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Is masturbation a homosexual act?

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Question - (2 February 2008) 13 Answers - (Newest, 7 June 2008)
A male United States age 22-25, anonymous writes:

is masturbation in fact a homosexual act ? no matter who or what you think about you are still having sex with your hand and you come on yourself you are giving and recieving so its male on male or female on female. any thoughts?

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A male reader, jay27 United States +, writes (7 June 2008):

No offense, but this sounds like a question from 50 years ago. All guys masturbate, whatever their orientation. And when I say all guys, I include married men. I have been married 20 years and still masturbate from time to time, and I know at least a few of my married friends do too. Anyway masturbating is NOT going to affect your orientation one way or the other. However your orientation will affect the fantasies you have as you masturbate. So stroke away!

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A female reader, Cherriepie United States +, writes (3 February 2008):

Cherriepie agony auntSO that means if you even wash yourself, that makes it a homosexual act? omg thats crazy! touching yourself isnt gay...its just touching yourself. gay is when you sexually touch another one who is the same sex as you. its no more complicated than that.

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A male reader, troubledtoomuch United States + , writes (3 February 2008):

troubledtoomuch agony auntEver been to a zoo. Monkeys masturbate. Don't stand in front of them when they do if the cage is just bars. :D

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A male reader, Uncle_Phil United Kingdom +, writes (3 February 2008):

Uncle_Phil agony auntHypothetical. Surely?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2008):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

this is a rhetorical question. its not about me. just trying to get people to think outside the box. besides what other animals masturbate?

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A male reader, Uncle_Phil United Kingdom +, writes (2 February 2008):

Uncle_Phil agony auntDepends - when you 'Pull your puddin' do you fantasize about yourself?

Come on - this has GOT to be a wind-up question and you're having a laugh, surely?

Not a bad one though. I'll have to think up one of these questions myself.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2008):

I don't this that masturbation is a homosexual act, in fact I think its quite healthy to do it, girls will deny time and time again that they masturbate, but most do. I think everyone should masturbate to get to know their bodies, and learn what they like and what they don't like, its normal...so don't kill yourself over this...its stupid!

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A female reader, Annalisa United Kingdom +, writes (2 February 2008):

Annalisa agony auntDo you masturbate to feel the pleasure or because you think you're gorgoeus?

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A female reader, birdynumnums Canada + , writes (2 February 2008):

birdynumnums agony auntOf course not, unless you are having an out of body experience.

Puff Puff Pass...

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A male reader, Dr Vendetta United Kingdom +, writes (2 February 2008):

Dr Vendetta agony auntthoughts... yeah

lay off the weed. seriously... what the hell?

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A female reader, rhythmandblues2 United States + , writes (2 February 2008):

rhythmandblues2 agony auntUm.....NO....Masturbation is self stimulation.

Homosexuality is sex between two people of the same sex...

Masturbation fantasies can include anything and does not MEAN that you are homosexual if you have some same sex fantasies, it is when they become reality and are part of your own sexuality in practice that you are then a homosexual.....People are sexual beings and they often have fantasies that they would never even want to bring into the real waking world.....don't obsess over your sexuality.....it is what it is....and you are perfectly normal human to masturbate on occassion for sexual release.

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A female reader, Devilish Angel United States +, writes (2 February 2008):

Devilish Angel agony auntHaha...I never thought of it that way. It does make sense that since being homosexual means being with a person of the same sex, you are kinda being a homo. However, it depends on what you masturbate to.

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom + , writes (2 February 2008):

kenny agony auntI can't say that i have ever thought of masturbating as a homosexual act. The main reason being is that you are on your own doing it yourself. Masturbation is something that probably 99% of the population has done at some point in their lives, and so the answer to your question is no masturbation is not classed as a homosexual act.

All the best

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