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writes:What do i do as it seems my ex wont be coming back. Its been nine months. I know i kept messing up and he doesnt want to trust me. I go out with friends but its not the same without him. I dont want to date another guy as they all seem boring. How can i fill what is missing? He is everything but i always messed it up. I know he hates me now. We spent 8 years and he wont even talk to me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2011): You kept messing up,so chances are if he came back you would mess up again. For now I would focus more on why you keep "messing up" before anything else. Once you sort that,the next step can be your choice.
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reader, bronzed adonis +, writes (29 October 2011):
 What exactly do you mean by you kept messing up? He does n`t want to trust you? You may hold the very answer to why he wont get back with you, in what you have failed to mention. You know what you did to mess up and so does he,but if you don`t tell anyone its difficult to advise you. If you mean you cheated or anything else to do with betrayal,lying or dishonesty,especially more than once,then you have no choice but to move on. It has been nine months and if he is n`t with anyone else yet,it is certain he wont come back now. You will have to let go of this one.
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reader, Stephen Stewart Nixon +, writes (29 October 2011):
 Hi Anonymous, if you have been split up for nine months it is probably time you made the decision to let go and move on. You may be stuck half way between break up and recovery which is always the worst place to be. Once you recover from your break up the world will seem like a new place full of opportunities and fun. There are millions of people in same boat as you and once you move on they will become apparent to you. If you need help letting go and moving on google my name and you find lots more advice and reassurance. Hope this helps Stephen Stewart Nixon
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