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I know I'm not ugly, so why isn't anyone attracted to me? Why is everyone else in a relationship but me?

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Question - (6 May 2007) 7 Answers - (Newest, 9 May 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I feel so sad. It just seems that everyone around me is in a relationship, or at least one person is attracted to them.

It makes me feel ugly and unwanted and in some cases, left out...

I know i'm not ugly, and it's partly why I don't understand why I'm alone.

Am I too young to be worrying about this? I'm 15.

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A female reader, rebekkah United Kingdom +, writes (9 May 2007):

rebekkah agony auntlook despite everyone telling you that u should be thinking bout havin fun etc etc and not gettin a boyfriend...lets face it thats not what you want to hear is it? most boys get scared at approching pretty girls as they dont want to get knocked back and embarassed...or they see you as a threat..lets say u had a really fit boyfriend that attracted loads of female attention how would it make you feel? its their loss sweet the right one will come along wen u least expect it.xx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2007):

i know exactly wot u mean i felt exactly the same im 16 n it seems evry1 is happy apart from me i tried every advice that people have given me & their right it is all about confidence i knw saying it is a hell of a lot easier then doin it

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A male reader, sleepyhollow American Samoa +, writes (6 May 2007):

Yep, you're too young to worry about people liking or not liking you in that particular way. Remember that at 15 you still have the rest of your long life ahead of you, so there is no need to rush or to feel as if your life is slipping away.

Work on your friendships. At your age now, many of the friendships you form at this age will carry you through the rest of your life.

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A female reader, darksecretangel United Kingdom +, writes (6 May 2007):

darksecretangel agony aunthunni you shouldnt be thinking like this. just because you are single doesnt mean that a lad doesnt want you, for all you could know some one close to you could feel something towards you. my advice to you sweetie is to enjoy being single. you are 15 and really hunni you have your whole life ahead of you. just enjoy yourself have fun with your mates instead of feeling left out because you dont have a boyfrend etc n hunni its just the way life is thats why

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A female reader, Curious....... United Kingdom +, writes (6 May 2007):

Hey hun,

You are to young to be thinking or even stressing about being attracted to boys....enjoy your life have fun and make memories because believe me when your turn 25/26 your gonna wish you cherished the teenage years you had...because you aint in a relationship doesn't mean noone is attracted to you it doesnt make you ugly either you'll have relationships when the time comes you have your whole life ahead of you...:-( i wish i am 15 again lol...altho i am only 19

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A female reader, earth angel United Kingdom +, writes (6 May 2007):

earth angel agony aunthi

you say you feel you are ugly but you know your not....this is because you have not yet got a boyfriend?

i remember being so shy at school and not daring to go oout with boys though i did want a boyfriend..im not sure what your confidence is like but often if we are confident people are attracted to us more...maybe try doing something like learning something new to raise your confidence...and it will give you something to talk about to your friends and boys.

im sure your time will come....try and enjoys yourslef in the meantime...remember friendships last longer than relationships ...trust me..you are fine

earth angel

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A female reader, agony_emz United Kingdom +, writes (6 May 2007):

agony_emz agony auntyou are too young to worry about this i agree with you!! so what other people are attracted to one another thats life, you shouldnt be worrying about this while you are at school enjoy being single!! and learn to love yourself as one you have learnt that you will have them dropping at your feet as you will be oozing with confidence and then they will notice but for the time being i think you should be concentrating on your school work and your friends and not boyfriends!!

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