 20 in a weeks time. I am very mature for my age and always referred to as "an old head on young shoulders" and have also got on better with people older than myself. However, i have met (and fallen for) a man who is 38, turning 39 ...
A. 6 July 2010: It certainly can't hurt to continue as you are, you're obviously enjoying the relationship so roll with it. It does seem however, that you are concerned about the future. Well, old people aren't pretty, often grumpy, don't do much sex, don't do much ... (read in full...)
How can I get the thoughts of her breastfeeding out of my head??
Q. i have a maid servant living in my house with her family. she has recently given birth to a baby girl. now it so happens that she is a buxom. i used to have fantasies about her sometimes. anyways, a few days ago, i went to her room to tell her some...
A. 6 July 2010: Yea, I remember reading this several months/ one year ago. I guess you're the same guy - looking for a cheap thrill. there are sites catering for people like you.... (read in full...)
Stories of my wife's past have really hurt me, what can I do to get over this?
Q. i m 37 yrs old male, my wife hurt me by telling her old love story, i feel really pain and i can't forget that, what can i do to over come this?...
A. 2 July 2010: I don't know why she felt the need to disclose this - did you pressurise her into it? Otherwise it makes no sense for her to jeopardise your relationship, knowing how hurtful this disclosure would be to you. She is obviously a woman without feelings ... (read in full...)
I don't mind my husband watching porn but I feel so disappointed in what I have found on our PC
Q. My husband of 50 resently got this sick mind of watching the music DVD of "Cameltoe" over and over everytime im at work. On our pc at home i found on the history that he was watching it just after he woke up (he was working nigh shift)at 10H25 and ...
A. 28 June 2010: Pull yourself together woman, it is exactly your response which causes him to watch porn in private. It's what every guy and a lot of women do - watch porn. Get used to it, grow up, be mature and stop acting like a naive virgin teenager. It's only ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for men to think about sex with exes whilst masturbating?
Q. Is it normal for men to think about sex with ex girlfriends whilst wanking? I know this sounds like a silly question, and Godknows how we got into the conversation, but my boyfriend told me that when he wanks he thinks about ex girlfriends ...
A. 26 June 2010: Well I was amazed to read that he's 31! I was gonna say that he's acting in the most immature way imaginable - not to mention thoughtless and disrespectful. If he was in his teens, I could understand it more - but he's not. Your guy has a problem ... (read in full...)
Boyfriends/Girlfriends/Husbands/Wives of international tour guides?
Q. How do you deal with your partner being away from home so often? My gf has just launched her career as an international guide and already her schedule is so full that she is lucky to spend 1 day at home every week. Understandably I'm quite upset ...
A. 26 June 2010: Please don't think I'm implying that the following applies to your g/f but, having travelled around China on four separate occasions as a tourist, the following may be of interest: Each visit I employed the services of a professional personal ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend wants a BJ all the time, but I'm not enjoying it...
Q. ok..i love my boyfriend to death and i waould like to give him what he wants but...he wants to get a blow job all the time..i dont like the taste of cum and i dont want to use a condom...what can i do??...
A. 22 June 2010: Stop at the crucial moment and finish him off by hand. However, he should really consider your needs too and be prepared to have sex the way YOU want at least some of the time, otherwise, he's just being plain selfish.
Good luck.... (read in full...)
My wife lied to me about her sexual past until 12 years later...
Q. my wife lied too me about her sexual past before we got married, she told me only one partner, too find out 12 year later she slept with four other men when she was a teenager. but she did come out and tell me because it was bothering her for so ...
A. 13 June 2010: She's opened up a can of worms - what else has she lied about/ kept from you? You may never know but that's the thing - you'll never trust her again. Can you live the rest of your lives together like that?... (read in full...)
She wants to wait to have sex! How do I change her mind?
Q. So I have been going out with my girlfriend for 8 months now. I ask her if she wants to have sex and her reply is "I think I want to wait". How can I change her reply to a "Yes!"?...
A. 2 June 2010: You can only turn a woman on through experience. Someone telling you what to do/ not to do is going to get you nowhere. Find out what does it for her - be sensitive to the signals, you'll get there in the end.
Good luck.... (read in full...)
Should I cheat on my sugar daddy with my ex, to satisfy my sexual needs?
Q. I broke up wth my boyfriend of 2yrs,who was 3yrs my senior.an orphan,colege graduate and unemployd.i have a grade 11 younga brother that i need to provide for.so i met this guy. 20 yrs my senior!he is rich,very rich.he owns bussineses and drives the ...
A. 30 May 2010: It's women like you that get the rest a bad name - 'Gold digger', 'Parasite', 'Only with him for his money'.
So why did you settle for this guy in the first place, if not for the above? Think we all know the answer.
Do the decent thing and leave hi... (read in full...)
Face or personality? What attracts you, guys?
Q. For all of you males out there. Which one of these do you think is most important for a girl to have? beautiful face, nice body or good personality? which one is most important?...
A. 30 May 2010: Each one follows the other. Notice face first, then body gets checked out, then - the personality could be the dealbreaker!
Actually, she doesn't have to have beautiful physical features - just 'interesting' to each individual guy.... (read in full...)
Attraction killers for men?
Q. Someone asked a similar question about what men typically do that would kill the attraction a woman may have felt for him. So I felt curious to ask, What kind of things can a woman do that would make a man lose desire for her? I look forward ...
A. 18 May 2010: Lack of personal hygiene.... (read in full...)
Is it normal for me not to go ahead and sleep with other women when she says it's ok?
Q. I don't know what to make of this. I have only had sex with one woman. She and I are together and we plan on getting married. Although we haven't set a date we are serious. She has had sex with seven other guys before. She keeps telling me ...
A. 26 April 2010: Could be a test but if it is, then she obviously feels insecure in the relationship and doesn't completely trust you.
But with such a flippant disregard for things sexual, I'd be wary of continuing a relationship with a woman with such a casual atti... (read in full...)
How can I catch my wife out?
Q. i am in uk. my wife living in her mothers home in india along with her brother. i am suspecting she is doing sex with her own brother while i am doing phonesex with her. how can i caught her please help me....
A. 26 April 2010: Before we(Westerners) start to assume and give answers, I can attest that in certain parts of India, incest is certainly not unheard of. I wouldn't say common but prevalent nonetheless.
Tisha-I's answer is a good one.
Good luck.... (read in full...)
Do I have to wait for the right man or should I get out there and search for him?
Q. hi cupid im mely single 22 years old!!!ever since i dont have any serious relationship and i just have 1 boyfriend!!! I also dont have my first kiss, Do i have to wait for the man I love or should i find him and search for him!!! And the problem is ...
A. 7 April 2010: Hello Mehly, nihao ma? Be careful that you find the right guy because you seem very vulnerable at the moment. If you don't mind me saying, you're in love with the idea of being in love - tread carefully. Have you tried the dating sites? They are ... (read in full...)
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