Confused about sex and sexuality. Help please!
Q. basically Im with a guy attracted to him, hot body, LOVE HIM makes me feel good, emotioanl connection, physical as well but never orgasmed with him, i watched a girl strip and O'd by masturbation...wats up with that? but then I experimented with a ...
A. 24 April 2008: It could be that your goin through feelings, thoughts and more for the same sex (female) and since you seen lesbian porn your havin different feelings about it.
If anything, you may be bisexual (like both genders), it is likely.
If you feel y... (read in full...)
He deleted me after he found out I was his next door neighbor! Do I just leave him alone?
Q. dear cupid, i really like my next door neighbour and i have done for nearly a year now, last sunday i spoke to him for the first time on msn but he didnt know it was me and we were speaking for 4 hours and we swapped numbers then when he found out ...
A. 24 April 2008: Glad your keepin us all up to date bexii :)
Anon, 21 and 16 is ok really, i mean 5 years difference.. bexii is of age to me, just dont rush in to havin sex just yet, there's lots of time for that so slowly does it, finish school tho, thats a ... (read in full...)
He deleted me after he found out I was his next door neighbor! Do I just leave him alone?
Q. dear cupid, i really like my next door neighbour and i have done for nearly a year now, last sunday i spoke to him for the first time on msn but he didnt know it was me and we were speaking for 4 hours and we swapped numbers then when he found out ...
A. 23 April 2008: It could be that he's abit or alot in shock, well it can happen. You can always send him an email askin how he is, what was it he didnt like somethin.
You dont need or even have to say your sorry in anyway.
How do you know he deleted you?
... (read in full...)
My instincts are refusing me to go out with him! What's wrong with me?
Q. i dont understand my feelings, this boy likes me he asked me out online even though he goes the same school as me. I said yes. however he asked me to go to his house the next day i sd yes but on the mornin i canceled n told him didnt want to go...
A. 23 April 2008: Take your time with it and think about it all.
Let him know you would like to think about goin out with him, at least you would have time on this matter and to find out what your instincts are tellin you.
Try not to put too much on your pla... (read in full...)
We're expecting our first child and he's texting his ex to ask for naked picture "for fun" !
Q. my boyfriend and i have been together for almost two years, we're expecting our first child! I have started to have some serious trust issues with him, it's driving me mad and it's all started with an ex of his i caught him texting her loads of ...
A. 23 April 2008: First of all you both need to sit down and really talk about this matter, if it goes on any longer it could effect you, your unborn baby and your relationship all together. This isnt very good to find out and for it to keep on goin is worse at... (read in full...)
What can I do to prepare myself for the abortion? I fear that it's going to be heartbreaking.
Q. this is gonna sound really stupid, but i've gotta go for a scan of my baby that i've recently decided to have terminated due to a change of circumstances with the baby's father. it is the eight week scan and i've been looking on the internet at pict...
A. 23 April 2008: To what i know you will feel different after seeing your unborn baby.
What you feel now may not be what you feel then.
You may change your mind after the scan.
You may be on pills as far as i know (a big maybe here).
It may hurt alot too.... (read in full...)
Should I meet him in person? I'm afraid of losing a friend and having my heart broken...
Q. hi i have this problem i have been spking to this guy for just over 2 years. we have exchanged photos and he has a webcam so we know who we are talking to. he has anxiety and depression issues and confides in me alot about his life. we talk every ni...
A. 23 April 2008: All that either of you can do is meet up in the summer and see how it goes as "friends" and weather you both still feel the same, if so talk about it more but Make sure he understands your thoughts about havin your heartbroken. I'm sure you dont ... (read in full...)
One Night Stand: Is there a general consensus on when to cum?
Q. Just a quick question, during unprotected sex, either in a relationship or a one night stand....what is the general consensus on where to cum? cheers for any answers...
A. 23 April 2008: Ps, what Tisha-1 means by HPV is this Human papillomavirus..
What is a HPV virus? The human papilloma viruses (HPVs) are a group of more than 100 different types of virus. They are given numbers to distinguish them.
Have a look for it for ... (read in full...)
One Night Stand: Is there a general consensus on when to cum?
Q. Just a quick question, during unprotected sex, either in a relationship or a one night stand....what is the general consensus on where to cum? cheers for any answers...
A. 23 April 2008: You seem sure you want take a chance with your life by askin that man. Ok, lets say you have unprotected sex and its a one night stand for a wee minute now.. Hmmm, what can happen ehh like what are the chances of gettin an STD these days, mayb... (read in full...)
I have no idea what loving someone really means. Where do I even start if I never get asked out?
Q. I'm 19 and have trouble getting guys to want to go out w me. i don't know why. no guy ever asked me out. when i let myself fall head over heels over someone, and i take the initiative to make the first move, i am always, and i do mean ALWAYS, ...
A. 23 April 2008: Dont worry what so ever about it and dont rush it in anyway. It will happen, maybe when you dont or least expect it to happen. Plus your still young at 19 so slow it down a wee bit.
Just go out and have fun with friends and dont think about it... (read in full...)
Threesome gone wrong!!! He's always told me he could never be with another women, yet when given the chance he chooses her over me!
Q. Hello, I have a major problem with sleeping all of a sudden due to something that my husband and I did in the past, about a year ago. My husband has always wanted a threesome with another girl, and being sexually open, I thought , what the heck...
A. 23 April 2008: All your able to do is sit him down, put the light in his face so to speak and talk about it all one on one soon as he gets back.
Let him know that you took a chance for him to have a 3 some for one nite and you feel down right upset about th... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend having "multiple orgasms"?
Q. My boyfriend is able to ejaculate (usually a few squirts) then put his penis back inside me and continue to thrust until he ejaculates again. Sometimes he is able to do this a few times, usually until his penis becomes too sensitive. Is this ...
A. 23 April 2008: I wouldnt say its common but yeh, guys (some) can have multiple orgasms.
I hope this helps you with your answer ;)... (read in full...)
He broke up with me because he says we are incompatible! What does this mean?
Q. My ex-boyfriend and I met 4 years ago, it was immediate attraction but we lived in different countries. I moved in close to him, and so we dated a year and 2 months. There is no doubt about how much he loves me,we even talked about getting married ...
A. 23 April 2008: Just a guess here but he could have been seein someone else, i mean it went a long time before it all came to an end (a year and 2 months) and the first thing that pops in to my head is that he may have been seein someone else hence the break-up.
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Husband blames me for getting pregnant on purpose!
Q. hi, i have been married now for less than two years, we have had a tough time with our marriage to be honest. Broken up and have gotten back together since, originally we had broken up, as he did not know if he wanted to be married, he was ...
A. 22 April 2008: It seems to be a one way street here, you couldnt take the pill due to takin antibiotics which leaves him wearin a condom and by the looks of it, he didnt wear one.
He really shouldnt be blaming you when he should be wearin protection to start wi... (read in full...)
Are other women built differently in order to feel prepared more easily during anal sex?
Q. For Guys and Gals My boyfriend and I have sex daily. Dress up, role play,oral, sex in different locations, it goes on and on...The problem is he brings up anal sex a lot which we have done, but he says he loses patience with me because it takes...
A. 22 April 2008: For anal, do you try lube? if not try it, to what i know it makes it easier to enter.
You both need to sit down and talk, let him know it hurts your feelings when he compare's you to other women he's been with. Talk about other ways, you cant go ... (read in full...)
How do I get him to realise I will not cede to his insistences until I am ready?
Q. My boy mate is really flirty with me on text, emails, msn n when were in public together. he likes hugging me, messes with my hair, touches my bum etc...n the other day we were texting n we were talking about sex - he asked me if I wud give him head ...
A. 22 April 2008: By the sound of it, he's wantin sex only.
How long have you known him? You 2 are bf gf rite?
Tell him rite out that your not ready to do anything with him, let alone give him head and if he continues then you may end up movin on.
He's 'fru... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is always asking me if I want to try anal sex or oral, but I dislike the idea of both techniques!
Q. hi, my boyfriend is always asking me if i want to have anal sex or oral sex. i really dont know what to do because ive tried oral sex before but i was almost forced into it, but ive never tried anal sex yet ive heard a lot of rumors that it h...
A. 22 April 2008: You both have to sit down and talk about this, you cant let it slide as its one thing your disliking.
Its really up to you, if you dont like it then let him know when you both sit down and talk.
Have you both ever talked about this since you'v... (read in full...)
My pregnant girlfriend left after an argument, part of me wants her back but I also want to go back to the time I enjoyed celibacy...
Q. Hello, I have been going out with my girlfriend for 10 months, The relationship moved quite quickly and she moved in after 3 months and was pregnant by 4 months. Everything was fine until just before xmas, she was 1 months gone and I started to ques...
A. 22 April 2008: Maybe you both really need to sit down and "really" talk about the the baby now and clear up what has to be said now, you need to think what it is you want right now, weather u like it or now, that baby is coming and is goin to need a dad.
Try n... (read in full...)
He hinted that we should wait until I'm 15, it's hard to resist the temptations though. Any advice?
Q. i have a problem. i think i am in love, but i am only fourteen. i think teenage love is strongest of all though. i am not naive and i appear older for my age both mentally and physically. anyway i recently met a great guy age 16 and hes pretty much...
A. 22 April 2008: As long as you wait for sex till at least 16 (its the law, LJ001 should have said this as you live in the uk).
If you both think your right for each other then great, just dont break the law by under age sex is my advice here to you. you really d... (read in full...)
He obviously no longer trusts me, and has yet to forgive me for contacting my friend
Q. This is going to be a doozy... A few months ago, in February, I thought it would be cute to let my boyfriend go through my e-mail account. My boyfriend and I have been going out for a year and a bit now. We both are fairly jealous and I thought it...
A. 22 April 2008: You both need to sit down and really talk about this before it gets too much and maybe end what u both have. Come up with a plan, talk about it and set a day to start it. Eg, no internet for so long, if he doesnt trust you now then you both ha... (read in full...)
Do guys who keep telling you they are busy just trying to avoid you?
Q. hey, i do not get my boy friend for 5 days b/s of that he told me that he is always busy. what shall i do? and what does he really mean that he is always busy? 10q...
A. 22 April 2008: Just give it time, its not like you can force him to talk to you really now can you. If you try to force him to talk to you then you may force him away which you dont want to do. Best way is to keep yourself busy with either work, with friends or ... (read in full...)
I'm not ready to lose virginity yet because I'm waiting for marriage but the girls I hang with all think I'm weird
Q. im 19 yrs almost 20yrs very attractive well educated n sexy.n guys do think im well pretty..so i do get guys...but im still a virgin..im not ready to loose it yet because im waiting for marriage but the girls i hang with all think im weird..and when ...
A. 22 April 2008: All that matters is what you think, what you believe not anyone else. If you feel that you want to meet the right guy, to marry him and for it to happen with him then do it, dont worry about what others say, remember its your life not anyone else'... (read in full...)
She had a one night stand but claims it meant nothing. What shall I do?
Q. I am very unhappy. I have been going out with my GF for 2 and a half years. A while ago she got a new job - she did not think she had a chance of getting it - was not going to apply - but I encouraged her and helped her and she got the job. She's ...
A. 21 April 2008: 2 and a half years is along time to let go of without thinkin it through long and hard.
Remember, love isnt something anyone can turn on or off when ever they feel like it, just doesnt work that way.
this is about you, what you want not her, ju... (read in full...)
I fancy my aunt like mad, even although she's married. Should I try anything on with her?
Q. i have an aunt and she is good looking. she is actaully my step aunt if you will. she has been married to my uncle for about 10 years now. she has now starting to feel comfortable around the family. she is starting to wear clothes that show off her ...
A. 2 June 2007: Even tho you fancy your aunt, it isnt a very good thing to have sex with her because she is married and has been for about 10 years.
If you had sex with her it could rip the family apart.
Its best that you not have sex with her and not to touch... (read in full...)
My 32 year old married boss has started giving me lifts home. I KNOW he wants to take it further!
Q. hi, im 17 years old have a boyfriend and have a part time job as a waitress. my boss is 32 and married with kids. recently when he is giving me lifts home we have started going for a drive and ended up kissing many times and i know he wants to take ...
A. 29 May 2007: This is how people get there heart broken by the one they love because they cant stay true to there partner.
Why are you letting this happen when you know your going to hurt your boyfriend?
Dont you love your boyfriend?
Do you trust your boyfr... (read in full...)
He seemed to be into me and now hes lost interest!!
Q. What should i do in this situation?I like this guy ALOT,we used to work together,all he ever did was to look at me,but it never led to anything..I stil see him as hes a technician,im really into this guy yet it seems like he lost interst,i still see ...
A. 20 May 2007: What have you got to lose in askin him out? If anything, you would gain.
He could have lost interest in you for many reasons, ie he may be thinkin your with someone already.
What if he doesnt talk to you first then what? Then you'l never talk... (read in full...)
I have slept with my husband's 18 yearold cousin. Should we stop or carry on?
Q. I am 24 years old and I started sleeping with my husbands 18 year old cousin, I dont love the cousin it kinda was something that just happened. It is fun and exciting havent felt like this in along time. What do we do keep on or stop? Kinda want to ...
A. 19 May 2007: Sleepin with your husbands 18 year old cousin isnt very nice to be doin.
Ask youself this -how would you feel if your husband did this to you?
Please stop doin this rite away, your married not single.
Bein married doesnt mean you can slee... (read in full...)
My boyfriend blames me for EVERYTHING, even stuff that is unrelated to me.
Q. When something does not go right my boyfriend gets angry at me. Just like today, he missed the bus and blamed it on me . He swears words at me like F-Off, or F-u 'n many more even when I haven't done anything wrong. When I am angry, I am just quiet ...
A. 13 May 2007: Sit him down and tell him that if he doesnt control himself that you'll break-up with him, that you (if you do) love him but cant take him swearin and blaming everything on you.
Have you asked him to get help about it? If not then ask him to.
Y... (read in full...)
He tells me he wants me and stuff but does he or is he just using me for sex?
Q. well im 15 and hes 30 i really like him i feel like im in love with him and i dont know what to do he tells me he wants me and stuff but i feel used just for sex and im really unsure what to do... because i like him and dont no what to do, he has ...
A. 12 May 2007: how long have u known him?
have you told your family about him and how old he is? if so what have they said about it?
your half his age, do you think its wise to be in a relationship with him?
i wont tell you what to do, only say that it wou... (read in full...)
I lost my virginity, should I have waited?
Q. hi .. im 15 and i lost my virginity a few weeks a go with a girl who i love A LOT and i don't regret it at all .. but i was wondering if i rushed into it and should have waited .. thanks ...
A. 10 May 2007: You've lost your virginity at an early age plus its not legal what you've done at your age my friend.
Whats done is done.
I would have to say yes, you did rush in it at your age.
You could have waited till you was at least 16 so it would be lega... (read in full...)
He doesn't want to chat to me everyday! Do guys really act like this when they love a girl? Or is he scared to let his emotions get the best of him?
Q. ok i'd like a guys opnion on this. Im in an long distance relationship for the past month, hes on the east coast and im on the west coast. Hes told me he loves me and i love him the only thing is he says i should know he loves me and he shouldnt ...
A. 6 May 2007: With some guys it can take abit of time to open up and talk more but in the end they do.
In over 3 months i've talked to someone every day apart from 3 days/nites (couldnt be helped) and we always talk about anything and everything and its a Lo... (read in full...)
I haven't met anyone for a while and feel my life is at a standstill.
Q. Hey. I've been single for coming up to a year now. Its insane! I've had a few on off flings but nothing serious. It's annoying because the amount of times I go out clubbing every week and I also go to college, u would of thought i would have found ...
A. 4 May 2007: It'll happen when you least expect it mate.
Just relax, your still young.
almost 3 months ago i met someone on the net, i didnt expect to, i just wanted to chat to people.
When you go out to a club, go to have fun and a drink, enjoy yoursel... (read in full...)
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