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writes:I'm only 16 years old and already fallen in love with the wrong man.... wrong man because he is already married! from the start i know that.... but still i can help falling with him! and having sexual intercourse with him! he's name is aljohn! i love him so much! and i cant forget him! we have 5 months secret relationship... he's too old for me, he's 36...but for me it doesnt matter! but i have conscience!how will i forget him!? he makes me her kabit! he cheated his wife and i feel thats my fault! how can i get over it!? when he is the reason im leaving for!pls help me! i really dont know what to do! Reply to this Question
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reader, she +, writes (5 October 2007):
she is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks for all those people who sent their advice.....i really appreciate it!
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reader, darksecretangel  +, writes (7 May 2007):
 hunni some how this woman found out either by her friends or he told her. i no its ecspecially hard because you are from the phillipines and the culture is so much different to ours in the western world. hunni i know what you are going through becuase i miself got involved with a phillipino who turned out to be married to some 18 yr old. my advice for you is to go hang with your frends and move on. sure she damaged your reputation but his reputation would also be damaged because you are the minor in the relationship. and he took advantage of you
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reader, she +, writes (5 May 2007):
she is verified as being by the original poster of the questionim totally mess! last night his wife texted me! and say bad things bout me! she ruined me! i cried out!it really hurts! i hope someone can help me up to forget him!
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (4 May 2007):
 You have to leave him as it is a matter of self-respect. Who wants someone else's second hand goods? If he cheats on his wife, there is a sure thing...he would cheat on you if you were his second wife! You are young and it is ok to make a mistake, but it is not ok to keep making the same mistake...love yourself enough not to be used for sex by a man old enough to be your father.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (3 May 2007):
 Leave him because his wife doesn't deserve it and neither do his children if he has them. It's wrong to mess with married men and you know that. Find someone your own age, it's the only way to be happy.
CD
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2007): I was "inlove" with an older man , not to the extent that you are but when i got older it was like gross, i guess i grew out of him, instead i found a wonderful boy my age! Just keep your distance from him
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