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I want to masturbate but need help getting started!

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Question - (2 August 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 3 August 2010)
A female South Africa age 41-50, *una writes:

Please give me sm tips on female masturbation whch I can perform during bath or at the nite time only as ours is a joint family n always crowded with people, I am nt married

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A female reader, StrayTogether.com United States +, writes (3 August 2010):

StrayTogether.com agony auntContrary to popular believe, water doesn't make a good lubricant for ladies, so IN the bath may not be all that easy. Obviously you're thinking of this time because it offers privacy.

If the bath offers the best opportunity for you, try this: Get in the tub with it empty and turn the water on to a comfortable temperature. Be careful, because the water will be running over your most sensitive parts! It's better to err on the side of too cool rather than too hot. Lie down in the tub, with your butt as close to the side of the tub (where the faucet comes out) as possible and position yourself so that your legs are on either side of the bath faucet and your clitoris is directly beneath where the running water is coming out. Let the water run over your clitoris and move your hips around, thus changing exactly where the water hits. This can make for a very satisfying and intense orgasm.

If the bath is also a shower and the shower head is and attached to a hose, you can use the shower head to spray your private parts, as well. You have more control this way because the shower head is more mobile.

Fondly,

Jill

StrayTogether.com

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A male reader, Dr.LanceMerryweather United Kingdom +, writes (2 August 2010):

Dr.LanceMerryweather agony auntI just don't believe some of these questions - how old did you say you were . . . ?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2010):

If you sleep alone, the best time to do it is in bed, at night when people have gone to bed. You should start just by touching your body and seeing what feels good, then start to caress your lady parts, and touch them till you find yourself wet. Then you can focus on your clitoris, which is at the front, and rub, flick, tweak, pat, and stimulate it however you want, and al the same time you can penetrate your vaginal opening wiht your fingers. The real key is to do what feels good! and keep going till you have an orgasm!

:)

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A male reader, Kevin.st1 United Kingdom +, writes (2 August 2010):

If you Want to properly finger urself, then twist your hand so that ur palm is facing up and then use your fingers to stimulate the top surface of your vagina.

Have fun and best of luck!

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