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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My boy mate is really flirty with me on text, emails, msn n when were in public together. he likes hugging me, messes with my hair, touches my bum etc...n the other day we were texting n we were talking about sex - he asked me if I wud give him head but i refused, now everytime he texts me he asks me to do it, i refuse each time because hes older than me n i dont feel ready. also all the time were texting he tells me hes wanking n he says its because hes 'frustrated' over me. my questions are: how do i get him to realise he isnt getting nothing from me until im ready? n what does he mean by im makin him 'frustrated'?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks everyone for the replies :-) and lol 'anonymous reader' your reply made me laugh! x
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2008): i tell you what, next time he asks that just DON'T REPLY TO THE MESSAGE and completely ignor him the next time you see him. This boy sounds like a total wanker and increadibly disrepectful, i wouldn't waste any more time on him
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reader, starfairy +, writes (23 April 2008):
 You need to be really firm and if needs be get angry with him.
Make him feel ashamed of the way he's pressuring you.
If you dent his ego, he'll back off.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2008): i think he means hes bored of waiting, this guy is clearly only after one thing, dont waste any more time on him, respect yourself and dont feel presured into anything, you say your just friends so the conversation bout sex shouldnt really have come up, seems like he aint really a friend hun
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reader, Andrew83 +, writes (22 April 2008):
 By the sound of it, he's wantin sex only.
How long have you known him? You 2 are bf gf rite?
Tell him rite out that your not ready to do anything with him, let alone give him head and if he continues then you may end up movin on.
He's 'frustrated' because he isnt gettin what he wants (what he's askin you for).
In the end, he's lookin for somethin your not ready for, if he cant/wont wait then he doesnt respect you at all and may be best if you let him go and move on to meet someone that does respect you and can wait till your ready.
I hope this helps you. If you can, let us all know how it goes.
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