He was a real brute in the bedroom and forced himself on me, and then couldnt understand why i chucked him out! Do men get kicks out hurting women during sex ?
Q. hiya everyone, this is my sister in laws account. she recomend i go on here with my problem as she didnt really to know my problem. well im not sure if this is going to get posted because its a little extreme but if it does, oh please some one help. ...
A. 9 June 2006: I still say you should report the B...... as he will do this to some other poor woman. Eddie i know you are taking stick for this - think your first time with new g/f and you do this???? plus at least with a b/j it not painful this was and prob ... (read in full...)
He was a real brute in the bedroom and forced himself on me, and then couldnt understand why i chucked him out! Do men get kicks out hurting women during sex ?
Q. hiya everyone, this is my sister in laws account. she recomend i go on here with my problem as she didnt really to know my problem. well im not sure if this is going to get posted because its a little extreme but if it does, oh please some one help. ...
A. 9 June 2006: This is serious how old are you? if this was your first sexual experiance the this is not the norm. sex should not be you pinned down and him doing whatever he wants there is something really wrong with this guy you need to muster up all the courage ... (read in full...)
When we argued, my BF started spreading around copies of my sexy photo!
Q. Hi I am 13 years old and I have a 15 year old boyfriend. We don't do anything sexual or anything and we aren't ready for that yet. I had a picture took of me in my sexy underwear and I was laying in a sexy pose. He swore to me when he took it he wo...
A. 5 June 2006: Laugh and say "you should see the ones I took of him"!... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?
Q. Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...
A. 5 June 2006: Hello all
just to add my tupenceworth (lol) the papers today lady mills now sir paul Married her and surely must know her past and now it is in the press for us all to read, now as a female i am not passing judgement but it must be really hard for ... (read in full...)
I think I have caught my BF cheating.
Q. dear cupid, i really am very down at the minute. while i was pregnant i found a photograph of a mystery girl in my boyfriends wallet, on the back of the pic it said i hope you like it keep it with you claudia!! i thought this was very disrespectful. ...
A. 5 June 2006: Mary
Tell him it's over he can be with Claudia NOW as you don't want him pack his bags and throw him out THEN he will have to make up his own mind although he should already know what he;s going to do either go with Claudia or if he wants you back... (read in full...)
Im only 14 and being treated as though I were the parent, My mum does nothing whilst I raise my brother and sister, I dont get any time to myself, what should I do ?
Q. hi i am only 14 yars old and already might as well be a parent. i get up every single morning at 5 o clock have breakfast get a shower bush my teeth and get dressed then at 6:30 i get my little brother an sister age 2 and my little sister age 1 up ...
A. 4 June 2006: Hi
Why does your mum not do these things for the baby's they are hers after all is there a problem? I must agreee with martini you are doing a very good job on this I wonder who taught you? glad you have spoke to your dad and he is going to help... (read in full...)
Cesarean or natural pregnancy experiences wanted!
Q. Hi, I am 6 months pregnant and may need to have a c-section to deliver my baby. I am wanting other womans opinions on their experiences with both c-section and natural births. Thanks for any help you can give me....
A. 3 June 2006: Have you had your baby yet? hope it went well the only thing I can safley say is it is worth it all in the end and this is when all the hard work starts (lol)... (read in full...)
my brother's 19yr old friend wants sex and I am only 13, what do I do?
Q. hi i am 13 and i am confused my 19 year old step brothers friend keeps on nagging me and asking me if want to do things with him. he has kissed me plenty of times which i dont mind we hug every time we see each other and we have snogged but that ...
A. 2 June 2006: Hi
The best advice I can give you and this is very similar to something that happend to my own niece is TELL AN ADULT as you are only 13 he has all the power and you have none he would even say you said it was alright to kiss you this is wrong!! ... (read in full...)
Could he snatch my babies if they have his last name?
Q. Hi there, I have a new problem. Im due to hace twins next week. The babies' dad and I split up when I first became pregnant and he has someone new now. I decided I would bring them up myself, I am a mature woman with a good income and these are my ...
A. 29 May 2006: Hi
Having read your post I think you already know the answer,what do you know about this guy, would you panick everytime you had to hand the baby's over at visits ect ect.I think you should tell him when they are born let him visit in your home as h... (read in full...)
My ex owes me money! Can I get it back???
Q. hiya im just wondering is there anyway i can get money back of mt ex that he owes me.I lent him 300ponds back in january i sent him 60pounds through the post in march and payed 60pounds for his phone bill.he always said he would pay me back but now ...
A. 22 May 2006: Hi
If you can instruct a lawyer to send him a letter stating about the money you had LENT him as the other aunt said if you have any proof include this in the letter it might give him a fright and please LEARN A LESSON but it may be a costly one... (read in full...)
Husband won't let my off-the-rails son move back in...
Q. i am married my husband is the stepfather to my child he is 23 a real hand full he steals cloths from us lies is in trouble with the courts for all sorts things is on dope he is now at his lowest and is living in a night shellter depressed and has ...
A. 13 May 2006: Hi there
I really feel for you is he your only child? The only thing I can suggest right now is for you still to be there for your son he will always need you, make sure he is eating and is generally ok even if he is in the hostel try to enco... (read in full...)
We broke up and now there's a new guy on the scene, what should I do?
Q. Ive recently split from my girlfriend of 2 years. She didnt used to like the fact that I had a couple of pints after work each night. She warned me plenty of times to cut it out and i told her that 2 pints per night is no problem to anyones health ...
A. 11 May 2006: Hi I think she is afraid to commit to you as her dad had a drink problem and although you say you only have 2 pints every night as someone who lived with an alchoholic in many cases (don't take this the wrong way) this is how it starts then it gets ... (read in full...)
My husband won't help me out of debt and our old babysitter keeps asking about him.....what is this?
Q. i am into terrible debt and my husband won't me I owe £10,000 he promised to help me now he won't and I have no money as he is not giving me any. and to make problems worse. A woman who once babysitted for me has since then always been asking how my ...
A. 11 May 2006: Hi
Why is it you that owes this money is it not both of you? what you need to do is contact the people you owe this money to ask them to freeze the interest if they can as you oew (tell them the amount come to an arrangement with them ask for an i... (read in full...)
I saw a woman masterbating on his computer, but he says the window just popped open!
Q. I walked into my b/f's (whom I live and work with) office to see his MSN messenger window open with his picture on the bottom and the female was using a camera to masterbate for him. He claims that the window justed popped open. He has never given ...
A. 10 May 2006: NO... (read in full...)
I can't talk to my husband, I need some advice please.
Q. i cant talk to my husband because he is to judgementle he thinks he knows everythang and when i talk to him he gets mad he says its me getting mad yes i do but not untill he does, and he hates my family he talks about them all the time and he says ...
A. 10 May 2006: Hi
You & your husband need to sit down calmly and discuss how you both feel it's not a matter of taking sides bla bla bla he should listen to what you have to say and you do the same as if you can't your marrage is doomed, do not raise your voi... (read in full...)
Should I have an affair??
Q. I met a man at work when he came from an agency to cover shifts, we went for a drink after work and had a kiss in his car the only thing is he's married and wants us to have an affair. Should i because i don't want anyone full time and it would su...
A. 10 May 2006: Cazzy Do not Trust this man anyone that can cheat on their partner is a LIAR beware put your feeling to 1 side for a moment when he goes home bet the wife ask how was your day? what did you do? and he will LIE to her face now if that don't tell you... (read in full...)
My friend is in love with an alcoholic... Will he ever change?
Q. hello again,my friend is head over heals for a bloke who is an alcaholic,he declares his undying love for her then will not phone or visit her.she realizes that she should not expect to much from him as he obviously has big issues of his own,but ...
A. 10 May 2006: All of the above answers are true with 1 thing in common the drink always wins, the damage cannot be repaired your friend will want to help. but it will be at the expence of herself & her son. I to was with a partner for 18 yrs with a drink problem, ... (read in full...)
He don't know if he wants me, his wife, or his freedom... anything I can do?
Q. i'm seeing a married man who has only been with 1 woman for 18 years. he wants to leave her but is scared of the unknown. now he's walked out he doesn't know if he wants her, me or freedom. i love him to bits, what can i do...
A. 8 May 2006: leave him alone to figure it out by himself if he wants you he will let you know if he goes back to his wife please walk away and let them sort it out if its freedom well that could be a problem as he don;t really want to settle just play the field ... (read in full...)
I still love my ex-husband and is now getting a divorce from his new wife.
Q. After our 21 year marriage ended in divorce approximately 2.5 yrs ago, I still love him and want him back in my life. We've both hurt each other deeply, he re-married quickly and has now filed for divorce, he knew he made a mistake and jumped to ...
A. 8 May 2006: Hey I hope it works out for you take your time be honest and ask him to be honest with you go out together have fun date again and I wish you all the best... (read in full...)
He abused me, we broke up and now I am going to give his ring back, but I want to tell him off good. Any good tips on what I should say?
Q. Hi there, I was hoping to find some advice for my problem...I was engaged before with this Muslim Egyptian guy, but he turned out to be controlling, possessive and emotionally abusive and I broke up with him. He now wants the engagment ring he gave ...
A. 29 April 2006: Nothing !!!... (read in full...)
He abused me, we broke up and now I am going to give his ring back, but I want to tell him off good. Any good tips on what I should say?
Q. Hi there, I was hoping to find some advice for my problem...I was engaged before with this Muslim Egyptian guy, but he turned out to be controlling, possessive and emotionally abusive and I broke up with him. He now wants the engagment ring he gave ...
A. 29 April 2006: You want him to stay away GIVE HIM THE RING BACK end of story but I get the feeling you are wanting some kind of revenge because of the way he treated you this is IT now walk away and get on with the rest of your life. ... (read in full...)
I just want a life like everybody else but i feel so alone due to my weight!
Q. hi, Im at such a loose end. This is going to be very long but i really need some help, i just don't know what 2 do anymore. Im 15 years old and i have topped the scales at 19.6 stones. Im so worried i don't want to reach 20 stones, its so embarras...
A. 28 April 2006: Sophie
first of all i must say so sorry about your mum this must be really hard for you and you are only a kid i would say go to the clinic do you have a close family member who will go with you & support you and I would also mention to them abou... (read in full...)
After so much is there any chance she will finally be with me??
Q. This whole mess sounds too stupid to even talk about when I write it out, but my feelings are still real and I don't know what to do. I've known "Sally" for about four years now. She was married when we met, with two children from a previous ...
A. 25 April 2006: You have answered this yourself (Tom, Dick, Harry) come on have you heard of unrequited love that 's what you have dear she won't commit to anyone jumping here & there I think your family have yoyr best interests at heart stay away find someone else ... (read in full...)
Guys..a question about porn. Where do men draw the line between 'normal' and 'abnormal' porn?
Q. Advice mainly from men please! I have always felt pretty liberal over porn where women choose to display themselves or have sex as some like to it, but you 'normal' guys out there, where do you draw the line between normal and abnormal? My ...
A. 23 April 2006: Hi
can i add i think this thing with your daughter has been festering away at you for yrs you & your husband have 3 children so he must have been able to do 3 times, as for the porn issue some men expecially if they watch porn want to try thes... (read in full...)
How do I stop our insecurities wrecking our relationship??
Q. Ok guys and gals, Im really counting on you for this one. Sorry for length. The situation is this: I started chatting to a girl about 6 months ago online, at the time that fell apart and a relative died. I helped her through this and we became c...
A. 22 April 2006: Dear Dazzerg
I have been following your problem on forum as I am getting hooked on this as well lol and i got to agree with Irish as the only other thing I would add is you are mature man maybe you should only tlk to folk on msn but if you are look... (read in full...)
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