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writes: i wana give a girl i like some flowers. is a card essential? wot can i write? i reli like her but have noooo clue if she likes me! so shall i write card as a friend or lover? wot do i write? if she dont like me wont it be embarrassing if she doesnt feel the same?
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reader, darksecretangel  +, writes (16 June 2007):
 Hey
First of all let me just say that what you are going to do is sweet. Ok well depending on how close you are to the girl then you have to take this in mind when you decide wether to send a single or a bunch of flowers.
Secondly if you are really close to her and you know her favourite flower send her that or a traditional red rose :)
If you want you can write her a card. However you dont have to. She might figure out if it was you because of your hand writing.
If you write her a card do not write something really soppy because she may not like it. It depends on how romantic this girl is. As long as it comes from the heart then thats all that counts
GOOD LUCK
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reader, AskEve +, writes (12 February 2007):
 If I were you I would have one red rose delivered to her home with a little card saying "I like you and would love to get to know you better..." Signed (your name) That's all you need to do. Better a single rose than a big bunch of flowers as you're not actually in a relationship with her and don't know how she'll react.
Whether she feels the same or not is the chance you need to take I'm afraid. If you only put your first name on the card and she asks if it was you, you can say "what if it was?" see what she says. If she says she's NOT interested that you can always say it wasn't from you and that will get you off the hook.
Eve
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reader, black_diamond329 +, writes (12 February 2007):
 Hey there anon! I'm guessing you are quite young and perhaps not to sure about gals so I'll try giving my advice based on that assumption. Either go for the single rose thing or a bunch of flowers with the little card that comes with them. You can have them sent to her house (although this can be expensive although remain anon if you like) and you can write a short note like "be my valentine" or "from your admirer" or something equally cute. No I wouldn't say lover cos that would suggest the two of you are sleeping together and again I wouldn't say friend cos its not intimate enough. I would go for admirer to be honest. A mate of mine sent me a rose for valentines day and I was in no way attracted to him but we are still friends to this day. So if you are good friends then it won't matter and you will still remain friends. Even though you'll find it a bit awkward to start with you will laugh about it in years to come. Or if she makes it difficult then you know she was never a good friend to start with and you were better not wasting any more time with her. Or she could like you too in which case this could be the start of something new for you both. If you really like her and think she might be giving you the same signals then don't worry bout how she will react and just go for it. Nothing too soppy or full on just simple words (gotta be personal to you both so can't give you an exact template) that convey how you feel. Good luck!
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