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writes:I'm in my earlier 30S and am falling for my girl friend of 10 years daughter who is in early 20S dos this make me a sicko i feel ashamed of my behaviour. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2007): Actually, this kind of thing is quite common. Men naturally find younger women sexually attractive, especially girls in their 20s. Also, lots of married men with stepdaughters have sexual fantasies about having a threesome with their wife and their stepdaughter. So don't feel like you are a sicko. Sexual attraction to someone of the opposite sex is natural. I know I would be tempted myself in such a situation, especially if the daughter was sexy, as most 20 something girls are. It's just that if you act on this and end up having sex with the daughter, your girlfriend will probably dump you.
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reader, carebear +, writes (5 November 2007):
 Wow
This is every mothers worst nightmare!Is her mother much older than you,not that it makes any difference, your right you should feel ashamed you are crossing the line big time.Agree with other aunts beware!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2007): Nothing wrong with finding a 20 something attractive. There is something wrong when its your girlfriends daughter - just don't go there. Its normal to feel attraction to lots of people doesn't mean you have to do something about it but it seems like your radar is a little more 'on' than 'off' so maybe you need to take a close look at why?
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (5 November 2007):
 Hello.
I do not think you are a sicko, as long as she is 20+,it seems you are going through an emotion that some people go through at some times in there live,I bet she is bright, bubbly,smiles at you all the time, eye contacts you, makes you fell warm inside, may be cuddles you, will kiss you flirt with you, she is beautiful,and when she walk into a room the glow of her, lights the place up.
This is no love it is infatuation, and is the worst emotion of all, you must get a grip of yourself, she really is not for you, if you approach her then your whole world will collapse.
she will hate you instantly, and will tell her mum then you will look to her as if you are a sicko, your life will never be the same again, you will loose everything, and the people she tell will mean you will loose all your friends, home ect.
The best thing all round is for you to keep your distance from her and get these ideas out of your head because that is were they really are, treat her with respect but do not act on your emotions, if you do you will live a life of regret honest.
Hope this is helpful to you.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (5 November 2007):
 Have you actually done something to be ashamed of? Or are you just feeling guilty because of your attraction to her? Big difference. I'd start focusing on my girlfriend, do you still feel the same way towards her? If not then you should be honest with her and end it. I'm afraid the daughter is off limits though, plus has she even shown any interest in Mom's boyfriend?
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