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I found out that my boyfriend is interested in having sex with a transgender, should I confront him or should I just let him leave his fantasy?

Q.   I found out that my boyfriend is interested in having sex with a transgender, should I confront him or should I just let him leave his fantasy?...

A.   13 April 2008: Now He wants to act like nothing ever happened...... He doesnt even want to talk about it..... I am so upset by the whole situation. I think he is unable to admit that he has a bisexual curiosity. I guess I am stuck with the whole situation cause ... (read in full...)

I found out that my boyfriend is interested in having sex with a transgender, should I confront him or should I just let him leave his fantasy?

Q.   I found out that my boyfriend is interested in having sex with a transgender, should I confront him or should I just let him leave his fantasy?...

A.   9 April 2008: I confronted him on this matter ina loving way. He got very defensive and accused me of beign mistrustful because I found the infromation by looking at his history on his computer. Now I am the one who is wrong. What now?... (read in full...)

My boyfriend placed an ad seeking a bi couple for sex. What should I do?

Q.   My boyfriend placed a personals ad seeking a bi couple for sex. What should I do? ...

A.   26 September 2007: Thanks for you help.....I dont know what is going to happen now. ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend placed an ad seeking a bi couple for sex. What should I do?

Q.   My boyfriend placed a personals ad seeking a bi couple for sex. What should I do? ...

A.   26 September 2007: I answered his ad and found out that ir was definitely him. I confronted him. He apologizes.....but I am afraid the damage is done. I need to think about it for awhile....I love him soooo much, it is not going to be easy to let him go..... I ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend sent a seductive pic of himself to a woman on line. Should I be worried?

Q.   My boyfriend sent a seductive photo of himself to someone on a personals at Craigslist. It was a woman seeking male. and the subject was " Sunday Night Needs." When my boyfriend responded he asked if he could help with their needs... should I be ...

A.   25 September 2007: Now I found out that he posted a personals ad on the same website, looking for a bi couple to have fun with!! He was looking for a man and woman!! What should I do?... (read in full...)

Is it normal for a guy to "babe watch" even being committed?

Q.   Is it normal for the guys to go out and " babe watch" even if the guy is in a committed relationship? also, why does it upset so much when he looks at other women? should I tell him how I feel? of should I just let him look and say nothing?...

A.   22 September 2007: thank you for your advice. I agree that it is disrespectful and it does hurt me. And I do want someone that can love me the way that I love him. if its not reciprocal, what is the point? but I cant leave him.....I am so in love with him....... (read in full...)

Is it normal for a guy to "babe watch" even being committed?

Q.   Is it normal for the guys to go out and " babe watch" even if the guy is in a committed relationship? also, why does it upset so much when he looks at other women? should I tell him how I feel? of should I just let him look and say nothing?...

A.   22 September 2007: Thank you all for your help. My boyfriend does not oggle other women in front of me, but I have caught him looking a little too long. when he sees that I have caught him he usually corrects his behavior. He is very discreet in my company. But I do ... (read in full...)

Is it normal for a guy to "babe watch" even being committed?

Q.   Is it normal for the guys to go out and " babe watch" even if the guy is in a committed relationship? also, why does it upset so much when he looks at other women? should I tell him how I feel? of should I just let him look and say nothing?...

A.   22 September 2007: Thank you all for your advice.....My boyfriend doesn't really oggle other women in my company but I have busted him checking women out, he is very discreet about it and he tries to play it off when he sees that I have caught him. But I know that ... (read in full...)

He says he loves me but he has been conversing with another woman. How do i confront him about this?

Q.   I desperately need advice. I am in a relationship with someone that I am truly in love with. we have been together for two years. He says he loves me and we have plans for the long road. I recently discovered that he has been conversing with anot...

A.   26 August 2007: Thank you all for you advise! I will be watching this very closely! I believe there might be something to it, but I cant say anything yet. Its gonna break my heart if its true.... (read in full...)

Is it okay to have film developed from a disposable camera that you have found hidden in your boyfriend's closet?

Q.   Is it okay to have film developed from a disposable camera that you have found hidden in your boyfriend's closet?...

A.   16 August 2007: thank you for your input! I found the camera in a box around some other suspicious things, ( sex toys). I must admit, I do have trust issues. I have decided not to develop the pictures, because if it is something incriminating, that would mean a ... (read in full...)

Is it okay to have film developed from a disposable camera that you have found hidden in your boyfriend's closet?

Q.   Is it okay to have film developed from a disposable camera that you have found hidden in your boyfriend's closet?...

A.   16 August 2007: thank you for your input! I found the camera in a box around some other suspicious things, ( sex toys). I must admit, I do have trust issues. I have decided not to develop the pictures, because if it is something incriminating, that would mean a ... (read in full...)

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