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How would you know your boyfriend is cheating?
Q. How would you know that your boyfriend is cheating on you??? What strong signs that he is doing it???...
A. 26 June 2011: Thanks Abella.. This is very helpful to me since I'm really having hard time figuring out my bf... I need to understand more so I could adjust better and not make some false assumptions base on behaviors that I'm seeing! ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's best friend is a girl, and I feel jealous when they hang out!
Q. My boyfriend's best friend is a girl. She's a good friend of mine and really nice and we're pretty close. I don't want to, but every time he hangs out with her (which is like everyday) I get jealous. Recently, I've been on a 9 day trip and every day ...
A. 26 June 2011: I felt the same with this girl that my bf used to hang out also. We are far apart so this girl is with him almost everyday and even calls or text even when he is visiting at home if he got free time from work. My bf said need not to be jealous with ... (read in full...)
Bored with my relationship but worried that if we split its going to make things complicated with the baby...
Q. I'm 20 years old and been with my girlfriend for 2 and a half years. She moved in my place in october when our daughter was born which she is 8 months old now. I'm so bored with the relationship, the sex ect. I acually fantasize about the last gir...
A. 26 June 2011: To rescuer I think this is the line anonymous is refering about "Sometimes I think if we never had the baby we wouldnt be together."... (read in full...)
He packed up and moved out without an explanation!
Q. my boyfriend of almost 3 years packed up all his stuff and moved out while i was at work, then called me after he had already moved out, supposidly he is living with a guy from his work but he didn't really tell me much except that he loved me but ...
A. 26 June 2011: Getting over a person your really loved is so hard. Been there and done that. I kept telling myself I will survive without him but my world turns upside down simply by the thought of losing him. I can't eat well, work well and basically can't do ... (read in full...)
I want to lose weight but not become too thin. Any advice?
Q. Sooo this isn't really a relationship question, but I just need some advice. I'm 5'3, I use to weigh 5 stone. I went to hospital and put on 4 stone, the medication I was on had a side affect of weight gain. Since then I've lost 1 stone; so I now ...
A. 26 June 2011: Ive been having the same problem I guess. I started loosing weight when I was very depressed. Seems like everything I eat taste no good and I really lost my appetite in eating. I usually skip 2 meals in a day and I still don't feel hungry at all. ... (read in full...)
I'm worried that my boyfriend will meet another girl at university. How can I be more confident, and overcome the unease/trust issues that distance brings?
Q. Hi, I'm in an LDR and my boyfriend is going into first year university next year at a specialized school for people who share his talents and interests. We are very different, the whole "opposites attract" idea. I am worried he will find a girl...
A. 26 June 2011: We can't avoid it since he will be going far away there is always possibilities he will meet girls more like him. What is important is you trust him and believe that he would never cheats on you. Honestly my bf and I are miles apart since last year ... (read in full...)
Bored with my relationship but worried that if we split its going to make things complicated with the baby...
Q. I'm 20 years old and been with my girlfriend for 2 and a half years. She moved in my place in october when our daughter was born which she is 8 months old now. I'm so bored with the relationship, the sex ect. I acually fantasize about the last gir...
A. 26 June 2011: Breaking up is not a solution not until you sort things out.. You are bored??? It's only been like 2 yrs since you've been together. If you really don't care and love her anymore you have to tell her either ways it's gonna hurt her badly but be ... (read in full...)
Should I try to fix this or just move on? We both have trouble compromising.
Q. My bf and I have been in this situation for few months and we are still fixing it. Well the problem is neither of us wants to give way and compromise. He has been rude to me lately and out of my anger in return I'm being stubborn and don't list...
A. 26 June 2011: Last night I talked to him and tried breaking up with him but I can't make up my mind.... I've been trying so hard to tell myself it's over but it keep coming back. We had good time talking over the phone last night seems like we get along fine and ... (read in full...)
How would you know your boyfriend is cheating?
Q. How would you know that your boyfriend is cheating on you??? What strong signs that he is doing it???...
A. 26 June 2011: Well he has been like that since the day I met him. He shares things with me but he still keep secrets especially his job. He doesn't want to tell me since I wouldn't understand any and he don't want me to worry about it. He swears that he never ... (read in full...)
Husband cheated on me with 2 girls and has babies with both, but refuses to leave me. What should I do?
Q. Hello, I have a question. I have been with my husband 11 years. We have 2 kids. I just found out at the end of the year he has cheated on me twice and has two kids with two different girls. I feel betrayed and don't know what to do. I don't know if ...
A. 25 June 2011: Yes for me if my husband would cheat that is unacceptable. Once done he can do it again easily... Cheating is unjustifiable but if you love him that much and you think you can still trust him then go ahead and give him a chance...... (read in full...)
What is wrong with me? Two months now. Will I ever get over my ex?
Q. What is wrong with me? when will I get better? I loved my ex boyfriend so much. He was so nice and sweet. I was so happy with him. But he broke up with me saying he doesn't want a relationship. Two months later he rang me saying he wants us to be f...
A. 25 June 2011: Yes he is not worth wasting your precious time.. I had a very long time bf too but when he started dis respecting me I want to break his neg and get rid of him totally. So that's what I did at first feels like my whole world is falling apart but I ... (read in full...)
Is he lying? Am I over reacting? Or how could this problem happen with the phone?
Q. Hey Everyone, I have a serious problem ....Ok myself and my fiance are in love and we live together hes a great man I never once had him cheat on me or anything. but today I found something that really upset me and he says he didn't do it, what ...
A. 25 June 2011: Well honestly I don't think it's a big deal seeing my bf surfing porn sites and stuffs. Sometimes we need to loosen up a little and have fun... I can't tell if his lying or not.. You just need to believe him I guess and end the conversation.... (read in full...)
Should I try to fix this or just move on? We both have trouble compromising.
Q. My bf and I have been in this situation for few months and we are still fixing it. Well the problem is neither of us wants to give way and compromise. He has been rude to me lately and out of my anger in return I'm being stubborn and don't list...
A. 25 June 2011: Yes U guess so... It been like a week since I haven't talk to him then! He tried calling me but I fear that if I did I'll gave in to him again and this wont ever stop... somebody needs to make the move or else will be stuck being together and not ... (read in full...)
I just found out the guy my wife lost her viginity to had a bigger penis
Q. hi just found out the guy my wife lost her virginty to was my 2nd cousin after 22 years of married life when she blurted out his name by mistake i asked her his name and found out he had a bigger penis and said she was sorry had i known this i would ...
A. 25 June 2011: Does it matter to you that your wife lost her virginity to another guy, well if it does then why did you marry her at the first place? I don't see why you have a big deal out of this. She chose you. From what I know women don't usually like a very... (read in full...)
How do I get over knowing he doesn't care that the relationship is over?
Q. Hellllo, Yesterday i decided to break up with my boyfriend of 4 years,because he was lying and cheating and i finally got fed up and i was to hurt this time to try anymore. So i dont really know what to do anymore,im really confused and my ...
A. 25 June 2011: It's also happening to me.. It's just that my relationship is not over yet.. Dee every time me and my bf argue I would tell him that its over and I will leave you for good but he smiles and ask me can you really live without me?? Can you really be ... (read in full...)
What can I do about this unbearable pain in my vagina during sex?
Q. Whenever my fiance and I are having sex I have unbearable pain inside my vagina. It's feels like cuts inside and also hot. What can I do to stop this pain because it's really interfering wit my sex life. Please help. ...
A. 25 June 2011: You need to see a doctor for that.. Nothing that we could advice much for you here!!! ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend tired of me?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for nine months now and lately I feel like he doesn't want me around. I'm home for the summer since I was away at college and now that I'm home I would think things would be perfect because we couldn't see each ...
A. 25 June 2011: Guys are usually like that.. they can't say it straight to our faces that they want to end it right then and there... My bf is so much more of your bf.. Seems like everything in me is wrong, but I don't know what it is wrong he just said it... I'm ... (read in full...)
How did I get myself into this? My dream girl on one side and my GF and kids on the other side!1
Q. I'm currently in a 7 year long relationship w/ kids but here goes I met this girl on fb started to chat, she didnt look too good but was funny and was making lots of sexual innuendo and she caught my eye at some point. I invited her to the beach an...
A. 25 June 2011: Yes I must agree that if it's only physical attraction then it's not worth leaving your gf and your kids... They need you more that ever, so be man enough and try to straighten up your priorities. You can't leave your family hanging like that... ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend says he needs a short break from our relationship, but his silence makes me think it's over for good.
Q. Hi I just want to ask for your thoughts. I terribly miss my BF. We've been off for 2 weeks. He asked for a space 2 weeks ago coz we've been arguing on some things and one of these really touched his ego. He was asking for a 1 week space but on the ...
A. 25 June 2011: It's really funny because upon searching for answers I found this website and I can't believe it's not just me, but so many people have the same problem as I do... We have same thing happening to us. Last week my bf and I got into terrible fight ... (read in full...)
Torn between two lovers
Q. I'm in love with two men. The other one is my ex boyfriend (Jan) and the other is my friend (Matthew). Jan just broke up with me recently this month. He actually broke up with me twice for two consecutive days. He broke up with me because he is so ...
A. 25 June 2011: This is simple and you just have to choose from both guys which one you want to love. And yes it's impossible to love 2 person at a time... you mistaken confuse yourself for loving the 2nd guy because your at not so good situation. You can't have ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend tired of me?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for nine months now and lately I feel like he doesn't want me around. I'm home for the summer since I was away at college and now that I'm home I would think things would be perfect because we couldn't see each ...
A. 25 June 2011: same thing is happening to me now... my bf always find something wrong in me.. or even all the things I'm doing is wrong... Well what should I do then?? I'm just so sick and tired of him telling me your a bad person and that you need to change... He ... (read in full...)
He's not contacting me as much as he should! Should I be suspicious?
Q. hey all, heres the thing my partner and i are both in our early 20's we get on really great together and all that its just he went away a little while ago to work with his family and wont be back for a few months... normaly he contacts me at least ...
A. 24 June 2011: same thing is happening to me now. before my bf use to text me almost every free time he got from work and before he sleeps at night he make sure to call me. well that was few yrs ago but now he only calls three times a week or text me less that 10 ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend cheated on me twice within our seven year relationship, I'm disgusted and hurt, but I love her so much. Should I forgive her?
Q. I recently proposed to my girlfriend of seven years. After we got engaged she started acting weird and then finally about a week ago, she confessed something to me. She admitted on to having an affair four years ago that lasted for more than a year. ...
A. 23 June 2011: wow!!! I can't imagine how a woman do this... honestly no matter how bad is my relationship with my bf right now it never crossed my mind of finding another guy. Once you did it you can always do it again. Cheating was never a solution to any ... (read in full...)
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