Do I have a chance of winning this guy away from his fiance?
Q. Right, so my question is fairly straight to the point - do I have any chance of winning back this guy from his fiancee? Allow me to elaborate. I am in my mid twenties and for a couple of months (2007) dated an awesome guy that I fell madly in lo...
A. 10 September 2009: What should you do?
I think you need to leave him alone, that's what you should do.
I think that you need to move your focus off of this mans life & live your own. Fact of the matter is this (and forgive me if I sound rude but I can't find ano... (read in full...)
Was this verbal abuse?
Q. Hi. I have been married for about one year, and we went out for about one year, so we have been together for two years. I have been depressed anyways, Idk why maybe because I am going to be graduating soon and this is a life change for me, graduati...
A. 8 September 2009: I don't believe that "raising your voice" or saying "you aren't listening to me" is verbal abuse at all. People do get upset and they can get kind of loud, that's normal for some. However if he's saying things to tear you down or make you feel bad ... (read in full...)
Should my friend get married to her boyfriend who has leukemia?
Q. My friend has recently come to me for advice, and I'm not sure what to say to her. For now, we'll care her Katrina, and her boyfriend, Craig. So, Craig has leukemia and his doctors claim that he has three months to live. Oh, yeah and he's eightee...
A. 6 September 2009: This is a very delicate situation.
First off, I could understand how he (Craig) feels at this point in his life, he must really love your friend. But being that she is underage, they can't get married right now. And like the other Aunt said bel... (read in full...)
I feel like I don't fit in because of my weight...are there any diets that work?
Q. im 29 married wit 3 kids.i work in the travel industry and feel i dont fit in due 2 my weight.im about 10 kg over weight.i just want to lose it quick and easily.i feel unhappy and unattractive because of my weight but just dnt have the willpower 2 ...
A. 6 September 2009: You don't have to do a serious very hard diet if you don't want to. You can start with just changing your eating habits first, eat lots of fruits & vegetables. Limit your portions of food, drink plenty of water & if you can do moderate exercise 30 ... (read in full...)
Why is my ex boyfriend reading my emails but not responding?
Q. ex boyfriend of 15 years, that I lived with, dumped me two years ago. I loved him very much! more then i could express in words. he ended up marrying a foreigner. His third marriage. blocked me from his email, won't talk to me. Pretty much disowned ...
A. 6 September 2009: Umm...are you really serious?
I'm not trying to be rude or anything, but I think you're making yourself look very immature & very childish by doing this. And I also agree with everything Quiet-Echo said below.
It has been 2 years & you need... (read in full...)
I"m constantly afraid he's upset with me
Q. is there something wrong with me? I am constantly afraid my boyfriend is upse with me. When I write to him and he don't reply I think he is upset with me. When I call him and he doesn't pick up I think he is upset with me. Something I do something ...
A. 6 September 2009: I think you need to take a chill pill & relax!!!!
If you haven't done anything, then STOP worrying before you really do something & really upset him.
I'm not sure why you feel this way, but it doesn't make any sense to me. If you call and he ... (read in full...)
He says its "just sex and nothing more"
Q. I'm living in a house with 3 guys. I fooled around with one of the guys before i moved in but it cooled off and stopped before i moved in. But within the last month weve been cuddling, and started having sex. Were trying to hide it from the room...
A. 2 September 2009: If he said it's just sex...then it's just sex, if there was more to it, then just like he said it's just sex, he'll say that it's more to it also.
I really hope you don't settle for this type of thing.
... (read in full...)
After a threesome, my gf is pregnant. What do we do now?
Q. My girlfriend and I are both 25. Normally she has a very regualar menstrual cycle, the pill make her sick so we avoid sex on the days she ovulates. Her last period was period was July 1, which means she should have ovualted from June 12-15, we had ...
A. 1 September 2009: Wow! Talk about careless...
If she is pregnant, you'll just have to get all guys involved a DNA test.
Hope you learn your lesson from this. ... (read in full...)
He has lied and cheated..and yet can be so good to me...
Q. I have been with my fiance for about 9 months. I am a 22 year old college student and he is a 26 year old with a job, never went to college. This relationship has had a lot of problems, let me just say that to start with. When we got together, we ...
A. 1 September 2009: Hey,
Glad I could be a help...wish you the best!... (read in full...)
Should I have sex with him or just keep it at oral?
Q. im thinking about having sex with this guy who is older than me. he is like 26 and im almost 16. we have been planning on getting together soon. should i really go for it or jus keep our relationship at oral?...
A. 31 August 2009: You are seriously asking for trouble!!!!!!!!!!
Do you not know that he could get arrested for being with you whether it's oral sex or not?
Have you ever thought that he himself is taking advantage of you because of your age?
No matter how o... (read in full...)
He has lied and cheated..and yet can be so good to me...
Q. I have been with my fiance for about 9 months. I am a 22 year old college student and he is a 26 year old with a job, never went to college. This relationship has had a lot of problems, let me just say that to start with. When we got together, we ...
A. 29 August 2009: First of all I will say this: no one that can cheat & lie to you is good for you and that goes both ways. If you can't trust each other enough and stay totally committed & honest to and with each other, then you really can't enjoy the benefit a TRUE ... (read in full...)
Only 14-25 year olds answer, please: I'm unsure about what to expect when it comes to handjobs and giving head.
Q. hello, i am a 14 year old girl going into eight grade. this is the grade where girls start to give hand jobs. I am just unsure of what i should do if this comes upon me, and how it will come upon me. will he most likely ask me to do it, or will...
A. 29 August 2009: First of all, there NO certain "grade" to start doing sexual activities...so just from that statement alone: You seriously need to grow up! And neither is there any law listed in this world that says that anywhere, you should only do things because ... (read in full...)
Should I borrow money from my boyfriend?
Q. Does anyone have an opinion about whether one should ever ask to borrow money from your bf, especially if it's a sensitive point? I am nearly broke and don't know if I can last till next paycheck. I can't ask family at this point, and have a...
A. 28 August 2009: If you have that kind of relationship with him, then sure,go for it. Explain to him what's going on in your life at this point, so he'll know how to help you.
My only thing is don't begin to use him as a crutch & don't let money be a constant... (read in full...)
How can I make him change without hurting him?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for about half a year but we've been best friends for about 4 years. At first, everything started out great but soon i began to notice things that really bugged me. One, he doesn't drive so I'm always driving us ...
A. 28 August 2009: You CAN'T change him or anyone else for that matter!
The most that you can do is express how you feel to him, talk to him. People don't always know how you feel unless you say something, and in a relationship as long as yours has been with him... (read in full...)
I lied and told him I'm a virgin and now I can't tell him the truth!
Q. hi i need advice from anyone out there. im engaged getting married in a few months he thinks im a virgin i told him that i had a medical procedure and they kind of broke my hymen so i dont think i have a hymen told him its easy for me to insert my ...
A. 27 August 2009: I agree with Sphronas... You need to tell him the truth. A true relationship, a true marriage is built with truth among a whole lot of other things. And if you can lie about this now, what other things will you lie about in the future? That's n... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has arranged for me to have sex with her friends! Should I run a mile?
Q. I know how this is going to sound but it's the truth, I swear to God. I've been with my girlfriend for three years now. She's the woman of my dreams to say the least and our sex life has always been fantastic. However, I've discovered a sid...
A. 26 August 2009: Your girlfriend was way out of line to set this up & to send pictures to these women.
You need to tell her how you feel about the whole thing, if you don't want to do it, then don't do it! She had no right to involve you in something like thi... (read in full...)
Does this count as rape?
Q. I am a 20 year old male who has been screwing around with my 35 year old married neighbor for 5 years. She is a beautiful woman who has introduced me to many things sexually. She is very kinky and very persuasive. Over the years she has given me ...
A. 25 August 2009: Regardless of what your interactions with her were before, this happened to you without your consent. She let her husband in without your permission, so it's rape-if at that moment you disagreed with what was taking place.... (read in full...)
Is this an STD? Cancer? I'm scared!
Q. I am 16 and about 3 months ago me and my boyfriend started having sex. The first time we didn't use a condom (I know it was stupid, please don't lecture me on it :/ And he withdrew before he was about to finish) We were both virgins and had ...
A. 25 August 2009: This is not a medical website or a doctors office, which is where you need to go to find out what's going with you!
It may be an STD OR STI or it may not be, could be a yeast infection, etc. You just need to get to a doctor to be absolute... (read in full...)
She told me I must get her pregnant in the next few weeks and we've never had sex!
Q. I'm 18, left college, going to university in September, my girlfriend's 17. She's told me I must get her pregnant in the next few weeks. I told her this is just not going to happen, and I said I will leave the relationship if she attempts this. ...
A. 25 August 2009: I agree with Honeypie!
She does need help, seriously! Maybe she's kind of stressed by the fact that you're leaving for school, but to want a baby because of something like that is still ridiculous, if that's the case & then to outright lie and ... (read in full...)
Are his excuses true or do you think he just doesn't want to live with me?
Q. hiya can anyone offer any advice? im 19yrs old and my bf is 23, iv been with him for 13months, im 5months pregnant and we moved into our own house 2weeks ago, all the stuff in the house (tvs, comp n tables, wardrobe, draws, pots n pans etc) is mine ...
A. 25 August 2009: At least he works...
No one can here can tell you what his problem is, he has to open up to you & tell you himself. But maybe one day you should make a nice candlelit dinner or do something relaxing for him, so he can feel comfortable & then voi... (read in full...)
Threesome with her virgin friend?
Q. i have have been dating this girl for about a year that i care strongly for and she cares for me the same but i was wondering if it would be okay if we had a threesome with her friend? there is only one thing her friend is a virgin what should i do? ...
A. 25 August 2009: Why would you even think to include the "virgin friend" in something like that in the first place? ... (read in full...)
Am I being pushy?
Q. This guy likes me and I like him, we talk a lot on aim but every time I ask when can we hang out he seems to not know or doesn't answer me. I don't understand. Also ever since then he seems to flirt less and less. I think I just made him ...
A. 24 August 2009: You need to give a little more info.
How long have you known him, how old are you guys, etc...things like that can help us give our opinions to help you:)... (read in full...)
Did my message scare him away?
Q. Hey so I recently reconnected with an ex boyfriend who I let go about two years ago because I was afraid to fall in love with him. Well we hung out recently and things went great and he text me a few times after saying how much fun he had and then ...
A. 19 August 2009: Give him some more time to respond, he obviously wants to really give your message some serious thought, so RELAX, have a glass of milk and just be patient. Let him respond when he responds:)... (read in full...)
My husband has not called me after an argument more than a week ago
Q. I left the house after an argument with my husband 10 days ago. He does not have an easy temper. I sent him an email with the demands of no more drinking and a couple others. It has been one and a half week and he has not answered my one email ...
A. 19 August 2009: Well if I got an email of "demands", I'd probably not respond either. There may be a possibility that he didn't read it (of course,I don't know that for sure, just saying that could be the case, but you know your husband more than anyone)
Why d... (read in full...)
I am changing, and my boyfriend isn't....
Q. My boyfriend and I have lived together for almost 2 years. I love him very much. I can't imagine my life without him. But, we are experiencing a lot of strife due to the fact that I feel like I am growing as a person much more rapidly than he. Maybe ...
A. 19 August 2009: I understand your frustration, but you CAN'T MAKE anyone change. You are at a place in your life where you're doing things to better yourself, and you realize that a lot more can be done with your life & you want your boyfriend to better himself,you ... (read in full...)
Miscarriage, period, or implantation bleeding?
Q. Hey everyone, my age is not 13-15 I messed up on the registration crap im 20 yrs old and im trying to have my first baby with my husband of 2 years. Ok simple question am I having my period, implantation bleeding or a miscarriage? I had unprotec...
A. 19 August 2009: Satindesire said it best: go to the doctor!... (read in full...)
I put alot of effort into this relationship but it is never acknowledged!
Q. Hello, I have been in a relationship with someone I adore for just under a year. Against better judgment I decided to move in with my boyfriend after being given the ultimatum to move in or we stop seeing each other. I feel as though I have pu...
A. 18 August 2009: MOW THE LAWN!!! Wow, why can't he do those things? He's using you, very controlling, verbal abuse-no one should be called a bitch for any reason. I don't think this type of thing is healthy, one partner does not make the relationship, it... (read in full...)
Married co-worker wants to take me to dinner and a show?
Q. Okay so I started interning at a newspaper after last month. A web designer guy stopped by the office once to meet my boss. Afterward he annoyed me for 30 minutes asking for advice about his mistress!!! He eventually left but he has been calling the ...
A. 18 August 2009: Why don't you just ignore him? Whatever the case, don't get involved with him! Simple as that, if you don't start nothing, there won't be nothing! And how could a man like that have "pure" intentions?????? Think about it!... (read in full...)
I need closure!
Q. I NEED CLOSURE!! How do I go about gettin closure from a 'relationship' when the other person involved doesn't want anything to do with me and willpobably just laaugh at me??? I came out of a 'friends with benfits' situation about 4 years ...
A. 18 August 2009: I'm sorry but I have to agree with hijacked on this one, and I know her post may be a hard pill to swallow :) but thers still truth within it.
There is already closure here, especially on his part! Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that you dese... (read in full...)
Is it out of the question that I could be pregnant?
Q. Ok, im 19 and engaged to my boyfriend (21) we live together and have been together for 4 years, we have recently started trying for a baby, ti is what we both really want! we have been having unprotected sex ever other day for the past 2 months. ...
A. 18 August 2009: I think you need to be a little more calm about this & do as your doctor says and go back for another test after you have or not have your period. Try to remain calm & relax (breathe with me, inhale, now exhale...lol I'm just kidding) anyway I ... (read in full...)
What is this horrible smelling discharge?
Q. I know it's really gross, but I have really vulgure smelling vaginal discharge. It's horrible, I can smell it all the time and I honestly feel like other people can smell it. I sent of a urine sample to the doctor and it came back with "no further ...
A. 18 August 2009: In response to Mr. RAINOFFIRE...can you not read?
She did say the following words:
"The last time I had SEX it hurt too, which was about a month ago. I've been too scared to do it again incase it does hurts again. My BOYFRIEND is getting real... (read in full...)
What does "I miss you more than you will ever know" mean?
Q. Okay so most of you know my story. I'm female and in love with my best female friend. She knows how I feel about her, you can read my other posts to get the whole story. Anyway I want to know why she would sign off on an email the following way? "I ...
A. 18 August 2009: It means that she just misses you and you have no idea how much she does!!!!! It's nothing bad at all. Not rocket science, she just misses you.... (read in full...)
I can't get my girlfriend to climax!! What can I do?
Q. hi. no matter how hard i try i cannot get my girlfriend to orgasm!! It doesnt matter what position we do, how hard, how fast i go, or how long we do it, she never comes. she also never comes through oral sex, however long i do it for or anything....
A. 17 August 2009: Hey...every1 here gave good advice & I do say try those things, but I have to add that you should not make her "climax" the goal of your lovemaking. Instead of trying so hard to do that, focus more on just pleasing her & making sure she's satisfied, ... (read in full...)
What is this horrible smelling discharge?
Q. I know it's really gross, but I have really vulgure smelling vaginal discharge. It's horrible, I can smell it all the time and I honestly feel like other people can smell it. I sent of a urine sample to the doctor and it came back with "no further ...
A. 17 August 2009: You need to go to the doctor and get tested for STDs and other things of that nature. It could be a yeast infection, UTI etc. but in order to know you really, really need to go to the doctor: not send in a urine sample, but go to the doctors office! ... (read in full...)
Is making out with my sister incest?
Q. I could use advice. I was playing with my sister and we started to make out i kissed her and she didnt pull away or get mad.I kissed her more and touched her breast and began to suck them she was just wearing a tank top and tight shorts i began ...
A. 17 August 2009: What do you honestly think? It's incest and disgusting no matter how innocent you may think it is.... (read in full...)
Is a bed and breakfast a good place for having sex?
Q. I have been going with a good man. he asked me to get away at bed and breakfast for a few nights. We have not make love/had sex. Is a bed and breakfast a good place for making love/having sex? Other romantic places and ideas for us? A conce...
A. 17 August 2009: I think it's a great place, quiet & romantic.
Just keep it low as much as you can,but hey not everyone can contain themselves:) ... (read in full...)
The deadline for telling his wife has come and gone. How do I tell her anonymously?
Q. I have been carrying on an affair with a married man. He is going to leave his wife, I do believe that. The thing is, the original timeline for him leaving her has already come and gone. Circumstances have just naturally happened that have caused ...
A. 17 August 2009: If you don't know by now that a married man will NEVER leave his wife for a "SIDE PIECE" by now, then you never will. I mean really, think about it: if he really wanted you that bad there would have never been an deadline in the first place. GROW UP ... (read in full...)
2 years and no proposal..no love?
Q. My bf of 2yreas hasnt yet pr0posed and its seri0usly geting t0 me. im 18 and he 23. he never even bringz up the subject. cud it be that he doesnt l0ve me?...
A. 16 August 2009: Just because he hasn't asked you to marry him, does not mean that he doesn't love you sweetheart!
It's only been 2 years & you two are still getting to know & learn about each other. And sometimes 2 years isn't nearly enough time to decide i... (read in full...)
Husband stuck on porn!
Q. I don't show it to my husband how much he hurts me, but it really bears down heavily Before our wedding my husband was really a great prince to me. Too late. We're married...and I depend on him financially now, although this could change if I move...
A. 16 August 2009: Have you tried talking to him yet? Does he know how you feel? Why give up on your marriage without trying to save it?
You say you're the quiet type & that's fine & well, but there should be a place of boldness & confidence when it comes to your ... (read in full...)
Wife tied me up for bondage then proceeded to list all the things I did wrong, and no sex!
Q. hi aunty,I got married for 6 months now..2 nights back,we decided for bondage sex,so my wife tied me down to the bed with handcuffs..intially she teased me and kissed..once I was tied up properly and at her mercy..she slapped me..and then yelled at ...
A. 16 August 2009: She should not have done that. You don't use sexual actions and/or abuse to talk about relationship problems. Why? Because they don't get solved that way.
You really need to discuss this with your wife & let her know that if she has complain... (read in full...)
Did I need to pee? Or was that an orgasm?
Q. Hi all, I'm a 16 year old girl and this question is gals only because I'm fairly certain that guys can't answer it and if they can...well, I'll be a bit worried! Anyway, I turned 16 a couple of weeks ago and my bf and I had sex for the first ti...
A. 15 August 2009: Lol...it may have very well been an orgasm! Orgasm may be different for every woman, so it is possible that this was it was for you :) Now the thump on the back thing I have never heard of, but I won't say anything against it. Maybe anoth... (read in full...)
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