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Hi, My name is Richard, I'm 44 years old, divorced with 2 adult children (I got started young). I live in Texas, but my fiancee is from Australia. I met her living in the UK.
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I can't climax though sex alone - is there anything I can do to change this?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend 8 months and i love him very much. He has been my first and only sexual partner. I was his second but i am the only person he has ever had sex with without a condom. Anyway i have no problem reaching orgasm during oral ...
A. 14 July 2007: Having been with women that could not orgasm through intercourse before me, I can only say that i was able to get them to that point through tenacity and alot of foreplay. The first orgasm when having sex is usually the hardest to have for most ... (read in full...)
I mentioned how my ex was hot and now my GF is feeling insecure
Q. hi..me and my gf are together for 7mths now. one day when she was at my place, she saw my ex's pics..i said she used to be hot. i didnt know she was gonna feel insecure about it.. then after so long..she got insecure and started using what ...
A. 14 July 2007: Not a stupid boy, just not yet a man. Learn from this experience, it will make you wiser. I'm still learning at 44, but listen to what your woman is saying. If she's feeling insecure, try to make her feel more secure.It's better to keep the past ... (read in full...)
I dont understand why he has just left saying he wants to be alone?
Q. I'd been together with my boyfriend for three years and we have a 8 month old baby girl and we have been very happy since her birth. On Monday we were arguing via text message about why he still had his ex's number in there under a different name. ...
A. 14 July 2007: Tough one, really tough because a child is involved. I stayed in an unhappy marriage for a long time because of my two children. Looking back I wouldn't have done it any differently, except maybe tried to be more of a man. Regrets, I have ... (read in full...)
It's killing me because he expects me to spend time with him 24/7 he is smothering me.
Q. Hi, I have recently started dating a real nice peaceful guy, at first I thought the fact that he has no friends and hates going out to places would make life easier for me, but now it's killing me because he expects me to spend time with him 24/7 he ...
A. 14 July 2007: I am very much a stay at home male, I consider myself more of a thinker and people watcher. I do like to spend a lot of time with my significant other. I think that when you're in a relationship with someone that you love, you want to spend time ... (read in full...)
Could you get any diseases in a shower?
Q. Could you get any diseases in a shower? Even if it's just me and my parents and sister using it? Such as if one of them has a cut, blister, or period in the shower could there be a chance that I may have diseases? I don't think non of them have ...
A. 14 July 2007: You can get a foot fungus, but that's really about it. If your paranoid about diseases, get a spray bottle mix about a 5% bleach to 95% water solutions. Wipe out the tub with a sponge, and rinse it off with water. Sometimes bleach can get ... (read in full...)
We are both 15 and my girlfriend told me she had given someone a hand job and was fingered before.
Q. We are both 15 and my girlfriend told me she had given someone a hand job and was fingered before. I know she has learned that she did it too early and with someone she didn't trust. I love her too much to let it ruin it, but I feel like crap. Help?...
A. 14 July 2007: You don't own this girl, she's a "girl friend". Be her friend, have some fun, get a handjob, finger her, kiss her like no one else ever has or ever will again. Don't talk to your buds about it, keep private things private. Please don't think I am ... (read in full...)
I feel like he has crushed my dreams and it is so hard to get over.. any suggestions?
Q. Okay it has been 6 weeks since we have been on a "break" we have seen each other three times and just had dinner this past Monday night and had a great time, I did not bring up the relationship at all.. I am still so depressed. I just can't live ...
A. 14 July 2007: You're not happy, this is apparent. It sounds like he has moved on from an exclusive relationship with you to a friends with benefits relationship with you. If he's not devoted to you then I would suggest not being devoted to him. If you're not ... (read in full...)
Why has my partner turned hostile towards me?
Q. Me and my partner have been together for 2 years and everything was great till a fortnight ago, he's turned very hostile towards me, he won't make any contact at all and I feel as if I've done something wrong....
A. 14 July 2007: Have you done anything? Have you been creepin and he's found you out? If you're clean, then my gut feeling is he's having sex with someone else and he's losing interest in you. Talk to him about how you're feeling, but don't confront him about ... (read in full...)
I want my guy to go down on me
Q. What can you all use to have your guy go down on you? Guys what do you like?...
A. 14 July 2007: First, have you talked to him about it? You're question leads me to a more fundamental issue concerning people and sex. Some people are naturally more passionate than others, I call them givers. They get pleasure from pleasing their partners and ... (read in full...)
I would like to have much wider and complete sex experiences with her, one which involves much more than penetration
Q. I am going out with this girl with whom sex is great, however she doesn't like me going down on her. She says it is nothing she has never enjoyed with me or anyone else. I, on the other side, take much pride in my cunnilingus skills and I have been ...
A. 14 July 2007: Take it slow. Tease her all evening, it may take several hours so pick a night or afternoon when you're both in a romantic mood, and nothing absolutely nothing is bothering her. Only one glass of wine though, you don't want her too buzzed to where ... (read in full...)
My wife cheated repeatedly; I gave her another chance but she still sees the men she was unfaithful with
Q. My wife has had sex with more then a few guys on the side. A few were her coworkers. Our marriage was falling apart rapidly because of her infidelity and deciet. One day I had enough of her abuse and threats of divorce so I told her I was looking ...
A. 14 July 2007: If you're o.k. with her cheating, then stay in the relationship. If not, them it's time to start Being a man. Gain control of your life back. Hire a lawyer if you have alot of assets, and don't waste any time. You will find another, but the next ... (read in full...)
I'm so confused by my ex's behaviour!
Q. my ex is back on the scene. we split up a few years back, over what i cant even remember. ive always had a soft spot for him he knows this cause stupidly i texted him saying how i wanted to get back together, he didnt bother replying so i left it at ...
A. 14 July 2007: Donna is spot on, It sounds like she knows what a real woman is. Oh, and decide for yourself in the meantime what you really want in a man and from this relationship.... (read in full...)
Do you think she will eventually get out of control and this will cause us more problems in the long run?
Q. Hey my name is Andrew.I am currently in a Long distance relationship my girlfreind is in Canada and I am in Portugal.We have been 9 months apart so far and i will be back Oct1st 2007.We were recently talking about fights that we were having because ...
A. 14 July 2007: Andrew, I have been where you are now, so I will share with you my experience. I am in a relationship with a woman from London, I live in Texas. I met her while working in the persian gulf. We met and hit it off immediately, we spent every night ... (read in full...)
Can someone explain to me what love can do to you?
Q. Can someone explain to me what love can do to you? I've been reading many things on the internet about love and how seretin or somthing can decrease and how men don't have as much testosterone as normal. Is this true or just false? I have been wi...
A. 14 July 2007: When you fist meet someone there is a major pheromone rush. Some people like this part of dating so much that it prevents them from getting into meaningful relationships. They will jump from new relationship to new relationship just to get that ... (read in full...)
I love him so much! But we're doomed!
Q. He is so sweet to me, and I love him with my whole heart. But I just fear that we're not meant to be together. While we enjoy each others' company very much, our life goals are so far apart! I'm from the west coast, and he moved here from New York. ...
A. 14 July 2007: I think it's natural for a woman to mold herself around her strong man. You moving to be with him, if it's something you want, well there's nothing wrong with it. Don't lose sight of what you want and who you are. Be real with yourself. You know ... (read in full...)
I noticed that she has been Googling romantic getaways and has also logged onto free Online Email Greeting cards with "Love" and "Missing You" titles. Do I have something to worry about?
Q. I am a 40 year old married man. Recently I discovered that my wife has a hidden HotMail account that I am not suppose to know of. I have not confronted her yet and don't want to as I would like to see if there is a way I can tap into her email ...
A. 14 July 2007: You're getting alot mixed advice about talk to her vs. not talk to her. Try to listen to people that have had this happen to them. Communication is already an issue in your relationship obviously or she would have told you that it was an old high ... (read in full...)
He thinks I'm the One but he doesn't want to date me
Q. i've been seeing a guy for over 4 months. i fell in love with him and he fell in love with me. he had just come out of a long term relationship which he lived with her. he got his own flat and everything was great until 5 weeks ago he said that he ...
A. 14 July 2007: Which way do you want to turn? I'm not being funny right. You sound very upset with the entire situation. When I get that way, what I do is take a few steps back and let the emotion run out of me. I have to be by myself to think. I personally ... (read in full...)
I want my girlfriend to suck me off but she won't.
Q. I want my girlfriend to suck me off but she won't. How can I persuade her otherwise? I go down on her but she won't repay the offer....
A. 14 July 2007: You're very young, and have your whole life ahead of you. Try not to give this girl a complex about it. Find another girl, and move on. Oh, if the topic of sex ever comes up with the next girl you want to date, ask her if she gives head. It ... (read in full...)
He thinks I'm the One but he doesn't want to date me
Q. i've been seeing a guy for over 4 months. i fell in love with him and he fell in love with me. he had just come out of a long term relationship which he lived with her. he got his own flat and everything was great until 5 weeks ago he said that he ...
A. 14 July 2007: Sweetie, You may have been a rebound, but it doesn't matter why he's doing it. He is. You are only in control of yourself, not him. You're young, let him go. There's approximately 150 million men in the US, there's one out there for you. Do you ... (read in full...)
I noticed that she has been Googling romantic getaways and has also logged onto free Online Email Greeting cards with "Love" and "Missing You" titles. Do I have something to worry about?
Q. I am a 40 year old married man. Recently I discovered that my wife has a hidden HotMail account that I am not suppose to know of. I have not confronted her yet and don't want to as I would like to see if there is a way I can tap into her email ...
A. 14 July 2007: Being 44 and divorced, I can sense your fear, but fear not my friend, there is life after 40, and damn good. One of my rules now is "paranoia never killed anybody". So having a healthy bit of paranoia is not a bad thing, especially if you are ... (read in full...)
Why does he never show me any affection?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years, I love him, and he loves me. The thing is he doesn't tell me this, we don't cuddle or hold hands, or kiss, unless it's just me and him alone. He doesn't compliment me, he flirts with me still, but like I ...
A. 14 July 2007: You're boyfriend through his formative years came up with the idea that showing affection is not a "manly" thing to do. There could be another reason, but from what it sounds like, he's not interested in other women. Would you consider him a macho ... (read in full...)
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