How is an abortion done?
Q. I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....
A. 8 April 2008:
What your are feeling is natural, this is a very hard thing to go through and you will get through it pet.
You will cry and feel guilt but it will get better and just because you feel this way does not mean you made the wrong decision... (read in full...)
How is an abortion done?
Q. I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....
A. 2 April 2008: Hi Poster I checked when you go as had not heard from you. You seems to be coping it just seems like a long time has passed. I understand youre still scared hopefully someone either b/f or friend will accompany you so you don't feel alone, if y... (read in full...)
How is an abortion done?
Q. I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....
A. 30 March 2008: Just thought I would add on here if anyone is interested as Tish suggested I was looking back the forums and there is one Re Abortions!!!!
Poster I would advise you check this out as I think this may help you. ... (read in full...)
My husband hit me--should we separate?
Q. My husband told me tonight that we should separate. He says if I went away for a year and lost some weight and sorted my pms, out he would reconsider. I am very hurt. Last week he hit me over the head with a glass and caused injury. He says it ...
A. 28 March 2008: Poster
Your husband is right, you should seperate and you should listen.He want you to lose weight and control your pms what about his controlling manner and physical abuse? Think about how you were feeling whe he hit you with the glass, do you w... (read in full...)
How is an abortion done?
Q. I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....
A. 27 March 2008: Poster
If there is anything I can do to help and support you I am only at the other end of an e-mail if you want.Thinking of you.... (read in full...)
How is an abortion done?
Q. I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....
A. 26 March 2008: Laura
Read back your post to this girl, you are making out she is evil if she goes through with this. that is wrong maybe she does believe in God I do I am not evil I will not be judged by you or anyone else that didnot walk in my shoes, you are ... (read in full...)
How is an abortion done?
Q. I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....
A. 26 March 2008: Laura
You have lost this battle, and its not up to you read what the posters last update was! poor thing trying to explain WHY! her GP is a DOCTOR what qualifys YOU I am no dictor just trying to HELP not tell her what to do I have never said go ... (read in full...)
How is an abortion done?
Q. I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....
A. 26 March 2008: Laura
You seem to be missing the piont here this is NOT about YOU or ME is this girl asking about feotus pic? NO! Is she asking YOU how SHE will feel if she goes through with it NO! NOBODY KNOWS THAT! She is doing what has been advised go speak to... (read in full...)
How is an abortion done?
Q. I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....
A. 25 March 2008: Hi Poster
Just got to add SOME of the other aunts are just sorry they didn't get you to change your mind and want to make you feel even worse by saying to look at pics.These aunts have kids of there own they made their own choices nobody telling ... (read in full...)
How is an abortion done?
Q. I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....
A. 25 March 2008: Hi Poster
Glad that you went to GP and clinic where they can give you the best advice. The only other thing I can suggest to you is if you can't talk to your mother, talk with a friend/relative for support to go with you as yes it is scary fo... (read in full...)
How is an abortion done?
Q. I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....
A. 23 March 2008: Poster Glad you responded, sorry this had turned to a debate, as I said you don't have to explain yourself.I hope you make the right choice for YOU, take care of yourself and I wish you the best whatever you do.... (read in full...)
How is an abortion done?
Q. I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....
A. 22 March 2008: Annalisa & Co
Stand by everything I said before, sorry I thought you said you had an abortion before,like others have said before me this poster asked "How is an abortion done?" what happens when you go to clinic/hospital not moral religiou... (read in full...)
How is an abortion done?
Q. I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....
A. 22 March 2008: Annalisa
Correct me if I am wrong here but did you not say you had an abortion? (sex before marrage)did you think it was an easy choice? As for rape and being forced into unwanted pregnancy, it's not the baby's fault, is it?! That statemen... (read in full...)
How is an abortion done?
Q. I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....
A. 22 March 2008: TO THE POSTER
YOU SEE WHAT I MEAN PREACHERS I REST MY CASE FOR LAURA & ANNALISA BLA BLA BLA GO SAY A FEW HAIL MARYS AND ALL WILL BE FORGIVEN!... (read in full...)
How is an abortion done?
Q. I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....
A. 22 March 2008: laura
I see your only updating your own responces to this and not included mine preach all you like dear its only your views... (read in full...)
How is an abortion done?
Q. I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....
A. 22 March 2008: Laura
No one not even YOU can tell if this poster is goiong to suffer mental health problems, you are preaching against abortion plain and simple scaremongering, being influenced by the catholic church it a bloody disgrace. I am not a catholic... (read in full...)
How is an abortion done?
Q. I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....
A. 22 March 2008: Abotion is just to easy in the UK who says that YOU?
And you can't just walk in and have one there is a procedure you have to go through like everything else, so your WRONG!... (read in full...)
How is an abortion done?
Q. I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....
A. 22 March 2008: laura
read my notes I AM A MOTHER OF 2 I know what being a mother is ALL ABOUT also a single parent.I just hope you never find yourself in this position yes you make it sound easy anyone wanting an abortion can just walk in and get one!!!!!... (read in full...)
How is an abortion done?
Q. I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....
A. 22 March 2008: oh and just for the record i did answer the poster question as best i could and i have had termination. the hospital i went to was very kind and supportive, they did not judge me, even when i was in theatre before the put me under they asked if this ... (read in full...)
How is an abortion done?
Q. I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....
A. 22 March 2008: laura This is the knd of reply I am trying to piont out, there is too many folk on here saying this girl will kill her baby, she will regret having termination, it is HER RIGHT IN THIS COUNTRY to have a LEGAL ABORTION WITHOUT HAVING TO JUSTIF... (read in full...)
I've changed my pubic/private area for my husband, what do you think? Advice anyone?
Q. My husband and I have had a lot of trouble with our marriage recently (he had an affair which dear cupid has helped me with and thanks again for that.) It has been hell but I still haven't come to a final decision because it's only 3 and a half ...
A. 21 March 2008: Poster sorry I didn't answer your questions 1 NO 2 Yes they do, they shave it off again lol 3 You should decide that not your friend,alough she may think so! ... (read in full...)
I've changed my pubic/private area for my husband, what do you think? Advice anyone?
Q. My husband and I have had a lot of trouble with our marriage recently (he had an affair which dear cupid has helped me with and thanks again for that.) It has been hell but I still haven't come to a final decision because it's only 3 and a half ...
A. 21 March 2008: Dear poster
I am soo sad you are going through this awful experiance as I have been there. I know you want very badly to save your marrage 21yrs a long time BUT it was not YOUR FAULT your hubby had an affair you didn't make him. secong HE is the o... (read in full...)
I snooped and found out he cheated. How do I confront him on this?
Q. I am at a loss! I am in agony right now! I did something very bad and I know it. But he did something worse. My boyfriend accidentally left his email up on the computer and I know I should have just logged it out and ignored it. But I didnt. I ...
A. 21 March 2008: Girls
I was with my ex for 18yrs I thought I knew him? he lied to my face not just once but all throuhg his cheating it had been going on a yr I ask he denied. I checked couln't get proof name of g/f under his male cousins name in phone LIE when... (read in full...)
How is an abortion done?
Q. I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....
A. 21 March 2008: Hi Poster
Its me again after reading all the updates. I just don't get this I had termination 20 odd yrs ago I was before 12 weeks, I went to GP he referred me to hospital appiontment went there couple od days later admitted put to sllep had term... (read in full...)
I had an abortion because I thought we'd get back together but I haven't heard from him since then!
Q. hey pls pls help i had an abortion 4weeks ago and im starting to reget it so much, i had just split up from my ex when i found out and didnt know what to do. part of me wanted the baby but then part of me didnt when i told my ex he said he didnt ...
A. 17 March 2008: Hi brokenhearted
I guess we can all feel your pain, your young and have had to go through alot for you age, but you have your whole life ahead of you dear and I am sure its a case of you ex b/f was too young for this aswell & didn't want to settl... (read in full...)
What ideas do you have for us to talk to her parents constructively about our age gap?
Q. Hi, I am 32 and she is 17. We are having issues with her parents agreeing for us to see each other. I realize everyone has their opinion on my intent and her being young, but that isn't the question. My intent is for us to be together. ...
A. 17 March 2008: Hi
Just for the record I was not signed in & I posted that that reply anon 14th March.
So you would say yea if your daughter at 17 wanted to date a 32yr old? You didn't reply what do you have in common? how do you & she know she loves you? A... (read in full...)
How is an abortion done?
Q. I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....
A. 17 March 2008: Annalisa
Glad you got back to pick up on your statement wither it was 4 weeks6 weeks "what exactly did you see on the scan" A BABY!!! fully formed I disagree but what the heck. You are reiligous I just read another post about abortion and yes your... (read in full...)
How is an abortion done?
Q. I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....
A. 14 March 2008: Hi again
Just to see this from another point of view its like teen asking about child birth, now everyone has diff experiance some have it easy some have it a bit harder, do we tell everyone that labour is a nightmare & all the things that hap... (read in full...)
How is an abortion done?
Q. I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....
A. 14 March 2008: Just to add you removed the bit about a baby being fully formed at 4 weeks I wish to disagree with that & I am sure I will not be the only one!!!!... (read in full...)
I snooped and found out he cheated. How do I confront him on this?
Q. I am at a loss! I am in agony right now! I did something very bad and I know it. But he did something worse. My boyfriend accidentally left his email up on the computer and I know I should have just logged it out and ignored it. But I didnt. I ...
A. 14 March 2008: Hi poster
Am I missing something here also advice from natasia but these guy are LYING!! what more do you need to know!!!? If they lie about one thing they can LIE about more. maybe my standards are too high or I just can't stanf LIARS but c'mo... (read in full...)
How is an abortion done?
Q. I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....
A. 14 March 2008: Dear poster My hear goes out to you, you are only young 16/17 and you have not one but 2 older aunts on here scaring the living daylights out of you (shame on them!) Annalisa and Gina Bullock just because you both regreted termination does... (read in full...)
Help before monday please.
Q. I have been seperated from my ex for a year. he has stopped paying maintainence and now he wants to take our 21 month old daughter out with his new girlfriend (who i do not know) do i have the right to stop him from taking our daughter out....
A. 19 February 2008: Hi cazzy You know you can suss these guys a mile if he has only saw her 5 times in a year, he's not up for the job! Has he got parental rights? Even if he's on her birth cert he must have parerntal rights before he can do anything. Do... (read in full...)
Should I tell my Mom I lost my virginity?
Q. I recently had sex for the first time but i dont know if i should tell my mum or not, i dont want her hatin me for it, what could i do?...
A. 18 February 2008: Hi poster You have asked a very good question in todays day and age, how old are you? If you are really close to your mum and have a longterm boyfriend they maybe I would drop hints and let her know that you have taken proper measures not to ... (read in full...)
How can I stop having sex with my brother? I know it's wrong and I know it has to stop, I just don't know how!
Q. My parents went away for the weekend and my brother and I threw a party. After a wild night of drinking and everyone had left we made an attempt at cleaning up. We started messing about throwing stuff and toy fighting until he held me down and ...
A. 18 February 2008: Hi laura Q I know you live in the UK its has been in the papers recently that a MOTHER contacted the POLICE to inform them that her son/daughter had been having sex, the daughter was married with kids the brother had been away for yrs they met... (read in full...)
Will weed destroy my son's life?
Q. I found a small bag of pot and a 'pipe' in my son's room. He's 16 and he is smoking every day. He admitted to me he did this. And he said "don't worry...all the kid's do it" I am so worried about the long range effects and how this will ruin his ...
A. 17 February 2008: Dear poster Conflicting advice here, mature folk saying yes you should be worried younger folk saying its the norm not harmfull???? I am an old foggie lol talk to him say you know he's smoking not to do it in the house please,do not invite f... (read in full...)
Help before monday please.
Q. I have been seperated from my ex for a year. he has stopped paying maintainence and now he wants to take our 21 month old daughter out with his new girlfriend (who i do not know) do i have the right to stop him from taking our daughter out....
A. 17 February 2008: Hi poster
Yes you do.Agree with others if he stopped paying money has not seen her for a while he is a stranger to her and the g/f well she doesn't have to see her at all she is only his g/f. Explain this to him talk to him if you must and try ... (read in full...)
14 and worried my vagina is too tight to have sex...
Q. im worried my vagina is to tight to have sex, im only 14 but boys tell me its tight, it takes me so long to masterbate, even if i feel in the mood, is anything wrong with me?...
A. 17 February 2008: Hi poster
This is the perfect answer to all you young teen girls out there that want to have sex and all the young boys wanting to sow their wild oats just tell them all I am too tight to have sex think I will wait till i grow a bit ... (read in full...)
Disagreement about virginity with my boyfriend
Q. My boyfriend and I seem to have a disagreement regarding virginity. Four years ago, when I was just a 15 year old, I gave a BJ to a friend of mine. He was always a friend, nothing but. Two years later, this friend introduced me to my now boyfriend...
A. 17 February 2008: Hi How old is this guy? is he educated you are a virgin untill you have sexual intercourse full stop!!! wither is was consenual or not thats a fact. You engaged in a sexual act but not intercourse whereas he had intercourse so he was not a virg... (read in full...)
My ex may have a new guy, and I fear they slept together yesterday. How can I stop torturing myself??
Q. Since I found out my ex has met somebody new, I just can't get her out of my head... AGAIN!! We hadn't spoken for a long time, but about a week ago, we got back into the habit of talking to eachother again. We had done this before, but last...
A. 17 February 2008: Hi Andy Yes this gal is causing you apin big time. Ariel has been very gentle with you wereas Dr has been very forceful and both are giving you good advice take it everyone is telling you the same thing cut her out your life she makes you jelous... (read in full...)
I just don't understand why my ex didn't treat me properly...?
Q. Well to start off I was in a 3 year relationship with my ex and basically I just need to let it all out. I'm the person who posted about the low heartbeat. My baby was fine at 6 weeks, good heartbeat and looked healthy but then on the Friday I wen...
A. 17 February 2008: Hi
Got to agree with Dawnie, it saddens me too to read such a heartfelt post from one so young.This (thing) has done you a big favour although you might not think so now by leaving you, could you imagine what you & babys life would be like?
... (read in full...)
Should I go out with my ugly friend or hold out for someone better looking?
Q. my good friend bought me a valentines card and asked me out. i think hes ugly and am a bit embarresed by him but hes also sweet, funny and likes me for who i am on the inside. should i go out with him or wait for my ideal boy who would have my level ...
A. 17 February 2008: Hi Agree with hello 1 this girl is not expressing herself in the correct way but she will learn lol. Now just because you don't find him nice looking does not mean he's ugly (such a horrible word) never use that word lightly as the hurt it can ... (read in full...)
Seeking revenge over my boyfriend's cheating. What should I do?
Q. my bf cheated on me and now i wanna show him...i've revenge like feelings for him...i just wanna show him that he is the one who has lost something by cheating on me....otherwise it's goin to ruin my self esteem...we are in touch on day to day ...
A. 17 February 2008: Dear poster We have all been there, but believe me cut him out your life, be happy, get on with things this is the best revenge you can get. mandy had to laugh you burned his playstation lol i cut up his clothes that i bought his underwear, scrat... (read in full...)
Please help me cut this lying cheating man out my life forever!
Q. Please help. i need to move on from this constant heartbreak again. I cant believe it,i look back on this site and with the questions I asked, i didnt see this coming. 7 years with the boyfriend only to have his ex phone me and say she slept wi...
A. 15 February 2008: Hi
Hope you are feeling better today dear, my thoughts are with you know exactly what your going through, it's tough but you will make it.
Take Care... (read in full...)
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