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I haven't had my period in 3-5 months and I haven't been sexually active! What could be wrong?
Q. Hi plz can u help me i am really scared my period hasn't started 4 nearly 3-5 months now and i haven't done anythin if u know wot i mean,and is this normal plz plz can u help me out thanx ...
A. 18 June 2007: Heya Hun dont worry your periods take a couple of years to regulate into the 28 day cycle, and obviously you are young as well so that will contribute to your timing in periods. Also your diet and stress levels could be playing a factor in y... (read in full...)
He's bad at communication, how can we improve that?
Q. Long distant relationship-help! Me and my boyfriend have been attempting a long distance relationship from opposite sides of the world for 5 months now after being (physically) together for 6 months. He tells me i am the one he wants to marry e...
A. 18 June 2007: Hey. Like BEEN THERE DONE THAT has said men dont communicate as much as girl do, and they dont talk about things in the way we do. Im sure that he still loves you since he does want to marry you. Long distance relationships can be tou... (read in full...)
Whats a good way to tell someone youre in love with them?
Q. Whats a good way to tell someone you're in love with them? thanks x...
A. 18 June 2007: Hey
You tell some one you love them by showing them how you feel. You are there for them when they need you and you help them through all their problems.
Also little gestures dont go un noticed and finally you say the 3 little words :) tha... (read in full...)
He abuses me all the time, especially when I don't respond to the names he calls me. I don't know what to do. Any advice?
Q. I fell for one of my close friends a while ago and he realised this and forced me to admit it to him (which i did). Before he knew for sure, we used to joke and have fun. Since then so much has changed and he abuses me all the time. I'm not sure ...
A. 18 June 2007: Hey
Hunny for your own good you should leave him.
Sweetie he is breaking you down emotionally and physically so you have to depend on him more. This is WRONG, you should not be treated like this, you are worth more than him and dont forget ... (read in full...)
The guy in the store looks at me in a way I've never been looked at before. I found him on Myspace, should I message him?
Q. I've had a crush on a guy for almost 3 years. I really like him, and I'm not sure if he likes me. I'm 16 and he's 22. The first time I saw him he looked at me in a way I've never been looked at before. I left the store he was working at and he ...
A. 18 June 2007: Hey =]
Well yeah i think you should, add him on myspace if you havent already and then just ask him. The worst thing he can actually do which so in love has already told you is say no. Just have fun really, and dont forget to dont do anything... (read in full...)
I'm 19 and he is 43. I love him but I'm worried that others think I'm only with him for the money.
Q. Im 19 and he is 43 i love him to bits. It all started last year when i had just got out of a 3 year relationship he just cam into my life he had been in a similar relationship as me and was treated badly and now he is out of it just like me. We went ...
A. 18 June 2007: Hun.
Im glad you've found some one that you love. Are people actually saying that you are a gold digger or are you being a tad paranoid. Sweety if these people are calling you a gold digger ignore it, you and your beau obviously know its not ... (read in full...)
He's told me if I don't sleep with him, he'll do something nasty!! Help!
Q. my boyfriend asked me if i wanted sex i told him i didnt not right now weve only been going out for 3 months. he said if i didn't have it soon then he will do something nasty! i've tried to tell my mum and his mm but they won't help! can you h...
A. 18 June 2007: Hunnie
My advice to you is to dump him. If he is pressuring you to do something that you dont want to do then he cant really love you. Talk to him and ask him wif he loves you, and if he says yes then ask him why is he pressuring you to have sex... (read in full...)
I've told him I want to end it but he won't let me, he said he is going to take me somewhere and I can't come home or he'll rape me!
Q. I've told him I want to end it but he won't let me, he said he is going to take me somewhere and I can't come home or he'll rape me! I want to run away but my problem will just follow why can't i run away from my problem? i can't talk 2 my mum she ...
A. 18 June 2007: OK first of all who is this he you are referring to and when did this all start happening .
Secondly my advice to you is if you cant tell your mum, tell someone who you can trust or phone the police and tell them. Forcing you to do somethin... (read in full...)
Should I ask my tech teacher out?
Q. i am in with my teacher he his my technology teacher i think he love me he sexy but i don't now if he got a girl friend do i ask him out or not ? i love him....
A. 18 June 2007: No. There are laws which stop teachers having sexual or intimate relationships with any one under the age 18. Are you sure you love him, because if you love him you would stay away from him, because of his feelings towards his job.
This is prob... (read in full...)
I want to get a girl some flowers, do I get a card too? If so what do I put on the card?
Q. i wana give a girl i like some flowers. is a card essential? wot can i write? i reli like her but have noooo clue if she likes me! so shall i write card as a friend or lover? wot do i write? if she dont like me wont it be embarrassing if she doesnt ...
A. 16 June 2007: Hey
First of all let me just say that what you are going to do is sweet. Ok well depending on how close you are to the girl then you have to take this in mind when you decide wether to send a single or a bunch of flowers.
Secondly if y... (read in full...)
I have many times mistakely seen my sister changing clothes and I can't control my feelings, I want to have sex with my sister what shall I do?
Q. hi i am a 17 year old guy. I have many times mistakely seen my sister changing clothes and I can't control my feelings, I want to have sex with my sister what shall I do?...
A. 16 June 2007: DONT even think about your sister.
Its wrong on so many levels. If you tried anything you could wreck your relationship with your sister and the rest of your family.
Stop watching your sister undress, this will probably lessen the feelings of lust ... (read in full...)
Is it bad I lack experience, sex wise... never done anything with boys
Q. Im 16 and i have Never had a boy finger me or me do anything for a boy.. seems like everyone else has and i feel embarresed to say that ''i lack in sexual experience'' when personally i dont care but when people ask me.. i get ambarresed.. is this ...
A. 16 June 2007: NO you should not feel embaressed. There is nothing to feel embaressed about anyway. You are only 16 anyway you have plenty of time to gain experiance.
If people hassle you about your lack of experiance tell them to shut up, it is after all your... (read in full...)
I'm unattractive--is there anything I can do to get noticed?
Q. i don't feel attractive! ive never had a gf or anything, i think it is because im not attractive. im 5ft and 14 stone. is there anything i can do 2 get noticed ?...
A. 15 June 2007: Well
firstly you shouldnt think you are not attractive. Every body is in some way attractive. Girls dont go for looks its personality that really matters. Sometimes a girl might reject you because she wants looks more than personality, but just... (read in full...)
I was wondering does sex hurt the first time and if so, how can the pain be stopped?
Q. i was wondering does it hurt the first time a girl has sex and if so how can the pain be stoped?can someone please tell me: does it hurt a lot do you bleed does it only hurt the first time is there anthing that can prepare me the first time ?...
A. 11 June 2007: Yes unfortunatly sex does hurt the first time, it does hurt for the first couple of times until you get used to it. for you to be prepared you should really be turned on enough so you have to be absolutly sure that its what you want at the sperfic ... (read in full...)
He says to me "I wish you were dead"... !
Q. My boyfriend of 4 yrs calls me names like schizo, stupid, and sometimes when he really tempers up he says " I wish you were dead". He had agression and anger problems, and it flares up on me because I dont stand up for myself and I keep it all ...
A. 11 June 2007: I agree with eyeswideopen. your boyfriend does have some issues, "his sister said that its not like him", then we must consider why does his agressive behaviour only seem to show when you two are together. does he have some past problems with his ... (read in full...)
When we made out his leg started shaking
Q. When I was making out with this guy his leg started shaking is that a bad sign?...
A. 12 May 2007: Aww thats so cute :) he really likes you hunni youve got your self a winner there.... (read in full...)
Just found he cheated when we were dating.. but do cheaters change after marriage?
Q. My husband cheated on me (more than once) while dating me 2 1/2 yrs. I married him not knowing he had cheated during that time. Do you believe cheaters really can change and only cheat during dating but not cheat after marrying the person?...
A. 12 May 2007: Hey Some people do change after marriage because they relise that they do have commitments now to follow and a spose to support, and they are truly happy with the one person they have married. However some dont they keep cheating on their spos... (read in full...)
What is REAL love???
Q. how do i know if he loves me?...
A. 12 May 2007: how do you know if he loves you. Well i agree with CD you wont know if he loves you. You have to trust that he is telling you the truth if he says he loves you, if he is the kind of guy that would tell you the truth, im pretty sure that he actually ... (read in full...)
What do you do if you're in love with someone who you know might like you but there is very little chance of being together?
Q. I really need help, what do you do if you're in love with someone who you know might like you but there is very little chance of being together and your friends don't understand and your mum would proberly say that your not in love its proberly just ...
A. 12 May 2007: Hi there First of all let me say you are not alone, i myself am going through exactly what you are. Consider why cant you and this person be togeter? is it because of age, culture, gender or anything else. Tell this person how you feel at ... (read in full...)
He tells me he wants me and stuff but does he or is he just using me for sex?
Q. well im 15 and hes 30 i really like him i feel like im in love with him and i dont know what to do he tells me he wants me and stuff but i feel used just for sex and im really unsure what to do... because i like him and dont no what to do, he has ...
A. 12 May 2007: hey there its possible that he is just using you for the sex. However who knows what older men like that think maybe he does want you but he should be prepared to wait until you are older and ready and legal!!! He will get into loads of trouble... (read in full...)
I know this is a silly question... but should I break up with him?
Q. should i break up with him ? first,i don't trust him like i used to.secound,i don't feel that he actually understands me like he used. third, we fight alot. fourth, i don't feel that he listens to me .fifth, i don't feel that he cares about me !!!ya ...
A. 12 May 2007: HI Well after what you have told us, it seems better for you if you broke up with him. After all you seem to have a bad relationship with him. Although you tell us that youve had a good realtionship together im sorry to say that people change, r... (read in full...)
Does anyone have any idea why my periods are so strange?
Q. hi its just a short question, does anyone have any idea why my periods r strange?? i dont ge period pains but they kill me with pain it doesnt hurt or give me stomach pains but i get a pain i can not cope with when the blood actually comes o...
A. 12 May 2007: well this does seem strange, i think you should go visit your gp because its better to have an expert's opinion on this subject. Because it might be something serious like Endometriosis which could get better on its own or you should definatly get ... (read in full...)
I fancy my teacher...........
Q. hi, I am in love (or at least fancy) my teacher. Everyone who has given me online advice says that this is perfectly normal although I can't talk to anybody because I know that It will become gossip. I think about him all the time and everyone says ...
A. 9 May 2007: what ever you do dont drink to forget about him, because although this seems to work it doesnt and you end up feeling hung over and worse the next day. Have you tried being with your friends more friends are really good in these types of situations. ... (read in full...)
Is a 38DD bra size at 15 years old too big?
Q. i am 15 and a 38 DD is that normal. i think i'm to big for my age?? hElP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...
A. 8 May 2007: let me just say that you are totally normal and you should definatly be proud of your breasts, because you cant help them its just in your genetics :) be proud girl ... (read in full...)
Why don't guys like tall girls?
Q. ok, im 13 and ive never had a boyfriend because of my height. Why don't guys like tall girls and i masturbate a lot it that normal?...
A. 7 May 2007: hun there are some guys who like tall girls and some that prefer short girls. just have some patience and as for masterbation its perfectly heathly and a natural way of you discovoring your body and how it works ... (read in full...)
I'm only 16 years old and already fallen in love with the wrong man.... wrong man because he is already married!
Q. I'm only 16 years old and already fallen in love with the wrong man.... wrong man because he is already married! from the start i know that.... but still i can help falling with him! and having sexual intercourse with him! he's name is aljohn! i ...
A. 7 May 2007: hunni some how this woman found out either by her friends or he told her. i no its ecspecially hard because you are from the phillipines and the culture is so much different to ours in the western world. hunni i know what you are going through ... (read in full...)
Should I give him 'head' and would doing this make me his official gf?
Q. My Boyfriend recently asked me to let him "smash" (have sex). i told him yes. and he started to get more into it. I havent let him yet but i am going too. He asked me the other day if i "sucked dick" and i told him no he asked me would i do it for ...
A. 7 May 2007: hun he is trying to make you do something that you dont want to do thats wrong!! say no you have the right to say no and tell him that you dont feel comfotable about it. if he is nice then he will repect your thoughts and not pressure you by saying ... (read in full...)
What are the chances im pregant??
Q. What are the chances that i am pregant? -he didnt cum / orgasm inside me -we had sex around the time i was due for my period -we used a condom -he was only inside for a very little while -i bled for a day afterwards but then stopped bleeding...
A. 7 May 2007: well since you used a condom the chances are pretty slim however condoms are only 98% effective. if you are still worried about this i suggest you either go visit your gp or go buy a pregnancy test which will tell you wether you are pregnant or not ... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and I dont like boys my own age-I like younger boys and I get called a 'perv'...what should I do?
Q. I dont like boy my own Age , I just love 9/10/11/12 year old boys!! Im 13 but I dont like any Older boys or any my age. All The boyfriend I have have been younger than me and People keep calling me 'Perv' and 'Sicko' and Its getting Anoyying. I ...
A. 7 May 2007: hunni you are not sick i know how you feel because recently i got called sick and a perv for going out with a 14yr old even tho i am 15. dont listen to those comments made by them. if some of the people who comment havent had bf/gf's then they are ... (read in full...)
His son is all sweetness and light when he is around but is down right nasty when he's not. How do I deal with this?
Q. I love my husband but his son is trying to break us up. His son bends over backwards to the nice golden boy when his dad is around but when he is not around his son is completely disrspectful and mean. How do I deal with this when my husband has ...
A. 7 May 2007: it could be that he is afraid of the attention you are recieving because he wants it and he is scared because he thinks that you are going to replace him in his father's eyes. it also would help to consider about his mother. is he resentful towards ... (read in full...)
Am I pregnant, please help I'm desperate!
Q. Ok. I have typed in a few questions in the past about being pregnant and all that. But i just wanna give the whole story so i can get the exact correct info about it. Today is the 24th March... On the 21st, i had dry sex with my boyfriend. Dry s...
A. 7 May 2007: hun it is normal because your young and periods take time to develop into the whole once a month cycle etc also there mite be something else that is making them iregualer such as stress. which could mean that you take some time to change your life ... (read in full...)
My teacher and I have feelings for one another - I'm graduating soon so would it be wrong to take things further?
Q. Im in love with my teacher!!! He's only 5 yrs older than me and he's so sweet and kind!! He treats me differently to everyone else he makes me feel so special!! This is the happiest ive ever been..and i know its wrong to feel this was towards a ...
A. 7 May 2007: sweetie normally i would say no and blah but hunni since you are graduating and he is only 5 years older give it ago but make sure that no one sees you together and keep it under wraps before you graduate because then he could lose his job and his ... (read in full...)
So many boys want to date me but I reject them all for my married neighbor who is 40! Any advice?
Q. I'm 16 and is madly in love with my neighbor age 44 (looks 30). He is married but only see his family twice a mth over weekends coz they are overseas. We have been seeing each other almost daily for past 2 yrs, but he would only kiss and hug me. I ...
A. 6 May 2007: hunni if you love him you should stay away from him, although you mite be over legal age think about it, he has a family. he could also be doing this for you. think about it hunni you want to marry him and be his econd wife. consider the future, ... (read in full...)
I fancy my teacher...........
Q. hi, I am in love (or at least fancy) my teacher. Everyone who has given me online advice says that this is perfectly normal although I can't talk to anybody because I know that It will become gossip. I think about him all the time and everyone says ...
A. 6 May 2007: hunni have you tried writing it down in a diary, its a good way of getting the mixed emotions out. of course you are going to fancy your teacher. teachers to us seem like the perfect people kind intelligent, and the whole forbidden relationship also ... (read in full...)
I know I'm not ugly, so why isn't anyone attracted to me? Why is everyone else in a relationship but me?
Q. I feel so sad. It just seems that everyone around me is in a relationship, or at least one person is attracted to them. It makes me feel ugly and unwanted and in some cases, left out... I know i'm not ugly, and it's partly why I don't understand...
A. 6 May 2007: hunni you shouldnt be thinking like this. just because you are single doesnt mean that a lad doesnt want you, for all you could know some one close to you could feel something towards you. my advice to you sweetie is to enjoy being single. you are ... (read in full...)
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