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My teacher and I have feelings for one another - I'm graduating soon so would it be wrong to take things further?

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Question - (15 December 2006) 6 Answers - (Newest, 7 May 2007)
A female , anonymous writes:

Im in love with my teacher!!! He's only 5 yrs older than me and he's so sweet and kind!! He treats me differently to everyone else he makes me feel so special!! This is the happiest ive ever been..and i know its wrong to feel this was towards a teacher but he doesnt even feel like my teacher he just feels like a friend and he told me that too.. anyway The other day i was walking to the train station after school by myself and he ran up behind me and started walking with me cos he was going there too and we were talking and walking through an isolated park and we were just talking and all of a sudden he just says "oh i dont care about the rules anymore" and he and kissed me!!!! I know he's my teacher but he's young enough to be my boyfriend!! Im finishing school in a few months anyway... Would there be anything wrong with taking this further..He told me he wants to be with me too.

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A female reader, darksecretangel United Kingdom +, writes (7 May 2007):

darksecretangel agony auntsweetie normally i would say no and blah but hunni since you are graduating and he is only 5 years older give it ago but make sure that no one sees you together and keep it under wraps before you graduate because then he could lose his job and his reputation good luck hunni

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A female reader, CurvesAndConvergence +, writes (2 January 2007):

go for it girl. its really important you 2 keep a very low profile in school..it would be better if you spent time together away from school. im sure you 2 already know. theres nothing wrong with taking it further, but just be careful until you graduate. good luck!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2006):

Since you're over 18 [and leaving school soon], and he's only 5 years younger, I'd say: Give it a go! Who knows, you guys may last forever. =) Good luck - many people who are in love with their teachers never even come close to this. Lucky you!

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A female reader, lovelikethis +, writes (15 December 2006):

just lay low for the rest of your schooling, do not be seen in public with him because that can mess up a lot for both of you. when you graduate then it is all fair game, go for it!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2006):

Well your teacher can get in alot of trouble for what he has done.

I know you are really happy when you are with him, but there are plenty other guys out there that you can be happy with, and they dont have to be your teacher.

You have to think of the trouble it could cause.

And I know he is only a couple of years older than you, but that doesnt change tha fact that he is your teacher.

After you Graduate you may meet a man who you fall madly in love with, and you will forget about your teacher.

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A female reader, Goldsweet +, writes (15 December 2006):

Normally I would say no, but as your over 18 and you're leaving school and he's very young too, then I think its OK. But just wait until you've finished school to keep on the safe side- you wouldn't want him getting into trouble just before he leaves, would you?

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