Did I need to pee? Or was that an orgasm?
Q. Hi all, I'm a 16 year old girl and this question is gals only because I'm fairly certain that guys can't answer it and if they can...well, I'll be a bit worried! Anyway, I turned 16 a couple of weeks ago and my bf and I had sex for the first ti...
A. 15 August 2009: Lol...it may have very well been an orgasm! Orgasm may be different for every woman, so it is possible that this was it was for you :) Now the thump on the back thing I have never heard of, but I won't say anything against it. Maybe anoth... (read in full...)
Want to be with my stepsister how do I get her?
Q. Okay i know it may sound a little sick, but i want to be with may sister... Granted she's my STEP sister, but still, i know she would be against it if i told her that i secretly love her and want to be with her because she considers us siblings even ...
A. 15 August 2009: Young man...simply put, you need to find someone else to be with!
Especially if you already know that she values the "morals" of being siblings, then leave her alone!, don't try to change her mind about that. You cannot make her or anyone e... (read in full...)
My husband seems to have taken a vacation from work just to sit around all day eating and watching porn!
Q. My husband has taken 6 weeks off work. Nothing odd about that you may think, after all we all have to have a holiday, don't we? Well, it's his behaviour that's worrying me. He just sits in front of the television eating nachos, corn c...
A. 14 August 2009: Wow, not many here have really written anything comforting at all!
I believe that your husband may be going through something deeper & difficult. You need to one day sit down with him and really ask him in kindness what's going on. The things t... (read in full...)
My girlfriend says "You would try if you wanted it" way too much..
Q. Ok so it's perfectly fair to play hard to get, it's a real turn on in the bedroom and can make the average romp become a wild night to remember. This is NOT the case when she says it every time you want to do something, holding hands is a prime...
A. 14 August 2009: Talk to her, let her know that you think it's cool sometimes, but she takes it overboard at other times. Just Explain to your girlfriend how it makes you feel, tell her what you're telling us.
Wish u the best:) ... (read in full...)
Bad skin help?
Q. i am a 13 year old girl who has bad skin.i have mild acne but i am looking for ways to clear it up.any advice?...
A. 14 August 2009: You can try Proactiv Solution...it's a little expensive, but trust me it really, really works :)... (read in full...)
I don't want to just live with him, I want some sort of commitment.
Q. My boyfriend wants me and my kids to move out of my house and move in with him. I have 3 children and he has two. One is an adult and the other never stays with him during the week. I don't want to just live with him, I want some sort of ...
A. 13 August 2009: I can understand that you want commitment, but I think you should wait a little longer. I mean 2 1/2 years really isn't that long to really decide if you want to go even further to more commitment. And I'm not saying that you're wrong for feeling ... (read in full...)
I feel my wife wants me to compromise too much. thoughts please?
Q. We all know that marriage is about giving and compromising, but what should I do if the compromise I have to make is against the personal values i hold dear, and I have to give in to demands that don't make sense to me? My newly married wife and...
A. 12 August 2009: I agree with the other guys post they said everything well. I do believe that you need to discuss with your wife how you feel. Marriage isn't just about her, it's about the both of you. And if you doing certain things just to make her happy & you ... (read in full...)
LDR and he has no phone or internet access
Q. Hi there, bear with me, this is a long one. My boyfriend and I ave been in together for just over 3 months. We have been Long distance for 7 weeks now - i was travelling and now he's travelling (both independant plans we'd organised months...
A. 10 August 2009: Well I can totally understand how you feel. I've been in a LDR with my boyfriend for the past 3 1/2 years now (we've made it work & it's wonderful:). So I know that it's hard for you, but you can make it. And of course it takes LOTS & LOTS of ... (read in full...)
I've found out my wife is a slut
Q. Hello everyone. I'm 20 years old and my wife is 33 as of August 2, 2009. I just found out Saturday night August 8, 2009, that, well what I believe is a slut. She told over her 32 years of living she has had, 14 sexual partners. Some were one night ...
A. 10 August 2009: You should of thought of all this before you married her!!!!!
She's older than you, therefore she is entitled to have had more experiences. If you wanted to marry a nun, then you should have married one. Get over yourself & love your wife for who ... (read in full...)
Desperately in need of some sound advice, one-on-one
Q. I have an incredible amount of confusion going round in my head at the moment and its driving me crazy, like I just really need to talk some things through with anyone that will listen, but all my friends see me as the easy going one, like I dn't ...
A. 10 August 2009: Hey...I'm willing to help...just send me a message!... (read in full...)
I'm in love with a married man...I'm torn and confused about what I'm doing here. Any help?
Q. I'm 19 and i'm in love with a married man. We met once, and we've just been talking over the phone. He sends shivers down my body to the point to where i don't know if i want to cry or have some type of sexual release. I'm a little worried, because ...
A. 9 August 2009: You can't stop talking to him or you won't stop? Because you CAN stop! And you SHOULD STOP! There is someone else out in the world that is NOT married that you can have, let that person come to you. Don't help this crazy man upset his home and wre... (read in full...)
Help...I don't know who the father is! What should I do?
Q. Well I'm 8 months pregnant and I'm in a pickle... I've been with J for a year now, but sometime around christmas we had a fight and I went to my exs house (T) and u can do that math on that, well I went to Ts house christmas eve and then christmas ...
A. 9 August 2009: You don't know what to do?
How about being honest! And getting a DNA test when the child is born. Don't be deceitful anymore about this issue...do the right thing.... (read in full...)
She lied about her past lovers! Should I trust her?
Q. i have been married to my wife for 13 years i just found out that she lied too me about how many people that she had sex with prior too us getting married she told me that she just rembered about one more person about five years ago but just now ...
A. 9 August 2009: Is it really that big of a deal?
Don't make something out of nothing, past lovers are just that: past! And she may have really forgotten & not thought too much about it to bring it up when she did remember...so what. Get over yourself man, you... (read in full...)
My Aunt's husband wants to marry me. Is this possible?
Q. Regarding marriage: My aunt is my fathers' cousin, so she is related to me. My aunt husband want to marry me, is it possible if i want to get married?Please i need your advice. Thank you so much....
A. 9 August 2009: You don't have to marry him...why should you? Is there a law that says you do? I don't think so! ... (read in full...)
Improved myself but the boys are not interested, what else can I do?
Q. hey . Im a shy girl , introvert, and im struggling to get my next bf. I had only 3 bfs. What should I do? I already had cut my hair, got some new clothes but nah.. theyre not intrested... Please help ...
A. 9 August 2009: It's easy for someone to say don't be shy (like Ms. Anonymous below), but it's easier said than done when you've been that way all your life. Try going out every now & then with a few friends just to get used to being around different people. Or you ... (read in full...)
He has a gf but I love him! How do I deal with this?
Q. Dear Cupid i have loved this boy for ages now. but he has a girlfriend. the girlfriend is totally in love with him but she doesnt treat him good. me and him always flirt with each other and i like it because i know what ever happens it wont get out ...
A. 9 August 2009: Don't be naive hun, leave the man alone. Whether his girlfriend treats him right or not should be none of your concern, that's their relationship, not yours. And if he liked you the same way you like him: then he would be with you, but he's not so ... (read in full...)
She won't remove this guy off her MySpace!
Q. Hey... my girlfriend had a guy message her that she said she talked to like "that" before we met. but once we met she stopped talking to him. he wrote her on myspace when she was at my house and said "hey whats good, i miss yu girl i want to see ...
A. 9 August 2009: You have absolutely no true reason to break up with this girl!!
If she said that she's gonna delete this guy, then trust her to do it & chill, calm your nerves. It would be a total different thing if she was constantly having conversa... (read in full...)
I woke up to find my boyfriend having sex with me, could this be considered rape?
Q. I hope you can help! I woke up the other night to find by boyfriend having sex with me. He said that i had touched him and he thought I wanted sex. I feel used and hurt. Was this rape or am I being stupid? ...
A. 9 August 2009: It very possible for you have to touched him or brushed against him in your sleep and that is a huge turn on for some men (and women). And he may very have thought that you were hinting to sex, I don't think it's rape, you just really need to talk ... (read in full...)
It was only sex, I got attached, he didn't, should I move on?
Q. I had a summer fling this summer. It was nothing more than sex. It was GREAT sex to be honest. And, of course, I did get attached to him. But, I knew going into it that it was just gonna be about sex and he is a player. Anyways, I ran into him 2 ...
A. 9 August 2009: Are you serious?
It seems to me as if you already know what you have to do: leave him alone: fling= sex & sex does not = relationship!
A fling is just that: a fling. He obviously has NO interest in you as anything else. So let him be! Get it t... (read in full...)
Should I tell my mom I went through a phase where I watched porn, just incase she finds out?
Q. Right big problem! im 17, 18 at the start of next year. I used to watch porn ALOT! i went threw a big phase , was totally addicted. I fele so dirty about it now, becuase i feel liek its a man thing, even though i know other women do it. Iv...
A. 8 August 2009: You know you went through a phase, and you say you're over it...so what's the big deal? You're not a little kid anymore: 18-21 is an adult, so who cares what anyone thinks about you watching what you watched. You were young, hormones taking ... (read in full...)
He's giving me the eye but he has a boyfriend
Q. Hi, basically I'm a gay guy and have had a very attractive (to me) guy giving me the eye for a few weeks as a customer in the shop I work in, and I plucked up courage to ask him for a date, to be told very sweetly that he had a boyfriend - I said ...
A. 8 August 2009: I understand your like of this man, but please don't get involved with him. Why? He's already with someone now, and you don't want to become a part of a that "baggage". I'm pretty sure there are other men around that are "single" and can attrac... (read in full...)
I love him and I don't want it to end...what can I do?
Q. I dated this guy for a year, and in January we broke up b/c I found out some things about him that he had been hiding from me. Our relationship had a lot of ups and downs, mainly b/c he had issues with commitment. However, for the most part I ...
A. 8 August 2009: If you really love him like you say, then give him the time that he needs to settle his issues. It seems as if you already know this, you just have to do it. From what you say about this guy: he really loves you also, and if that's the case then you ... (read in full...)
Why didn't I orgasm?
Q. Hello, So this is kind of embaressing really. Im 37 years of age and i have only just lost my virginity to a long term boyfriend because of lots of issues. But, during intercourse i did not orgasm at all? and i didnt feel like it was at all good?...
A. 8 August 2009: Well sex is a learning experience & being that it was your first time, it was normal to not orgasm or feel that it wasn't "great". The good thing is you can experiment and try different methods of touching, feeling, kissing etc. to enhance the ... (read in full...)
My gorgeous gf gets hit on by other guys and she hates it. How can we deal with this?
Q. Hi Aunts, My Problem isn't really a big one but its driving me mad!My Girlfriend is super attractive Shes 5 11' skinny long brown hair she could pass as a model.Thats not the problem though the problem is every where we go shes constant...
A. 8 August 2009: Are you serious?
You neither her can stop people from looking, that's what people do (men): they look! Ignore it, don't pay it any mind.... (read in full...)
I can't cope with the fact that, being next to my husband, I feel so ugly!
Q. This is such a stupid question, I guess, but I would still like some answers please... When I met my husband 6 y ago, I was blown away. He was really hot, and I couldnt believe that he was interested in me! I am quite plain, you see. I was just ...
A. 6 August 2009: You are not stupid!
And I am sorry you feel this way about yourself, but there was something in you that made your husband want YOU! :)
I think what you should do is talk to your husband about it though, cause I'm sure he wouldn't want hi... (read in full...)
How is this even possible?
Q. I just read an article about a young woman who came forward several years after some guy had supposedly forced her to give him a blowjob at a party. She claims that when this alleged assault was over with that most of the semen ended up in her ...
A. 6 August 2009: That can't be true! I mean after several years later, the evidence can't be there: she's eaten, drunk & brushed her teeth, washed her face & hair. So that could not be proven. I really doubt it. ... (read in full...)
We know we made a mistake, but it can't be changed now but she doesn't want me to meet their child!
Q. I have been seeing my boyfriend now for 2 years... yes he was still married when we started dating we were not intimate right away because he was married but once he decided that he would divorce we did become intimate. Yes I know that this is ...
A. 6 August 2009: Honestly I don't think you have a right to make demands right now. Exactly what could you say? Why is so important to meet the kid right now? Even though the situation happened & you can't change it, it still is their child:not yours (as you know) & ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is obsessed with sex!
Q. My boyfriend is obbsessed with sex thts all he talks about and i aint ready.........the thing is he lives in cali and i dnt.......i dnt wanna talk about sex let alone do it he is always trying to make me horny what should i do?...
A. 5 August 2009: Wow, it amazes me that there are still young people around that actually can admit to not being for sexual activity! Big ups to you sweetheart!
To answer your question I believe that you need to tell him what you wrote here. You're not ready ye... (read in full...)
Is this normal? My dad's behaviour toward me?
Q. My parents are divorced, and my Dad moved out 3 years ago. When I was younger, my Dad touched me and looked at me in ways that I'm now slightly nervous about. For example, he'd walk into the bathroom when I was having a shower (we didn't have a lo...
A. 5 August 2009: I agree with Rifraf: it is beyond normal. I know I wouldn't feel comfortable if my dad did those things with me. I think you should tell your dad how you feel about it. Tell him to respect your privacy and give you a little space. Of course he's ... (read in full...)
Why don't I want him to date even though I dumped him?
Q. Well.....I dumped my BF for my EX and well.....he put on his profile that he was single on his website and im jealous cause i still have feelings for him and it seems like i just can't let go of him and i got REALLY jealous and i talked to him about ...
A. 4 August 2009: You my dear need to make up your mind!
Your actions fall under the category of selfish...you might not want to hear this but it's the truth!
Get over yourself. You left him, he didn't leave you & if you really wanted him then you should have ... (read in full...)
Irregular periods but I have pregnancy symptoms! Help!!
Q. Hii, Im 16 in a few months with a problem.. I have a VERY irregular period (3 months between them normally),but I think im pregnant! I took a pregnancy test which came out negative but I think I took it too early (I month after unprotected sex) i...
A. 4 August 2009: Why don't you just go to the doctor!
Any1 on here can you opinions, but we aren't certified in the medical field (well maybe some of us).
Go to the doctor.
... (read in full...)
Brother is splashing the cash and I'm worried about his mental state!
Q. My brother's spending habits have been concerning me - he spent $15,000 on underwear - with $5000 worth of unopened Y-fronts/briefs, $10000 worth of designer suits, and also a $20000 Chrysler Sebring sedan - never driven (he uses an old 1993 Ford ...
A. 4 August 2009: What can you do?
Nothing!
Your brother is a grown man & the most you can do is just talk to him, tell him how you feel & hope he listens. You're concerned about his mental health, you can suggest counseling or something like that but it seem... (read in full...)
Why is my cousin's wife so angry with me?
Q. Ok so I haven't talked to my ex for a few years now because he is a jerk, I used to be good friends with my cousins wife or at least though we were, and recently she was talking to my parents saying how she's glad that I don't talk to my ex anymore ...
A. 4 August 2009: I can't say why she's upset with you: that doesn't just make sense to me at all! However I do think that her interaction with your ex is wrong on 2 accounts.
1st: being that she's married: so why the hell is she is going after him in the first pl... (read in full...)
Is this a survival of the fittest thing?
Q. I used to like bigger guys. Like, I was a seirous chubby chaser. My first boyfriend had it all for me: he was pretty tall (6'3") and 250 lbs whereas I was 5'4" and 110 lbs when we dated. Now I'm finding myself being attracted to still taller men, ...
A. 30 July 2009: Lol...it just means you prefer bigger guys, there's absolutely nothing wrong with that. Do you! :)... (read in full...)
How do I prevent his mood swings, that make him break up with me?
Q. It's an interesting situation, actually... You see, I'm in a long-distance relationship with someone who's a few years older than me (though that might not be relevant); I guess you could say that he's a... 'mercurial' boyfriend. I read about that ...
A. 30 July 2009: I've been in a long distance relationship for about 3 years now. It's been hard but we've made it work. My boyfriend is a little like yours, with the mood swings. But one thing you have to understand, being in a long distance causes some stress, ... (read in full...)
Never pursued a relationship with someone of my own race.
Q. I realize that people have certain types of significant others that they are attracted to. For me, I tend to gravitate to men of the caucasian race. And even though I find men of my own race attractive I have never found someone of my own race so ...
A. 30 July 2009: There isn't anything wrong with you, if you can't find anyone that interests you in your own race, then hey...keep looking outside of it. There may be one, there may not be. As long as you're happy, that's all that matters. ... (read in full...)
Should I keep my options open with online dating?
Q. I have tried online dating before and on one occasion thought things were going really well with one guy (we had met and been on a number of dates) so I stopped contact with all the others I was emailing. It didn’t work out with the guy I was seeing ...
A. 29 July 2009: Well you didn't say that you've made a serious commitment to either one of them. So I think that as you're trying to see which one is worth more of your interest and time, it's okay to have a date with Guy B. A date is a date: you're not signing ... (read in full...)
My BF thinks I'm losing interest cause he never receives my texts
Q. My man for seven years is all of a sudden tripping because he thinks I've been losing focus on our relationship which I'm not he's just mad because every time I send a txt he never receives it but I have proof but he thinks I'm lying what should I ...
A. 29 July 2009: That's very immature on his part, after 7 years he should be more than confident in you and where you stand toward your relationship. I mean something like a text message isn't even worth getting upset over. Let him see that you did send them, and ... (read in full...)
I reported my teacher for 4 years of sexual touching and abuse, why did my deputy head shun me?
Q. I don't know if anyone will be able to help me with this, but i hope so. I had a teacher (Who is head of department and on the governing board for the school) who was extensively innappropriate with me over a period of 4 years. He used to touch me...
A. 24 July 2009: In response to the poster of this question:
I know exactly what the law says it is. Let me tell you something when I was 13 years old I was raped by a teacher of mine who was 35 at that time, and there was a full trial & everything because ... (read in full...)
I reported my teacher for 4 years of sexual touching and abuse, why did my deputy head shun me?
Q. I don't know if anyone will be able to help me with this, but i hope so. I had a teacher (Who is head of department and on the governing board for the school) who was extensively innappropriate with me over a period of 4 years. He used to touch me...
A. 24 July 2009: I'm sorry that you had to go through these things.
This is a very sticky situation. It is wrong for this to be handled lightly by the law...but the reason I can see them treating it this way, is because you were "entertaining" this teacher,... (read in full...)
His needing a break, feels like a breakup
Q. My boyfriend of 14 months needs a break. His sister has been in the hospital and needing constant attention for 4 months after a surgery that went very wrong, and his father just passed away. He has a very demanding job and isn't in the best of ...
A. 24 July 2009: I believe that it's just a breathing period for him. He seems to really love & care for you, but so much has happened that he just needs to relax a little, which happens sometimes. So let him do that, call him every once a week or so to check on ... (read in full...)
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