How do I end a relationship with a woman who uses and threatens me?
Q. i am in love with this girl who is using me. i know it but still I let her get away with it. she cheats on me and lies so much but i am done with all this. she has many problems and i was the only one there for her time after time but i am done. on...
A. 24 November 2011: Good! Keep up with the no contact! Your doing great! :D Just keep being strong and soon this will be all over with!
Do you have a pet or any friends you can focus most of your attention to?... (read in full...)
How do I end a relationship with a woman who uses and threatens me?
Q. i am in love with this girl who is using me. i know it but still I let her get away with it. she cheats on me and lies so much but i am done with all this. she has many problems and i was the only one there for her time after time but i am done. on...
A. 17 November 2011: I'm so sorry to hear she is causing you all this grief. I understand a little bit of what you are going through. My ex was horrible to me. He was abusive physically and mentally. When I finally had the courage to leave him he didn't leave me ... (read in full...)
Does my husband keep me around for the sex or because he actually loves me?
Q. My husband has signed up for dating and sex sites over 7 times in our * yrs of marriage. watches porn all the time......and we are having other issues as well..... is it just a guy thing or is he really looking for something else???? we have always ...
A. 14 November 2011: It's hard to say if he loves you or not. However it doesn't matter if you are miserable with him. Try to resolve things with him and communicate. If he continues to cheat on you (dating sites...etc.)or if you can't be happy with him then you should ... (read in full...)
How do I end a relationship with a woman who uses and threatens me?
Q. i am in love with this girl who is using me. i know it but still I let her get away with it. she cheats on me and lies so much but i am done with all this. she has many problems and i was the only one there for her time after time but i am done. on...
A. 14 November 2011: I'm sorry to hear you are in this situation. The best thing to do is tell her your relationship with her is over. Show no emotion and if she threatens you then report it to the police. Cut all ties with her and tell her to stop contacting you. If ... (read in full...)
Does this girl like me or is it just friendly?
Q. We work together in the same office. She likes to leave silly drawings on my desk, and has even drawn on my hands and arms at times (in front of other people). She can be quite touchy-feely and likes to hug me or pretend shove me. She texted m...
A. 1 November 2011: I would keep your distance from her where she is in a relationship. I don't think it is harmless flirting.
I imagine if you were her boyfriend; you wouldn't be so happy about her behavior with a co-worker. It's not very nice of her to sound so... (read in full...)
Does he like me or am I just "plan b" if he doesn't get her?
Q. ok so my ex and I broke up and during this relationship my other ex(joe) and I stayed good friends,we often wrote on Facebook, he was often flirty and it seemed like he was waiting for me to become single again.(he is/was making out with a girl h...
A. 1 November 2011: He sounds like he's up to no good. Stringing two girls along like that. You deserve better then that. Stop contacting him. It's about time you get over him and improve on your self-esteem.
Look for a guy that is interested in only you. Your ex ... (read in full...)
She likes me but is dating my friend, what should I do?
Q. i deeply love a girl and she is unwillingly going on with my friend..she knows that i likes her but she is not sure that she will accept me after she breaks up with her present boyfriend...she likes me.what should i do?...
A. 1 November 2011: I agree with So_Very_Confused:
You should do nothing. She is in a relationship right now so that means she is off-limits. If her relationship did end with your friend then you could pursue her. However keep in mind by pursuing her (IF she is a... (read in full...)
Does anyone regret having sex too young and not waiting until marriage?
Q. I'm just wondering had anyone regretting having sex too young, or not waiting till marriage as ive been in a steady relationship now for over a year and a half but havent had sex... me and my boyfriend are happy about this but im wondering about ...
A. 1 November 2011: I regret losing my virginity to my ex who turned out to be an abuser however I don't regret losing it. I just regret who I gave it to.
I agree very much with what k_c100 said.
You would only feel regret if you didn't love the person or if you we... (read in full...)
Relationship dilemma: how do I get her to believe in me again?
Q. I'm currently trying to win back my ex girlfriend. She has a social anxiety disorder, and recently shut down and blew up on me (seriously yelled in person, screamed, cried, etc.) because of a few things I did. All of which was about a month ago. ...
A. 31 October 2011: Keep showing her that you changed. In the end though it's only her that can change her mind. Nobody can force her to.
It's when your lover cheats on you. I don't blame her for not trusting you. Though I applaud that you realized your mistakes... (read in full...)
I've developed feelings for my girlfriend's amazing new best friend!
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for 2 1/2 years, we only broke up for a week about a year ago. that was my fault, i fell for another girl and ended things. Now my girlfriend recently met a new best friend. She is amazing, the new friend, her and i ...
A. 31 October 2011: Wow....
Break-up with your girlfriend. It's not working out and you don't have much respect for her if you don't consider her on the same level as you.
As for her best-friend if this girl is really your girlfriend's best-friend you ... (read in full...)
Why does he want to have a baby with me and not get married?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating seriously for nearly a year, and living together for over 6 months. He's in his early 40's and I'm in my early 30's. We both have been divorced. He recently expressed that he wants to have a baby, and we agreed ...
A. 31 October 2011: He probably doesn't want to bother with a wedding. Since he already told other people he doesn't believe in the institution of marriage it's probably true that he doesn't.
Maybe try explaining to him how important a wedding day is to you would he... (read in full...)
I married through love and now it has backfired as he is still messaging the married woman he knew before me!
Q. hey there, My name is senya and i am married for 1 year now.. And i am dating this same guy since 2 years... So basically we are together for 3 years.. My husband was dating a married lady before we meet.. she was married for 2 years when she...
A. 31 October 2011: Hello Senya,
Im so sorry to hear you are in this situation. Can you try to reason with your parents?
If not then try your best to stay away from him. He is dangerous if he is beating you. Stop looking at his facebook account. You know he is a... (read in full...)
Is he more interested in sex than me? now all he seems concerned about is how soon we can become a couple and start having sex
Q. Hey guys would love an outsiders opinion to this... Long story short I've met this amazing guy two weeks ago who is sweet, cute, funny and matched and rivalled my humour and we got on really well. We've been talking non stop over this time and al...
A. 31 October 2011: I have to agree with everyone. He probably is looking for just sex. You barely know him so tread carefully.
Do you know his friends?
How did you meet him?
That kind of a history does he have? (ex: known to flirt with girls...etc.) or do ... (read in full...)
Is a tan a turn on? Guys and girls, your thoughts on whether tan lines are a turn off?
Q. I personally think it's a bit shallow for one to complain about tan lines on their partner, but that being said, I'm one who loves to soak up the sun in summer and obviously when I'm by the pool or at the beach with my friends, I'm not going to be ...
A. 27 October 2011: I have tan lines and my boyfriend loves it. However I don't go out of my way to get tan lines. If someone really cares for you it wouldn't matter if you had tan lines or not.
Remember though to keep adding lotion to your skin. Mine is horrible... (read in full...)
Is my B/f thinking about marriage and should I bring my feelings up in conversation?
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for 7 months yesterday. We have know each other since we were 13 and 14 respectivly, got to know each other better mid teens then became very close friends from the ages of 18-20 and now are a couple at 21 and 22. ...
A. 27 October 2011: Slow down there honey!
He hinted that he would like to marry you. He didn't ask your hand in marriage yet.
Do you want to marry him in the future?
If yes, then let him know. However let him know that you want to wait a while before you ... (read in full...)
Why is my G/f behaving like this?
Q. The first time discovered my girlfriend on the internet asking for quickies and affairs she became angry when I tried to discuss it and she just told me I`m paranoid and was being mentally abusive by making allegations through my own guilt, and I ...
A. 27 October 2011: I'm sorry to hear your girlfriend is treating you like this. You do not deserve what she has been (and is) doing to you. Leave her. She will never stop and she has zero respect for you. If she makes a scene in public...walk away. Take some ti... (read in full...)
Getting close to my daughter's dad again and I'm so confused
Q. My ex bf Josh and I have a 5 yr old daughter together. We started dating when I was 16 yrs old and he was 18 yrs old. I got pregnant when I was 19 (she wasn't planned). We mutally decided to break up 2 yrs ago. I'm not really sure why we decided to, ...
A. 27 October 2011: Good! I'm happy for you! :)
Keep up communicating with him and you should be fine!
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
I want him to propose. Should I hint or just wait?
Q. hi you agony aunts and uncles back again for some of your great advice, i was just wondering, me and my man been LDR for over two years now we are fully committed and i am moving to be near him soon, and we are eventually moving in together, this ...
A. 26 September 2011: I think you should wait and let things settle down before you hint.
Take care!... (read in full...)
Getting close to my daughter's dad again and I'm so confused
Q. My ex bf Josh and I have a 5 yr old daughter together. We started dating when I was 16 yrs old and he was 18 yrs old. I got pregnant when I was 19 (she wasn't planned). We mutally decided to break up 2 yrs ago. I'm not really sure why we decided to, ...
A. 26 September 2011: He clearly wants to be with you and was hurt when you didn't respond to his text message. I suggest telling him that you two need to sit down and talk.
Take care!... (read in full...)
Getting close to my daughter's dad again and I'm so confused
Q. My ex bf Josh and I have a 5 yr old daughter together. We started dating when I was 16 yrs old and he was 18 yrs old. I got pregnant when I was 19 (she wasn't planned). We mutally decided to break up 2 yrs ago. I'm not really sure why we decided to, ...
A. 26 September 2011: It's very clear he wants to be with you. When he sent you that text he was hurt when you didn't respond.
Talk to him and explain how you feel and listen to him. Just send him a text message explaining that you want to talk to him.
Take ca... (read in full...)
After moving in with my boyfriend, I'm sad to sleep alone for 2 weeks.
Q. I have recently moved in with my bf (about 3 months ago) and we've shared a bed every night since. Now I am going away for 2 weeks for work and I feel really weird. The thought of sleeping alone and not seeing him for 2 weeks is really getting to ...
A. 11 September 2011: It's understandable, I am very use to sleeping in the same bed with my boyfriend and miss him if we don't sleep together.
Try to keep busy and the two weeks will fly by. :)... (read in full...)
Boyfriend is going on a trip with 3 girls, one is his ex!
Q. My boyfriend has just told me he is going to London for the weekend with 3 other girls, and possibly another. He will be the omly boy. One of these girls is his ex girlfriend- who he is.close to and she is.newly single. The girl who's birthday it is ...
A. 11 September 2011: No wonder you are not ok with this!! I would never be ok with my boyfriend going. Honestly you need to talk to him about this. Explain how you feel and ask him how he would feel if the situation was reversed.
If he insists on going I would re... (read in full...)
Ex just moved near me, now I'm having trouble being with current girlfriend.
Q. My ex girlfriend recently moved a couple of blocks down from me , she dumped twice over the last 3 years to go back to her ex,the last time was 2 years ago. She had been seeing him while she was still with me. All the time we were together...
A. 11 September 2011: You are clearly not over your ex and it is unfair that you are in a relationship with your girlfriend. My advice is to stop leading your girlfriend on and end the relationship. Stay single until you do get over your ex. ... (read in full...)
Why does my partner keep toying with my feelings? Why can't he just let me go?
Q. My partner and I have been together 2 years we have a one year old daughter (he told me he could not have children) things have not been right for a long time and I don't know what I have done wrong, he tells me I need to change, criticises the way ...
A. 11 September 2011: He won't leave you alone because he is having too much fun playing head games. Ignore him and his petty games and move out as soon as you can.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
Sex with an older woman, is it better than with my gf who is the same age as me???
Q. I would like your advice on my situation. I am 19 and in a relationship that is working really well.The problem is that there is a woman much older than me she is probably in her 30s and married.She finds me attractive and is ready to cheat o...
A. 24 August 2011: You are not losing control. You are perfectly capable of not cheating on your girlfriend. It seems you are just using that as an excuse to cheat. It's not acceptable and at least if you do plan on having sex with this older women then break up with ... (read in full...)
I am not sure about making the first move.
Q. Hi Cupids. I am having trouble with the concept of a woman asking a man out. I was raised in a very traditional home and it was drilled into my head from early on that if a man is REALLY interested in a woman, he will ask her out, period, end...
A. 17 August 2011: I think you should ask him out for coffee. Be casually and friendly and see where it goes from there.
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She never calls, what do I make of this?
Q. Hi Guys. I met this girl like 3 weeks back, I was somewhere new and asked her for directions. She had the most charming of smiles and we soon got talking (even after she pointed me to the right way) We since exchanged numbers and have been really ...
A. 17 August 2011: I can understand that it hurts that she is not calling you. However she probably feels overwhelmed by you. I suggest to ignore her and move on with your life. If she wants to contact you then she will call you.
Good Luck and Take care!... (read in full...)
Do I tell my b/f who is in jail that I cheated?
Q. my bf has been in jail almost a month,i found out he has been cheating on me for about 9 mon. befor he had gotten locked up I forgave him,we got back together,I realy need a male view,I was putting gas on 8/13 and met a man and yes i gave him my ...
A. 15 August 2011: I know it's not of my concern but may I ask why he is in jail?
I think you should move on where he already cheated on you and you did the same. I can't see how either of you will trust each other and if he ever found out and you didn't tell him... (read in full...)
My pot smoking husband is causing lots of money problems with his habit!
Q. So my husband smoke pot, and I don't. My big issue on the whole thing is that he is constantly smoking more and more, and our money is really tight. I end up using all of the money I earn to pay my half of the bills and then whatever he can't cover. ...
A. 15 August 2011: You are in every right to say something! His habits is not fair to you and using your money for his habits is wrong. Especially when it can get you into trouble with police.
You should talk to him and try to work things out but if not I would co... (read in full...)
It started as a joke but things have changed
Q. Hi guys. so I have a problem and really need advice because its eating me up completely! so im 21 and im a student. and me and a friend were on an online dating website about a week ago just looking and we decided to make me a profile. I gave a f...
A. 15 August 2011: Send him a message and say it was a joke at first but he changed that. Tell him how much you like him.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
Is my ex having sex with other men?
Q. is my ex having sex with other men? she still shaves her pubic region everyday i found this out cause we ended up having sex one nite out of the blue so why would she still go through the hassle if shes not having sex with others?...
A. 10 August 2011: Not to be rude or anything but it is not any of your business. You are not in a relationship with her so even if she is sleeping with other men it does not concern you.
Perhaps you are not over her? Try taking some steps to get over her if this ... (read in full...)
Should I sleep with him because he's big?
Q. I met this guy while on holiday, he is so charming and I like being with him. He has fallen in love with me and openly says so, I dont feel like I love him, so I dont lie about it. I gave him a blowjob and played with him, I really liked him, he ...
A. 9 August 2011: I don't think there is a problem with having sex with him. As long as you use protection and your careful. You already were sexually with him so trying to act modest around him is going to be hard.
Have fun and use protection! ;)... (read in full...)
Why is my friend sending me kiss signs?
Q. Hello, I have a guy friend who I have known for nearly 5 years. I am 21 yr gay guy and he is 18. From about three months ago, he has started to text me frequently like 2 times a day. He laughs very loudly at my jokes. One day he gave his computer ...
A. 8 August 2011: I think he is flirting by sending the "kisses". He does seem to have another who is close to him so if you try to have a relationship with him then you will have problems regarding his friend. If his friend is already jealous then if you do try you ... (read in full...)
Do I try meeting someone in person or online?
Q. Hi guys n gals, I have been entertaining the thought of internet dating since becomming single...my friend suggests i wait a while and just meet someone naturally, they think internet dating is a bad thing to do, its mistly destined to fail...
A. 8 August 2011: To my understanding you are asking two questions.
Do I meet someone online or in person?
How do I get over how my ex made me feel about my wages?
For now I think you should concentrate on the second. You need to learn how to feel good about y... (read in full...)
Thoughts only why I'm called a slut and 19 months along enough time to wait to loss virginity?
Q. okay well i lost my virginity to much boyfriend of 19 months at the time. he was a virgin also. i was just kinda wondering was that a good about of time to wait. i thought so but just wondering. also why do you thik people call me a slut when ive ...
A. 5 August 2011: You are not a slut, however you are too young to be having sex. Because of this people will react badly to hearing that you had sex. Try not to let the names get to you and stop having sex until you are old enough.
Take care and hold your hea... (read in full...)
My wife left me whilst I was away in Iraq and all she left was a note saying 'I'm sorry'!
Q. I just returned from Iraq on leave today to find my apartment empty. My wife took my son, my dog, and emptied my bank account...The one thing she left was a note on her side of the bed with her wedding ring was a note that simply said "I'm sorry". ...
A. 4 August 2011: Get a lawyer. Go through with a divorce and try to get half custody of your son. Keep the note and the ring it can be helpful to you in court.
You didn't deserve this and I am sorry to hear this happened to you. You are probably in shock. Y... (read in full...)
Why does he lie about who he's seeing? Should I say anything to him?
Q. Why is he lying? should I say anything to him? My ex boyfriend broke up with me cos he said he didn't want a relationship. He told me he loved me everyday and I loved him so much. I was devastated when we split:( We got back into contact ...
A. 4 August 2011: I think you should cut ties. He dumped you because he no longer wanted to be in a relationship so tell him to leave you alone. You are already wondering if he is lying about seeing other girls.
There is no trust and he is not being fair with you... (read in full...)
He doesn't want a relationship, but still wants to see me and have sex. Am I wasting my time with his guy?
Q. Any advice would be much appreciate. I am a single mum of one. I've been seeing a guy nearly a year now, in the begining everything was fine between us, had an amazing time and connected very well - physically and mentally. He lives a 1 hour f...
A. 4 August 2011: You have been seeing a guy for a year and he still doesn't want to be in a relationship???? Wow...that screams red flags right there. Cut ties....now. He is using you!
1. He probably enjoys the sex but does want to commit as you have a child or... (read in full...)
He says he loves me and wants sex with me, but he already has a girlfriend and wont chose between me and her! What should I do?
Q. Ok so when me and my boyfriend were together he told me not to talk to his bestfriend because he said he just uses girls...i started talking to him and after me and my boyfriend broke up me and my now ex boyfriend decided to hang out...so i went ...
A. 4 August 2011: There is a reason why your ex warned you to stay away from him. Unfortunately you did not listen to the advice and now you have a problem.
First of all, this guy is using you. He does not love you and certainly does not want to move in with you... (read in full...)
Do guys usually hug a girl they've just met?
Q. I just met this guy through friends at work so I went hang out some friends house where I met this guy we talked some when I left that evening he asked for a hug. Do guys usually hug a girl he just met? We met up again had dinner with friends he sat ...
A. 24 July 2011: By the way he placed his hands it seems like he wants something more. It seems he is very interested in you by his behavior. :)
However time will tell what his intentions were. Play it cool for now and get to know him.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
Is this guy actually gay or am I getting played?
Q. Alright, guys. Here's the tough one, and I need to know what to do. Until recently, I've been with this girl for five and a half years. She is beautiful, caring, reserved, and I can't help but feel that she really loves me. Recently, our li...
A. 24 July 2011: I personally don't think he is gay. However you should talk to him and your girlfriend. If she doesn't know what she wants then I would say goodbye and leave. It does seem very suspicious and it is definitively worth looking into.
Good Luck! ... (read in full...)
I hate myself for being so brutal to her in the past...how can I move on?
Q. I was in a relationship with a girl for like six years and in June 2009 , all of sudden I dumped her saying that she was hell of a talkative and belong to lower class than my family. She was begging and doing all sort of desperate things not let me ...
A. 14 July 2011: You should feel guilty. You should be sooo grateful she let you back in. What you did I certainly wouldn't let you back in.
You are with a kind and loving person and you broke her heart. I would concentrate on her hatred for you more then you... (read in full...)
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