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I'm Andie and I'm surviving life until I can really start to live it :)

Karma does happen:

My dad was a married woman's other guy for only a few weeks (about a decade before my mum met him), then realised he wasn't okay with helping her betray her husband. His friend became her other guy, husband came home while they were at it, the guy jumped out of the window and the husband knew, so grabbed a bicycle, chased him and punched him once, going 20mph, so it knocked him out. A couple of relationships later, after getting £15,000 in debt to help a woman leave her abusive husband and getting in a relationship with her, my dad came back from a holiday with his parents and found her with another guy.

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I want a sexual relationship with my professor. Should I pursue it?

Q.   I am in love with my professor and want to take thing to a sexual relationship. I need advise on how to keep it a secret. We flirt all the time we even exchanged pictures. Should I pursue this at all? ...

A.   27 April 2018: Get together with the classmates, including pictures he's sent, and report him.... (read in full...)

Should I be thankful for the little I've got?

Q.   Yes, mod, I’m 17. The only person I can talk to about my depression and anxiety is my boyfriend but I’m stuck in a polygamous relationship with him and his girlfriend. However, I love him and I’m getting tired of sharing him. I just want his body ...

A.   19 April 2018: Yeah, the anger can make you a target for bullying. Getting therapy when you're 18 will definitely help. Break it off with him and, in future, only date single guys. Good luck!... (read in full...)

Should I be thankful for the little I've got?

Q.   Yes, mod, I’m 17. The only person I can talk to about my depression and anxiety is my boyfriend but I’m stuck in a polygamous relationship with him and his girlfriend. However, I love him and I’m getting tired of sharing him. I just want his body ...

A.   19 April 2018: Get therapy. This *is* needy behaviour. 1) You're 17 2) "All my life" (dating so far) is 2 - 3 years maximum, which isn't even long enough to get through junior school, secondary school or university, so it's hardly a decent amount of time t... (read in full...)

Should I be thankful for the little I've got?

Q.   Yes, mod, I’m 17. The only person I can talk to about my depression and anxiety is my boyfriend but I’m stuck in a polygamous relationship with him and his girlfriend. However, I love him and I’m getting tired of sharing him. I just want his body ...

A.   18 April 2018: You TOLD him you're all he needs, but you're NOT and you need to accept that. You KNEW he had a girlfriend and still got involved with him. OP, he isn't MONOGAMOUS. He doesn't WANT just one girlfriend. Whether he's actually poly or just wants to... (read in full...)

His piercing means no kissing for 10 weeks.

Q.   My boyfriend got a new lip piercing last week and said that we can't kiss for the six week healing period, which I am happily enforcing because his healing is my priority and I don't want to hinder that process in any way. Coincidentally at the end ...

A.   18 April 2018: It's his body, so he shouldn't have to ask. You have a whole body you can each kiss without risking infections. I know it sucks, but it's miniscule in the big scheme of things :)... (read in full...)

Should I be thankful for the little I've got?

Q.   Yes, mod, I’m 17. The only person I can talk to about my depression and anxiety is my boyfriend but I’m stuck in a polygamous relationship with him and his girlfriend. However, I love him and I’m getting tired of sharing him. I just want his body ...

A.   18 April 2018: You're a monogamous person CHOOSING to be in a polyamorous one. That's on you. I'm sorry, OP, but you're so young and have DECADES to find a single, monogamous guy. Heck, she may not even know about you! He sides with her because it's not an equal... (read in full...)

Is it possible that his feelings toward her changed to a sister-like situation?

Q.   I am now in the 2nd year of long-distance-relationship with my 60-year-old partner with the same experience of having relationship or marriage in the past before we met each other in office. Certainly we adore each other and always try our best to ...

A.   18 April 2018: Using the term sister, instead of just "family" is a bit odd, but yes, it's possible. Her trying to get him back is a bit worrying, but nothing can happen if he's trustworthy because he wouldn't let it. It's up to you whether you trust him or n... (read in full...)

My boyfriend takes his problems out on me because I am white.

Q.   Background info: BF and I have been dating 4 years. We live together now. He's my best friend, and when we are both sober we are happy. My boyfriend is half Navajo Native American (Dine tribe to be technical, as Navajo is a derogatory term ...

A.   15 April 2018: You just move out, OP. Tell people you trust and ask for their help, so he can't become violent. Move in with family or friends, but get out of there.... (read in full...)

My uncle and I are in love, but what about Auntie?

Q.   I know that a lot of you are probably going to say how nasty and sick I am and how I need to get help right away, and I totally understand where you're coming from but I'm writing here because I have no one to talk to and I'm kind of going nuts over ...

A.   14 April 2018: He's preyed on you. You need to move out. This isn't love. Please get help; you're not safe around him. Biological or not, he's family and that makes him off limits. He's seen you as a CHILD and now sees you sexually. It's not the sign of a good m... (read in full...)

Am I being unrealistic wanting 2 breaks when our twins are 3 and 4?minths?

Q.   So my boyfriend and I are expecting our twins to be born over the summer. We're both excited and getting everything ready for their arrival. These are our first kids so it'll be a new experience for us both, mainly me because my boyfriend has ...

A.   14 April 2018: DancerGirl, nobody is saying she's won't need a break - just saying it's too early to plan anything because she'll probably need to use breaks to rest, not go out, until she's settled into a good routine, which usually takes months for single ... (read in full...)

Am I being unrealistic wanting 2 breaks when our twins are 3 and 4?minths?

Q.   So my boyfriend and I are expecting our twins to be born over the summer. We're both excited and getting everything ready for their arrival. These are our first kids so it'll be a new experience for us both, mainly me because my boyfriend has ...

A.   13 April 2018: Mums need rest, but you're going to want it to sleep, not go out, so early on - and with twins! OP, you'll need to use your "me time" to eat, sleep and shower. Get in a stable routine before planning any breaks; babies don't adhere to schedule... (read in full...)

I'm worried about my boyfriend's smoking.

Q.   Im in a relationshio for almost 8 months with my boyfriend,we are like best friends .we Tell eachother everything,But lately he started smoking like 1-2 cigarettes per day and I found out because my best friend told me he saw him.when I asked him ...

A.   13 April 2018: Once you start, it's usually hard to stop. Maybe he is doing it for relaxation, but it's a false "treatment". It's his choice to smoke, but it's unwise for you to be in a relationship with a smoker. It's likely his smoking will get worse before... (read in full...)

Can I get an std from someone using no protection who came back with a clean bill of health

Q.   So I have 2 sex partners and both are clean ( before you question how I am sure, I have had both men take std tests as well as taken one myself so everyone is safe) but I’m curious if I can still get an std from either of them from unprotected sex? ...

A.   12 April 2018: OP, you're really young, but that's no excuse to be naive and irresponsible. You shouldn't be having unprotected sex. Why aren't you worried about PREGNANCY?! I don't care how many sexual partners you have at once, provided they all know yo... (read in full...)

I'm falling for the new girl and my current GF is jealous.

Q.   I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for 3 years, we live together and on the whole we're very happy. I've recently met another girl and just click with her so well- we've hung out as a three a few times and to start with my gf really g...

A.   11 April 2018: You haven't kept your friendship platonic. That's the problem. You decided to build a friendship with someone you're crushing on. It's incredibly disrespectful to your girlfriend and relationship. Put simply, OP, either ditch the friend or break... (read in full...)

Does anyone have an experience with a successful meet up with online friends/lovers?

Q.   I've met this guy half year ago, I'm from the US and he's from Sweden. i was only on an educational site, and i was really into chatting with people who likes to talk about literature etc.. Until i came across this guy. We talked alot at first via ...

A.   11 April 2018: I met my then-boyfriend online over 3 years ago. The only reason it worked as long as it did was because we lived in the same country, albeit still long distance. We saw each other every other week during his first year of uni, then every 3 weeks ... (read in full...)

My cousin talked me into having sex with her when we were just 12 and 13 and now I feel uncomfortable having her stay over at my place

Q.   When I was 12 years old male, my 13 years old female cousin talked me into having sex with her. Over the next two years, we had sex on several occasions (maybe once every 3 months). We stopped having sex when she was about 15 years old and when I ...

A.   10 April 2018: Whether you've spoken since or not, it's wise to have her stay anywhere but your house. Don't back down. Stick to it. Also, it would be useful for you to get therapy because the sex has messed you up - not an unlikely result of sex with a family m... (read in full...)

I want a sexual relationship with my professor. Should I pursue it?

Q.   I am in love with my professor and want to take thing to a sexual relationship. I need advise on how to keep it a secret. We flirt all the time we even exchanged pictures. Should I pursue this at all? ...

A.   10 April 2018: You're on a site that doesn't condone or encourage reckless decisions. This is one of those things we won't help you with, in the way you want. He's in a position of power, which is likely why you're attracted to him. However, he could (and sho... (read in full...)

Should I tell her the truth about my bisexuality or let this remain as a fantasy as I have done for a long time?

Q.   I am currently in a relationship with my long-term girlfriend of 2.5 years. We have a great relationship and our sex life is great, I care about her and whenever we are together we enjoy each others company; we even are planning a future together. ...

A.   9 April 2018: Own up. Chatting anonymously on webcam in a sexual nature IS cheating. Talk to her. You need to figure out if you want time to experiment with men AS A SINGLE MAN. Maybe she'd be okay with you experimenting, but not behind her back because tha... (read in full...)

Does this sound hopeless? Should I try talking to my boyfriend's rigid Indian parents and fight for him?

Q.   Hello all.. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months. I’ve known him for almost a year and honestly, he is the best boyfriend over ever had. I’m not exaggerating. He treats me with love, respect and kindness. After breaking up with my abusive ...

A.   9 April 2018: Talking to his parents is pointless and won't go down well. It's not your place. Aslo, no, I don't think it's a good idea to fight for him. You've only been together for 3 months. You'll find someone else with fewer issues making the future s... (read in full...)

I would tell her I love her but don't want to risk our friendship.

Q.   Hello readers, I am ashamed and embarrassed to admit that I am in love with a married woman. I am a 33 year old man, I am mostly sensible and don't want things I can't have. I live with my girlfriend of 10 years. She's everything I shoul...

A.   8 April 2018: The grass is always greener on the other side. Maybe he does take her for granted, but she's not going to be as great as you think she is. Let your girlfriend go; she deserves a guy who won't think he's in love with someone else. She doesn't W... (read in full...)

Did my boyfriend’s dad just sexually harrass me!? I’m crying

Q.   My boyfriends dad just sexually harrased me?! I feel so embarrased to even write this! Please help I am in shock I live with my boyfriends parents and something happened I was eating late meal in the kitchen and he came in, we were having a ...

A.   8 April 2018: OP, you're a young mother with a baby and nowhere to stay. You and your boyfriend should be married and have your own place before having a baby, but that hasn't happened even after the baby. That needs to stop now and you both need to correct it. ... (read in full...)

He has a girlfriend but he took my virginity and I think he's the "one" for me

Q.   Hi, I’m in love with a taken guy. We’ve been through so much together. He took my virginity, we fell asleep together, and his mom absolutely loves me. She’s constantly asking about me and says that I should come over more. BUT, he has a girlfriend. ...

A.   7 April 2018: OP, go to a doctor. Ask them the questions. Then learn from your mistakes.... (read in full...)

How do I move forward with my new boyfriend after cheating on him?

Q.   Hi, I previously asked a question relating to the situation I found myself in. To be honest I had some rather rude and insensitive answers from one particular user but each to their own opinion. Basically I was in an violent abusive relation...

A.   5 April 2018: Also, when acting the way you have been, "getting your drinking under control" means no drinking at all. Not one. Ever. You are showing signs of being an alcoholic or, at the very least, showing extremely reckless judgement when drinking. That means ... (read in full...)

How do I move forward with my new boyfriend after cheating on him?

Q.   Hi, I previously asked a question relating to the situation I found myself in. To be honest I had some rather rude and insensitive answers from one particular user but each to their own opinion. Basically I was in an violent abusive relation...

A.   5 April 2018: OP, you need to accept that you have a problem, get into therapy and be single until you work out your own issues. You've been through trauma, but this is self-sabotage and will hurt others too. You need to get help and fix yourself before being in ... (read in full...)

Should I break up with my live-in girlfriend?

Q.   I am in a long term relationship and my gf isnt interested in sex. I've always had a higher sex drive than her but she only wants sex when it is her cycle for a kid. I want a kid but college is starting to get stressful and I dont think I want to ...

A.   4 April 2018: Couples' counselling may help, but you're not ready to have a baby and she is. That could be a big problem, especially with her only wanting sex then. Sex dissipates after having a baby, so it already being minimal is a bad sign, in terms of ... (read in full...)

Please help me stand up for myself

Q.   I am sick of my friends not listening to me and then punishinhg me with rumors and the silent treatment. OK. Sometimes, it's fun for me, JUST TO HAVE A CRUSH ON SOMEBODY. It's fun and it's safe and I can feel all happy inside and I don't have to ...

A.   4 April 2018: You're not ready for dating, so stick to hanging out in groups and KINDLY telling boys who like you that you just want to be friends. It's good to not let boys cross your boundaries, but you also need to politely let them know you're not interested. ... (read in full...)

How to get over your first love? It’s been 10 years...

Q.   I fell in love for the first time of my life when I was 23. This was 11 years ago and it was of course magical and exhilarating. A transitional time, where texting still consisted of pressing a button 3 times to get your letter. I loved him so much. ...

A.   4 April 2018: You don't have to forget your first love, but you shouldn't still be hung up on it either. It would do you some good to find a therapist and discover the reason you won't move on and keep it as just a memory. Do you love your husband? If not, tha... (read in full...)

What kind of girl does a guy consider special and different?

Q.   What kind of girl does a guy consider special and different What about her physically mentally spiritually and emotionally will make her stand out from the rest? I hear a lot of women say things like “If a guy loses me, he’ll never find any...

A.   4 April 2018: What's "special" to one person is pointless to a billion others (literally). Being confident is one thing, but being arrogant is another. "Special" means different things to different people.... (read in full...)

Is there no one for me? How can I get a guy to be interested in me?

Q.   I think I’m meant to be alone forever. I’m a junior in high school, and No matter what, I cannot find a guy who remotely shows interest in me. I am good-looking (not trying to be stuck-up) but I never talk in school. I go to school everyday without ...

A.   4 April 2018: Oh, OP, I know it sucks, but you haven't even lived to ¼ of your life yet and most of it was as a child - how does that show you'll be alone for the next 60+ years? It doesn't and you know it :) Also, if you don't talk, you'll never make friends ... (read in full...)

Is he telling the truth about the state of his marriage?

Q.   I’m seeing a married man for a number of years. I am in no rush to spending my whole life with but I do love him, he says he is in a sexless marriage, that his wife has no sex drive yet iv seen photos of them with her arm around him yet he doesn’t ...

A.   3 April 2018: Think of his wife. Get rid of him. How can you trust him when he'll lie to his wife? You can't. Stop being selfish.... (read in full...)

I've found the love of my life in a chatroom in Poland and I'm planning to move there to be with her

Q.   Last time I post on here, I had visited an escort. I had visit an escort only once and never again. I decided to get back into dating, but I had no success. One day I joined a chatroom and I happen to meet a Polish woman who lives in Poland over a ...

A.   3 April 2018: I hope she knows you were desperate enough to go to an escort for your first sexual experience. Your impatience and stubbornness is your main problem. If she isn't manipulating you, you'll probably show her your controlling side soon after movin... (read in full...)

I've found the love of my life in a chatroom in Poland and I'm planning to move there to be with her

Q.   Last time I post on here, I had visited an escort. I had visit an escort only once and never again. I decided to get back into dating, but I had no success. One day I joined a chatroom and I happen to meet a Polish woman who lives in Poland over a ...

A.   3 April 2018: As someone from Europe - you are SO wrong. Most are NOT ready to marry at 20! Nobody is saying America is great either. However, if you refuse to listen to SENSE, that's on you. Good luck.... (read in full...)

He has a girlfriend but he took my virginity and I think he's the "one" for me

Q.   Hi, I’m in love with a taken guy. We’ve been through so much together. He took my virginity, we fell asleep together, and his mom absolutely loves me. She’s constantly asking about me and says that I should come over more. BUT, he has a girlfriend. ...

A.   2 April 2018: 1) Ignore the guy; it's manipulation, not genuine. 2) Don't date at work; if it ends, it's likely you'd need to move jobs. Not fun. 3) Slow down. Take time to be single.... (read in full...)

I've found the love of my life in a chatroom in Poland and I'm planning to move there to be with her

Q.   Last time I post on here, I had visited an escort. I had visit an escort only once and never again. I decided to get back into dating, but I had no success. One day I joined a chatroom and I happen to meet a Polish woman who lives in Poland over a ...

A.   2 April 2018: She's more or less still a teenager. I'm her age and trust me on her head. She is not going to be the same person in 5 years, let alone when she's your age. You're done dating women, so you're going to date a foreign GIRL? Sure, "young woman" fits, ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend ridiculed me saying that I have small boobs and a big tummy!

Q.   Dear cubid, The other day my bf of 2 years and i were video chating and i was wearing a tank top without a bra so he made a comment saying " ur boobs need serious help why doesn't the fat from ur stomach go up to ur boobs , just rotate the fat" ...

A.   2 April 2018: Dump him. He was just cruel - nothing funny about it.... (read in full...)

Why am I attracted to men like my father?

Q.   [Mod note: two questions combined from same poster.] Should I date men that I don’t find physically attractive? I come from an arranged marriage - my parents both were set up by their parents and their still married - although not happy.. I apprec...

A.   2 April 2018: Honestly, life is too short to be with someone who doesn't make you happy. Just don't date guys like your father. Who you date is a choice.... (read in full...)

I don’t want to deny him sex but how do I get my feelings across?

Q.   I have been with my bf now for 3 months and although he is 12 years older he can be romantic. He is African american and I'm Canadian (when we are not making love). But he can be a bit of a control freak when it come to our love making. He says what ...

A.   1 April 2018: Also, get on birth control and ALWAYS use condoms. You don't know what STDs he may have or if he'll accidentally get you pregnant just because he doesn't want to use condoms! You can't trust him, OP, and you aren't making wise decisions. This ... (read in full...)

How do I react. He ignored me but is now dating my best friend

Q.   If I met a guy in a club, asked him out, he gave me his number, I texted twice, he never responded. Months later I discover he is now having sex with my best friend. How should I react?...

A.   31 March 2018: I appreciate that you felt the need to ask, but you're in your 30s. He just wasn't interested in you. You never dated or fell in love. You shouldn't be hung up on him months later. How do you react? Well, the guy is a stranger, not an ex, so there's ... (read in full...)

It feels like shes using me. Is she?

Q.   We're dating for a few months, I'm 31 she's 22 last night she asked me to pick her up at her house and I didn't want to because I just don't want to get out of my house and as she lives far away I'm not into it driving right now, just a lazy day, ...

A.   31 March 2018: Dude, grow up. She's young. You're older. You should have more financial stability, but didn't offer to pay or help pay for the UBER. Your also felt too LAZY. You clearly don't fancy making much of an effort to see her. I get it, you do it th... (read in full...)

I don’t want to deny him sex but how do I get my feelings across?

Q.   I have been with my bf now for 3 months and although he is 12 years older he can be romantic. He is African american and I'm Canadian (when we are not making love). But he can be a bit of a control freak when it come to our love making. He says what ...

A.   31 March 2018: Forgot to add: - you're not a freak - this is sex, not making love - it's too early for love - he sees this as sex for him, not sex for both of you - not all men are "sexed up", most are happy to compromise and meet your desires too ... (read in full...)

I don’t want to deny him sex but how do I get my feelings across?

Q.   I have been with my bf now for 3 months and although he is 12 years older he can be romantic. He is African american and I'm Canadian (when we are not making love). But he can be a bit of a control freak when it come to our love making. He says what ...

A.   31 March 2018: OP, you're not going to like what I'm going to say, but please listen. It could be his age. He's controlling and has convinced you he "needs" things, but he doesn't. You also don't say what YOU want because you don't want to upset him. You shou... (read in full...)

I’m not over my ex, in a new relationship but feel numb, what do I do?

Q.   Hiya I was with my ex boyfriend over 2 year we split up 6 years ago and I still can’t get over him I was completely in love with him but I was young and didn’t know how to express it he was 8 years older than me I was 26 he was 32 he didn’t treat me ...

A.   29 March 2018: You need to break up with this guy and get therapy to find out why you haven't moved on in 6 years. The guy was your first serious relationship, presumably, but he's probably moved on and you should have too. You've been hung up on him for thre... (read in full...)

Do gay guys like men who are on the down low?

Q.   Do gay guys, have fwb,with guys who, have girlfriends, do they like having guys like that. Cause am thinking about asking a gay guy I know, if he would like taking my virginity, I have fantasies, about having sex with him, all the time, when I do ...

A.   29 March 2018: OP, act your age and be a decent human being. Leave your girlfriend. You're gay and now is the time to accept it, rather than look for a way to cheat on an innocent woman who trusts you. No, most people (women, men, gay, straight, bi, etc.) do... (read in full...)

Anyone have friends or family who knew of your partners affair and DIDN'T tell you?

Q.   Me and my girlfriend been together for over 9 years, only couple of days ago she dropped a bomb shell on me saying she’s been cheating on me with my best friend, my heart sunk, I was heart broken to be hearing this. We met in 2008 till now we still ...

A.   29 March 2018: OP, I'm a feminist and I've supported you. Don't blame feminism. Not only that, but I've yet to see this anon message that has bothered you.... Just be direct with the friend, then block them.... (read in full...)

Should I accept a screen role with nudity?

Q.   Hi uncle and aunties. I need some advice. I am an aspiring actress who is still in the middle of completing my bachelors degree at uni. I have done occasional work in TV commercials when I was a child growing up in my home country. I have also acted ...

A.   29 March 2018: I'm with CW, more experienced actresses turning it down because of the nudity suggests it's nudity for the sake of, not to benefit the story. If 50 - 75% is nudity, then your character is there for eye candy, not talent or depth. Nudity isn't needed ... (read in full...)

Anyone have friends or family who knew of your partners affair and DIDN'T tell you?

Q.   Me and my girlfriend been together for over 9 years, only couple of days ago she dropped a bomb shell on me saying she’s been cheating on me with my best friend, my heart sunk, I was heart broken to be hearing this. We met in 2008 till now we still ...

A.   29 March 2018: There are times when I'd suggest discussing whether you could move past this with couples' counselling. This, however, was five of seven years. I don't think you can get past that and I don't think she deserves it. You need to be with someone who ... (read in full...)

Should I accept a screen role with nudity?

Q.   Hi uncle and aunties. I need some advice. I am an aspiring actress who is still in the middle of completing my bachelors degree at uni. I have done occasional work in TV commercials when I was a child growing up in my home country. I have also acted ...

A.   29 March 2018: Okay, so: 1) Congrats on being offered it 2) It is a great opportunity, but it's a huge risk 3) Nude scenes should be important to the film or it does make you look like you're just a sexy body for the sake of it, with little acting tale... (read in full...)

He has a girlfriend but he took my virginity and I think he's the "one" for me

Q.   Hi, I’m in love with a taken guy. We’ve been through so much together. He took my virginity, we fell asleep together, and his mom absolutely loves me. She’s constantly asking about me and says that I should come over more. BUT, he has a girlfriend. ...

A.   28 March 2018: Be honest with yourself, OP - you were kind of heartless too because you didn't care about how his girlfriend would feel. You can't put all of this on him being a jerk. He's an idiot and a cheater. You don't really want him and, had he offered t... (read in full...)

He has a girlfriend but he took my virginity and I think he's the "one" for me

Q.   Hi, I’m in love with a taken guy. We’ve been through so much together. He took my virginity, we fell asleep together, and his mom absolutely loves me. She’s constantly asking about me and says that I should come over more. BUT, he has a girlfriend. ...

A.   27 March 2018: Okay, let's break this down. 1) Yes, you are partly to blame. 2) No, you are not a PoS. 3) You would never be his "one and only" because he will be a cheat until he grows up. 4) Cutting him off completely and not letting him visit you is... (read in full...)

He has a girlfriend but he took my virginity and I think he's the "one" for me

Q.   Hi, I’m in love with a taken guy. We’ve been through so much together. He took my virginity, we fell asleep together, and his mom absolutely loves me. She’s constantly asking about me and says that I should come over more. BUT, he has a girlfriend. ...

A.   25 March 2018: OP, I'm happy for you to message me. I was bullied my whole school life and have only one friend (my ex). Luckily, my ex isn't toxic for me. This guy is completely toxic for you. You've made terrible decisions that you will regret when the crus... (read in full...)

He has a girlfriend but he took my virginity and I think he's the "one" for me

Q.   Hi, I’m in love with a taken guy. We’ve been through so much together. He took my virginity, we fell asleep together, and his mom absolutely loves me. She’s constantly asking about me and says that I should come over more. BUT, he has a girlfriend. ...

A.   25 March 2018: OP, when did you last have sex with him? Did you use condoms for oral and vaginal sex? You know he's had sex with at least one other girl - his girlfriend. Chances are, he's had sex with more than that. Probably unprotected because "condoms... (read in full...)

He has a girlfriend but he took my virginity and I think he's the "one" for me

Q.   Hi, I’m in love with a taken guy. We’ve been through so much together. He took my virginity, we fell asleep together, and his mom absolutely loves me. She’s constantly asking about me and says that I should come over more. BUT, he has a girlfriend. ...

A.   25 March 2018: Bloody hell, OP. You know he's a liar. You know he's full of crap; "fine being cheated on", what a load of BS! Why are you still interested? Why did you let him anywhere near you, especially being your first sexual experience? What a silly choice. ... (read in full...)

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