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writes:Just a quick question, during unprotected sex, either in a relationship or a one night stand....what is the general consensus on where to cum? cheers for any answers
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2008): u guys are all idiots. u are missing the point to his question. this is an easy one to answer for those of us who actually understand what you are asking.
if she knows your name or has a way to find you, you should be careful not to cum inside her because if u get her pregnant, you'll have to deal with a whole bunch of problems.
otherwise, if its a true one night stand (stranger,etc.) then go ahead and cum inside her pussy. you'll prob never see her again so it isn't your problem anyway. sorry, this is the stone cold truth. it's best not to reveal your real name if this is your intention tho. lets be real, if the girl is stupid enough to let a stranger have sex with her without a condom, then she deserves it.
another option is to pull out and cum on her face. don't bother asking, ITS A ONE-NIGHT STAND! if she doesn't like it, too bad. you aren't going to be doing it again anyway!! another difference between a one night stand is that since you arent going to be doing it again, you can pull stuff u wouldn't when trying to please a girlfriend, etc. examples: who cares if she comes first; "Accidnetally" stick it in her ass hard without notice; call her dirty names like "slut" and "whore"; when coming on her face - get it in her eyes, up her nose, etc.
one-night stands are great because for that night only, she is your play toy. who cares if she likes it or not.
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reader, Fiona xxx +, writes (20 May 2008):
 I agree with the posted messages.
A dangerous game don't bother. Use a condom always.
Just peace of mind as you don't know what you could catch nowadays. Plus you don't wanna get somebody pregnant, or have her go for the morning after pill (nasty tablets).
It never ceases to amaze me the amount of guys who are up for a one night stand, but do not carry condoms!
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (23 April 2008):
 Here's more information on genital warts, caused by HPV, thank you Andrew83 for the helpful addition. WARNING, THIS SITE CONTAINS PICTURES OF LESIONS WHICH MAY NOT BE SUITABLE FOR ALL VIEWERS.
http://www.wartsremedy.com/WartsRemedy-Genital.html
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2008): If you're looking to hear these words, 'Next patient, please!' then you're on the right track having unprotected sex. Also 'Dad' is a likely contender.
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reader, Andrew83 +, writes (23 April 2008):
 Ps, what Tisha-1 means by HPV is this Human papillomavirus..
What is a HPV virus? The human papilloma viruses (HPVs) are a group of more than 100 different types of virus. They are given numbers to distinguish them.
Have a look for it for more info if you feel up to it.
Ok, i'm done here. you have enough info here to re think about unprotected sex.
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reader, Andrew83 +, writes (23 April 2008):
You seem sure you want take a chance with your life by askin that man.Ok, lets say you have unprotected sex and its a one night stand for a wee minute now.. Hmmm, what can happen ehh like what are the chances of gettin an STD these days, maybe 20% you may think or around that.. Ok keep goin, now what would happen if you did meet someone and wanted to be with, maybe spend your whole life with, how would you tell her that you have an STD (there are some out there, more than 1 at least) how do you think she will feel and say to you, knowin you knew about STD's from school, books or the net, how would you feel and what would you do..The chances of gettin an STD is alot higher than 20% with havin unprotected sex, plus if you ever got one you DO have to say to who ever your with before you have sex with them.. What about kids?? Well, i'm lost there.. i would like to try the natual way myself but hey, it's your life and someone else's you may have f'd up while havin unprotected sex.. sorry but your really not thinkin about the other person in it.. Havin sex involves TWO people, so try and think more about it.. Thats for one night stands by the way (mixed sex partners).If in a relationship, you would still need to wear protection, you both can get checked out to be sure you dont have any STD beforehand (it is safer too).It's really up to you though man.Thats my advice here on the matter. hope This and what the other aunts advice here helps you
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2008): The answer is simple: DON'T HAVE UNPROTECTED SEX!
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (23 April 2008):
"Just a quick question, during unprotected sex, either in a relationship or a one night stand....what is the general consensus on where to cum?"
Well, you're asking individuals for an answer here, so you'll get my input, and you'll have to put all the answers together to have your general consensus. I'm assuming unprotected consensual sex for both partners and that one is female and the other male. If it's not consensual, it would be rape. The other assumption is that you are the male, and she is the female.
"Where to cum?" was your question.
If you want her to get pregnant, long term relationship or one-night stand, then the answer is inside her.
If you don't want to get her pregnant, well, the answer would be nowhere near her, as your semen will contain sperm which could enter her vaginal canal and swim up and cause an unwanted pregnancy.
If you're concerned with the possibility of contracting a sexually transmitted disease (STD) then you should never have unprotected sexual relations.
I have to add that your sexual history could have long term repercussions for her health, one concern is her risk for sexually transmitted cancer (HPV) the other is her fertility (if she would like to have children someday and can't because of an undiagnosed and untreated bacterial infection). She is essentially exposed to all the viruses and bacteria you might have contracted, just as you are to hers.
Hope this helps you reach your 'consensus' decision.
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (23 April 2008):
 Always ask the lady when you are in a relationship - I've never been disappointed by the suggestion.
As for un protected sex - keep going like that and you will be either spending your hard earned on maintenance payments or be spending it at the clinic getting needles stuck up your old fella.
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (23 April 2008):
 i presume that since yous saying unprotected you wanna know where to cum when you pull out?? havent you heard of a little wonder called a condom? im surprised that you would or will find any girl out there who is willing to put their body and health at such a risk with a one night stand. not only are you risking getting her pregnant, you are also risking STD's - serious ones. my guess is that unless your going to use protection, dont cum anywhere. and i really dont think your mature enough to be having sex if you dont even care about the consequences. sorry but its a very stupid thing to do in this day and age - esp with a one night stand.
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reader, starfairy +, writes (23 April 2008):
 Where as in on the body? Or when...? Either way always be polite and let her cum first ;o) As for where...Wherever she might feel comfortable with.
I wouldn't have unprotected sex especially on a one night stand - not meaning to lecture but you don't know if this chick has got herpes or if she's looking for the daddy to her next kid...
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