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Hi I am 33 yrs old (female).. I live in western america (TN). I've been with my man for 2yrs in a committed relationship, and we were best friends for 5 before that. He is my everything! I don't know what qualifies me to help people, except that I've always had the ability to listen and give the best advice I could. My life's struggles have left me with a lot of it...(lol). So please feel free to drop me a private line and I promise to get back with the best answer I can give... GOOD LUCK! MEGAN A.K.A (accused)

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DON'T SECOND GUESS YOURSELF...

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23 October 2008: Many years ago Indian braves would go away in solitude to prepare for manhood. One hiked into a beautiful valley, green with trees and bright with flowers. There as he looked up at the surrounding mountains, he noticed a rugged peak capped with ...

WHO IS THE RICH MAN?

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23 October 2008: Who Is The Rich Man? One day a wealthy father took his son on a trip to the country so that the son could see how the poor lived. They spent a day and a night at the farm of a very poor family. When they got back from their trip, the father asked...

CRAZY THOUGHT

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23 October 2008: CAN'T WAIT TO SEE WHAT GETS SAID FROM THIS ONE! XX--"ACCUSED" You have the choice to live with a gorilla who knows sign language or a dog who sings lullabies, which do you choose? What would chairs look like if our knees were on the back of ou...

Want to find out how you would act in a relationship, take this test.

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13 July 2008: After reading all these articles I decided to throw this in there too! I was given this test by a "relationship theropist" LOL yes that title does exist! However it was interesting to see just which one you pick....... Read the question, don't ...

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I know I want to be with her

Q.   Hi. I know a lot of people ask these types of questions here, but every one of us has an experience that is just a tad different. For starters, I am a 24 year old male, married with a 5 year old little boy and a little girl on the way. I have been ...

A.   8 December 2006: Grass maybe greener on the other side, but it's still got to be mowed... If your heart is not in this marriage, then nothing will ever work out. I AM NOT TELLING YOU TO LEAVE YOUR WIFE... so don't take it thtat way, please. I just know that when ... (read in full...)

How do you teach respect?

Q.   I have a 12 years old boy who is on the whole a good boy, attending good school and doing ok. He is for sometime now very rude to us especially towards his dad. He swears at him and treats him with utmost disrespect. My husband tried to be kind and ...

A.   7 December 2006: I promise you i don't mean any harm with what I am about to say... Your question was how do you teach respect? well who taught you? apparently it worked... your son a little too big to have his fav toys taken away... you better buckle down on him ... (read in full...)

He never gave me a proper reason for breaking up, but still says he loves me and cuddles with me!

Q.   I split up with my Boyfriend about 2 weeks ago, we had been together for 2 years and lived together. He recently got a new job and everything changed! He went out all the time with his friends, and stayed at theirs about twice a week. When he told ...

A.   7 December 2006: I would talk to him and demand a valid reason for why you two broke it off. I feel that you are worth an explanation! If he can "respect" you and LIVE with you, then he can "RESPECT" you and give you what you deserve, a reason... GOOD LUCK ... (read in full...)

I'm a nice, sensitive guy and just want a happy relationship..so is that sensitivity working against me? Any ideas?

Q.   I'm a sensitive guy but I think that it's working against me cos I see most of the girls go for guys that treat them badly. I know that I sometimes over analyse things and I'm maybe insecure in some areas. I'm generally very confident but my rela...

A.   6 December 2006: Hey there... I am interested ,to know your positive views on yourself? I have listed all the (negative) words you used to express your question: over analyse..insecure.. relationships never lasted past 9 months... never gonna find happines... (read in full...)

My ex wants to be friends with me, but says he's uncomfortable around me!

Q.   why is it that he wanted to be friends after the breakup but he says that he's still uncomforable around me? We had a perfect relationship but he wanted to end it cuz he just wanted to be friends for right now. I mean i want to ask him to ha...

A.   6 December 2006: Let me just say that I TOTALLY understand where you are coming from. My BF of 2yrs now, was at one time my best friend (5yrs) to be truthful! and when I say best I mean best friend he would call me about his dates, tell me about whom he had ... (read in full...)

Can my friend stop the drug dealing father from seeing his child?

Q.   hi,a friend of mine has a four year old child,the childs father has not wanted to see the child before,because it could'nt walk or talk,but now after four years he has gained interest,and is taking court action out on my friend for visiting ...

A.   6 December 2006: Thats a hard one. First does the father pay child support? and you said that he admitted to smoking & dealing, whom did he admit this to? The reason I ask is because with out proof he can just say he didn't say that so now it's basically here say. ... (read in full...)

Any Ideas to get my little girl to sleep a bit longer ?

Q.   my little girl goes to bed then wakes up about six times a night calling mummy daddy, she has music and a night light she used to sleep so well.any ideas please?...

A.   6 December 2006: How old is your little girl?... (read in full...)

He's been contacted by a company he owed money to before he went bankrupt 12 years ago!

Q.   Hello My bofriend of 2 years was made bankrupt 12 years ago after his split up from his ex-wife and recently he has been receving letters from a company he owed money to before he went bankrupt demanding that he pay them £50.00 per week until t...

A.   6 December 2006: Hi there by law they can only go back (7yrs) to try and get money that is owed for a debt. When you BF filed bankrupcy did he list the company that is trying to get money from him now? If so then all he has to do is tell the company that he filed ... (read in full...)

My ex got married and has more kids, but I can't get over him! What can I do?

Q.   hi well the deal is: iv been split from my bf of 7years 4 3years and i still have strong feelings for him(maybe the fact i have a 5y/o to him)i just carnt seem to stop thinking about him. ma freinds keep telling me to move on they even take me out ...

A.   5 December 2006: In my opion I think that you should put the well being of your child first and foremost. Then you need to sit down and ask yourself what is it about this man that DIDN"T treat you good when you two were together that keeps you hanging on. You ... (read in full...)

Would the age difference be too weird?

Q.   I am 16 years old and in grade 11 in high school, and my problem is that I have a crush on a guy in grade 9, and I know that he likes me too. If we were to get together, would it work out, or would the age difference be too weird?...

A.   5 December 2006: I think that if you like him and he likes you then you should go for it... I mean the age difference can't be that much, right? Regardless if you and this guy click then go with it... would it work? No one could honestly answer that because no one ... (read in full...)

How can you tell if you guy is lying to you?

Q.   How can you tell if you guy is lying to you ? ...

A.   5 December 2006: Hi I had to reply to this question: I've found in past experiences that men tend to (blow) up so to speak, when asked certain questions.. example: you ask your man something about his where abouts because the timing does not add up and he's not ... (read in full...)

My bro hates my BF but we are all going out to dinner, with the grandparents, on my 18th!

Q.   my parents and grandparents are taking me out for my 18th bday meal and drinking session but they want me to bring my bf along to meet him. the only problem is my bro hates my bf and would do anything to stop me seeing him. my grandparents are ...

A.   5 December 2006: Well hopefully sex and being dirty minded will not come up in dinner conversations (lol) or at least lets hope not. Do you know why your bro does not like your BF? Have you ever asked for specific reasons. How old is your bro, anyway? My advice to ... (read in full...)

There's no way hes walking all over me anymore!

Q.   Ok, where do i start?! Baically i(18) was seeing this guy(25) for about 9 weeks. At first it was soo great! We wernt together but kinda where if u know what i mean...like we didnt say we were bf and gf but we never went off with other people. After ...

A.   5 December 2006: Emma Good for you on standing up for yourself and saying "There's no way hes walking all over me anymore! Your SELF RESPECT is solely YOURS! and the only way that a person can take that RESPECT from you is if you GIVE IT to them! Personally I am not ... (read in full...)

Is there a place where I can get free counselling...I live in London (UK).

Q.   I have posted a lot times on the site about my relationship insecurities and had so much help. Everyone has suggested I seek counselling to help me properly - but have no idea how to go about this!! The big problem is that I cant afford to pay ...

A.   5 December 2006: I am new to this site and would love to read your prior posts, if you want you can send me an email ask me your question, trust me I've been thru it all.... ... (read in full...)

He seems to be getting more moody

Q.   I am involved with a man who is widowed. It will be a year 12/30/2006 that she passed away of cancer. He waited 6 months before dating and did so online. The first girl he only went out with a couple of weeks. We have now been together 3 months. ...

A.   5 December 2006: You said that they were married for 5yrs. Honestly I can't say that (6 months) is long eoungh to be FINE with a (5yr) marriage that would still be together if death had not changed everybodys plans! I do however feel that you should maintaine a ... (read in full...)

How do I get this guy to like me

Q.   How do I get this guy to like me without him knowing I like him?...

A.   5 December 2006: Body Language! (lol) Try talking to him and make **EYE CONTACT**... It has been proven that men and women react differently when it comes to showing someone we like them. For example: Men will stand with their hands in their jean pockets. (vs) ... (read in full...)

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