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I am a former womanizer (honestly) and in my past I've hurt more women then most men could phantom. I was selfish, egotistical, self centered and a plain old dog.

Two things changed me and thats why I created the blog, "Eavesdropping in the Boys Club" - Everything your Father should have told you about Men, had you asked.

My first life altering event was when I met my wife, she understood me like no other and I learned what unconditional love meant. I would be lost without her. She's also one of the main reasons I write about relationships, because what women go through today at the hands of unworthy men has little to do with the men and so much more to do with women and their inability to love and respect themselves.

The second major change for me was the birth of my own daughter whom I pray never meets a man like my former self in her life. She deserves better and I've promised to teach her everything she should know about men. While I'm doing this, please come along for the ride.

I'll answer any question you throw at me, I'll never judge you and I'll never preach to you. I will though tell you what happened to me when I did what you're contemplating and then you decide if you still want to move forward with your plan.

I have to caution you though as the women who write to me through my blog will confirm, I am brutally honest with them and sometimes I force you to look in the mirror and you may not like what you see. However, in the end the truth always hurts but not as much as the lies that some men may tell you.

Please stop by and say hello, I'll always make time for you thats a promise.

As for the name, "Anonymousmale1?" This is who I am at this point in my life. My real name is really unimportant, because I am not who I used to be and not who I am going to be yet, because I am still growing as a person.

Latest articles:

The most important words a man can say to you

This question has 4 answers by readers of DearCupid.ORG.
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4 August 2011: In past I have discussed the "L" words, meaning "love" and "like" and their meaning in the relationships you've had or currently have. Today I would like to discuss a sentence that will, well, leave you spellbound if it ever comes out of the mouth ...

10 Things Guys really want in a woman...

This question has 12 answers by readers of DearCupid.ORG.
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2 February 2011: I received a message from a friend on my Facebook fan page and she had an idea for a post for my blog. She inquired if I could write about what men want in a woman. I thought that this might be interesting as well, so I responded to her message and ...

What men think 30 Sec after ejaculation and how it can affect you

This question has 8 answers by readers of DearCupid.ORG.
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19 October 2010: The late great comedian Richard Pryor during his stand-up routine used to joke that directly before a man achieved orgasm you could ask and receive anything from him. Want to get married? This is the time to ask. Need a new car? This is the time to ...

Why Men Visit Strip Clubs

This question has 9 answers by readers of DearCupid.ORG.
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2 August 2010: Quite a few of you have written to me in regards to your boyfriends (and a few husbands) frequenting the mens den, called Strip Clubs. This issue is a concern for most if not all women in a relationship and I can understand that. So today, I decided ...

10 Tips To Help You Get Over A Broken Heart

This question has 4 answers by readers of DearCupid.ORG.
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25 January 2010: Weekly I get e-mails from around the globe and recently I noticed a spike in the topic of being heartbroken. Going through heartbreak is one of the most excruciating things anyone has ever had to go through and regardless of if it's your first time ...

10 Situations that Scream, "He's a Player!"

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25 January 2010: Happy New Year! I hope all of you enjoyed a very Happy New year and that you have stuck to the resolutions that you made during this period. I simply hope that your resolution for the New Year wasn't to give up on men because by condemning all men ...

Why it is Important for him to earn your Love

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23 October 2009: The other day I had a thought and decided to write it down. I had several women write to me regarding this thought and so I decided maybe I should post it here for those of you women who wonder what it takes to make a man stay with you forever. T...

10 Things that Women should never allow any Man to talk her into...

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6 October 2009: Men can be pretty persuasive. They've been known to talk women into almost every poor situation imaginable under the disguise of love. If I've said it once, I've said it a thousand times that when a man starts a sentence with "If you love me", what ...

Knowing when to get out of a dying relationship

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18 September 2009: Being in a relationship has been compared to being on drugs, the highs being really high and the lows being the pits, both end with withdrawal symptoms. Unfortunately when the relationship begins to go sour we tend to do what drug users do, we chase ...

Why most Women are attracted to Bad Men

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16 September 2009: Every woman on the planet that has ever been involved with a man that was not worthy of her has asked of herself these questions..."Why can't I find a decent guy, Why do I always meet the wrong men and When will I find a man who really loves me?" ...

How the way he kisses you says more than you Know

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17 August 2009: Most people say that there are no true aphrodisiacs other then human scent. You know the smell of a male or female and the effect that it has on one another. I disagree, I think that the one true aphrodisiac in the world is a kiss. Not the peck that ...

Should I keep on with this relationship or should I quietly back down?

Q.   So i have been with this guy for almost a year. problem is that he has been in jail for the past 5 months. i truly miss him and with every phone call, letter, card, and email i get from him, its like i fall more in love with him! in every thing i ...

A.   16 August 2011: You are a very impressionable young woman, and you most definitely want to believe that what he is saying is true. Maybe he does love you and then again maybe he is simply attempting to hang on to something on the outside as an incentive for getting ... (read in full...)

5 Months. Is it time to have a serious conversation?

Q.   I met this guy 5 months ago, we've been dating ever since. He is older than me but that's not an issue, the time we spend together is amazing. I'm starting to have feelings for him and I'm a little scared because I really don't know if he is looking ...

A.   11 April 2011: Five months is a long time when you think about the amount of time you've wasted in the event he's not serious. It is also not wise to introduce men into the lives of your children at such an early stage, especially if you are not sure where the ... (read in full...)

I'm tired of my heart ruling my mind.

Q.   Hi, My BF and I have been together over two years. I'm very much in love with him despite what has transpired between us. For the duration of our relationship he's lied about several things to me. Mostly about gambling, and the extent of it. He...

A.   20 October 2010: Let me begin by saying that recognizing that this is a problem is the first step in making an important change in your life. You are very wise to resist his offer to move in with him because things will only get worse as time goes on. Your boyf... (read in full...)

The ex my mom doesn't like!

Q.   So I Went Out With my boyfriend for 6 months and my mom's friends heard that he was a gangster.. but hes not. he just hangs out with some of them so she told me to break up with him but instead I just told her I did. but I didnt so i went behind her ...

A.   2 February 2010: I try to make it a point to never answer questions posted by women under the age of 18, because I think that they would be better served by talking to their parents. However, I felt compelled to answer this question for you because your mother has ... (read in full...)

I don't want him to end up resenting me...

Q.   Willing to break up with his girlfriend for me, but, I don't want him to end up resenting me if things don't work out how he plans between the two of us (he's a good friend and I'd hate to lose that). We have such a good time together, doing ...

A.   30 January 2010: It's funny, I read your question and I get the feeling that you simply want someone to agree with you so that you feel better. I could actually give you many reasons why this situation is a bad idea, however I will only give you one. "A man who chea... (read in full...)

10 Tips To Help You Get Over A Broken Heart

Q.   Weekly I get e-mails from around the globe and recently I noticed a spike in the topic of being heartbroken. Going through heartbreak is one of the most excruciating things anyone has ever had to go through and regardless of if it's your first time ...

A.   26 January 2010: Thanks for the nice remarks and you are right it is quite long, ha, ha. However, the good thing is that most who take the time to read it will have that amount of time to stop hurting by focusing on the article. I am glad that it made you feel bett... (read in full...)

The context of an "ask out"...

Q.   This one is for guys... Let's say that you are asked out by an attractive woman whom formally worked under you. You are both single to your knowledge. She sends you a casual email asking you out to a drink. How would you feel, would you think ...

A.   25 January 2010: It would not be wise for a person in his position to accept an invitation for a drink with a female that works under him, single or not. If it were I that received such a e-mail I would summon the female to my office and explain to her that it's... (read in full...)

10 Things that Women should never allow any Man to talk her into...

Q.   Men can be pretty persuasive. They've been known to talk women into almost every poor situation imaginable under the disguise of love. If I've said it once, I've said it a thousand times that when a man starts a sentence with "If you love me", what ...

A.   7 October 2009: Thank you very much for your kind comments. ... (read in full...)

He will not stop going on about having sex with me!

Q.   Well theres this dude and hes really nice and confident. He got my number and started to txt me. It was all grand until he was started trying to persuede me to have sex with him! like i dunno if he was serious but he like wouldnt let it go. I am not ...

A.   21 September 2009: You are very welcome. Thanks for allowing me to assist you with this issue. Anonymousmale1... (read in full...)

Ex needs me to help him get back on his feet but is that using me?

Q.   Hello everyone... thank you for reading my issues and thank you even more for those who respond to them... So I have been out of my long term relationship for about 20 days and my ex continues to call me about 3 times everyday. I cant deny it I ...

A.   17 September 2009: Jadabryant21, you sound like a very intelligent young woman. However, the man you once were with sounds like his life is in shambles. Why is it your responsibility to take care of him? Reading you post I get the feeling that you are very respon... (read in full...)

Should I say "I like you but I won't sleep with you"?

Q.   If I had sex with this guy would he think I was easy? I have known this guy for about three years, we have never dated but french kissed on a couple of occasions, we know each other through mutual friends. We have texted each other but he nev...

A.   17 September 2009: Not only would he think you're easy but your actions have allowed him to already think you are. Lets take a look at this from a different prospective. You've known a man for three years and although you two have kissed on a couple of occassio... (read in full...)

He will not stop going on about having sex with me!

Q.   Well theres this dude and hes really nice and confident. He got my number and started to txt me. It was all grand until he was started trying to persuede me to have sex with him! like i dunno if he was serious but he like wouldnt let it go. I am not ...

A.   17 September 2009: Hi Shadowre, Although you may not know it, you created this situation and only you can put a stop to it. By failing to correct him when he first started texting you about sex, you gave him the confidence to continue pursuing the issue. In his mi... (read in full...)

Why most Women are attracted to Bad Men

Q.   Every woman on the planet that has ever been involved with a man that was not worthy of her has asked of herself these questions..."Why can't I find a decent guy, Why do I always meet the wrong men and When will I find a man who really loves me?" ...

A.   17 September 2009: Hi Deliawood, Thanks for the nice comment. Your children are very fortunate to have a caring, intelligent & honest mother whom was strong enough to make a break from a bad relationship for their sake as well as her own. I can only hope that ot... (read in full...)

Why is he now ignoring me after what happened?

Q.   Guys I need some help please, I'm going off my head here wondering what happened or what I did for this guy to ignore me! A bit long, but here goes... In a nut shell, we work in the same building and have chatted a couple of times in the last yea...

A.   16 September 2009: In reading your letter several flags went up for me and I am sure that you've observed them as well. By the time I completed reading your letter I firmly understood what the whole incident was about. It was never about you, or being with you (at ... (read in full...)

How the way he kisses you says more than you Know

Q.   Most people say that there are no true aphrodisiacs other then human scent. You know the smell of a male or female and the effect that it has on one another. I disagree, I think that the one true aphrodisiac in the world is a kiss. Not the peck that ...

A.   16 September 2009: Hi GoGreen126, I am glad to hear that you liked the article. I understand that you are a teenager and as adults we tend to forget that we too were once young as well. We forget what it felt like to be consumed by love and passion and tend to downp... (read in full...)

How the way he kisses you says more than you Know

Q.   Most people say that there are no true aphrodisiacs other then human scent. You know the smell of a male or female and the effect that it has on one another. I disagree, I think that the one true aphrodisiac in the world is a kiss. Not the peck that ...

A.   31 August 2009: Hi Clariss, I am glad that you liked the article. As for your current situation you may want to gently remind him that regardless of the amounts of money he makes, he'll never be able to buy back the amount of time that he is losing being away fro... (read in full...)

How the way he kisses you says more than you Know

Q.   Most people say that there are no true aphrodisiacs other then human scent. You know the smell of a male or female and the effect that it has on one another. I disagree, I think that the one true aphrodisiac in the world is a kiss. Not the peck that ...

A.   19 August 2009: Hi Rosy, To answer your question a kiss such as the one described in the article shouldn't be done to elicit sex. When a relationship first begins we share those types of kisses while standing at the front door when dropping you off after the movi... (read in full...)

Does he just want to hook up for sex?

Q.   Same problem with my ex. Except we're not talking now because I chosed not to. I want to get back together offcially. He said to be friends and hook up so that he can see if he wants to get back. I said friends is fine but no hook up. (B...

A.   10 August 2009: Your ex is a first class A--. His offer is unreasonable and disrespectful. Let me explain what he is really saying and it may open your eyes just a little bit more. In reality he's saying that you are not good enough to be his girlfriend, but you'... (read in full...)

How do we handle the situation at the B&B we'll be staying at?

Q.   I have been seeing a younger man The other night my young man took me out to a nice dinner and he asked me to a bed and breakfast for a few nights to get away It is believed there is nothing more wonderful than feeling sexy, and beautiful, and b...

A.   10 August 2009: Society has always looked the other way with older men and younger women. Finally, Finally it becoming increasingly acceptable for older women and younger men. As a man myself, I loved older women when I was much younger and to be honest with you ... (read in full...)

He's a great guy but...I've lost respect for him! Help, I'm disillusioned here!

Q.   Simple to explain my situation, but don't know what to do about it. I have a partner who is a good guy I've know for 15 years and we've been together 10 years. I think he genuinely loves me, although it's never been exactly passionate and I have inc...

A.   7 August 2009: To begin with you are none of the things that you described,(selfish, guilty, disillusioned or pathetic)you are a beautiful, caring, sensual intelligent woman and any man worth a grain of salt would love nothing more than to have you by his side. ... (read in full...)

I want to arrange a threesome for me and my boyfriend... but I think my jealousy will get in the way!

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend now for about a year and a half. I know his fantasy is a threesome, which I've no qualms with having as I'm bisexual and have had many more years with women than men. I love him dearly and I know he loves me too. I th...

A.   7 August 2009: If you go forward with this idea, your relationship will be over within a month after the event. In your letter you expressed your own thoughts of jealousy but you fail to understand how he will feel afterwards. Most men like watching two women pl... (read in full...)

Did I scare him away by telling him I love him?

Q.   Did I ruin things by saying I love you? We've been seeing each other for four months. He has told me many times how he loves being with me, wants me to open up to him, and that he was falling in love with me. He told me "love ya" tonight, and I ...

A.   7 August 2009: It's not as bad as you think but you did catch him off guard. He wanted to say it but he wasn't sure the time was actually right. He'll think about it and more than likely come to the conclusion that it was coming anyway, you just beat him to the ... (read in full...)

Should I lose my virginity to my friend's brother?

Q.   Ok I have a very important question......One night when I spent the night over my friend house her brother and I did some freaky stuff..and now since that night I been thinking that I wanted to loose my virginity to him he's 15 and im 14.....should ...

A.   7 August 2009: Losing your virginity is a very big issue and although I understand how you could want to move to the next step it is very important to understand the consequesnces that go along with it. At your age (please, I am not talking down to you) boys are ... (read in full...)

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