Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 15 February 2008: Hi
Hope you are feeling better today dear, my thoughts are with you know exactly what your going through, it's tough but you will make it.
Take Care... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants a threesome, he's willing to do it male/male/female; should I give him a male/female/female one with my sister?
Q. my bf of 9 years wants a threesome I told him if I give him one that I want a mfm which he is fine with, he is getting his best friend cuz he say he can trust him. should I give him a fmf with my sister? if anyone has tried this what should I ...
A. 5 December 2007: Dear poster
I am not remaining anon and please don't trake this personally but OMG I followed your post and can't believe that you actually went through with this with your sister!!!! I also know by reading some of the post here that quite a ... (read in full...)
My partner with whom I've been living for 15 yrs has asked me to leave his house (but I will not.) Does he truly love the other woman? What to do?
Q. I have been with my partner for 15 years and have lived with him for all this time. My partner has had several affairs over the last 12 years, these have always happened at time when we have been under severe pressure from other areas whether it...
A. 5 December 2007: Dear poster
Sorry you are going through this, there are some really great previous post on here giving fantastiv advise to poeple in your situation. Plus most of the replys you have had so far have been good. i suppose the 1 question you want ans... (read in full...)
I feel so ashamed..
Q. I'm in my earlier 30S and am falling for my girl friend of 10 years daughter who is in early 20S dos this make me a sicko i feel ashamed of my behaviour. ...
A. 5 November 2007: Wow
This is every mothers worst nightmare!Is her mother much older than you,not that it makes any difference, your right you should feel ashamed you are crossing the line big time.Agree with other aunts beware!!!!!! ... (read in full...)
He wants the other woman. But he wants to hang out here until she gets back from her holiday. Kick him out now or what?
Q. Just to give you an update on what's been happening over the last week. The last time I wrote I told you I was confused about my ex who I had just got back with after nearly 4 years apart. He was acting very suspicious and sneaking around with the ...
A. 16 August 2006: sweetie I am so sorry it didn't work but at least you tried. Do not feel bad tell him you want him out now, you owe him nothing maybe now you can move on and find someone that will treat you well. Tell your ex you have met someone and he needs to... (read in full...)
Feeling sorry about the difficult break up
Q. hey ppl, i really need help, my boyfriend broke up with me cause a really close relative 2 him died,he died while i was goin to meet him, he was his lil boy, he fell into a paddling pool and drowned only a baby 21 months old, so i stayed with him ...
A. 9 August 2006: Laura this is a sad story for all of you, i don't know how long you went out with this guy but believe me you are not in the same placve as these two people they have lost their child.his ex is behaving like this as she might think he will go... (read in full...)
This guy wants to have is cake and eat it too
Q. Back with my ex after nearly 4 years apart. I did write in before in July as my ex had said he wanted to get back with me and our son who is almost 6 now. I didn't know whether to believe him as he was living with another woman and kept saying he ...
A. 9 August 2006: This is a classic case of you think you want him back and now you have he just not worth it. don't keep this to yourself any longer we will be nice and give him a chance ask him to call her while you are there and tell her the truth she deserves to ... (read in full...)
Im in love with a married man, I know hes unhappy with his wife, but people are telling me to stay away!!
Q. I'm in love with a married man. I've had so many ppl tell me to stay away from him..that he will never leave his wife. But he is so unhappy with her. He only married her because he thought that was what was right for their child. They do NOT love ...
A. 1 August 2006: RUN!... (read in full...)
I want to find my father, but don't want to hurt Mum or my stepdad!
Q. Me and my mum had always lived together, just us two, until a few years ago when she remarried. I care about my stepdad but I don't get on with him that well. My mum always said she never wanted me to find my father and I never did too until re...
A. 26 July 2006: I don't understand why your mum has never spoke to you about this before, before you do anything talk to her tell her how you feel she may now think you are old enough to understand reg your stepdad it will take time for you all to adjust and I am ... (read in full...)
Parenting advice needed!
Q. Hi, I've had a prior questions about my bf working too much and breaking promises. Well, now I need some parenting advice. I have a 2 month old daughter who was a preemie and she gets a lot of colic. Can someone please tell me what I can use other ...
A. 3 July 2006: hi
i know what you arte going through it's HELL you need to go to your GP or health visiter and tell them that the colic grops are not workin another thing you can use is gripe water before every feed. colic in small babies is common but thet do ... (read in full...)
My ex's MUM keeps giving me hassle... Like asking me to have the baby DNA tested! Does she have this right?
Q. m due to have my baby in 4 month and my ex's mum wont leave me alone she's constantly ringing up and saying she wants a dna test to prove wether or not its her sons baby. i know the baby is his but he turned his back on me and said he didnt want ...
A. 2 July 2006: me again this woman wants to rule the roost tell her to talk to her son reg you and the baby and to stay away from you, your family and friends. also tell them not to tell this woman anything about you as she might try to use it against you. my ... (read in full...)
I broke the inherent trust of the group by asking one of its female members out!
Q. I’ve made a huge mistake. I’m an alcoholic undergoing treatment and am in recovery. I’m attending a 3 month (I attend 3 times per week) program and have made good friends with some of the others also attending. Before I started the program,...
A. 1 July 2006: dear timdmgd
first of all i would like to congratulate you like the others in the group i too think this female is overreacting. so you like her you have things in common and maybe able to help each other what is her problem? the only thing i ... (read in full...)
What is a posh wank?
Q. I've heard my mates talk about it but I'm too embarrased to ask what they're on about.......... What is a "posh wank"?...
A. 30 June 2006: does that mean your comming up in the world lol... (read in full...)
My ex's MUM keeps giving me hassle... Like asking me to have the baby DNA tested! Does she have this right?
Q. m due to have my baby in 4 month and my ex's mum wont leave me alone she's constantly ringing up and saying she wants a dna test to prove wether or not its her sons baby. i know the baby is his but he turned his back on me and said he didnt want ...
A. 30 June 2006: some very good advice on this post but from experiance this mother wants to take over agree with dr don't let her if the ex contacts you then you can sort it out with him but again you don't have to as he has not supported you through your pregnacy ... (read in full...)
Sexual attracted to my brother-in-law, should i make my move of not?
Q. Allow me to introduce to you the thought that is way and heavy on my mind I am married to a guy who works and drinks a lot and his older brother is married and his wife isn't doing so well, health wise. My husband's brother stops for a visit he...
A. 24 June 2006: hi
have just read your post and have got to agree with w/w you are in a marrage that's not making you happy as he is either working or drinking so he is not giving you the attention you want you sound quite close to you b.i.l. and discussing sex ... (read in full...)
I am worried about my partners past!
Q. I've been with my partner for 6 months. I'm 21 and she is only 16. I'm an attractive guy who can get attractive girls. I've had alot of opportunities to sleep with girls but have only slept with 3, I guess I'm just picky. I've only been ha...
A. 24 June 2006: dear male anon
There is another post like yours on this site it has numerious answers to your question and they all vary if you can try to check back on most answred or most discussed you will find this post i hope it helps you and that'a all i am... (read in full...)
My husband looks at porn and has a female friend from college
Q. my husband of 3 years started going onto porn sites about 6 months ago - some of which were teenage porn sites, which disturbed me as i have a 13yr old daughter (he is her step dad) he was also having online chats with the porn women on a stumble ...
A. 24 June 2006: take the fuse from the pc tell him to quit collage and get a job then he might start acting like a grown man instead of drinks at lunchtime with collage buddy and viewing porn websites and chatting on pc has he got nothing better to do ifnot throw ... (read in full...)
How do I get him to move forward?
Q. I have been with the same partner for 8yrs. When I first met him, I told him I was not interested in getting married. I did not tell him why. The truth is I had been in many many relationships where I had been cheated on. I had real trust issues a...
A. 24 June 2006: Start buying wedding magazines lol... (read in full...)
I want a nose piercing and tatoo..my husband says go for it..should I?
Q. I need peoples opinions on this. I come from a very old fashioned family and all, I'm a married woman with kids who is fairly young and I've been wanting to get a tatoo or even getting my nose peirced...my husband agrees with it and says that we ...
A. 24 June 2006: dear anon
i have a small tattoo at the top of my arm it's a scorpio my star sign now i have had this for about 20yrs i am now 41 i don't know about the body peircing prob personal choice but if you and hubby are happy about it who cares its not ... (read in full...)
Why am I feeling this way at 16 years of age!
Q. Hi I writing to you because i need help, and some advice from you. I'm going through a difficult situation. Well, to start with, I hate spending time with my family. My boyfriend broke up with me and I feel lonely most of the time because my frien...
A. 23 June 2006: 16 eh now this sis the start of your adult like (boring) but true are u still at school? if not or even if you are get a weekend job anywhere even mcdonalds you will earn money meet new friends and actually have a laugh and you will be shoeing your ... (read in full...)
Why do western women hate their mother in laws?
Q. Why do western women hate it when their husband is close to his mother? Isn't that selfish? How can you hate the women who brought him into the world and raised him?...
A. 23 June 2006: ah willywombat this post was just for you lol... (read in full...)
He says our relationship is now a "trial"... Is this worse than just breaking up?!
Q. Me and my boyfriend of over a year have recently had a big argument and now he is saying that he will stay with me but we are on trial to see if i can make him happy. Is this acctually worse than breakin up and is it making me look needy by waiting ...
A. 23 June 2006: on trial are you in a court room to see if you make him happy?do you get an appeal if you fail lol? does he make you happy (well not at the moment)are you good enough for him listen if someone says this to you red light he thinks he's better than ... (read in full...)
10 years of living with a man who has taken everything from me - friends, job etc - how do I get rid of him?
Q. I have been living with a selfish, insecure, opinionated, big mouthed, controlling man for the past 10 years and i want to end this relationship. We are living in my house from a former divorce, but he pays the mortgage(interest only). in fact he ...
A. 23 June 2006: first of all tell him what you inted to do and that might stop the controlling second get a job make yourself independant from him ask him to look for another place to live and if it gets nasty call the police and seek advice form a lawyer i take it ... (read in full...)
I'm 40, my marriage is a failure and I actually hate my husband..
Q. I'm 40. My marriage is a failure. I am unable to enjoy sex with my husband. He just wont hear of a divorce. He wants me to change to his ways. I have been trying to make him happy for the past 15 long years but now I feel fed up with him and with ...
A. 22 June 2006: sorry to say this but i think you a re suffering from depression. yes you have been married a while and yes some things hubby does must get on your goat lol but you say you have been trying to make him happy what about you. you see if you were ... (read in full...)
Everlasting love... ?
Q. I have seen a lot of my friends and family marry only to all split up or separate in less than 5 years. What is wrong with us? Why are we not trying to work hard at a relationship especially when there are children involved.In my parents day they ...
A. 22 June 2006: got to add my tuppunce worth i was not married but chose to stay with my ex partner for 18yrs i think you can only stick together if you want to be together i also agree 5 yrs is not a long time one coincidence i have foung though is that a lot of ... (read in full...)
I need to find someplace to live, coz I'm being kicked out of home!
Q. I'm 15. I'm bein kicked out my house, because hate my mum so much!!! Do you know any hostels or something I can go to for free? I have no money... xxx wb...
A. 21 June 2006: hi dear
do you think your the only 15 yr old that hates their mum? your not alone but your only a child and you should be at home unless there is a danger to you? things will get better with your mum do you brother/sister or other family if thin... (read in full...)
Somebody please remind me what's so good about being a mum!
Q. Is being a mother worth it? I have a son and honestly I can't really say I love him. I mean you raise them, they become teenagers and think you're stupid, and then they grow up and move out and get married and you're left in the cold. Whats s...
A. 21 June 2006: who said having kids was easy lol dry your eys bite your toungue and sit back and enjoy your boy.hopefully you have raised a good son that will make a great husband give them time together offer inviting them for dinner one night so they don't have ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has a past and I am not sure what to do
Q. Let me get straight to the point. I have a girl friend whose history is really bad. I will let you be the judge. She is 17 and has been with 23 guys. She started having sex when she was 15. She graduated from high school early, so over the course ...
A. 21 June 2006: oh poor you you slept with her within 3 days and she's given you a disease she was a hoe but you were a good person being sex active since 12 my dear i think you two deserve each other hopefully to make both of you better people and understand the ... (read in full...)
What shall I do about my cheating husband?
Q. I have a serious problem. my husband who i have been with for 13yrs and married 5yrs. 6yrs. ago then my boyfriend started seeing another woman. he lied to me and said they were only friends and sneaking to see her and getting hotel rooms. he also ...
A. 20 June 2006: this happened 6yrs ago and you stayed with him i am not saying you should be over it( i believe some folk don't get over it) but yous have stayed together you love him but are not in love with him what does that mean? do you trust him? has he gave ... (read in full...)
Its hard to leave my 19 year old lover behind
Q. I am in love with a 19 yr old girl and she is in love with me (42). We both know that nothing can come from this relationship as she wants children, I cant have any (vasectomy), I am also married. We tried separating but were both unhappy and soon ...
A. 20 June 2006: have you seen fatal attraction ? you dirty old man wonder what you would do if your wife found out or better your kids she's young enough to be your daughter! you have no intentions of leaving your wife and family but your scared to tell this girl ... (read in full...)
Is there anything I can do to make my periods lighter!?
Q. i have really heavy periods and would really like have lighter ones. is is possible to get medication and what would it do? many thanks...
A. 19 June 2006: go to your gp and explain i had this and was given ponstan it helped with the cramps and my periods was lighter and i told my sisters and they use them to but they need to be presribed by your gp hope this helps... (read in full...)
She lied and said she was older, but now I'm a married man in love with a 14-year-old!
Q. What action should I take? I am a married man in my late twenties, who has fallen for someone much younger. We met in a chatroom last year, when her profile stated she was older. After a while, we spoke on MSN when I noticed that she was actu...
A. 19 June 2006: hello again
i am glad you agreed with some of my comments just to add i know you have said about your wife but she must be extremely hurt by what you are saying (in love with a 14 yr old) and she was still going to give you a chance as you ahve stat... (read in full...)
She lied and said she was older, but now I'm a married man in love with a 14-year-old!
Q. What action should I take? I am a married man in my late twenties, who has fallen for someone much younger. We met in a chatroom last year, when her profile stated she was older. After a while, we spoke on MSN when I noticed that she was actu...
A. 18 June 2006: hi
i have just read all the updates on this post and am glad that someone is trying to help this bloke. you are married do you have kids (daughter) what would you think do if this was your daughter? as you have said you want to help her advise her ... (read in full...)
how to control a control freak?
Q. I have been with my partner for over 8 years, on and off. He tells me how much he loves me and wants to marry me and look after me, but he is very controlling and very unpredictable. He can be very romantic, considerate and loving, these are the ...
A. 17 June 2006: if you want to live like this then take him back if not then you can try counceling so he can manipulate you again also bear in ming your children hate him it won't be long till they start to resent you for putting up with this what is he your ... (read in full...)
I have just found out that I am dying and don't know how to tell my partner
Q. I have just found out that I am dying, but have just got engaged last week. My fiancee has noticed that I am crying all the time and keeps asking what is wrong, she seems to think I have guilty feelings about something and is starting to accuse m...
A. 17 June 2006: hi david
i read your post and i too agree with wild thaing you should be out there spending this time with g/f family and friends i am glad your going to vegas live it up lol do all things you want to do the only concern that i have is maybe yo... (read in full...)
I am about to give birth, my husband has told me that he's not attracted to me and is going to leave me after the birth what do I do?
Q. i am 40 and have been in a loving relationship for 8 yrs. we have a 5yr old girl and i am due today with our second child. my partner has told me over the last month that he feels he has lost any sexual desire for me and that we have become more ...
A. 17 June 2006: Hi anon
got to say i agree with the other aunts but you could try saying if you cannot tell then can you write a letter as some guys are just spineless and cannot say things cause they know you won't like it! hope all goes well for you remeber you ... (read in full...)
My daughter's father is really mean to her, help!
Q. hi,i have an 8 year old daughter,she is a beautiful,kind,loving child but the problem is HER DAD,he will not take her anywhere or give her affection he wont buy her anything and is constantly on her back about something.this has been going on all ...
A. 15 June 2006: this is SAD she is only a kid has he laways been like this? could he not even put her to bed everynight and give her a kiss and cuddle if not then this thing does not deserve the name DAD and you need to look out for your girl as this is abuse... (read in full...)
BF of 16 years is abusive & an alcoholic - have tried to leave many times but I keep coming back! I need help!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for sixteen years. We have kids together. He has always been a heavy drinker, but i'm sick of this life. He has lost his driving licence three times due to this and still on a ban. We have just come back from a h...
A. 15 June 2006: the only 2 things you can do are accept him as he is or leave that's it bottom line but remeber he won't change (why should he) you have put up with this for yrs? have you talked to your children about this are they happy do they want him gone? if ... (read in full...)
He keeps phoning this other woman! Is she just a friend? (long post)
Q. I need your help!! Just dont know what to do anymore!! I have been with my husband for 9yrs of marriage. I have three step children from his first marriage and two of my own children aged 8years and 5 years. It all started when I had my fi...
A. 14 June 2006: this is very sim to what happened to me (a friend i love you bla bla) well i confronted HER she said she was a friend as well (LIAR) you have got to take the bull by the horns here cause your hubby is a f..... liar that cannot be trusted. as i said ... (read in full...)
He was a real brute in the bedroom and forced himself on me, and then couldnt understand why i chucked him out! Do men get kicks out hurting women during sex ?
Q. hiya everyone, this is my sister in laws account. she recomend i go on here with my problem as she didnt really to know my problem. well im not sure if this is going to get posted because its a little extreme but if it does, oh please some one help. ...
A. 9 June 2006: I still say you should report the B...... as he will do this to some other poor woman. Eddie i know you are taking stick for this - think your first time with new g/f and you do this???? plus at least with a b/j it not painful this was and prob ... (read in full...)
He was a real brute in the bedroom and forced himself on me, and then couldnt understand why i chucked him out! Do men get kicks out hurting women during sex ?
Q. hiya everyone, this is my sister in laws account. she recomend i go on here with my problem as she didnt really to know my problem. well im not sure if this is going to get posted because its a little extreme but if it does, oh please some one help. ...
A. 9 June 2006: This is serious how old are you? if this was your first sexual experiance the this is not the norm. sex should not be you pinned down and him doing whatever he wants there is something really wrong with this guy you need to muster up all the courage ... (read in full...)
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