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*ookie93
writes:A few weeks ago I went to university a few times to sign in and to look around, and every time I was there, I met this guy randomly he started talking to me asking me lots of questions. He seemed really interested. He told me he is from Paris. I will be in Paris this summer on holiday. He gave me his number and told me to let him know when I am there and he would show me around.He is really good looking, too good looking for me, I thought at first. He kinda looks like a player.. I'm not too worried though becuse I'm not looking for anything serious, just want to have a bit of fun in Paris. We started texting each other back and forth, just general chat asking how each the other was. I played a little hard to get as well. We made plans to meet up numerous times, but they kept falling through. We did end up hanging out with his friends there, and he drove me home that day.A few days after this, I was doing the reservations for my prom so I needed to know if he wanted to come with me or not. So I texted and asked. He wasn't sure and said he would tell me the next day. Next day I got a letter from uni and I got accepted! I told him that I got accepted into uni, and he messaged me back saying congratulations, but that he wasn't sure if he could come to the prom because he had a photo shoot (he models). I didn't reply back. I was a little upset because he ditched me for this photo shoot.Now a week has passed and I haven't heard from him... he didn't text or anything since that last sms. I have uni starting next week and I'm hoping to see him there, but I'm not sure how to behave around him. I think I was a bit too clingy, but only because I was 100% sure he was interested in me first.This week i will book my trip to Paris. Should I let him know then when I am going? I really want to see him in Paris! I know we would have so much fun! I don't even care if he is interested in me, I don't mind if we would just hang out as friends, but how can I show that? And well next year when I am in uni, I will see him everyday but he is not sure if he will stay in this uni here or move to Paris... But now pleaaase, what do you think? Did i mess up with him? Or shouldn't I worry? I don;t wanna make things wrong! I want to see him in Paris!
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reader, babygirllovej  +, writes (30 May 2011):
 Hello Cookie93,
I don't think playing hard to get worked in your favor. Also as much as you wanted him to go with you as your date to prom he had other plans. He didn't ditch you. He had to work at his job and ditching his job is not something taken lightly.
I suggest you sent him a text saying "hello" and "how have you been?". If he answers great...explain you are heading to Paris soon. If not...leave him alone and move on.
Good Luck!
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