I hate myself for being so brutal to her in the past...how can I move on?
Q. I was in a relationship with a girl for like six years and in June 2009 , all of sudden I dumped her saying that she was hell of a talkative and belong to lower class than my family. She was begging and doing all sort of desperate things not let me ...
A. 14 July 2011: You should feel guilty. You should be sooo grateful she let you back in. What you did I certainly wouldn't let you back in.
You are with a kind and loving person and you broke her heart. I would concentrate on her hatred for you more then you... (read in full...)
Am I being petty? Or is his attitude really selfish?
Q. Hi there. Here is my thing, my bf and I have been together a year and half and we are trying to buy a house together. We see eachother about 2/3 times a week, sometimes more. We tend to chill out together, eat, go to dinner, the usual kind of thing. ...
A. 12 July 2011: I wouldn't worry too much about it. He is trying to save his money for a future with you. Talk to him about it and explain how you feel. Don't turn it into a fight and make sure you explain you are on his side.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
Going out with a great guy, but I have liked this other guy for 2 years! What should I do?
Q. Okay well i like this guy ive known for a bit over 2 years and he knew i liked him for a while. he thinks i got over him and i went to the easter show with him his friend and my best friend we had such a great time, he told my bestfriend he had ...
A. 12 July 2011: Are you dating another guy or are you in a relationship with another guy?
If you are dating the guy figure out how you feel about him. Do you like him a lot to continue to date him? If not I would tell him that you like him a lot but not in that ... (read in full...)
Girls: Have you ever been rejected?
Q. Girls have you ever approached a guy and had him reject you? I am not talking about being dumped. I am talking about when you first meet a guy, you put yourself out there and ask him out and he shoots you down. I have this theory. Most girls seem ...
A. 12 July 2011: You seem to be very sensitive on rejection. Don't take it personally. Perhaps the girl is interested in another or simply is not interested in you at the moment.
Rejection hurts...a lot but it is not something to take personally. The girls wh... (read in full...)
Husband confessed that he dreamt of coming home and finding me on top of another man having sex. I would love it, but not sure if I should do it
Q. I am a 33 year old married woman with 2 kids. Been married now for 13 years. Now, I won't make this long so I will just get to the point. I was a virgin when I got married and never been with another man, ever. My husband once told me that he would ...
A. 12 July 2011: I advise that you don't. Fantasy and reality is two different things. You married this man and in a normal healthy relationship sex stays between the two married partners. You risk ruining your relationship when you involve a third party.
Would you ... (read in full...)
BF is married and lied to me about being separated from his wife, having sex with her and having another kid that I didnt know of. Does he deserve another chance?
Q. Five months ago I met this guy who seemed like a good guy and was fun to hang around. From the first moment we met he admitted to me that he had a son who was in the first grade, and showed me pictures like any proud father. Even though I myself ...
A. 12 July 2011: I don't think so. He lied about his kids and he is MARRIED making you the other women. Red Flags are screaming to run away.
He sounds like no good. You are better off without him.... (read in full...)
So is my 'boyfriend' cheating on me? What should I do? Please help.
Q. ive been talking to this guy that i work with for about 2 years. we've always had something going on like kissing all the time flirting and texting.. a week and a half ago, he asked me to be his gf. he always tells me he is in love with me and i ...
A. 12 July 2011: Try talking to your co-worker and ask what their relationship is. You should add him on fb. I don't understand why you are not a fb friend.
Good Luck!
If he is cheating on you then leave him. You don't deserve someone who treats you like ... (read in full...)
I went for her sister and it didn't work; will she give me a chance?
Q. After a checking this girl out for some time I decided it was time to approach her. I walked up to her and asked her out to lunch and she seemed excited and agreed to it. Her mum was standing close by so I said i wouldn't take her number there and...
A. 4 July 2011: Honestly I don't think it will work out. Where you already asked her 14 year old sister she probably isn't too interested. Her Mom will probably never accept you either.
I would move on and find another lady YOUR age. Be careful on who you ask ... (read in full...)
He bought a car instead of traveling to see me...
Q. I have been in a long distance relationship for four years and it has been hard.seeing each other is always difficult because of money but I'm mostly the one who goes home. A few months back we had planned to see each other but couldn't because of ...
A. 30 June 2011: If you can't afford it I advise you not to go. Since you don't live with him then you can't really get upset on what he spends his money on. I realize that you are hurt that you probably cannot not see him. He bought the car when he thought you w... (read in full...)
Is it possible that he likes me but is bothered by the age gap?
Q. I have an attractive, single friend (we worked together last summer and have kept in touch) who I get on with like a house on fire. I'm pretty smitten and I get the vibe that he's attracted to me too. Only problem is I'm 23 and he's 38, and we're ...
A. 30 June 2011: Hello frou frou, Forgive me I'm a little confused...do you live in different countries or is his origin from a different country? Usually when a guy touches a lady's leg that means he wants her. Perhaps he was trying to be a gentleman when he... (read in full...)
Can guys really just be friends with girls, even when they have a girlfriend?
Q. I imagine the question is relative to every guy, so I would like your own personal opinion, plus your opinion on what this guy's true intentions are. Of course, I know they can't be accurate as you don't know him personally and truthfully, but any ...
A. 30 June 2011: Hello Napalm_Angelripper, I think it is wonderful he is so honest with you and is willing to change if he makes you unhappy. He obviously cares a lot about you. Communication, trust, and being fair goes a long way in a relationship. If hi... (read in full...)
I am invisible in her life outside of our relationship
Q. If you have been dating someone 4 months and they have never mentioned your name once in all that time. She has talked about things we did but instead of we she put I did this. I am learning to golf. I spent my b day with my girlfriends. No mention ...
A. 23 June 2011: It does seem odd that she doesn't include you. Try talking with her about it.
Good Luck!
Keep us updated... (read in full...)
What do men think if a woman asks them out?
Q. Question for the guys; what do you think of girls asking guys out first? It's just that there's this guy in the year above me at 6th form (he's 18, going to university soon, I'm 17). He's most definitely the cocky confident type but I think he's sli...
A. 23 June 2011: I have to agree with celtic_tiger , where he might be starting uni you will probably get your heart broken.
Just be careful about who you choose to date!
Good Luck!
... (read in full...)
I'm not usually one to break up families, but I can't help the way I feel about him.
Q. I've got a bit of a dilemma and would really like some advice. I've fallen in love with a man who is already in a relationship with another woman. He said he loves me too, but the only problem is, is that he lives in Wales, and I live in England....
A. 23 June 2011: He is in a relationship meaning he is off limits.
Come on now, you deserve better then to be the other women!!
If he is so unhappy with his girlfriend then why hasn't he left her?
Until he is single stay away from him. Do you really want t... (read in full...)
Am I sick or evil for wishing bad things for my ex?
Q. ok, I hate myself right now. my ex was manipulative and lied and was insensitive and we broke up and now i look at her facebook page and see she is having fun, traveling with some new guy in Florida. and i cannot help but wish her BAD. i am je...
A. 22 June 2011: You are not evil or sick as your reaction is human. However that being said it is not ok or healthy. What you need to do now is get over her. Stop looking at her facebook page and block her. Move on with your life. Find your own peace and be happy. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's bisexual roommate flirts with him in front of me!
Q. Ok here goes...what do you think of this. My boyfriend because of his credit was having a hard time getting an apartment for himself. Soooo he had an offer to be a roommate with a guy that was splitting from his wife (she just left). Well the...
A. 22 June 2011: I could understand you being uncomfortable. Perhaps explain to the roommate that you are uncomfortable with his flirting. Be very kind and respectful and hopefully the problem will be solved.
I imagine your boyfriend must feel very uncomfor... (read in full...)
I want to call him but should I wait?
Q. Dear Cupid: After exchanging emails with a guy I met online for about a week, I gave hime my phone number. He waited approximately 3 days and called me on his lunch break at work. Our conversations were brief but pleasant. I told him that I enjoy...
A. 21 June 2011: It wouldn't hurt to give him a call. Just try to call him when you think he is not working. If he doesn't answer leave a polite message that you just wanted to chat and see how he was doing.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
He's been very obviously staring at my body for four years. People have made comment. What is his problem?
Q. There's an older (married) guy who has been attracted to me for four years and has made it obvious. Unlike most guys, he is actually interested in me (not just my body) in getting to know the person I am. He never came up to me to talk or anyt...
A. 21 June 2011: I'm glad you will talk to your Mom. Make sure to explain why you don't want to go! Good Luck and take care!!... (read in full...)
He's been very obviously staring at my body for four years. People have made comment. What is his problem?
Q. There's an older (married) guy who has been attracted to me for four years and has made it obvious. Unlike most guys, he is actually interested in me (not just my body) in getting to know the person I am. He never came up to me to talk or anyt...
A. 20 June 2011: I agree with Abella, as much as you are flattered be the attention...stay away from him! He is a creep and you are so much more better then that!!!
Take care sweetie
And I'm sure you are very beautiful :)... (read in full...)
Lies, lies. Should I cut him of my life for lying? Or can he change?
Q. I recently dumped my beloved boyfriend and eventually friend, because he has a bad habit of lying. He doesn't just lie when he needs to in pressure, but he just randomly lies about the most craziest things. Things that aren't important whats soo ...
A. 20 June 2011: It's sounds like you are fed up with his lies. Honestly you are the only one who can make that decision. Is he worth it? Will you be able to handle it if he keeps on lying? Four years is alot. Are you able to just stay friends and be there for him ... (read in full...)
Dating nearly 8 months and still no kiss?!?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 8 months, and we still have yet to kiss. We cuddle and stuff, but he just won't kiss me. When I ask him about it, he trys to change the subject and such. I know this wouldn't be his first kiss, but why ...
A. 14 June 2011: Maybe he doesn't like kissing? My ex hated kissing. He did it once in a blue moon and only cause I made such a fuss about it..
You need to figure exactly why he doesn't want to kiss you. It's important to communicate with him and understa... (read in full...)
Sexy photos of me in a frame or on a t-shirt as a gift? Any low budget date ideas?
Q. would it be okay as a gift for my boyfriend of 9months to get some sexy photos done of me and either give him one really nice one in a frame or maybe get it printed on a tshirt or something? Does this sound like a good idea? If not what else might ...
A. 14 June 2011: I think the photo is a good idea. :)
Maybe the beach? Is a beach available to you?
Where does he like to go?... (read in full...)
Why do I fall in love with every woman who shows me the least bit of attention?
Q. Hi im a 19y.o male. I have a question that may seem odd, but this has been on my mind for a while. to quote "eternal sunshine of the spotless mind" why do i fall in love with every woman who shows me the LEAST bit attention? I find this happening ...
A. 14 June 2011: This is normal but it's not healthy. I advise you slow down and make yourself happy without wanting someone in your life. Perhaps because you are lonely?
It sounds like you have low confidence. Try building on that and see if there is a differen... (read in full...)
I need a good role model to confide in!
Q. the last day of schools tomorrow, and then im back to being lonely.. no more confiding in my teacher for months.. whats even worse is that my brothers ex girlfriend, im not allowed to talk to her anymore. when she was the only one who tried to be ...
A. 14 June 2011: Hi sweetie,
Don't just run to anyone for a role model. Choose someone wisely. Do you have any friends you can talk to?
You can send me a message about anything that is bothering you and I will do my best to advise you through it. I think you ... (read in full...)
Does he seem to be a bit too controlling?
Q. Does this guy I talk to sound a bit controlling/overprotective? First of all we met online. He likes my pictures but said he felt some of them were too sexy and some of the dresses were too short. He said he prefers the more casual/cell phon...
A. 12 June 2011: To be honest this guy sounds like the type of person you should stay way from. He has warning bells and already you feel uncomfortable. I'm pretty sure you already figured out that his behavior would lead to the point of controlling. Unless what chig... (read in full...)
I want to date and marry but do not want an arranged marriage!
Q. Hi, I'll try keeping this as simple as I can. Arranged marriage makes no sense to me. They're just selfish egomaniac contracts between two families and the woman and the man. I don't want this. Love is very scary for me, for it may bring he...
A. 12 June 2011: The library sounds like a good place. The problem is that you seem to be rushing into finding a "soul mate". Slow down and concentrate on your life. You said that you don't have very good friends. Concentrate on finding good friends. You say you do ... (read in full...)
How long should I wait before asking another girl out?
Q. I broke up with my gf on Friday and I just wanted some peoples opinion on how long should I wait before i ask another girl out. I wasn't going to do it straight away but some others opinions please?...
A. 12 June 2011: I think you should wait until you have sometime to yourself. Make sure you are 100% over your ex and enjoy being single for a while. Figure out what went wrong in your previous relationship and use that as a lesson towards your next one. Ther... (read in full...)
He denies sleeping with her, but she is saying it is true!
Q. I am four month pregnant with my boyfriends baby, I found Messages on his facebook suggesting he was doing something. I've asked him and he says he hasn't, I have asked her and she tells me that he has been seeing her and that they have had sex more...
A. 31 May 2011: Hello Tina,
I think he has cheated on you with this women. Now you have several choices.
Stay with him knowing that he cheated on you.
Or leave.
I advise you have a long chat with him. Talk things out. If you both can move past this...gr... (read in full...)
Can an abusive person change their ways?
Q. I have been with my husband for 7 years and we have 2 young children. He is an abusive person - physically, mentally, emotionally. I must have known this for years but have chosen to ignore it but today, I am accepting that I am an abused wife. I ...
A. 30 May 2011: Hello drained,
Anyone can change. But they have to want to change and seek professional help. To change it could take him a couple of years with professional help and only IF he wants to.
So don't have second thoughts about staying. Get out... (read in full...)
He think's I'm older than I really am! Do I tell him or not?
Q. Hey, okay this has proved to be tricky for me. I met this lad and it all started off as innocent fun, you know, talking, texting etc. Well I have been telling him the truth, except for one wee white lie... I live in Ireland and he lives in England,...
A. 30 May 2011: Hello,
Is he 18 or older? I take it you are 17 or younger.
I would be very careful. EVERYONE lies on the Internet and he is no different. You don't know him...only what he tells you. I take it you already gave him your address as he sent you cho... (read in full...)
What's a backhanded compliment?
Q. What does backhanded compliment mean??? Someone wrote on a mates wall on FB after someone said "you cant handle her twin, she would ruin you," Then someone wrote a backhanded compliment. Ive never heard of it before, what does it mean?...
A. 30 May 2011: Hope this helps. :)
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Backhanded_compliment... (read in full...)
I thought he liked me at first, but now I am not so sure.
Q. A few weeks ago I went to university a few times to sign in and to look around, and every time I was there, I met this guy randomly he started talking to me asking me lots of questions. He seemed really interested. He told me he is from Paris. I ...
A. 30 May 2011: Hello Cookie93,
I don't think playing hard to get worked in your favor. Also as much as you wanted him to go with you as your date to prom he had other plans. He didn't ditch you. He had to work at his job and ditching his job is not somethin... (read in full...)
How do I get over a married man?
Q. Hi Cupids. I could really use everybody's advice. Can you tell me how to get over a married man I am in love with? I know it should never have reached this point but it did. I am a rational, smart and mature woman. I guess I just let my hea...
A. 30 May 2011: Hello,
The easy part is getting over the married man. Just like any other emotional tie you have to cut it, ignore it, and keep your mind busy with other things. As you said you are a smart women. It will be hard and test your self control ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my best mate I'm in love with his sister?
Q. im with my best mates sister and we have been together for about 3 months but known each other for a few years, my question is that none of her family want us sleeping together but we have and we had great sex but i dont know how to tell her brother ...
A. 30 May 2011: Hello Vagn,
Your in a very difficult situation. Her family and possibly her brother had already rejected your relationship with her and had clearly objected to you sleeping with her.
No matter how you tell them or what you say; they are not goi... (read in full...)
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