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writes:i dont understand my feelings,this boy likes me he asked me out online even though he goes the same school as me. I said yes.however he asked me to go to his house the next day i sd yes but on the mornin i canceled n told him didnt want to go out with him.However I am unsure how i feel, i like him but im not sure if i like him enough. He was very forward and that may have put me off. I do think he is good looking but he doesnt give me the wow, that ur meant to get! However of late not many guys are givin me the wow hes nice, maybe its just a time im going through! Whats wrong with me, i like him but for some reason my instincts r refusin to go out with him! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2008): thanks for the help,ive thought about it n ive told him i do like him but i just want a friend right now.So im gettin to know him=]All 6 answers give me alot to think about thanks soo much=] now to the stress of gcses!!lol xx
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reader, DearSteve +, writes (23 April 2008):
 When you don’t get the wow factor, it does leave a question mark hanging in the air, so I understand your confusion. You may just need a little more time to get to get to know him – not all Romeo & Juliet romances begin with love (or “wow”) at first sight. I’d apologise to him, because you’ve probably dented his pride a little, and arrange to do something, either alone or in a group. Failing that, talking on the internet is also a great way to get to know someone; just make sure you make actual arrangements to meet in person once you’re comfortable. Don’t be worried that he didn’t take your breath away. You’re at a critical time with school and you’ve probably got other things on your mind. Just take it slow and surely and you’ll know in time if he’s worth your attention. Good luck!
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reader, bby lolly +, writes (23 April 2008):
 Mayby You rushed into it and you dont no him well enough to like him..? if you do not want to go out with him talk 2 him and maybe ask that you get to no each other first before you go out...maybe meet up at places and jus talk. xxxx
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reader, Andrew83 +, writes (23 April 2008):
 Take your time with it and think about it all.
Let him know you would like to think about goin out with him, at least you would have time on this matter and to find out what your instincts are tellin you.
Try not to put too much on your plate, will make it harder with school, homework, friends and family.
There is nothin wrong with you, your just goin through alot and changin and maybe more on top.
Maybe one of the other aunts on here can give more info than what i have
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reader, katie-4632x. +, writes (23 April 2008):
perhaps you just like him as a friend or your instincts are telling you that hes too forward and your not ready for that type of relationship. He probably asked you out online as he was shy and couldnt face rejection.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2008): I think you don't wanna meet this guy cuz of the reasons you have given - simple as that. Don't get pressured to see him if you don't want to.
I have to say that it's nice to hear a girl who's picky. My friends go out with people because they simply want a boyfriend...but it always end in tears.
I myself am currently single and i sometimes feel disheartened because i cannot find a guy who makes me go "wow", but i know that such a guy will come along one day, and until that day comes i'm gonna concentrate on me and my wants.
You are only young yet and will meet loads of people, so wait for that someone special. :-)
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reader, superbunny +, writes (23 April 2008):
 Maybe you're subconciously telling yourself you don't like him that much at all and it's cruel to lead him along? It's natural to feel flattered when someone likes you and asks you out, and in the heat of the moment, you said yes. Then when it came to the reality of meeting up with him you thought better of it. If I were you, I'd wait until something you're more certain of crops up. =] x
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